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@HolyFoolAbroad

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I'm joining the Battle of the Sexes on the side of the Sexes

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@hollowearthterf Unless he's making some major sacrifice, like working a job he hates that makes a lot of money while she pursues a passion... If they're both working the same amount of hours, there's no reason more domestic work should fall on her

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My fundamental thesis for positive masculinity in the 2020s is to be the gender that insists on constructive, real-world cooperation, as opposed to destructive criticism and theory. We can be the ecological gender, the one that understands that men and women are inextricably

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Holy hell the gender discourse space is so thick with wounding. You can smell the unhealed trauma on every post like whiskey on its breath

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I come in peace. I didn't bring artillery. But I am begging you all, with tears in my eyes, please: Grow the fuck up. Learn to live in the real world. The people who love you are suffering

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@VividVoid_

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The Last Psychiatrist is wrong, people still believe in love. They just accurately perceive that it will make their lives more stable, conservative and boring - more real - so they shun it in favor of the eternally fascinating image of the possible self

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Every time I'm composing a tweet on this account my blood gets hot, like just before a wrestling match It's going to take less than a week of genderpoasting to undo 10 years of meditation practice, I can feel it

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The reason no one can define what a woman is anymore is because we erroneously believe in a femininity that can exist apart from relationship to masculinity The point of pondering the sound of one hand clapping is to realize you need two hands to make a sound

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Authoritarianism fundamentally stems from an inability to tolerate the distress and risk of being out of control Needing to control a woman with fear or a man with shame is literally a skill issue, a sign of a low quality character or a slow learner

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Women don't need to be obedient to men. We can actually eschew the entire dominance and submission paradigm. The hitch is this requires total self-mastery and extreme responsibility from both men & women. Otherwise we go straight back down into the ancient behavioral muck.

ᴍᴇᴅ ɢᴏʟᴅ 🐒

@MedGold_

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When Pearl says “women should be obedient to men” she excludes a critical detail that most honest women will admit — a woman will only place her total trust in a man she respects. Becoming a man worthy of authority is required. This selective omission is the crux of her grift.

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Fair warning: I'm going to train my guns on antihuman feminism a lot at first because that's where the backlog of emotions is at But the ultimate goal is to chart a positive vision for masculinity in the 2020s Scatter white pills across this great land like Johnny Appleseed

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You can't practice hating men into your bones for 10+ years and not end up hating your sons. All spiritual practice is embodied, for good or for evil. It took feminist women a long time to accumulate this much prejudice and reflexive contempt, and it's going to take them a long

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People are dunking on this but 2/3 of abused children are victimized by their mothers so anything that provides a vent for female rage is a welcome development

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@USATODAY

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Women are signing up for rage rituals as a way to release suppressed emotions and reconnect with themselves.

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Most of the pain I have in my life is from loving avoidant women Incredibly hard to keep a family together with ppl who are checked out, neglecting basic relationship rituals and functions, ignoring bids for connection, noses buried in their phones or in anxious busywork for

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@hollowearthterf

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All of this is wrong, there’s only one thing to do with an avoidant man and that’s dump him

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I think 90% of my angst about women would evaporate if I stopped dating artists

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The thing about the domination paradigm is that it's so much fun in ritual constraints, but totally destructive and unsustainable outside of them. Like sure babe, if all you want to do is slap me around and tell me what to do, go get your heels and I'll meet you in the bedroom.

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Somewhere out there, beyond the dick-brained hysteria of the manosphere and the sociopathic hypocrisy of liberal feminism, there is a gender discourse. I'll meet you there.

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Actually, I was wrong. Nothing she did was manipulative, I missed the part where she detailed their conversation. She was just having ambivalent feelings about her own boundaries, which is about the most natural thing in the world Props to @orgone1 for the better read

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The woman's behavior is manipulative and risky but pretty tame The broader issue is the people losing their minds as though this is something fundamental to women's nature and not a part of this person's personal growth The taboo on knowing oneself remains as strong as ever

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@hollowearthterf Curiosity is vulnerable, humility even moreso

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Please don't take it personally if I follow and unfollow liberally, I'm going to curate the feed for this account to be maximally useful for gender takes. Not following doesn't mean I don't love you

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The woman's behavior is manipulative and risky but pretty tame The broader issue is the people losing their minds as though this is something fundamental to women's nature and not a part of this person's personal growth The taboo on knowing oneself remains as strong as ever

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This should be mandatory viewing for all boys on the brink of puberty. Bookmarking it for when my children are old enough.

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2 days in the trenches of the gender wars and so far my read is that Kegan stage 3 masculinity and stage 4 femininity are essentially hyperweaponized, spirit-devouring paranoid constructs

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No one is fucking because everything is sexualized The imagination is the true sex organ and there's no room for it to operate in the hyperspectacle

🇬🇧 IM 🇬🇧

@TellYourSonThis

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In traditional societies most people were getting laid, but you didn’t see sex everywhere. In our contemporary society a lot of people aren’t getting laid, but you see sex everywhere. It’s like some weird inverted hellscape where everything is sexualised, but no one is fucking.

