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@thesocialhijabi

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6:108 | future SRH educator and researcher | not a radfem, not a tradwife, but a secret third thing | CW: Regular Show, TDI (2023), Derry Girls

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@thesocialhijabi
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Thread Time! So the best three pieces of advice I can give are: 1: cold emailing 2: connecting with people 3: working with what you have I’ll elaborate further 👇🏾
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Get a government job (I'm not kidding)
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Idc, she's not a "bad mom", she's a terrible mother. The girl is 3
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I'd actually never speak to them again if someone did this to me. Imagine trusting someone enough to eat their food, only for them to completely violate your boundaries. Gross
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@sugarplum4812 Not only that, he's teaching their boys that doing things like this is okay and "fun", it's nauseating
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It's honestly comparable to bleaching your child's skin at a young age because you don't want them to get bullied. Do you hear how insane that sounds?? Also, what 3 year old is really cognizant of a freaking unibrow??
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@thesocialhijabi
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The work hours are reasonable, hella benefits, remote if you're lucky, it's a lazy girl's dream
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"What could we have done?" This, duh
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T£RR¥ M@R¥
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my head is actually a bit dizzy?
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@thesocialhijabi
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Reminds me of this AITH post, people really feel entitles to do things like this, and for what? To prove something?
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@aliyahInterlude It's a crime how no one said Phineas and Ferb had a top 5 discography
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@thesocialhijabi
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As a muslim, saying this in response to a child being killed for not wearing hijab is reprehensible
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@sarahtonin98 Absolutely, and I'm taking the kids bc there's no way in hell you're raising them like this
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No, seriously, something is in the water this year
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May Allah hold you accountable for every letter you tweet, and for every person that may be harmed by this, may He make you feel their pain
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@thesocialhijabi
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1 year
One of my moots said "if laws are the only thing preventing you from assault, you're a horrible person" and it makes sense after reading this
@silkscythe
🍉زارا
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dear muslim women: do NOT marry men before asking them if they understand what marital rape is.
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Being a woman isn't fun sometimes
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A little educational face: bleaching is reversible if not done for an extended period of time (I'm talking months) and I've also been bullied when I was younger, so I'm not talking out of nowhere. The mother was wrong for this, that's all
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@thesocialhijabi
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@zainab_essani The way you get paid to do the bare minimum 😭😭🔥
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If I'm out running errands, and I seek a masjid to pray so I don't miss salah, and they don't have a women's section, I make a special dua for them to be as accountable as me for my missed salah
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We need to do a better job gatekeeping terms among Muslims, because that is NOT what that term is used for
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How the hell are PCOS and endometriosis not considered disabilities?? They're literally chronic illnesses and can make someone completely bedridden. I can't believe how rigged the system is against women sometimes
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@thesocialhijabi
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Feminists bringing up what Hamas is doing to Israeli women, despise the IDF doing much worse to Palestinian women for decades on end will always reek of hypocrisy to me
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All the people who are speaking so repulsively about the pregnant girl is making me realize the importance and significance of Prophet Isa (as) speaking in infancy. If it were up to these people, they would punish Maryam (as) before the first word was uttered.
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@thesocialhijabi
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So... do we want Palestine to be free or is it now conditional?
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Motaz Azaiza: -Shared a clip of people cursing at Hamas & blaming them for leaving their homes. -Shared a clip of a man saying he does not want the dissolving of Israel & wants to coexist with it. The fact that Bassem Yousef recommended him should’ve told you enough of his ilk.
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@thesocialhijabi
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I see why people say marrying someone who at least respects your culture is extremely important, because this is a custom in West African culture, usually during any kind of celebration (especially weddings)
@dhillou_sahab
dhillou sahab
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if my husband ever embarrassed me like this i would slap the SHIT out of him like what the fuck is this🧍‍♀️why do we make beautiful women an object to throw money at. she’s ur wife. have some respect. what the hell is this it’s so disturbing 🤢
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Not only has that word been used to degrade women through their spouses, it's also incorrectly used (when looking at it through a historic lens). It was a term used for men who would literally prostitute their family to other men, it is not a casual term
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It's kinda funny seeing people being bullies when they're complaining about... bullies? I'm confused, but not surprised
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This gives me an extremely uncomfortable feeling, but I can't put my finger on as so why 🤔
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@lovkiIIz I'm so mad, my will to build solidarity is crumbling 😭😭
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Calling someone a dayooth is basically telling them that their women are disrespecting them, and some men will use that as a reason to honor **** said women. Please don't speak as if it's a good thing this word is a part of our lexicon. It's not
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1: Since most gov information is public, look for the contact info for managers/directors you’d want to work for. Accessing this info will differ from country to country, but I’m sure you can Google it. Make sure you’re sending a professional introduction...
