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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

19 days

today I got compared to zuckerberg by somebody who had never seen this tweet

rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

11 months

the next zuckerberg is a woman who isn't trying to “fix” her target market, but create experiences with them that allow them to feel seen, heard & loved for who they are.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

4 months

at least 90% of being delightful to be around is simply being willing to be delighted by what is around you

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@rachelclif

1 year

[theory] most men don’t fear commitment. they fear committing to the wrong things.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@briebriejoy not in my name

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rachel (loves you)

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7 months

@hello__caitlin … does she not notice that it isn't salty? 🤔

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9 months

@thechosenberg he isn't doing anything wrong

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

3 months

@pearlythingz two ideas: 1. being able to be naked (without shame) is being able to be free 2. being able to be sexy without shame is being able to be free big picture: “freedom to” is more freeing than “freedom from”

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

3 months

hot take: great communities aren't built by people who want more connection in their lives. great communities are built by people who feel deeply connected with themselves & are excited about sharing that with others (they are created from a place of overflow rather than lack)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

does anyone else feel like they’re changing a lot… really, really, really fast?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

12 days

@BecomingCritter @BLUNDERBUSSTED shame about paying a woman to take care of them?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

2 years

men, can you imagine being wanted for doing nothing at all? satisfying someone else’s desire just by being you? ❤️

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

3 months

@TheCinesthetic this is blasphemous

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@rachelclif

1 year

if you see this tweet, quote it with 4 pics that expose your taste in men

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

2 years

I love it when exactly the right people stumble across me at exactly the right time & fall hopefully in love 🌹

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

6 months

@pearlythingz men don't want “sex, silence, and a sandwich” they want “sex, peace, and a sandwich” subtle yet important difference

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

5 months

@ask_aubry broke* men are insecure about being broke & project it outwards *within this context, “broke” isn't just about not having money; it’s about not having anything to offer they both want to be able to be feminine; she is more (healthily) masculine than him

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

8 months

@SophRossss initially misread this as “penis” & was very confused

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@FMRDPT @hello__caitlin EXCELLENT POINT! 🎯 I love humans we’re such an adorable bunch

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

5 months

men: what’s the most emotionally healing experience you've had as an adult?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@gaialect spend time with people who want to learn how to love you better.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

2 months

@SWENGDAD it's easier to have sex than it is to open your heart

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

2 months

@pythonandpanda intimacy is terrifying when you are terrified of being intimate with yourself

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

5 months

masculinity is about confidence the kind of confidence that comes from competence “having your shit together” “knowing what to do” there is no substitute for doing, and that's beautiful it's how we learn how to stand tall

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

8 months

@simonsarris how to find a wife: 1. dismantle all barriers to loving woman 2. dismantle all barriers to being loved by women 3. become a confident & competent man

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

5 months

@mechanical_monk she's self-conscious and putting her attention back out on you

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

men, some women enjoy giving head. does this surprise you? [I hesitated for an adorably embarrassing amount of time before posting this, please forgive me 🙏]

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

2 years

To create more balance in the world: Men need to be able to speak openly about how much it can hurt to be a man. Women need to be able to listen.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

there’s so much shame around being publicly horny. have you ever stopped to ask yourself WHY?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

2 years

@SigmaMargaux @proetrie one step further: is grooming her.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

[theory] most men don’t fear love. they fear loss.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

6 months

@Aella_Girl am I the only person who thinks that MANY 13-year-olds would have this as a dying wish (if they felt safe/comfortable enough with their sexuality & were sufficiently unafraid of other people’s judgements)? I remember being 13 in a situation adjacent to this one and FOR SURE, I…

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

I've said it before & I’ll say it again: the sexiest thing in the world is being able to disagree with someone without cutting them off or shutting them down conflict is profoundly GENERATIVE (navigated skilfully, it's a force for the creation of DEEP connection & intimacy)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

how to hit on me: be cooler than me be sexier than me be more interesting than me be a better communicator than me also: be genuinely interested in me as a person 🫶

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

8 days

did you know that telling the (and living your) truth is really fucking good for relaxing your nervous system … once you unshame what that truth is?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

18 days

@jessicamalonso co-signed, explicitly asking for consent can be extraordinarily hot (if she really likes you and/or wants it)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

6 months

@shaig in any other context, would your behaviour towards these two people be acceptable?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

9 months

the crux of the matter

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

23 days

@herecomsthesan can leave your job because you can create your own job/work/means of making money & sustaining yourself can leave a relationship because being with yourself (your own partner & #1 priority) is so fucking good

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

men only want one thing & it's to feel safe enough to be themselves

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

5 months

why does no one care about men & boys’ sensory pleasure as long as they are still capable of having sex?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

9 months

@Aella_Girl fact: women like confident & competent men

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

3 months

@hollowearthterf men now understand [more of] what it’s like to be a woman … and they don't like it!

