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when I said I wanted the future to be exciting, I didn't mean the bleakest possible cyberpunk dystopia, bro. anyways I finally joined twitter.

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Joined November 2017
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@ghostoftoast
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sometimes when I am sad or melancholy I open the bear cam at brooks falls in katmai national park, and in another window I play brian eno's "the big ship" on repeat and you know what? it really helps.
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@MForstater as a mom, my concern is your bigotry, your sexism, and your intense fixation on other people's genitals, not the cute little mascot who wants to share a love of reading.
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@RottenInDenmark just fyi, a lot of the native and inuit folks I follow on here have had serious issues with keeler and the methodologies of her "pretendians" list
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@oldenoughtosay my dad is a structural engineer, I've been saving this info to spring on him the next time we're together in person so I can see his face as it sinks in.
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@Serena_Partrick @NBedera seems like you have a deep compulsion to ignore context, nuance, or the actual discussion topic at hand and must push your ideology incessantly
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@Dakota_Todd @StacyFort @heyyitsjanea gotta "change her mind" or else her dept head finds out about her bailing on her job for a week...
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@ScoutSleepe @KatyMontgomerie as a woman, it's funny to read this this because you're the one actually trying to enforce patriarchal standards on other women
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@BrandyLJensen just fyi, the native & inuit folks I follow on here profoundly disagree with keeler's methodology and list, she is not seen as the arbiter of indigeneity.
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@Nicole_Cliffe also don't believe the dr/nurse when they tell you the colospcopy biopsy will feel like a "pinch" - they are punching out a lil chunk of your cervix! I have a high pain tolerance and wish I had demanded more than ibuprofen.
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@ducktotherescue @KatyMontgomerie only one side is quoting hitler and partnering with far right groups, your side.
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@rchlmars @CarolineMoss @Nicole_Cliffe I was haunted by that song all throughout my 6 week solo trip to morocco in 96. tracy chapman, bob marley, and the who were all popular but effing lady in red, it was EVERYWHERE. when I heard it in the airport before leaving I was so resigned, all "yeah, of course, one last time"
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@_FlutterGirl @KatyMontgomerie you're working very hard for the patriarchy right now, pretending you're worried for her as you police her tone and victim blame.
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@Thebigdog8873 @SoozUK ah, so it's fine for you to conflate "being worried" into "attacking" then? terf & gcs often lose family members & friends as their bigotry and obsession about trans people takes over their life at the expense of everything else, it's quite common.
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@KendraWrites @karenkho I'm so tired of calmly explaining to acquaintances I haven't eaten at a restaurant indoors since early march 2020 and that's not changing anytime soon.
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@PasturesPolitic my favorite Turkish dog, Şimşek (dunno if he's technically a shepherd but he's definitely Anatolian, lives in Cappadocia on a little horse ranch with my friend Mehmet)
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@mimmymum @Saorse3 @KennyIBoyle it's really something, the gcs ignoring basic feminist foundations like bodily autonomy, self-determination & equal rights. partnering with far right orgs to push their hatred and moral panic. no consistency at all. feminist woman here, totally in agreement with you.
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@BenCptcatz @Alexandra_4_2_ @polevaultpower a fair compromise is letting girls play sports. all girls. without testing. without demanding proof. just let them play.
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@ThomasWillett9 @speakoutsister it certainly is, it's appalling to witness. all these anti-trans activists do is make the world less safe for everyone, especially for women.
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@cityboi340 @motherindie boys can absolutely be abused & be victims, what an incredibly cruel and factually untrue thing to say.
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@lindaholmes whenever I comment as a woman who welcomes trans women in whatever spaces, the transphobes either just refuse to believe I'm a woman or go straight to calling me a misogynist. it's infuriating.
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@Soil1s4Future @Sara_Rose_G dude you are a right wing, self-described "hyper aggressive man" whose twitter account follows mostly rabid anti-trans activists. you have ideology, everyone does. you are on the side of pushing hate. as a woman I'm fine with people saying menstruators, it just makes sense.
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@KatyMontgomerie most women are just fine sharing spaces with trans people, but it's easy for anti-trans activists to dismiss & ignore us, because we haven't made transphobia our main hobby & sole character trait.
