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#ALLBLACKLIVESMATTER ✨stay curious, ask questions, fight with integrity✨ #agender #fat #feedee

Copper Harbor, Michigan
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@marfmellow
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hey folks, last night me and my employee got into a car accident / it was a sideswipe by a 16 wheeler and everyone’s /okay/ but that coupled with my phone being broken for days is why we’re experiencing an increased delay I’m sorry again for not being able to communicate 1:1
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@weekend3warrior @PopCrave that colorism is absolutely a problem / that she desires to be an ally and uplift deep dark skin Black women ?
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@asmotek @Phil_Lewis_ could be a sign of people being used to maids and mommy cleaning up after them….it’s wild what people will spill and think they don’t have to clean because they’re seeing you as their maid even tho that’s not ur job 👀
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@marfmellow
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I want fat people to live their lives outside of the thin gaze. That desire to suck in for photos, holding your breath after activity so no one can hear you breathing too loudly, eating way less than you truly desire because you think people are counting your calories.
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@marfmellow
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@YCP4EVRRR this one is the one😩
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@aprettyPR IM SCREAMING “you taking this joke too far you shouldn’t play with heterosexuality” 🤭
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I remember how much fatphobia was stoked by the Obamas - tryna link childhood obesity with school lunches which only cut the food budgets for schools (RAISED THE MILITARY BUDGET THO!) while plugging a new mix of “get me bodied” on itunes🥴
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@marfmellow
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@fishontherun2 @TweetsFlyinHigh @qaomene this child sounds inquisitive and possibly could be - maybe - ND…I’m not sure why they couldn’t be told that the music is coming from a car outside? it just feels really snarky to ask if they think something they are asking a question about?
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@safflina_ @baby_bach_choy @jesssa666 It’s not even they don’t like boys - they can’t profit the same way they can with hyper feminizing the girls.
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@marfmellow
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love the sloppy fat girls, the fat girls with asymmetrical rolls, the fat girls with dark stretch mark, the fat girls with flat wide booties, the fat girls with no ass, the fat girls with a shelf booty. your body is still valid & valuable despite being erased from fat visibility
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@Tre4Mechanic @Kendalltheman He made some folks laugh today, it’s the small tings
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@Kayodeine @TheJetEye the animals are doing what needs to be done but they also don’t have aquatic speciesism pervading the ocean….no one told them to hate each other - they all know their homes are in danger and are acting accordingly despite established enemies….and really that’s a human POV
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@faikhadrasgf @SomeChickens even if he wasn’t he still wouldn’t deserve antiblackness 🤡
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@lovelybrownee @jaipurlan This is not okay - how can anyone turn the blame around on this woman?! Wouldn’t it make more sense to say that this man didn’t respect the kindness of this woman???? the empathy of this woman?!!! I hate this timeline because somehow we always find a way to blame the victim😩
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@Malcolm5xl @ib_2cute @BigBichote why you got me studying dudes head 😩
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@thotzekage shout out to the note explaining and the offering to pay 🥹
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@Irritable_Cndn @WisconsinSass @zedonarrival This person is abusive and is normalizing it thru this platform 😞
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@RoeGraceM @torqu111 my bestie just called out after 3 days at Starbucks - they were put on food station with NO training during a rush & sustained several burns so I don’t think it’s just long Covid - it’s also late stage capitalism ramping up and literally throwing bodies at demand
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@weekend3warrior @PopCrave Her work isn’t diminished by asking her but I will give you that they wanted a soundbite - asking anyone privileged what they think about it…kind of a waste of time when the most marginalized is out here sharing their experiences with colorism…her team clearly ain’t reading
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🤣 “now dump yourself a bottle of soup!”
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torrid was the first store that showed a young fat woman wearing what young people were wearing at the time. it was different than being forced into a lane bryant, knowing ima come out that bitch looking like a damn administrative assistant.
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a reminder that thin people get gout, diabetes, hypertension, heart attacks, strokes and every. fucking. thing. else. fat. people. do. as. well.
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@ArtOfDialogue_ Please delete this fr, like there’s no reason to platform fatphobic misgynoir - especially when the most marginalized is who he’s speaking to as well! protecting Black femmes and folks in the gender kaleidoscope looks like not posting shit like this.
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sometimes I feel like I was born in the wrong time and then I order a pizza through paypal and I know that this is the right and true path.
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its okay to be fat. its okay to be SUPER fat. its okay to be so fat that your shoes lean or your neck rolls look like a stack of pancakes. it's okay to not be thin, to not be skinny, to not be thiccccccc ITS OKAY TO BE A BIGGER PERSON!!!!
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thin privilege is not feeling like you're being annoying when someone fucks up your food. I know so many fat people who dead ass won't get their orders fixed because they're already ashamed for eating something people will judge them for.