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@thesocialhijabi
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TAKBIR
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Everyone on the Day of Judgement:
@_Nicksy
NICKSY
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Watching your own misbehaviour on the big screen must feel CRAZY
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It sucks to see abaya brands still doing this in 2023
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To say there's no excuses in missing salah (which is true) only to turn around and prevent women from praying is a cruel joke, and Allah sees all that you do
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@theesudani @igajeeso He roller skates too! I'm officially a fan 😂
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1. PCOS is a reproductive disorder and is more related to reproductive health than sexual health 2. You can still have kids, it's just a little harder 3. It has absolutely nothing to do with who you slept with, it's not an STI (I have a hypothesis that it's genetic)
@reaschwarz
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earlier this week, i was diagnosed with PCOS and told that I’ll never bare children. i’ve never been so sad. ladies, take care of your sexual health/hygiene. be aware of who you share your body with.
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@FinesseEness Nah, he's terrifying
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It reminded me of this vid I saw a while back, almost cried tbh
@Alhamdhulillaah
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This brother who has a hearing impairment is 'reciting' Sūrah al-Fātiḥah in salah using sign language. Although his speech and hearing may be restricted, he is still able to communicate with and worship Allāh.
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It's a long read, but it really does highlight the additional struggles black Muslims face when it comes to hijab and our hair, I'm so happy seeing this (as sad as it is) because it reminds me that no one is alone in their struggles
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Okay
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@hijabisalvaje DO IT! I look at how much public health nurses get paid and it's amazing 🔥🔥🔥
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10 months
I'll make a mini-thread on making it easier on yourself to get into government, in the meantime, if you're in the states, check this guy out (I'll post more of his tweets as I find them)
@Frediculous
That Fred Character
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Having a good federal government job is good for your mental health period and most days can feel like a mental health day. If this sounds like a good option for your mental well being, check out what’s available on usajobs right now 🔑
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I really think this is what Muslims think university is like
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The people insinuating that they're gay are weird af. The people mad at how Muslims can't celebrate other holidays are weird af. Just let people be nice to each other, damn
@parhlozaynab
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Best thing I saw on TikTok today
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@thesocialhijabi
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There's also the fact that this whole tiktok is contributing to the "making muslim women invisible" phenomenon I'm noticing online. If some women want to be acknowledged as someone's wife, there's no sin in that (don't get me started on how it relates to the second wife stuff)
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He literally said "if it's not haram to take advantage of her, then I'll do it", and if someone can't see how sick and twisted that is, then I don't know what to tell you. Maybe get therapy or ruqya done
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May Allah bless my mother, who would take me and my siblings to the masjid in the last 10 days of Ramadan to perform ihtikaf in my childhood, I really do pity op for her words
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@thesocialhijabi
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People when they realize culture is something that exists alongside religion:
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@HalalNation_
Halal Nation
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May Allah guide this ummah 🥀
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@nnnnnnxox They really showed their ways and now that they're having to backtrack, it's even worse. Allah really humiliates those who wrong his creation
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"Bold of you" ikdr, it's just so disappointing thinking "yeah, all muslim women are my sisters" when the sentiment isn't reciprocated 😕
@kimkimdaya
kudus pr manager 🇬🇭🇨🇮
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this is crazy 😵‍💫
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People can raise their children with religion (and should imo), but using it as an excuse to harm others is pathetic. Same with defending those exact people
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Why do people keep thinking Muslims are gullible, and why are we so hellbent on proving them right?
@MaoistGorilla
Genghis Kanye 🦍☀️
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The white boy who says inshallah
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I shall be updating this list on a regular basis, I wonder how it's gonna look by the end of the year
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Imagine coming home from a hard day of working, and your husband is home (he finished work 4 hours earlier than you) and the bed isn't made and is filled with laundry from the morning, I almost screamed like never before
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Not only is fitrah irrelevant in this instance, having children is something that isn't required in the deen. Telling people to have children for fear of dying alone is not a good reason for having kids
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Please and thanks
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I got accepted into grad school!!!
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I got rejected for grad school!!!
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All of that being said, we Muslims need to do a better job educating the general population on certain things, hopefully this does just that 👍🏾
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As a women, holding onto the deen doesn't just feel like holding a burning piece of coal. It feels like you're keeping your hand in the fire while people are laughing at you and calling you a fool for doing so, both Muslims and non-Muslims alike
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Monogamy being an "unrealistic expectation" is so funny to me (there were people at the time of the Prophet saw who also expected monogamy and got it lolz)
@keemoHanzi
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You girls have unrealistic expectations
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@AnimationNoCont I thought he was just backing up 😭
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Imagine if the Prophet saw refused to speak to women out of "respect"? You guys are so dumb
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Why is her sharing her experiences with harassment worse than the harassment itself?
@notantheaaa
Anthea 🤍
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Men pls father your daughters so they don't feel the need to post any and every dm they get. Idc what your response to the dm is, the issue is your response. Block them & have some respect for yourself.
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@thatbunnygirI Aside from not having a prayer mat, having to do that rather than simply going to a musallah is wild
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@Gorillazoey101 @haaniyah_ It's a quality show tho, can't wait to see him get beat up again next week
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I'm not American, but it's because y'all don't have prayer spaces for women lol
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I don't know why I have to spell it out, but converting because you want a submissive wife (or whatever the heck) is not the same as converting because you see islam to be true and you want to worship God in the best way possible. They. Are. Not. The. Same.