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The thing is, I wonder if some women that I've loved secretly resent me for insisting that they take responsibility for their own actions, and not taking it from them by overpowering them. I'm demonstrably single because I find interpersonal control intolerable

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There is no women's liberation that makes sense that doesn't result in a reunification with men, with a renewed relationship There's nothing wrong with taking a machine apart to understand how it works but if you don't put it back together, all you have is broken junk

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An added caveat is to be very careful about dating a woman who used to loudly or gleefully hate men, on social media or otherwise People need room to change their minds, but habits die hard and if she is just adrift on social currents, her character may be weak in other ways

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@yashkaf

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this is great advice, and the actionable part of it is: don't date in communities where women dislike men (and vice versa) liking vs hating men is driven by group cultural and political values, women who like men cluster together and you need to be dating in that cluster

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The funniest thing about anti-woke guys is that they're fighting women and minorities tooth and nail for control of the rat race Like bro just drop the fuck out. Let them have it. It'll be the funniest fucking thing ever when they realize what they won

Chris Brunet

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. @UBC is hiring a professor of Electrical and Computer Engineering ''The selection will be restricted to: people with disabilities, Indigenous peoples, racialized people, women, and people from minoritized gender identity groups.''

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But I just don't think women are children and I don't think that loving them means putting myself in some kind of parental role. I can have my personal boundaries and I can be persuasive and cultivate moral authority by setting a good example. But this is influence not control

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*sobbing* but doctor, I'm Camille Paglia

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I have wrestled a lot on this road trip with whether I will end up single in the long run, and I think I am willing to hold out for a very special person who does not control and genuinely does not want to be controlled, and makes self-sovereignty a matter of personal integrity

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Comments like this strike at a secret fear of mine. I earnestly believe that men and women should not control one another or dominate each other (outside of the bedroom anyway). But I am 41 and single. I have left women multiple times for failing to control themselves.

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I'm sure I know the answer that women would give me with their conscious minds but femininity was defined by bondage for so many generations that perhaps it lives deeper in the psyche than women can consciously access at this point in history. This obviously expresses sexually

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Could I have, in those relationships, asserted dominance and outmanipulated them and maneuvered them into a position of submission? Yes, trivially. But the thought of doing that to someone who is free is grievous and repulsive

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The only true mastery is self-mastery and this is something I'm willing to hold fast to even if it means I spend the rest of my life alone Better dead than a slave, better dead than a slaver

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I, of course, only fight for Love

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Tried to switch my bio to "Professional" but they didn't have a category for male hysteric

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I brought a bag of pork rinds to my dad's grave on the one year anniversary of his death, because he loved them It's not about the objects, it's about continuing to love the dead the way you did when they were alive. You feed them. You carry them forward in your heart

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Everyone has seen the Azov McDonald's funeral by now. It's something I really don't get. I've seen hundreds of photos and videos of Ukrainians doing this stuff - placing snickers bars, coke cans, candy, etc in or on graves. What does it mean? I've genuinely never seen that before

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Standing in front of this Korean vase at the Art Institute of Chicago gave me a feeling that was almost identical to looking at a beautiful, naked woman

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@bradstradamus The damage done by allowing hate in your soul is not theoretical

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I don't want to be political on main but coming back to Cali has highlighted for me how tragic progressive governance has been Basically the healthiest, safest places in the country are liberal-not-progressive cities in the South & Southwest Might be time to check out Colorado

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This is something I see all across the gender discourse space, this total idiotic inability to incentivize what you want to see. Nobody has a positive vision for how the sexes should relate to each other. It's all just pure hate, pure shitting on everything

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Human women don't eat their mates or their children, they eat old men. Destructive swarms of female critics are a cyclic event; they descend on fetid, stale ideological orders, deplete its surpluses, and cover everything in corrosive feminine miasma until it becomes utterly

sṫǔttsiiso’ōḱǎasim

@MrHWM

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the absolute nadir of nadirs. the people who pushed this way of seeing and wrote these pieces should have their names put on a massive wall in DC so we can commemorate them as the people who helped destroy american literature.

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If the system seems patriarchal it is because it refuses to acknowledge the full extent of women's agency, and reckon with the obvious fact of female self-sovereignty. We are not mature enough as a culture to admit that women are fully formed human beings.

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"sexual norms today skirt around one obvious, horrifying fact: women like being sex objects. That eighteen year old on OnlyFans? She’s not motivated by entrepreneurial drive, economic desperation, patriarchal socialization, or any such external factor we may want to point to."