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🥹 I think I know what I want
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@LisaMayOfficial @DailyLoud I mean this with love - most girls cannot retire from sex work…. most girls can’t just walk away 😩 she is incredibly privileged and probably shouldn’t be shaming the profession that is feeding her and her children but we live in a patriarchal world - where it pays to be a
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that’s why i just flat twist mines
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Pussy hair be growing back wayyy too fast.
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@ihatedai before phones they’d take yer sketchbook full of titties
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@ArtOfDialogue_ This is another reason why fatphobia is so dangerous - once someone opens up that door to disrespecting fat people especially brown skin / deep dark skin fat people - others see it as a green light! even if it contradicts what they’re saying in defense of lizzo!
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we are taught that fat bodies are weak, are ugly, are failures in the realm of health. we are told fat bodies stink, are sick, are automatically not worthy. we are shamed for existing, for smiling in our photos, for daring to bevisible in a fatphobic society
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@Brieyonce @DolceDyamond the grandmothers the baby
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@Merry_Rissa @HyperSlow_ @Teia0K I know a few married women who are being driven to the point of no return because they realized one year in - they’re just a bang maid
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like idk about y’all childhoodsbut fat black girls get jumped A LOT! by anybody! boys and girls - it do not matter! people will try and beat you up to show people how strong they are KNOWING that the fat child they’re agressing is not a fighter!!!!!!!!!!!
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@iNGryL_ @iLikeToranDaily @WillisRease @reytoodrippy @YourRAGEz This question right here fucks me up because who cares where he’s gonna go after he dies 😩 he knew he’d be spared and that’s the issue - white people are aware they can purge Black folks and get away with it. fuck going to hell, we here 😩
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@_kingwatson @SAMIAFIASCO my sis hit that POSE 🥺 she so adorable, this make me love huh more
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@shaTIRED @newafrikanegro the bar is low friend, let’s uplift some DSBW rappers who we don’t need to check for colorism
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*reads that Amandla Stenberg is starring in a movie where her character falls in love with a goddamn nazi*
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@celesitial Idk, a friendly fuck sounds lovely
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I wish thin people would stop using the word fat to describe their bodies when they’ve stopped dieting/restricting their food for a short time period. I wish y’all had language outside of the dichotomy that is thin and fat
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@Puff_Iya - reinforced plus size stripper pole - bed couch floor hybrid - like a room that’s a bed and a couch and a floor? like levels… - a bud room where I have many jars of many buds and everyday I share one with y’all and tell y’all what the vibes are
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@Miamore5623 @jayacancook not the caprisun had rat essence
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@iCoughGlitter @RoyIsThaTruth per week too! some peoples parents argued with the judge til it was under $20 a week…quit jobs too
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@thedigitaldash_ I’d get a lil symbol for them maybe but not a name
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@theashleyray @carrietobey white folks stealing shit they can’t even understand is such a dystopian ick
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@ichriecheblut these vids may offer a lil clarity - no one hates beautiful people - but there is righteous anger at a system that perpetuates harm against folks for not being beautiful - can’t really attack the system of beauty when you’re outside of it but you can attack a beautiful person
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a fat shamer has never offered me therapy money nor gym money. not even a whole foods gift card 🥴they just be talkin
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fatphobes are liars. if they actually cared about the health and well-being of fat folks, they would... well... actually care about the health and well-being of fat folks.
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@PallaviGunalan @AMythicWitch I’ll unlike if I understand it to be some bullshit afterwards lol
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@jakebrodes some of y’all are already administrative assistants RIGHT NOW! have you ever e stalked somebody and found out their mama tea? baby you an independent researcher and for how many years? SENIOR LEVEL okay?
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@aphrodivy @Vishi_Divine it’s the way he said he a freeeekeeee BWOY
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@DebKravitz1 @AkinOlokun booo spiritual light
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@TheBlackLayers @nahfret Also - if you’re ND some of us really take people as friends if they’re coming like a friend. when they fall back it’s disorientating because you’ve already formed a relationship and to you that means something but to them it really meant fulfilling a need. shits mad confusing
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my favorite pic of myself 🥹
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@watts_er_name @WhiiteBoiDre Target not a bodega, have you seen the hearth line?! shits minimalist asf! There’s aisles of dope shit to loot! it’s take a minimum of an hour depending on how many other people mobbin too
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@Nomsajere @Sam_Baja @ItsJewsie That hand under his chin LMAO I’m crying
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@_RareDefined A ham thats spiraled, a ham that is honey cured, a ham that is smoked, a ham that is covered in sugar, a ham that is steaked, a ham that is spam
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@DAVID_STOIC1 @natayaska when you live in a rape culture - you will bring it everywhere you go
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dating doesnt even seem real anymore - i be so starving for confirmation that im loveable I can't just date. I gotta make a friend and go from there.