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the kind of position you’re looking for and attach your resume/CV. I promise cold emailing works, even when I wasn’t getting hired, the people I emailed would be more than willing to pass my info along to their colleagues. Yeah, you have to be patient, but it is what it is
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@lovkiIIz Ugh, of course they do, I'm glad I believe in a just God bc there's no way they won't face some kind of reprimand in the afterlife
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The thing I love most about Tahajjud and making dua is that when your prayers get accepted, it makes you want to pray for even more. Imagine having a very specific dua answered. You feel like you can pray for everything and anything, it's a wonderful experience
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Like, it got so bad they even had to make a vid about it, can't you people be normal?
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And people say "false" allegations of SA ruins men's lives, funny
@IlmFeed
ilmfeed
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Liverpool FC's all-time top goal scorer Ian Rush listens to Surah Al Fatiha in #Qatar . Recitation by: . @FatihSeferagic
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Right, because hijab is comparable to foot binding, okay
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This goes for everyone who believes in this, I pray the same for you
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I'm not gonna say "omg, I knew it, how could girls fall for that, you chose vanity over salah" because that's annoying and harsh. I will say that if you really really wanna wear nice nails while being able to pray, please get press-ons, you can take them off to preform wudhu 💖
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I genuinely need you all to sit down, keep quiet and pray your salah before coming on here and spewing ignorance
@_aribaee
arii🇵🇸
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yk if you get divorced is half your deen incomplete again?
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Imagine dressing modestly, and someone uses your pic in this compilation to tell you you're "wrong", my skin is crawling
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The level of fitnah this will cause in teenage girls is astounding
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Maybe because we want to appreciate the world Allah has created for us? Please be serious
@burrata__boy
The Jizya Collector
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Who psyoped women into being obssessed with excessive traveling and "seeing the world". It's so empty and purposeless, yet so many think it constitutes and attractive personality trait.
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I wonder if the Muslims accusing other Muslims of inciting violence against a marginalized group are gonna retract their tweets, now that we know the suspect is actually Christian
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I learned other people's fasting (or lack thereof) really wasn't my business at a healthy age, inshallah we all get to that point
@ramadramaaa
rama
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when I meet muslims that don’t fast Ramadan it actually scares me
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If someone truly insists on being a housewife, the best advice I've heard is to request a monthly allowance, something only you have access to and can spend freely. Just because you're not working in society doesn't mean you don't deserve to be compensated for your labor
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It's reminding me of this hadith where there were some Africans in the Prophet's saw mosque celebrating Eid, and he was celebrating with them 💖
@SAMIAFIASCO
Cayenne y Lennox
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Eid in New Orleans ❤️
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Nah, these muslim men on these apps scare the living daylights outta me, the things I've read are unmatched to anything
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This being the guy wanting to start an abaya business is killing me loooooool
@ayeshanxxr
a♡
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all that and then he deleted the tweet☠️☠️
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2: If you already know someone who works in government (either online or in-person), talk to them about their experiences! Ask them how they got their job and the steps they took to get there.
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I was talking to my mom about moving for grad school, and she said "what if your [future] husband says you have to stay here?" I told her, "what kind of man would try to deny me something I've been praying for for over two years?" It warmed my heart when she understood
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Mashallah allahuma barik!! Our tiktok sheikh and ally got married!!
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That's shaytan levels of evil, yikes
@s_ahmed179
Samira🫶
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I find it funny how I told girls not to post themselves on Twitter, now there’s all these men wanking to your photos and tweeting about it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I'm sorry, but they'll be getting my money 😭
@ablasalma
Salma
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“FI RAMADAN??!” @VictoriasSecret
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3: I saw a tweet asking about gov positions that don’t require a degree, and they definitely exist! I know they’re more on the admin side, and the pay is a little less, but the job stability and benefits are still there.
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@Gorillazoey101 @haaniyah_ Every. Single. Time. Even by his own dad 😂
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Before I head off to bed, I think we need to apply this ayat more in our lives 💖
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z (fka khalil) is not struggling anymore
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Do you ever think about how many people have died since the Prophet's time? How they had family and friends pray for them, but with every turn of the century, they were forgotten? How their graves are filled with silence because no one prays for them anymore?
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z (fka khalil) is not struggling anymore
2 years
Pretty straightforward tbh
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z (fka khalil) is not struggling anymore
1 year
Finding and moving to a one-bedroom apartment on the other side of the country as an unmarried Muslim woman sounds like a good idea the more I think about it
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z (fka khalil) is not struggling anymore
7 months
That's so funny, he thinks we're jealous of him
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Max Meyer
7 months
The other reason so many Muslim girls are bitter is that white guys like me can speak *much* better Arabic than they do. Orientalism is a powerful force
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z (fka khalil) is not struggling anymore
2 years
Dawah is not debating non-Muslims, nor is it takfiring other Muslims. It's adab, akhlaq and just basic decency. I don't know why that's so hard to understand.
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