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used to love opera + ballet, some books. now disabled by ME

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Joined February 2012
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
2 years
Don't put off tomorrow what you can do today, unless you have ME or Long Covid, in which case please totally do that. It's fine.
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 years
Boss' daughter's friend got CoV. Rushed to hospital with bleed on the brain. 18 years old. "But it's mild"
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@Nick_Wellings
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12 days
Exploited, eh? PIP was one of the worst ordeals of my life, where you have to basically convince an utterly disinterested, unempathetic "assessor" whose default setting is "you're lying". And that's exactly what my first assesment said, basically.
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The PIP assessments are NOT easily exploited. Pipe down you gaslighting pipsqueak. Enough. #Sunakered #ToriesOut662
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
3 years
@Nigel_Farage @RNLI When you had that plane crash, Nige, did you berate the ambulance crew for helping foreigners too?
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@Nick_Wellings
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4 years
@aljwhite Having no TV and knowing very little of what passes for modern culture, I have absolutely no idea what this, who those people are, and what is happening.
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2 years
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@Nick_Wellings
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6 months
I'd love to work, to earn money (more than benefits that's for sure) and be fulfilled. Unfortunately I can't. I'm in bed 23.5 hours a day. I have carers, I'm fed like a baby with a spoon. But ok, I'll just get a job.
@guardiannews
Guardian news
6 months
Disabled people must work from home to do ‘their duty’, says UK minister
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@Nick_Wellings
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3 years
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 months
@fesshole Poor woman indeed. Awful men.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
3 years
How awful to watch back.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
2 years
@omarhus1 @LBC @NickFerrariLBC How is telling people about someone dying from a totally preventable disease scaremongering?
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
4 years
@joepike @aljwhite @BorisJohnson @itvcalendar Like any true Conservative he probably thought that he could take what was someone else's without any consequences.
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@Nick_Wellings
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1 month
ME is damn cruel. At its worst it makes you nearly utterly reliant on other people to survive, but also almost utterly unable to tolerate them being near you, or talking to you, touching you etc.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
10 months
Amazing GP phone call just now about my high lactate levels. Basically "get lost". Told em I have elevated lactate. "Are you short of breath? Do you have infection? Pressure sores?" No. "I don't know what you want me to do then, you have no clnical signs needing investigation"
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
7 months
My oldest friend gives me advice:
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
1 year
Lots of "when you get better" and "when you get well" talk from friends. In a way that doesn't help. I know they mean well. But it's not like I've got a broken leg. Be ok in a few months. Multiple key metabolic pathways in me are broken, with no real cure.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
25 days
@drpaulwinston @ZacharyGrinDPT Yes, all that secondary gain of losing my job, losing my home, losing my savings, losing my health, losing my future, losing the ability to look after myself on the most basic level. So much gain
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
2 months
Spot the presence of PsychoSocial, probably small thread: Sept 2020, went out on a day trip with my girlfriend. Didn't feel too great, but felt bad saying no. All on foot. Lots of walking. Wanted to go to a souvenir shop closing at 4pm. It was 1554. 1/n
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
1 year
My local ME service sent me a survey to do. This was one of the questions....!
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
2 months
I still want to do things BRAIN SAYS YES, PLEASE. BODY still says no Where was the effort perception fear? Where is the false illness belief? How can CBT fix that? And all the "just think better bro" books? END 12/n
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
2 months
If it's just "effort perception" why did I get worse and worse, trying to live normally despite a mild ME diagnosis, until my whole world, formerly full, vibrant and fulfilling, shrunk to become one room, one bed?
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@Nick_Wellings
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4 years
@ryangibelli Which bit stood out as especially brilliant, Ryan? (10 marks)
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@Nick_Wellings
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6 years
@SCynic1 @PaulUK2901 Did the point need to be stated so odiously?
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
3 months
OMG...Lauren is top story on Daily Mail...