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@Jay_R7536 @nfr_podcast everytime he swings his legs I die
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when you're fat its hey gorgeous I like my girls bbw Hello? why wont you speak? this is why I hate fat women yall are all stuck up fat bitch yo can you just tell me why you wont speak? FUCK YOU THEN FAT BITCH!!!!!!! YOURE UGLY AS FUCK!!!!! I BET YOUR PUSSY STINK!!!
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dudes be in the dm’s like: hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey wow fuck you sIut hey
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so many fat femmes look at people who are non fat and legit wonder if this person could ever see us as a romantic partner? we don’t even bother talking to our crushes for fear of ridicule for daring to express desire!!!!!!!
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@_KILLA_KEV i mean they’re being polite and direct - id serve ☺️
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thinness isn’t the pinnacle of success, there’s no good or bad bodies, bodies do not exist to be consumed!!!
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@truIyalive @shoaeya be honest with her - nothing hurts more than ur mom not taking the time to talk to you about her feelings and where she’s coming from. Your daughter will have a different perspective - still value her and her privacy. teach her you’re a safe person to talk to - please❤️
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@Kamaria7 @deshola55 She does not need isolation from abuse however setting boundaries is necessary. The state already isolates women when men are abusing them - we as individuals must never reenact state violence on each other
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@Kayodeine @TheJetEye enemies in the wild is subjective - and so different from how we perceive enemies as humans - we’ve been socialized and indoctrinated with our beliefs and must return to the land immediately as stewards vs the collective parasitic experience we’re all cooperating in
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when you cheat on somebody - you know. you aint make no mistake - it wasn't one time - you know what you are doing. aint no magical haze that comes on - you choose to not prioritize your partner - their trust in you - the love y'all share. when you cheat you MEAN to do that shit.
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@cloud9barbiey I pray y’all research strains before you try! I pray! Sometimes that sativa is making you paranoid and you need a hybrid - sometimes that Indica is making you drowsy and you have ADD NOT ADHD - strains / lineage matters
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thin people need to accept fatness, the reality that fat people will always exist, that fat people are deserving of respect and care and space. if you don't, you'll only be ensuring more trauma for all. fatphobia effects us all, so we all have to fight that bish together.
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@Merry_Rissa @HyperSlow_ @Teia0K each woman’s story is different but they all work full time & care for the entire home. These men don’t do dishes, don’t cook, don’t offer much conversation anymore - they used to do some things but now they all rely on them to keep the household going. they saw their moms do it
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this is a whole grown white man telling his platform that black fat children are not kids. this is what fatphobia looks like, this is what misogynoir looks like, this is what ANTIBLACKNESS LOOKS LIKE
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@yungtorian @weekend3warrior @Larry09134eva @PopCrave and why is lighter skin profitable👀 you’re so close babes
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@GrantSteiner5 @BNB_Enthusiast @AnuheaNihipali Shit the culture war is the class war IS THE RACE WAR! Antiblackness is what we’re all fighting! WHITE SUPREMACY is what is still crushing US ALL! it is all connected to othering the most marginalized- deep dark skin fat disabled trans queer Black folks. FULL STOP.
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@gh0styyy123 @pinkgyaru NOT CARTOON CARTOON
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@queenveej we’re poly by nature - nobody is fulfilling all of our needs in anyway! even our own parents - no matter how amazing they are - will fulfill every need. poly isn’t just about sexual relationships and I wish we could dive into why we all need each other intrinsically
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@diotimasladder @yumcoconutmilk you just named a bunch of brown folks you assume are connected by religion…it’s not just racist but ignores how the people you mentioned engage antiblackness / colorism in order to be where they are today
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being beautiful and fat IS LAYERED. most people will praise your face as long as that double chin is tight enough, of that waist is defined enough, if those titties and ass are big enough and shaped the RIGHT WAY.
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@CaffinatedLib @_RobertSchultz this!!!! a lot of our mothers and their mothers were pick mes brow beaten into submission by family and church 😩
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tbh y’all scared to get fat during rona are mad annoying🙄 like ain’t y’all been saying it’s just portion control and exercise lmao MAINTAIN HOE
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@weekend3warrior @PopCrave I hope she does - cause it’s kinda weird to be posting about having a dark pussy and being thought of as unproblematic when it’s clear from this interview she doesn’t think she has to betray her privilege / be an ally
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@banunabanita @lovelybrownee @jaipurlan Why are we operating as if they didn’t talk about the gas money tho? Like I’m tired of y’all acting like poor people don’t go on dates and don’t share resources with each other just off the fact we are poor. She’s a young girl with no car - it’s okay to offer gas $ lol
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@lanegotfanz @SUCKAW0RLD right, oiled up…smelling fresh…throwing back wings…they know how to liveeeee
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It's so weird how many men have banded together to call me fat and stupid for my opinion on dave chappelle. He doesn't know or care about u, his stand up is WASHED. THAT MAN AINT FUNNY NO MORE! ILL BE FAT AND DUMB AND YALL WILL STILL HAVE TO TAKE THAT L.
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