any pronouns! very gay!! doing my best to smile more, listen more, & love more. fuck capitalism! fuck imperialism!! fuck the patriarchy! housing 4 all!!
@ChristinaSVO
My hottake is that I donβt think that old man deserves forgiveness. Idgaf if he βregretsβ it & going to therapy. He SHOULD be haunted for the rest of his life. Forgiving oneself of being a murderous psychopath doesnβt bring justice or peace to the targeted victims β so fuck him!!
@prntgdcolonized
My thoughts exactly. Just because the dad isnβt yelling or smacking the hell out of the kid, it doesnβt mean heβs a βtolerant fatherβ. He sounds very intolerant & kind of annoying
@notcapnamerica
My fav genre is when Black people use their white HR voice to clock somebody because you know what theyβre about to say is gonna be good ππππ
@pierrefleury_
I know you feel confident in this tweet. But this is way more complex and morally grey than most are willing to admit. Be open to the idea that even if you picked a situation apart for hours you still might not come up with the perfect solution or way to act.
@SupernovaMomma
@thecindynoir
My thoughts exactly. I wish people could just say βOh! Lovely couple!! They have cool content!!β& leave it at that. Queerness makes people so uncomfortable & they start asking incredibly inappropriate questions that they wouldnβt want anyone to ask them. Makes me really upset!!!
learned from my sex therapy training today that if you think you have a sex/porn addiction, you actually donβt. you likely have issues with attachment/intimacy, impulse control, & some sort of trauma history (religious, very likely!)
@bribrigeta
Yeah, itβs so cruel to expect the wife & kids to welcome the side chick & baby with open arms when that family is only able to associate them with betrayal & heartbreak. Heartbreak is horrible to feel, but feelings of betrayal is a whole other beast of itβs own
@thecindynoir
I went off private to respond to this: I am literally moving in with a chill ass friend in a few months because this shit is too expensive. Not sure if you have roommates but sharing resources is the only way to survive this
@_shLondraa
@NAO_SEYCH
I think women prefer lesbian porn in general friend. We like to imagine the pleasure happening to us β or either we are gay. Somewhere in between there!!
@reverendrgr
@prntgdcolonized
Parenting isnβt &has never been about ownership. Just guidance & support of a little person who has no choice but to exist. A little human who will someday be a big human & will have a bigger impact on the world around them. They deserve respect as we teach them how to grow up
@laeswrld
I know this quote. I would be mindful of the fact that this is a snapshot of their relationship. We will never know if mom & dad were just being playful & were humored by their daughters audacity & behavior in the moment, but would have corrected her quick in a diff moment.
@Tats_Makz
@celesitial
I read the original tweet as βIβm tired of having responsibility for my car-less friendsβ but not as βI have unappreciative friendsβ.
@keatingssixth
my guess is that itβs centered around the need of male attention. Whether itβs from a son who becomes a replacement husband (covert incest) or itβs a competition w daughter bc her youth/beauty/success βtakes awayβ from momβs self worth likely rooted in male validation
@FinesseEness
How is this not a health code violation. Also safety issue!! What if their nipple ring falls in the food..what if hot grease/water/chemical etc burns their breasts or ass?
@luhvely
@urgothbaby
And Iβm tellin you men will get remarried so quick after being a deadbeat in his previous relationship because too many women out up with this shit
@avadagr3at
@thecindynoir
Yβall are going to call me crazy but I feel like this is very spiritual and this connection should be nurtured so they can build up wisdom & care around their intuition with each other.
@trevorspov
@WrittenByHanna
I canβt tell the tone in the QT, but the lyrics really are saddening. Iβm glad she is expressing how she really feels. Breaks my heart for her though.
@platformedboots
I mean, youβre not wrong but we can give her a little credit that she is working pretty hard up there and trying to control her breath. Sheβs young & will likely become a better performer over time
@ulxma
Everything that youβve said makes me think of my ex who refused to see himself & acknowledge his emotional abuse towards me. I desperately want him to heal, but the very hurt part of me hopes that he self sabotages & never experiences real love bc that feels like justice to me
@Tats_Makz
@celesitial
Yeah, I think multiple truths exist here. But ultimately she can set boundaries with these friends. They will survive any disappointment that may happen
@fat_twink666
@PanderShirts
Being sex negative individually will always have an affect communally. Think of purity culture & shaming desires for sex & shaming womenβs bodiesβ¦that started within many individual conversations that began to have influence on a larger scale
You know, it blew my mind when I learned that youth pastors/leaders werenβt allowed to coerce the church kids into disclosing when they m*sturbated.
I grew up thinking I had to share my sexual βsinβ with leaders in the church up until I was 24 years old. Like, what?!!!
