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Romance reader, queer, recovered ex christian/ exvangelical, linguistics student, preschool speech therapy clinician #actuallyautistic she/her 💅👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩🌈

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I read 117 books this year so you don’t have to - these are my favourite reads of 2023
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@a_miller2 Nurse: you need an x ray so we should do a pregnancy test Me:I’m a lesbian so that’s not possible N: *laughs too hard* M: there’s really no chance N: there’s always a chance M: umm…not really for me N: stranger things have happened Me: not really! *waits 3 hours for test
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My roommates are a couple STRAIGHT out of a romance book, and this morning they got play mad at eachother, chased eachother in circles around the half walls of the kitchen, he faked her out and caught her, kissed her (thoroughly) and made a little bantery joke. SICKENING.
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@maya_ruinz As someone who’s college professor was that there blue doodlebop, this thread is one of the most wild things I’ve seen in a minute
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@Clayton_Ashley I’m finally on Stardew Valley twitter as god intended
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@kristinsong3 @not_tracer_120 @davidhogg111 Kristin - this is not your fault. Not one bit. You should be able to allow a child to visit a friend without worrying that he’ll have access to weapons. Blame lies square on the gun owner and the government. Thank you for fighting for a safer future for children.
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@mouseabolition They just hate the white hair and don’t know how to articulate that like a big kid
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Right in front of my face. How am I supposed to live under these conditions and not write them into my WIPs every day
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@EuphoriTori Okay kids, if this made you kick your legs and giggle, you’ll want to be reading A Lady for A Duke. Historical romance novel about two best friends who grew up together. Heroine takes a new identity to live as a trans woman and falls in love with her childhood best friend
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Told them I tweeted this and they just left the house shouting “tell our fans we love them” they really are insufferable / belong in an Abbie Jimenez book
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@comicgal40 Musical theatre. Not a huge reach
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@lingerie_addict Everyone always compares themselves to the richest people of a time period. Like girl that’s not how you would’ve dressed, you’d have been a scullery maid I fear
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@EliotBeacon @coffeegeekgirl @MrAndyNgo Right, because you believe you deserve representation but black children do not. Understood lmao
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@EdenLake @a_miller2 I’m Canadian so thankfully it was just annoying, there’s no bill for an ER visit. But I was feeling so sick and waiting for a chest x ray at midnight so would have loved to skip it
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@svershbow Even weirder on queer hinge. They figured out quick I like femmes and there is not a single femme left on the free level. Free those hotties rn!!!
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Now that this is getting attention I feel the need to clarify that the “bantery joke” was about boobs so like they’re not THAT wholesome
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@hayche_pylori I’m a speech therapist and also autistic and adhd, and I find I have to play dumb to be trusted by drs. If I use clinical terms to describe what’s happening to me, I’m doctor google, but if I pretend I don’t know what it’s called, I’m believed. Full stop, believe patients
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@blahblahemily Or any major city!! This is the most Toronto thing I’ve ever heard and I would be 0% surprised if this happened to me on any day
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@Eurydicegaming @solaceinstories I am NOT a fan of this trope, but I think THG is different. Katniss repeatedly talks about not wanting kids because she couldn’t keep them safe, and Gale would be like “what if things were different” and she’d say “they aren’t”. I think by the epilogue, things are VERY different
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@JennieLynBates I’ve lived with these fuckers for 3 years, what about ME
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@proudcyborg @mightbeautistic I’m a very verbally proficient autistic, but I often find I go non-verbal in difficult conversations. I’ve always felt a lot of shame for texting things that should have been done in person, but if it’s in person I will let the other person talk over me and agree or be silent.
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@danielleweisber My dog squints at me every time I come home from work and takes like 10 seconds to respond - I swear that little guy needs spectacles
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@annettesanroman @a_miller2 Stranger things have happened??? Not to me?!