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@clapifyoulikeme did a tarot reading for her situation
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@drnovocalcords @speakoutsister you are in denial of how your anti-trans activism hurts all women and makes us less safe.
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@PDysphoria2022 @KatyMontgomerie traditionally judaism has six genders, you're the one being anti-semitic. stop weaponizing us to push your reactionary agenda of bigotry, so gross and distasteful. most women, like me, are just fine with trans folk but many of the ones who aren't are happy to ally with fascists
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@mcmansionhell all day erry day
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@BlairBraverman - delightedly just remembered I had reason to yell "Go back to your ugly dogs, Karen!" in one of my dreams last night, wish I could remember the context.
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@KatyMontgomerie this is like when gcs insist they know I'm not a woman, because I'm aggressively defending trans people, and "real" women don't act like that. as they repeatedly insist that I'm the misogynist in the exchange for believing in things like bodily autonomy & self-determination.
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@MrMennoTweets @KatyMontgomerie derrick jensen isn't a professor, nor is he a queer theorist. you, otoh, are actively working for the far right and extreme christian organizations that are trying to take away everyone's bodily autonomy. even pushing the same lies used against gay men in the 80s & 90s.
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@DrBr005ki @PomeranianGod as a mom, mothers are capable of being abusers. not all moms love their kids. some are so toxic that the healthiest, kindest thing their adult children can do is cut them off. I was lucky enough to have emotionally healthy parents, but this isn't the case for many(most?) people
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@ConneryDaveroy @ProfDaveAndress you didn't bother to read, or even look at screen names, apparently.
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@Franz_M_W_Marc @mushycrouton you can't even decide if you're making a zoological or a philosophical/sociological argument, but you're definitely going to make sure your misogyny shines through, no matter what.
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@tressiemcphd amazon sent me a letter in the mail (!!!) because they were "concerned" I hadn't used prime video since joining prime 2 months ago. A LETTER!
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@BlueSpiderwort @KillerMartinis yeah I fully get it on election night I established w/my husband how many people we could hide when/if it came to that
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@xx_chromosomes_ @REPRORising_VA really wish you terfs put all this energy into actually fighting for women's rights instead of demonizing trans women
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@Nicole_Cliffe @lawyerforcat I started working at an mrdd group home on 9/11(a whole other post)& when my friends with fancy point & click jobs started having "my job doesn't really matter" crises, I felt so clear & secure about how I was helping vulnerable people live full & authentic lives
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@Vande_Burgt @SassyMetisChick not a big fan of history, are you.
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@clairewillett @DogAteMyThesis I had trans friends & classmates in college in RURAL OHIO in the early 90s for crying out loud!
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@oldenoughtosay have been thinking this too, thanks for sounding the call! I'll place a hairpin, an awl, & a piece of toast on the mantle & light a candle.
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@RottenInDenmark I like to respond to NYC people mentioning their Brooklyn neighborhood with "Oh, so Long Island", just to watch the vein in their temple pulse
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@SaraJBenincasa reading a book while walking home from work, black teenagers chilling on a porch "WHAT UP RAMONA" it was delightful
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@DLucasDesigns @oldenoughtosay I belong to a different religion than you, which believes the life of the person already alive is more important than a theoretical life. Nothing is assured until the first breath. Each pregnant person needs to decide for themselves. I feel great about my moral foundations.
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@anonymous_tami @DeathlyAcorn @KatyMontgomerie seems you understand math about as well as you understand biology
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@Nicole_Cliffe SAY HER NAME
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@Remember_Sarah Two weeks ago, with the help of therapy (& friends), I stood up to my FIL and told him screaming at me with contempt for minor innocuous things was NOT OKAY and I wasn't going to pretend it didn't happen, and it was SO HARD but so important. I feel you, and I'm rooting for you!
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@Nicole_Cliffe sending you love, reader, so proud of your bravery in taking steps to get out. we believe in you, and that you matter and deserve to live free of fear.
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@RMGascoigne @chasestrangio and you apparently don't care about the dignity and welfare of all women and girls, or their access to sport, only the ones you deem acceptable. you endanger their safety by wanting to police who is female and who isn't.