The face of a newly *employed gal!!!!β€οΈ
*they offered me the position, I accepted but I still have paperwork to do to make it official & I donβt begin until Jan. 1stπβ¨
@Owwuss
@delmiyaa
Right! Maybe itβs just me, but even if she was complaining then like, ok why canβt she?? Sheβs allowed to complain because being a rebound is fucking annoying esp when youβre ready for a relationship. lol like damn yβall!! π
I donβt really agree w this. I often feel emotions big & deep early on & it doesnβt always work in my favor to act on them when Iβm catching feelings for a new person. It can give off βlove bombingβ vibes
Please stop trying to "play it cool" when you like someone.
"Playing it cool" is actually a nice way of saying that you're consciously and intentionally holding back your emotions for fear of potential rejection.
If you have to "play it cool" to prevent hurt, then maybe
@ravenscimaven
This happened to me quite a lot. When I was doing intense work in therapy, my biggest barrier moving forward was trusting relationships & having hope for myself. My dreams encouraged me to keep going. Dreams about people/places Iβve never encountered that were good for me.
@pardi
Youβre going to reap everything that you have put out. Youβre going to experience betrayal and loss like no other and itβs going to cause you to reckon with who you are and what the fruit of your relationships are like. I hope you use that time productively when it comes
@MrEnterta1nment
@twhitson26
I know it feels harsh, but if sheβs private practice & only gets paid for every clinical hour, her paycheck will fluctuate depending upon cancellations. Rescheduling within the week is ideal situation but the therapistβs time does need to be respected regardless of emergencies
@MrsJellySantos
I support the sexual liberation of a woman and I think that there has to be wisdom on how we act within our sexual liberation because hurting other people or hurting ourselves (like getting fired from work) will never be worth it from an ethical standpoint
@lmTheReasonWhy
@Aliafonzy43
I mean, is this a result of slavery or is this just OCD contamination avoidance??? Because this sounds like more of an anxiety issue if anything
I turned 29 today & im doing only okay! I thought I would have spent this day with my ex but things took a major turn unexpectedly. I'm trying to be gentle & patient with myself today as I navigate the complexities of grief
@heymrsbond
Maybe itβs just me with this thought, but I feel like the book is going to be perceived as more anxiety provoking if youβre a Black woman or Black AFAB. I know Octavia butler had to retch this book out because there is no other option
@CarissasNewLife
I hear what youβre saying, but if I were you Iβd be open to hearing the strategy behind this because this is activism work happening. Also, being a leftist doesnβt mean youβre a Democrat. Leftists are radically more progressive than a lib
@OBEY_elREY
@t0nit0ne
If itβs about making friends in general, then this tweet doesnβt apply to you love. Also, men are historically incredibly mean to women, hence the patriarchy!
@thecindynoir
All she teaches is how to gain power in the relationship dynamic. Itβs strategic but choosing power in a relationship never sustains it
@YoungUmmi
@simsimmaaz
I completely agree with this. It kinda sounds like the mom doesnβt have a great relationship w her teen daughter & is often not letting her do fun things. Parents who love to say no just because they have the power to say so are the worst imho.
I just keep experiencing loss after loss. Iβm trying to not hold onto things too tightly. Iβm trying to be honorable and be fair with everything, but yeah my partner and I broke up. Not feeling like going into details but yea.
My tweets yesterday were very depressing. I would apologize but you know, we are all going through very depressing times combined w just random life circumstances/family issues/etc. Iβd personally never shame someone for having a bad day. I think iβd just let them have their day
Being delusional about life and minimizing other peopleβs pain & suffering is how white people convince themselves that oppressing others for their benefit is okay
@t0nit0ne
People who disagree with this make it seem as though that theyβve encountered every single woman on earth. Even a girls girl has experienced mean girl behavior & insecurities, but the difference is that we keep trying to be open for the new experiences w/ girl friendships
I havenβt tweeted about the genocide happening in Palestine in a minute. Itβs not because I donβt care and not because I donβt think itβs not important. I just want to make it clear that Iβm not numb to the terror happening over there. I am having a hard time staying afloat.
Feeling pretty discouraged today. I interviewed with a GREAT practice. They told me they wanted to continue with other candidates & said they wished me the best on my journey. I donβt understand what Iβve done. I do well in interviews & i have good experience in my practice
I got fired from my job today. Iβve done nothing wrong. They disabled my access to my work email and Simple Practice while firing me. Iβm angry and devastated for myself and for my clients they forced me to abandon
I cried on the phone for a whole hour last night about being betrayed, being silenced, & my complicated feelings around being queer. My friend just sat there & listened & comforted me and so yes, I know what love feels like π
He eats once a day at 8pm. Fish & vegetables only. No snacks. No juice. Only water and that one meal. This is called restriction!!! This is disordered eating!!!!
I need yall to consider getting rid of the weight immediately. Ive been experimenting with intermittent fasting since last year and never looked back.
Both pictures have zero filters, only difference is the one on the left I was eating junk 6 times a day, the right Im eating
My interview today went really well!! I genuinely believe this place will be a great fit for me. The only kicker is that they would be able to start me January 1st because they hired 2 clinicians this past summer & need some time to make sure they have an adequate caseload