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

@tyler02020202 no, being 19 is all about dating a guy who wants to spend his life w you & you want more time & space to be a kid (or at least it was for me)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

me, snuggled into his chest: so, what are you attracted to about me? him: *lists at least 5 legitimately interesting & insightful reasons immediately* me: ... oh, right. ok! (we met 3 hours ago)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

3 months

my favourite question to ask men about their “toxic” exes: what did you like about her?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 month

the heartbreak of “you lost me”. the joy of “you opened me”. the beauty of being mirrors, conduits, and companions in this magnificent journey of life. I am everything & nothing. I see you in the same light. I love being able to shine.

rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 month

I don't want you anymore— and when I release me, I can breathe again. I see clearly, and everything seems so silly & perfect & beautiful. I laugh at myself. I love myself. this is so adorably Rachel.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

@ArmandDoma how to actually solve this problem: increase # of quality men in dating pool 🏆

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

2 months

@chelseahandler ngl I aspire to be this cool (at every age) thanks for the inspo … and ofc, HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY! 🧚

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

11 months

no makeup or filters ✌️

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN FEEL DESIRED WITHOUT MAKING HER RESPONSIBLE FOR “HANDLING” OR FULFILLING YOUR DESIRES: the art & science of becoming a truly irresistible man

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@clintoris how many women fall in love with a dream rather than the person in front of them?

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@rachelclif

1 year

[theory] most men would be able to give cleanly if they weren't starving for love & affection.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@Aella_Girl actually counterintuitive or under-discussed complaint: perfectly adequate men cockblock themselves (make themselves unattractive) all the time STOP DOING THIS!! IT’S SO ANNOYING!!

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

8 months

@pearlythingz when average men don’t “deserve” to experience abundant opportunities to love & be loved, we lose the ability to experience them as great.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

3 months

all she wants is a guy who can read her mind & f*ck her closer to god

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@IDF what do you think of this?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

if you see this tweet, quote it with 4 pics that expose your taste in men

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@vivafalastin quickly deleted, and— why should white women be doing this?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

3 months

in 5 words or fewer, what do you think of this dating app bio? 👇 “looking for a one-thousand-and-one-nights stand”

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

polarity 101 women: if you want your male partner to be more masculine, be more feminine (give him space to rise) men: if you want your female partner to be more feminine, be more masculine (give her space to soften)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

ARE YOU ACCIDENTALLY CREATING A SHITTY LIFE FOR YOURSELF? a 🧵 on systemic change & the perils of “over-functioning” in relationships

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

8 months

@eshear neither his gf didn’t realise how important his choc cake desire was to him (or perhaps take him/it seriously enough when he raised it) big picture: 1. she feels under-appreciated by him more generally 2. he feels unseen, unheard & uncared for [where it matters most] by her

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

5 months

the curse of being a man is that no one is coming to save you the glory of being a man is that you are richly rewarded for saving (and/or creating) yourself

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

8 months

why I'm poly & I do the work I do: 1. I have way too much love to give for one man/relationship 2. I have way too much love to give for my love to be constrained, full stop

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

29 days

hot take: the reason why many men are v uncomfortable w the idea of surrender is bc they don't trust that the ppl in their lives (esp women) want &/or would be able to contain them in all their messy, glorious, “crazy”, obsessive, heartbroken multitudes & often, they are right

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

10 months

men, a GORGEOUS woman that you are WILDLY attracted to says this to you: “your mission, if you choose to accept it, is restoring my faith in men” how do you respond?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

26 days

@SchrodingrsBrat relational martial arts

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

@jowyang these aren’t like-for-like phrases: 1. “taking a shot in the dark” tells a story that “taking a guess” does not 2. “I bombed the presentation” means “I didn't do a good job”, not “I didn't do my best” 3. right column uses filler words like “bit” & “little” (reducing power)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

4 months

@Duderichy men who marry women who are beneath them end up resenting and/or cheating on them (… just like women do)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

6 months

men: you're in a LTR w the woman of your dreams. you have an AMAZING life together. you're deeply in love w one another & the sex is great. one day, she comes to you & asks if you would entertain the idea of one-sided monogamy. what goes through your head? what do you say?