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@hatehowihad2 - man hating - not taking accountability for your actions - equality when it benefits you, tapping out when it gets hard - cruelty of any kind - regurgitating political slogans - caring more about what other people think of you than your relationship - double standards

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I would say I'm surprised but people have been stewing in open resentment for 15 years now, anti-semitism is a logical extension of contemporary grievance politics It's ironic it's coming from the "Nazi punching" crowd, but again not surprising. Hoffer stays winning

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Zoomers are just casually anti semitic now, it’s wild

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I have zero love for the right but I am so, so angry at the contemporary left The pendulum swings on

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I loved New York but as much as the imperial part of me felt right at home, it's still too much ego concentrated in one place. Probably in my heart of hearts I'm looking for somewhere like Portland that wasn't run completely into the ground by ideological saboteurs

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@JoshuAnansi I have done a lot of this anger enactment myself and I can assure you it has greatly reduced the volume of anger I feel and given me much greater control

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Let's begin.

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@duncanreyburn From what I can tell in the video, there is an expression of rage and then a cathartic connection with the emotional wound, which I see in the crying, and then there is a re-regulation of the nervous system via physical embrace I'm just seeing standard gestalt therapy here

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@ArkuAmore This is what I mean, it was manipulative to get narcissistic supply, but the entire frame of the video is her realizing that her behavior is the problem. When people make realizations like this we should applaud them for gaining wisdom

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@duncanreyburn Like, absent the catharsis, you're absolutely right that this would just be a rehearsal, no better than actually yelling at their husbands or kids etc But the embodied enactment of the catharsis actually gives it a shot to heal the nervous system

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@eurydicelives I'm curious about your experience with this In my experience, unhealthy attachment stays firm until there's a crisis and the person overcomes it with learned secure behaviors. I've never seen someone grow out of it simply by attaching to a secure environment, they really have

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@powellcode It's gonna get hot as hell around here

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Actually, I was wrong. Nothing she did was manipulative, I missed the part where she detailed their conversation. She was just having ambivalent feelings about her own boundaries, which is about the most natural thing in the world Props to @orgone1 for the better read

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@OInscendence Unfortunately, it's impossible to convince someone until they've experienced it for themselves

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@nekyias Could be but I read an idealized connection with a hypothetical daughter

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@JoshuAnansi You don't have to live like this

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@MaryZoso Right, because she's very clear that it's not what she wanted, what she wanted was the ego boost.

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A lot of Europeans liking this tweet 👀

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@OntolMQ It's one thing for individual men and women to have conflict over incompatible needs But the sexes are not monolithic classes of people with separate material needs, we are ecologically interdependent

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@a_k_a_billy 🫀 hell yeah

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@sympractical No, and that's one of the biggest current problems we have culturally Femininity is shattered

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@JoshuAnansi I would say that anger about betrayal dynamics used to be a much bigger deal to me before I was able to work it out and get to the hurt underneath It's still a big deal but I can control myself now

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@bradstradamus Yes, stage 4 is identity politics now

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@lumpfished 🫀 I'm such a sucker for you all

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@OntolMQ I want to destroy the frame of men versus women

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@JoshuAnansi I would say the pain that I experience subjectively about these things is much lower the more I control my responses and deal with them skillfully

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@bradstradamus @MiguelMontevist @VividVoid_ Silly westerners

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@OntolMQ Every women's liberation movement in history has achieved its goals, when it has, with 55% of women and 45% of men supporting it. There has never been a group called women with a separate agenda from a group called men. That's pure fiction

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@FractalAuth I know several people who have moved to Boulder & Denver

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@bradstradamus @VividVoid_ I will always and everywhere follow rfh, nobody loves men more than she does I hadn't considered El Blackpill yet, thanks for the rec

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@FreehaINXS This is premium

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@powellcode

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@duncanreyburn From what I can tell in the video, there is an expression of rage and then a cathartic connection with the emotional wound, which I see in the crying, and then there is a re-regulation of the nervous system via physical embrace I'm just seeing standard gestalt therapy here

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@coladaclan @MaryZoso If you're ever on the West Coast, let's grab a picnic basket and a couple of baseball bats and go beat the shit out of a forest somewhere

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@JoshuAnansi I feel that

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@AgotaDubi More than other people, they tend to be neurotic and entitled

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@BecomingCritter There isn't

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@sailaunderscore She's unironically one of the all time greats

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@hollowearthterf I had you figured for a small dog person

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@duncanreyburn I agree with you, trying to do this alone would be a disaster for most people. Also, many women mental health professionals are hopelessly ideologically captured and could be introducing new neuroses on the back end. But I'm hopeful nonetheless

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@himbodhisattva I'm totally okay with this as long as it's explicit and negotiated as such

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@FreehaINXS This is the first time I'm reading about it Can you recommend any good trailheads?

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@sympractical Not sure how to go about it yet, but probably

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