Arah Iloabugichukwu @thatsjustarah Twitter profile

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Arah Iloabugichukwu

8 months

Okay but since this is going up, can y’all follow me and buy my book 🥹 it’s about mother/daughter dysfunction, Black girlhood, and the long term impact of parental preference and gendered parenting.

Of Mothers and Daughters

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3 months

@t_sadiity She got one of them uncle nephews

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6 months

@kemimarie It’s not that they can’t clock girl #2 . It’s that they ARE girl #2 . 😉

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Kanye’s cancellation is upsetting to a lot of Black people because it’s bothersome to see others exercise a level of self-respect that you don’t possess.

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8 months

Y’all gone be mad at me for saying this 🥴 but Black women do NOT have dating standards.

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8 months

The antithesis to the other video

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4 months

@Enezator Me feeling the proud auntie vibes 😏

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1 year

Unpopular Opinion: Children are not biologically hardwired for a closer connection with mom. Like all vulnerable living things, children cling to the source of their nourishment/care/comfort, all offerings men have aggressively avoided under the guise of biological barriers.

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5 months

@kimkim579 Me singing along cause I don’t gaf what she talking about since she knowingly picked up a stray and brought it home

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1 year

Beyond the obvious physical abuse, this Blueface and Chrisean situation is ripe with psychological violence. Appearing nonchalant and indifferent in the face of chaos you helped cause is a form of gaslighting we rarely discuss. It’s actually one of the narcissist’s super powers.

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7 months

@mylifeiskara All this positivity and you worried about permission slips 😒

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4 months

@ASYAAJINSU I feel like they bout to find you 🥴😂

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5 months

One day we’ll unpack how women use “help” as a cover up to do harm and harass one another. You are not “helping” Simone Biles, you are actually harassing her. Barking “divorce” at a happily married woman is deranged and dumb. You’re not helping Halle Bailey either, you’re…

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6 months

@rahsh33m The crowd:

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1 year

I’m glad Eboni K. Williams stood her ground. Black women are not obligated to lower their dating standards in order to accommodate Black men’s mediocrity. And if mediocre men are so wonderful, can somebody ask Iyanla why she divorced hers?

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Eboni K. Williams responds to everyone that took issue with her “would you date a bus driver” viral clip

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8 months

@alienqueen82 @euphorixa The teachers are at WORK lol a job this country underpays them to do, mind you. Your child is not.

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4 months

@siriyonce_ Oh Y’all are insufferable

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2 years

We assume that because black people openly embrace anti-blackness, (so long as it’s wrapped in black skin) that other marginalized communities must bypass their boundaries and endure disrespect as well. Not so.

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8 months

@sattanics Baby ate that second verse

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6 months

@blvckcouples Mood my ass. Take y’all freak asses home PLZ!

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8 months

@Ruby_Deez Yes.. by the very same “men” who benefit by BW not having any lol so ignore these nilgrims 🤷🏽‍♀️

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7 months

@daughterofdessa @pierrefleury_ He makes beats

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5 months

@callizda They saw them. They don’t care. The sooner we accept how soulless of lot of niggas in this community are, both male and female, the better off we’ll be. Same niggas just swore disabled and impaired individuals were off limits lol they liars too.

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7 months

@WeedPorns That first hit gone have him like this 😂

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7 months

@notcapnamerica Not the plan backfiring and that baby still can’t read 😩

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3 months

@sugeknight So she can’t help her cousin bring the groceries in the house?

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4 years

@ChrisCostaTV @KHOU Dude in the passenger seat wishes he could disappear 😂

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5 months

@JoshyBeSloshy She looking at the camera like that cause she clearly asked for a teething ring for Christmas

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4 months

@brutalfightz She got off easy 🙂

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9 months

@Daijaku Kind of you to assume these people have actually ever seen the inside of an aircraft

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8 months

@MrSuci0 @ccieby30 If the squirt that color, it’s time for a trip to the clinic lol

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9 months

@_benjvmins_ We don’t care beloved lol

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2 years

All we’ve done while attempting to “reclaim and repurpose” the hatred we receive from others is subconsciously embrace it for ourselves.

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8 months

@IChoseViolences Great way to get fired 🥴

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2 years

@thefabianorg We want yt folk to be more outraged by anti-blackness than we are… it is truly illogical 🤦🏽‍♀️

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5 months

@melx000 @kerrywashington @tonygoldwyn Kerry husband in the bedroom window

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5 months

@MsRoyaly Me at Jude’s backyard restaurant next week cause I know them beef ribs bout to slap!