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@rachelclif

11 months

two of the most important yet misunderstood ideas of our time: 1. sex is sacred therefore 2. sex without integrity creates suffering

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

2 years

@callmeed @proetrie how to kill sexual desire in women: criticise them

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

2 months

hot take: the biggest problem many men have, as it relates to their relationships with women, is that they take from women without realising that they’re taking a lagging indicator: you can't see or feel her radiance (and neither can she)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

men, how often do you worry about hurting or disappointing the woman (or women) you love?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

living art

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@sailaunderscore defying convention since ‘98

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

the real prize for being a revolutionary is living in a way that has never, ever, ever been done before... and is on your own terms

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

[theory] most women would be able to receive joyfully if there were truly no strings attached.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

at heart, most conflicts come down to one or both of these things: 1. “I’m afraid that I don't matter to you.” 2. “I'm afraid that I’m not safe.”

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

8 months

hello from my new favourite rock ☀️

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@Rich_Cooper would you describe yourself as angry with women?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

10 months

why women inhibit themselves when it comes to receiving from men: they associate receiving with a loss of power (aka, the loss of themselves)

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@rachelclif

7 months

@Aella_Girl if she's passive/not responding enthusiastically (PHYSICALLY) it is not a sign of enjoyment or relaxation do not double down or blindly continue curious to hear other women’s takes on this too ❤️

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

10 months

be honest: ❌ you don't want to have “healthy relationships” ✔️ you want* to have AWE-INSPIRING, life-affirming, fun, sexy, joyful, transcendent, heart-opening relationships health isn't the aim it's a byproduct of ecstasy *or you would if you believed you could

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

3 months

all men are subs because all men want to be of service to others/a cause that's bigger & more important than themselves and feel useless—their lives lack purpose & meaning—when they aren't or can't be

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

two secrets to creating soul-nourishing relationships: 1. pace control (how fast things escalate, in any context) 2. intensity control (how much attention & energy you put into and/or place on it) follow what’s alive & never go faster than you can feel 🦋

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

something I want more women to understand = how much men love these 2 things: 1. feeling useful 2. being able to get it right for you men are acc incredibly selfless. create an environment where they can do this + watch them bend over backwards for you & be so happy about it 🎉

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

11 months

how to make a man melt: tell him you trust him & see him as trustworthy (and mean it)

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@rachelclif

1 year

it's a good day to get distracted by taking cute, dexterous & kinda grainy nudes

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

3 months

today I clarified something really fucking big for myself, which is that I AM MOVING TO SAN FRANCISCO NEXT YEAR it’s the right next step for me it’s the right next place for me I CAN FEEL IT and that feels good

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

8 months

@SWENGDAD my read: she was genuinely interested in & attracted to him + interpreted the fact that he didn't initiate as disinterest in her (and possibly also humiliating) big picture: she was very patient with him first, she gave him the opportunity to date her (aka, take her on a…

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

the holy trinity: - when in doubt, be more you - when in doubt, trust you - when in doubt, choose you over & over & over again

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1 year

@proetrie she's just domming him effectively

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@rachelclif

1 year

[thought experiment] what would happen if motherhood was viewed & experienced as high-status?

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@rachelclif

11 months

how to slowly torture a man: deprive him of loving touch (it hurts to be unmet)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

this is the real me (yes, I am 25 not 5)

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

7 months

@vivafalastin what, in your view, should they be doing?

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

5 months

@lisatomic5 why does she make friends with people then? (what does she like about her friends?) “interesting” is less transactional/objectifying than “good at xyz” 🤔

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 month

if andrew huberman had been able to keep five women happy & sexually satisfied simultaneously without their awareness of one another, this story would not exist

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1 month

Andrew Huberman's ability to keep five women happy and sexually satisfied simultaneously, without their awareness of one another, at the age of 48, is the ultimate testament to the effectiveness of a bio-optimised lifestyle that you dorks should ever need.

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

how to stop cockblocking yourself: are you open to receiving things that you don't deserve? 🫢

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 month

hi, it's me

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rachel (loves you)

@rachelclif

1 year

gm! it's my birthday & the greatest gift you can give me is your presence, attention & love ❤️ ... please, shower me with it! 🎉

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