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@Nick_Wellings
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3 years
@Nicole013 @nytimes We're a terrible country now. Terrible is how we do things.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
2 years
@elliebaby2003 The "but how many had underlying conditions" people are truly the worst.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
9 months
@markeology These are fantastic, she sees and gives the world back to us in a unique manner. That is the hallmark of a real artist's eye.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
2 years
Not a Christmas cheer post, but we must not turn away from history.
@AuschwitzMuseum
Auschwitz Memorial
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25 December 1937 | A Duch Jewish girl, Liesbeth Prins, was born in Amsterdam. In October 1943 she was deported to #Auschwitz and murdered in a gas chamber after the selection.
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 months
Where's the psychosocial element? WHERE? Tell me. WHERE. I tried to keep going. Surely I could. WRONG. BODY SAID NO. BRAIN SAID YES. BODY, NO. 11/n
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
4 years
@CharlieRamsay8 Not all disabilities are visible. For instance I can quite clearly tell you are an idiot now, but had I passed you in the street it might have been difficult to tell.
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@Nick_Wellings
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5 years
@JayElwes If the Queen is ever "impacted" because of Brexit, this will help her.
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5 years
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 months
sigh
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
3 years
@levim195 @RussellOkung Yeah, the natural immunity to AIDS, Polio and Smallpox is far better than the vaccines developed. Yeah.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
3 years
@frank_really Very sorry to hear this, and it is clear you are not alone in wanting and being about to leave. Our loss, definitely. The country is in an awful place.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
3 years
(not that anyone cares but SK did actually write this, basically in his diaries, if you take out the words "I miss" not that anyone cares)
@KimKierkegaard
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4 years
I miss going to parties where I am its life and soul, witticisms streaming from my lips, everyone laughing and admiring me, then going home and wanting to shoot myself
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@Nick_Wellings
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1 month
I lost my temper after this latest barrage, I basically said stop. It's hard to say that, because they care.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
3 years
@brianrose4mayor Such naked fragility behind so much performative hyper-"masculine" nonsense. Cringe-factor 10.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
5 years
@JohnAdebiyi @sturdyAlex Hi, "a few technical rule breaches" is know in English as: "breaking the law". You're welcome.
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@Nick_Wellings
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7 months
Literally enraging.
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 years
@subaru555 @DeItaone What next? "Transitory" nuclear war?
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@Nick_Wellings
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7 months
@shedranktheturp Also "all your tests are normal" so maybe you're just making it up. CD what? No, we don't test for that.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
6 months
My friend is in Paris, and sent me a picture from a Starbucks. !
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@Nick_Wellings
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9 months
@fesshole Standing you have to fight your own clenched buttocks, surely?
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 years
@BarbaraEichner @kakape Yes, one would hope. I also think, as a facile comment, the threat of disfigurement or rather, scarring, will cause people to take it more seriously than CoV.
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 months
@fesshole Timely wimely for a ickle bitty witty of breakily uppilly wuppily
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@Nick_Wellings
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10 months
She said it's not clinically significant, basically don't worry about it. Ok! 8 times higher than normal but ok!
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
9 months
Evidently my my usual carer has decided I am faking it/not trying enough, as she has started no longer helping me as much with things. Even said to my mum "I think he can be doing more than what he is". Which is making me worse. Do t have energy to confront her really.
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 years
I'm 100 years late to the party, but it was very very very funny.
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@Nick_Wellings
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12 days
Serious question, what do "normal people" have as heart rate when standing? And waking? I've seen chydorina DrT say she tries to stay under 80 when walking....I'm 83 after eating dinner, up to 100 standing up at least.
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5 months
@fesshole I saw about nurses talking to the deceased, washing them, during pandemic doc. Quite touching really, respectful.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
6 years
@theweeflea @GordonM77073111 @sizjam68 @CarolineLucas May I draw your attention to WTO tarrifs? And the length of time it takes to negotiate trade treaties? And to UKs lack of negotiators?