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@spitgrohl @ragingfemm3 Disagree! I think straight women should only come with their queer friends and be mindful of how they take up space, but allies coming with queer folks is fine! I’ve had straight friends come with me to queer events to support me and I may not have gone if I had to go alone
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@hayche_pylori If I say I’m struggling to eat because of food aversions and autistic burnout, they scoff. If I’m like “I don’t know why I can only eat certain foods” they’ll believe and explain. I write a script before talking to doctors
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@MetalYinzer @refiloeseretlo @misandristlana This is obviously bad faith and ableist, but do you know how easy it is to stop adhd meds? Every adhder i know has to work so hard to remember to take those damn things, we’re not fucking “hooked”. Stigmatizing life saving medication is incredibly unhelpful
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@Brandon93Smith Sorry but I’m on mom’s side here, those girls are hearing that response all day and diet culture is slammed down the throats of little girls from their first breath. Totally understand why you would say it and the response was probably not delivered well but still
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@LucaGuadagnegro @AppleTV This, quite obviously, is not about period accuracy. May I suggest the history channel?
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@DillonMitchel18 @punishedmother It IS a bad thing because it does not protect the victim. It incentivizes killing your victim, it makes it harder to convict offenders, makes it harder for kids to report. Think critically for once in your life
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@DallasStotland I tweeted about this a minute ago. He was a guy from work, he helped us move in and then got quarantined with us in early 2020
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@chel_c_cam I’m only 26 and in middle school the most common insult was gay. Anything you didn’t like, “that’s gay”
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@ElyKreimendahl Every single year I’m like “I’m gonna start early this year! Don’t want to be disappointed again” and I regret to inform you I’m about to be disappointed again
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@annabroges I had one of these, we finally met up and then he ghosted me in real life too 🥰
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@HumanbeingAwk I’m so tired of reading stuff like this. There is nothing wrong with being disabled. The majority of autistic people are disabled. Stop trying to advocate people out of supports.
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@hunterandbaker They also did him so dirty by reducing his character to ONLY a love triangle and then casting someone SO hot to be Gale
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I don’t wanna see another tweet about Olivia Rodrigo’s “underage audience”. Both albums are explicit and have parental warnings. She is an adult woman. If you take your little kids to that concert that’s fine but it’s your choice.
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@theryanlasala I have personally explained the process to you, Debra
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@ChristOurHopeM @JBsTwoCents This is so, so, so profoundly unhelpful. Shut up
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@Elevenintention Yeah it’s giving *forced proximity*
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@barahsennett One time on a date a man made me watch The Room and did all the lines before they happened and sang all the soundtrack music full voice and showed me pictures of him dressed as all the different characters
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@BeccaLizz “This wasn’t designed for disabled people it was designed for Selena Gomez, a disabled person and she wouldn’t have even done that if she wasn’t disabled” okay but she is tho
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A friend of mine went to an all inclusive vacation by herself for a few days and just read a ton of books and drank a ton of margaritas and that’s what I need right now
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@iputahexonyou As a fellow autistic, but also a speech therapist, yes and no - it’s more complicated than this. Give “gestalt language processing” a quick search! Most autistic children learn language in whole chunks rather than individual words, which is why scripting is common.
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Just finished Vasti’s first novella (loved it!!) but reading the reviews is blowing my mind!! Shamelessly posting reviews like this is so embarrassing what is WRONG with you? Why do people think sex is a 21st century invention?
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@hannahcrileyy @Nina_Weena_ Yes my dog had surgery and he was so good at getting those off and he’s not even great at stuff like that because of his overbite. I have no doubt she could get rid of it
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The aforementioned roommates fell in love because in March 2020 roommate 1 moved in with me and a guy from work helped her move in. I had Covid symptoms/presumed Covid, so the doctor told him to stay with us for two weeks before going home. He remains here 3 year later
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@JennieLynBates We moved in together the first day in 2020 that we got sent to WFH, and they had the audacity to fall in love in front of me for three years. SICK.
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@focusfronting My dog mostly did good old fashioned manipulation. He’d be like “outside outside” and we’d say no so he’d be like “I love you, outside” and we’d say no and he’d be like “mad. Mad. Mad.”
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@RdotSpoon @bandherbooks Why is there something mean on the internet about Ali Hazelwood every few days? I hope the love she’s getting in real life and online is louder. I can’t wait to read Love on The Brain
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@a_miller2 Y’all I understand the policies and did not get mad at anyone it was just funny and weird how he talked about it
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@DallasStotland Yeah they make me crazy because they ARE a romance novel and they don’t read those so they don’t see it lol
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@BarryPierce This is so pathetic lol, people who are different than you are allowed to like things. We really don’t need your approval and didn’t ask for it.