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4 months

@shapehedron They really made a mistake allowing unattractive people on the internet. Y’all are clearly miserable and desperate to bleed all over everyone else. Unsettling.

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7 months

@shes_rADIAnt Free my Black American girlies from the clutches of giving AF what these hemales find “attractive” 🥴 baby yall drink HENNESSY! Tf is a Modelo gonna do lol

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1 year

It’s a cop out and a complete insult to suggest that the mother-child bond is simply some biological lottery win as opposed to the result of a mother’s day-to-day labor, dedication, and devotion to bond-building with her baby… something men are too “male” to be bothered with.

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7 months

@ceciATL They’re experts at dodging accountability 😂 truly masterclass

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3 months

@simsimmaaz @napsholdme Me waiting for the hood hoteps to rush over here and remind us to “be grateful they doin somethin PoSiTiVe, they could be out stealing cars and shit”

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@demillz84 @smoke_nd_pearlz Nigga really said if you plan to be a SAHM, tf you need all that sleep for 😂🤣😂🥴

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@babystorme_ Hey sis, they eating you up in the comments, Black folks included. Not sure if you saw ..

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1 year

Women aren’t predisposed to sooth crying babies, remember birthdays and best friends, or stomach diarrhea diapers. We do the work, we ask the questions, we spend the time, we show up, we study our children because we desire depth and intimacy with them.

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@KimberlyNFoster Yeah, absolutely not lol happy women are actually tired of being attacked by women who believe contentment in romantic relationships is unattainable. I don’t think the girls realize how unsafe a lot of “women centered” spaces have actually turned out to be. Y’all just gone have…

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4 months

@FearedBuck Okay that was a lot… but if this is an employee, I’m gonna need to understand why they were preventing her from retrieving her purse and coat… that’s a weird way to fire someone 😒

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7 months

@xogabbyelle_ It’s the unnecessary details for good measure, for me 🥹🫡

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7 months

@DeronIsDope @naima They’re mad because they thought she was white. And even finding out that she’s not, they have no clue what to do with their anger, so they’re continuing. It’s really garbage behavior.

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5 months

@xoxotw__ Not a lick of punctuation in the whole goddamn letter

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9 months

@AmandaDannielle @napsholdme The girls are still gonna SWEAR that we should be able to see abandonment coming lol and to those girls, I wish them all the best when it’s their turn ☺️

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1 year

Not because of biology, but mainly due to gender conditioning. Girlhood doubles as domestic drill, maternal training camp, if you will. Toys act as training tools to teach little girls cooking, cleaning and childcare skills, skills boys for some strange reason don’t need to know.

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@lmTheReasonWhy Precisely why I didn’t comment when I saw this story gaining traction. Some things you can just sense smh damn shame

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5 months

@SupernovaMomma As an autism mom, thank you so much for being a safe space for that baby. It’s tough when home is just another space where you’re made to feel “alien”. Kudos to you!

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5 months

@sleep2dream I can’t imagine being mad at a man for meeting the expectations a woman set for him. Maybe black women should take note and raise those nonexistent dating standards 🥴

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7 months

@Tamaromarou @naima Say it again lol like y’all want this woman to crawl?! First thing out her mouth was SORRY!

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6 months

@WiTNEE_ People asking why he doesn’t want preferential treatment and it’s the same reason Gordon Ramsey would review restaurants wearing a disguise. You cannot give an honest review of an authentic experience if the restaurant is intentionally giving you preferential treatment. Cause…

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1 year

Children don’t connect to dads because men aren’t involved fathers. The “provider/protector” role is stale, it’s shallow, it’s a second hand firearm and a dead end 9-5; nothing more than a cover up for an obvious disinterest in the more important P’s: Presence & Participation

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8 months

@crybabypiscesss Chillle not only to accept.., but to seek out 😩😩 Black women aren’t just settling for lackluster men, they’re literally searching for them 🥺

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@Kayy_Sweetz @bleuandart I’m definitely on the spectrum. And I’m now the mother to a child on the spectrum. I was never evaluated but I was incessantly called “weird, rigid, and overly emotional” lol that was my assessment as a child.

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@SuspendedDr The number of Black women in the comments accusing this child of an incestuous attachment to his mother because of his reaction to her overtly sexual behavior is really, REALLY disturbing. Black men were right about a lot of y’all 😔

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@teiyour I’m just glad my parents didn’t run our home like a halfway house

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3 months

@hopegabrielleee Just a month ago they swore on this very same app that ableism was yt folk behavior, that black people were soooo protective of the disabled members of the community. Niggas sat on here and lied, loudly!