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 months
@radigancarter "emotional support water bottles" is probably the great thing I've read on here
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@Nick_Wellings
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10 months
"we wouldn't use blood thinners for that, that's just for clots or cardiac stuff. I wouldn't go looking for problems, you've got enough on your plate already" *screaming internally* Outwardly: But it's a main factor in my ME!! Anyway they won't and can't help What a situation.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
10 months
But I can't use my muscles properly, my lactate levels are high indicating metabolic dysfunction. "You've had all the blood tests we can do, we can't do anymore" Someone recommend blood thinners perhaps as oxygen isn't being uptaken in my cells properly
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
5 years
*ROH new season page blurb. "Click link to see new shows!" *ROH main page* Explore our new season! *clicking link* "Welcome back to our terrible new useless listing tool which makes finding anything about any production or date basically impossible!"
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@Nick_Wellings
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5 years
@JoseDenning @Rachamuffin "I am so sorry but I don't realise how ignorant I am. *Nostalgic bleating about a war I wasn't involved in*"
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@Nick_Wellings
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6 years
@mikesmlea @toryboypierce This is breathtakingly, hilariously dense.
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@Nick_Wellings
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10 months
@whitecarz @Peston @OBR_UK "what do we want?" Nice things! "When do we want them?" Never, because we keep voting for a Government who says austerity is best, and most people believe it.
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 years
@LanceForman @JuliaHB1 @BorisJohnson Luckily you didn't need to endure shelling or take an AK 47 onto the streets for that one, Lance. Just had to tick a wee little box.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
1 year
@deelomas Please write to Mogg when you are able. They know exactly what they are doing. Ask if his Nanny would enjoy the same experience!
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 months
ALSO if it's "effort perception" why do I and others look at a task and thing "yeah, should be OK" and do it and then get ill/PEM after?
@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
2 months
If it's just "effort perception" why did I get worse and worse, trying to live normally despite a mild ME diagnosis, until my whole world, formerly full, vibrant and fulfilling, shrunk to become one room, one bed?
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27 days
Just in the past week I've seen stories from/about separate women in 3 countries, all with either bad ME/LC, being abused and neglected in hospitals. This has to stop!!
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
10 months
It was hard to convey the "get shunted" attitude and utter "stop bothering me" tone in my 2 minute phone call. But anyway, I don't know why I expected any insight or help at all. Hilarious in a way.
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@Nick_Wellings
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5 years
@TomiLahren No compassion? No surprise.
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@Nick_Wellings
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5 years
@Telegraph "the Remainer enemy"? These are people. These are people who drive buses, teach your children, serve in restaurants, help businesses stay on their feet. Disgusting, divisive, language.
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
5 months
If you have ME or CFS, could you reply saying how many supplements you take a day? (Eg, 10, 15, 4, none). just the number/count is ok! Or even a photo! I keep meaning to take one of my morning pills but my phone is always off.
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 years
@acanopyofstars @OnlyEnnui Apparently a lot of it is in our minds - because yes, we love living this way 😊
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@Nick_Wellings
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3 years
@hustlersconvent @jamiesusskind I quite agree. The move from rather unassuming and agreeable Fairy cakes to horrendous Cupcakes has been lamentable.
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@Nick_Wellings
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2 years
@ChrisCEOHopson All I can say is, thank you for what you are doing.
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5 years
@DavidGauke Sorry to hear this. You showed principles and conscience. Good on you.
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2 months
This guy is totally one of those "let me interrupt your experience with my confidence " bros isn't he. Oxford blahblah thinks everything is under his purview, as philosophical whimsy.
@findboundary
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@GeorgeMonbiot @ThosVarley Well done for completely misunderstanding “psychosomatic” as a designation and continuing to propagate a harmful myth! Something psychological is not unreal, nor is it stigmatising in the mind of anyone except the patients.