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@theelvenqueen I just will never get it! She’s so hot!
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@MichaelaOkla No but like I don’t want kids any time soon but I don’t want to end up with someone I wouldn’t want to be the parent of my kids so why bother
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@fatfabfeminist If you can spare the time, what happened? This sounds exciting but I must have missed it
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@svershbow “Access to your type” like they can not be serious
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@KatyMontgomerie Imagine being less safe and supportive than middle school 🙃 Happy to hear that it seems in this case the boy’s father has full custody and supports his son.
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@Eurydicegaming @solaceinstories I saw it as Katniss being able to have things she never even allowed herself to dream of when things were different. I’m very open to hear how it felt for other readers, though!
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@jzux I’m 25 and same, I only had one normal year post college before 2020 and I think my brain is broken
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@NeenaQueen20 I wish we got to see more of the relationship with Kate and Mary. That was so beautiful in the book. I wish we could have seen the part where Kate tells Anthony about how Mary would visit Kate’s mothers grave to promise to take care of her as if she were her own
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@Fck_Buddies @barahsennett I now identify as a lesbian but I don’t blame him
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Why does every romance hero have to smell like an alluring mix of juniper and mint and something I can’t identify, something *male* that is just him
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@PublishersWkly @nypost “Omg, disgusting, women are writing and reading about the kind of men they’re attracted to. They should have stuck to men like ME” like…okay, why are we asking him?
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@PrettiestFrog @KIM_brly This is a canon sapphic moment you can not interfere
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@ItsEmilyKaty In the reverse, once I got treatment for anxiety the adhd got so much worse. I was no longer able to compensate solely on panic and shame
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@_faeriedust_ @AutSciPerson I want to be a person who does things and has hobbies but I am in my autistic burnout couch potato era
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@literalisha Love finding people who share my process
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@chels__ebooks Anthony is the head of the Bridgerton family like this is not the same at alllll. And anyway he’s hardly there
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@morethantracyt It’s also pretty triggering and difficult to be around someone who is starving themselves to look different than you. Rapid/ substantial weight loss usually requires a lot of restricting, fad diets, over exercising etc and now this friend is gonna talk about that constantly.
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@sharjave @hayche_pylori 100%. If you can talk/ have a job / insert other ableist assumption, no one wants to talk about autism
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@clhubes As a paediatric speech therapist I’m constantly assuring parents that there is nothing wrong with colourful plastic toys. Literally nothing!
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@emilygeneric I love niche romancelandia tweets omg
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@JennieLynBates Truthfully, they are the cutest and the greatest friends, and they are moving into their own place tomorrow and I have cried about it many times (though it’s definitely time for obvious reasons)
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@MegStEsprit I hated being a picky eater as a kid - caused so much anxiety! I still hate that about myself and get nervous about new restaurants or asking for too many substitutions at restaurants. NOTHING my parents did could have made this any different
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@clhubes At church camp our biggest scandal was when a guy shared a (curated by the grown up staff) testimony where he came out as gay but vowed to live a life of celibacy for god. Cringe, upsetting, triggering, do not recommend
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@clhubes I just finished a rewatch of this show with my roommate, and we loved it till the very end. It’s hilarious! Yeah, everyone in it is despicable and I wouldn’t want to be friends with any of them, but that’s kind of the point. They just keep getting worse, and I loved them for it
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@tilley_dane @ryanhorton @JoeHemstock @fireflymagnolia It’s been a while since I saw something so disgusting on Twitter. I feel bad for your poor wife (and so grateful to have left the church and these types of men firmly in my past)
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@GCSchoolTeacher Hey - I worked at a school where they wrote goals for autistic kids to spend more time without their ear protection. I now work outside of school and constantly parents tell me this is happening at school. This isn’t about teens listening to music and it’s not about you
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@mouseabolition The Hunger Games holds up far better than any other highly popular YA I’ve ever read! A lot of these takes are fundamentally misunderstanding either the text itself, the intention of the series or the genre as a whole