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@notpenda I mean, she IS a part of the “community” so she didn’t lie lol I can’t say too much about that other stuff chile

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@thecimonalisa SA is so funny to Black women. It’s… odd.

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@KymrenceMusic @MxxBrielle Respectful?! Dear god, the bar is in a bootyhole!

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@Philly_Laz Oh baby that’s not.. 😂🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂🥺😂😂🤣😂

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@itsKARY_ Baybaaaayyyyy you couldn’t tell the girls NOTHING about this nilgrim right here 😂🤣 he is the original Darius Cooks

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5 months

@DeeSociety So basically he bought flowers for other niggas

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4 months

@Beats_by_Blue Never seen racial narcissism quite like this before 😂🤣 so far, niggas have been every race, every ethnic group, every religion, every complexion, y’all invented the Pontiac and built every pyramid, now y’all taking credit for the original wide leg pant too?? What more do niggas…

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@Rollitupk Me forgetting I don’t like her for a second 😂

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@meg_mtd Me watching sis try to swing at the end and still miss

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@skyycrazytail It’s always the flavor flav lookin lads that wanna bully the cute, timid girls. And a lot of people are overlooking the fact that everyone isn’t comfortable with physical altercations. If you didn’t grow up getting beat as a child, the idea of somebody physically beating on you…

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@tauruslovebot @denzeldion These niggas need a tubi series lol shooting this stupid shit from the same rent-a-room is insane! 😂

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6 months

@ceechynaax Imagine buying your dude a pair of J’s but instead of getting his size you just grab whatever you see on the shelf and pray them shits fit 🥴

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@notcapnamerica Not a single voter registration in the pack

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@TyRenee_ I love how we renaming poverty lol I love this!

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@prettiestcee @t_sadiity Look lol I got 3 Aunnieces myself lol it happens 😂

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@itszaeok Oop lol not the baby white-washing her own name 🥴

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5 months

@fortheluvvofb After spending a good 4 minutes scrolling through these comments, you clearly made the right choice lol it’s giving gang 🥴😂

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@BlackInsinc I disagree with this. Black men sleeping on the curb have standards. She has to clean, she has to keep the tent in order, she has to commit to intimacy according to HIS libido, she has to be submissive, and let’s not even get started on the physical bias you all pass off as…

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@BlkBillionMag @naima Black as in the daughter of two legendary civil rights activists, a card carrying member of Delta Sigma Theta, and proud graduate of Dillard University. That Black.

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@the1theyh8tre Iyanla had a husband who slept on her office floor and you think that’s the hand to play right now, the “a piece of man is better than no man at all” card 😂🤣😂🤣 nah that’s advice for your mom, not me lol

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@MoNotStatic Anything but a bath

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@MxxBrielle Hate to say it, this is why when a certain demographic approaches me, I start speaking espanol 🤷🏽‍♀️ they don’t accept ‘no’ in English

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@shes_rADIAnt Ask her why she blocked me y’all?!

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@imohumoren But no one bats an eye when we say if you can’t afford pet food, don’t go get a pet. The issue is ya’ll don’t believe children DESERVE a safe and comfortable upbringing. That’s the only way you can justify this take, is if you feel like it doesn’t matter how dangerous or…

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@6ixfiggazigga Then why did he start the video by proclaiming he was ready going to propose soon lol mandem legit contradicted his own plans

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@clashreport

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@rahsh33m The way a lot of single mothers despise their children should be studied.

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@SooSlept_On Nah that’s actually refreshing to hear lol may the best man win 🤷🏽‍♀️

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@people Niggas really do love this conman smh

“Dr. Sebi” Was Either A Complete Fool Or A Complete Fraud, But He Was No Healer

At what point do we decide it’s time to save ourselves?

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@farmingandJesus Abbyyy-he-he-heee 😂🤣😂🤣

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@fakeUZUMI “Daaamn. I just want my friend back!”

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@SkinCareBully I’m putting it away y’all! Damn lol

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@_benjvmins_ In my city, becoming a nurse is a prerequisite for finding the hood nigga of your dreams 🥴😂 not a single lie was told. Nursing hasn’t been the empath’s profession for quite a while.

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@swaveyquis1 His wife in the audience chillin cause she prayed this day would come

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