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@DrBr005ki @PomeranianGod some moms love their kids but aren't capable of doing it in a healthy way. some moms think they have a right to rigidly control most or all aspects of their children's lives, even in adulthood. lots of moms refuse to recognize their children are people, not posessions.
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@WaneDrew @felicia_hart13 @Rosa_Fessler @speakoutsister victim blaming, pushing trans hate, and reinforcing patriarchal stereotypes isn't protecting women. you're just sexist.
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@ramsay_colettei @pickle_bee with all due respect, stop fear-mongering and pushing a moral panic against a vulnerable minority. most women, like myself, are totally fine with trans folk and believe in basic human rights and bodily autonomy.
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@kvanaren people really don't understand(neither did I, before...) that you need 500 extra calories a day when you're pregnant but you need 1500(!!!) extra when breastfeeding
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@XXTHCenturyFox_ @KatyMontgomerie weaponizing people's appearance just shows the depths of your own insecurity.
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@iwannago_higher @kampeas @joshtpm going to a seder held by jews is totally fine and encouraged! it's only rude & deeply offensive when christians decide they want to appropriate the holiday for themselves
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@KatyMontgomerie I've found this description by judith butler really useful:
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@BenCptcatz @Alexandra_4_2_ @polevaultpower intersex & trans kids should get to play sports just like everyone else
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@KendraWrites @karenkho it's really reassuring to see so many people still masked(including outside at playgrounds etc) in our part of deepest queens but I know this isn't the case generally.
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@Nicole_Cliffe I know she's a mathematician but I did a tarot reading for her....
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@MariaAstrology @KatyMontgomerie what a truly mediocre bad faith merchant you are.
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@Nicole_Cliffe when we would visit Turkey for the summer, my Istanbullu dad would bring a suitcase filled with quality multi-ply toilet paper. I think it's one of his favorite things about the US.
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@sf_andreas @KatyMontgomerie you're just another profoundly sexist, right wing man insisting he's "protecting" women by pushing hate & fear. your own insecurities so deep you fall into conspiracy theories that reassure you of your own (warrantless) superiority.
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@123db_GEEK @speakoutsister this is the obvious consequence of pushing an unfounded moral panic against a vulnerable minority. for a self-proclaimed geek your reading comprehension is abysmal.
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@danielleiat @DearSplenda @rachmonroe @Jesse_Hirsch my dad is part of a romeo group thru our temple and during the height of pandemic they each brought a folding chair & sandwiches & sat very spaced out in the shul parking lot yelling to each other as they ate
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@RadfemBlack must admit it's weird to see self-described radical feminists working so hard to deny people bodily autonomy and basic human rights. to then to accuse all the women who disagree with you of being handmaidens(& men to boot) is really the cherry on top.
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@8RosarioSanchez yes, there are plenty of beliefs which you are welcome to have, but are not legal(or appropriate) to discuss at work. this isn't complicated, you aren't a victim because you weren't allowed to evangelize your belief system to your colleagues.
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@jun_the_swan @KatyMontgomerie @PipsLemon what is immoral is you continually pushing the lie that trans women take something from other women by their very existence. they do not. this is a manufactured controversy, pushed & funded by rw religious orgs because they lost the gay marriage battle.
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@MrsNickyClark most women are fine with sharing spaces with trans folk, they've been doing it forever, it's only the current moral panic you and your right wing allies are pushing that's made it suddenly so politicized instead of minding your business and observing basic civility.
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@mushycrouton it's not complicated! pretty simple to understand, actually.
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@DLucasDesigns @oldenoughtosay I just thought you were reading things before responding to them, my mistake. 5000 year tradition of pikuach nefesh, not even considered a theoretical baby till 5th month, orthopraxy over orthodoxy, your church tried to literally kill my ancestors with a pesky inquisition, etc
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@FracturCritical @SpeakEasyGirl @outlawjosiej @Nicole_Cliffe this is such a good question, I just texted my dear friend who is a marvelous PA focusing on women's health to ask her, will report back!
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@mattprobably @whitneyarner loved his poetry as a really little kid, saw that my parents had a record by him, opened up the gatefold and saw this....
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@Soil1s4Future @Sara_Rose_G as for no longer having women's awards or bathrooms, that's patently untrue, just another version of the fear-mongering trope that somehow I am erased by other types of women existing which is utter nonsense.
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