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@DrMinNewJ @RaxKingIsDead I mean they’re probably not smoking cigs they’re smoking weed
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@focusfronting When I was in school for speech therapy I taught my dog the buttons and eventually took them away but that little shit understand too much language now I unfortunately have to be a Bunny the dog truther
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@RilynnBrielleee @okayeljay As an autistic adult myself, and a speech therapist, I would strongly caution against ABA. It’s harmful. Great speech therapy, Occuptional Therapy and Physio Therapy (if needed) are much preferred. Sending you love, I know there’s conflicting messaging and you’re doing ur best ❤️
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@holy_schnitt My grandma writes the name of the person who will inherit an item on the bottom of every ONE of her possessions, and speaks about it incessantly. When I was like 3 years old I’d get to choose things in her house and write my name on the bottom
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@lauren_marinaro @b1anne @TheOperaGlass @jeffreyomura @racheline_m Not even single gender schools, but nearly all theatre programs in schools have more girls than boys and will often gender-bend the casting. I played both the grinch and donkey (shrek) while I was in high school because we rarely had enough boys
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I have been living a co-dependant life with my best friends who date eachother, and reading romance is like…the one thing I do without them. Only natural that my tiny book account would go viral with a tweet about THEM
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@the_tweedy This has also been my experience! Also there’s a scene in Always Only You by autistic romance writer Chloé Liese where the hero observes that the autistic heroine has started playing with his clothes as a stim and he feels very honoured and loved by that and I’ll NEVER forget
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@emilykmay God I haaaaaate when people did that to me in public when I was a nanny, and I’m sure it’s 100% worse in mom mode. But it happens ALL THE TIME and NEVER HELPS EVEN A LITTLE
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We all did months of summer camp type shenanigans during that early quarantine life, and they fell in love. We all are best friends and haven’t felt yet that we needed to not live together, but they’re finally getting their own space tomorrow
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@theitoriddle @supergirl_sass @darkparadiisee_ Nope! For capital R Romance it has to have a happily ever after/ happy for now. There are lots of stories that focus on romantic relationships that fit in other genres (womens fiction, tragedy, literary fiction, etc etc) One super popular example is Nicholas Sparks
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@Maude_80 @AngelaEWeiler Why would you feel the need to say this? What do you get out of antagonizing a victim of child abuse?
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@annie_m_morgan @a_miller2 One time a classmate and I were talking about graduation timelines (adult students upgrading credentials) and she was like “hopefully you’ll have a husband by then” and I’m like “god I sure hope not” and I think she was also happening for the earth to swallow her 🤣
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How am I supposed to find books if you change what they look like?? A lot of us read 100s of books a year I don’t remember what they’re all called please I’m begging you I already bought the book please make it stay the same my GOD
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regardless of how we all feel about our cover preferences, i think we can all agree that it's fucking awful when the kindle app updates to a new cover without your permission.
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@lingerie_addict @HoneyTellAStory My grandmother is obsessed with ancestry, and my whole family were servants
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@EvansVibes_ @minicoop320 @prntgdcolonized @sen_68kylie It’s just clear that the words disability to you means “in a different category of person” rather than a person living in a body who isn’t able to access something/ participate in something because of it. Which is part of the issue this tweet points out
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@heathermcwrites This is devastating 😭😭😭
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@chel_c_cam This is a realllly bad replacement. I like the animated covers when they’re well done, but this is :/ Tbh though I really dislike the shirtless man covers, since they imply that straight women are the only readers of romance. I love a sexy cover, but I’d much rather see a clinch
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I just feel like we’re wasting a lot of time we could have spent casting Jake Johnson in romcoms
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@jcnuarysgus @teaareads Imagine typing that out and hitting 4 stars
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@GCSchoolTeacher @sai_dusho_bob Sounds like you know shit all about adhd if that is your strategy. If your goal is for more respect for teachers (I love and respect teachers) you should probably try being quiet about ND issues. You’re doing the opposite of what your intent is
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@ashlieatkinson @IanMWhite23 @eatitkatie @JoshuaConkel Not scabbing to show up to work, absolutely scabbing you perform writing duties on set
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