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@Nick_Wellings
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5 years
@MartinDaubney @brexitparty_uk I'm appalled at this sheer excess of...democracy....?
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10 months
@guardian Hey look, known discredited academic promulgating her known discredited "research" yet again.
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3 years
@PhilipProudfoot @respeak_uk Thank goodness for cholera, instead of free broadband.
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@Nick_Wellings
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1 year
PIP decision received. I got what I hoped, but with some creative scoring from the assessor. Apparently I can make a meal with supervision! Well, I am not complaining too much, I got there in the end.
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Nick Wellings
2 years
Obligatory "this tweet has done well" stuff: Please get boosted, or vaccinated if you have not. No-one who helps you will judge you. Masks help too. Stay safe, all.
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@Nick_Wellings
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11 months
brb guys, gonna stick my toothbrush in my ear
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5 years
@jude_bowers We needed convoys from the USA to feed us in WW2, Judy. At one point we were a week from having no food for the country, and Churchill was despairing. But sure, let's all pretend WW2 was lots of fun and that your insane Brexit will be too
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@Nick_Wellings
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1 year
Not with a bang: being retired on ill health grounds today, 17 years, one month, 27 days and about 6 hours after being with my company. Not cause to celebrate really.
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4 years
@JoePoutous @RosaGoldensohn @jbouie "help I can't feed my kids" *Cop shoots kids* JOB DONE MA'AM
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8 months
@tessfalor Most recent I had was "stop looking for problems, you've got enough on your plate already" Ok thanks doc
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
2 months
Woke up quite unwell, and the frustrating thing is I don't know why. Didn't do anything different really yesterday. Stupid ME.
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@Nick_Wellings
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7 years
One of my friends is a college professor. This is the handwriting of one of his students. #thereishope
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@Nick_Wellings
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5 years
@CandaerReynolds @jude_bowers Sterner stuff = blind obstinacy and immunity to facts. But here's a little flag for you to wave. Enjoy! 🇬🇧
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My work week went from 5 days to three to two to three and then none, medically retired . Had to use grocery delivery service. Then had to ask them to take to my door. Then I to my flat. Then too weak to put away. Then too weak to open Then to weak to cook safely 10/n
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@Nick_Wellings
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6 years
Shout-out to the dude next to me (Lohengrin, Bayreuth) who fell asleep in act I, left 10 mins into in Act II, then came back for Act III and fell asleep who even so applauded feverishly despite seeing in my estimation only about 4% of the entire evening without being asleep.
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@Nick_Wellings
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5 months
@cherylbenson Delete your post. This is foul.
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5 months
@10DowningStreet I'm sure UK workers will fill the gaps, yeah
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@Nick_Wellings
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11 months
@tenacious_mumma Last year I was so unwell that I couldn't tolerate people speaking to me, I'd cry very easily. It was not psychological, my brain was on fire. Docs need to understand it. So sad to read this.
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For those who do not have ME or LC, I will try to portray how it feels at its worst. Other pwMELC can also help if you want . Imagine you have the worst hangover ever. Light hurts. Noise hurts. Voices hurt. Talking hurts. Your brain can't cope. You need calm, or no talking 1/n
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CW: distressing We want you to meet Carla #SaveCarlasLife #ExposeMENow With family's permission we're sharing some videos of her experience in West Middlesex hospital. This first video is what happens when she is exposed to bright light. Staff won't cover the door window.
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3 years
Other supposedly mature democratic nations in Europe do stuff like this right, eg Germany, Belgium or Spain?
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5 years
@samwolfson What a terrible country we have become.
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4 years
@MarkPayne666 Yeah, bang on! 45k dead are fakely dead!
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@Nick_Wellings
Nick Wellings
5 years
If anyone has any clear, digestible, summarised info about the ROH season (ballet and/or opera) in a format that is readable and usable and browseable, I'd be greatly interested. Title, dates, cast. That's all I ask for.
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