My friend who lost her husband remarried yesterday and her former in-laws attended the wedding and are also travelling with us for the other ceremonies.
They became like her parents after their son passed and encouraged her to start dating again.
This really warms my heart.
Someone on Tiktok talked about how peaceful your life is when your friends are dating/married to good men,nobody is calling you to cry,she’s really happy etc.
Real shit!!!!
In my next life I want to be from a small unproblematic country like the Maldives.Just dey sell my fish and coconut water dey go.
Wahala yin ti poju ni ilu yi
From the Endsars time I knew that older Nigerians do not care about what we face.They only care about their kids,every other person’s child is a hooligan
This is what I struggle with,not unforgiveness.
I can’t understand why I was good to you and you were DELIBERATELY wicked to me.
I’m never able to get past it
Femi Otedola is my favorite “genre” of billionaire.Nothing consign baba with talks and interviews and aspire to perspire. When you see videos of his enjoyment if you like don’t hustle
A wife should be a soft spot for her husband to come home to, a place to find peace.
Nagging, shouting, complaining and criticizing is wasted energy and achieve nothing but driving him away from home.
Verily it's only a woman who can make her home either heaven or a graveyard.
Dating as a 30+ career oriented person is the hardest thing I’ve had to do in my entire life.
Imagine work life kicking your ass and hoping to turn to your lover for solace but he has read somewhere in Robert Greene’s 38 laws of afflictions that withdrawing affection from time
I can never forget someone in my industry telling me to do all the events I can now because when I get married there will be days my husband will tell me I can’t go for an event.I asked why,maybe we had plans or something,She said he can just wake up and decide he didn’t want me
to leave the house that day.I was like Awww to spend time with him abi😍 she said no,he will go out but you can’t go anywhere.
That was when I knew that most women are seeing shege in the name of marriage.I’ve been looking at her with pity since then💔
I hope my children are ready to bask in the sweet fragrance of Nepotism because God will not allow any generation after me hustle like this.
It ends here🙏
It’s how you guys associate turning 30 with bitterness.
My life took a positive turn when I turned 30,everything just started clicking.
I pray everyone experiences this❤️
Setting boundaries is for yourself not for others.
Let me try to explain
Boundary-“I can’t date a smoker”
Craze-“I can’t date a smoker so you need to stop smoking so I can date you”
One guy "forgot his card"
Forgot mine too.
Asked me if I could transfer,I forgot my token.
His card magically turned up.Baba squeezed his face till he dropped me
The only reason why y’all still use women in their late 30s and 40s getting married as a teachable moment is because you believe women over 30 have expired.
I used to be a strong advocate for women shooting their shots but it has a 1 out of 10 success rate.The rest is just sex and you being the laughing stock of a WhatsApp group for YEARS.
So pleas NO!
How Kidd and Erica still find time for “romance” in the middle of chaos is so beautiful to watch.
There can be war and these children will be touching hair and kissing
“So you can’t date me because I said I don’t celebrate birthdays”
We are in March
I’m already thinking of what to do for my birthday in September.
We can’t even be friends🙏
People actually think name calling and insults are normal in relationships.I remember telling this I was dating I didn’t like the way he spoke to me and he said “Then you don’t want me to be free with you”
I don’t get it.
@JusttLit
But that’s how they think.
It’s also why they find new partners after they’ve made it.They don’t like being around women who saw them struggling
How come men are not called desperate for wanting a Relationship/Marriage?
Why is this term only used for women but when a man wants the same thing he is "Ready"
After crossing 7 seas and fighting 10 battles to get a woman’s attention men will say “Women fall for lies” to downplay the effort they put into convincing her to fall for them.
You may have been lying but you performed,you danced,you clapped,you drummed!
Always trying to put women in a box.
-She’s sleeping with a man
-She has rich parents
-She married a right man
There’s a 4th option
-She worked hard for her money!!!!!!!!!!
The GEN Z have no mercy. Husband had an argument with the wife. Wife threatened to deal with him. He laughed and went to work.
Wife is the main applicant and husband and two children are dependants on her.
Husband went to work, wife took the children and returned to Nigeria.…
Men on Instagram will follow you and ignore your follow request and then try to start chatting in the Dm.
Sir please accept my request so I can see your wife and children
This girl planned her boyfriend’s 30th birthday and all twenty of his friends said they couldn’t make it. She says that she doesn’t have the heart to tell him 🥹
The worst thing about emotional abuse is that there are no scars to show,it’s hard to explain,the risk of sounding like you are overreacting.
Horrible I tell ya!
I'm always fascinated by women who have decent fathers and decent husbands yet are at the forefront of male slander on this app. Shouting men are scum while snuggled next to their man and receiving support from their dads. A manifestation of a luxury belief if I've ever seen one.
I’ve said this before,when you meet someone you know you do not want to lose you will put yourself in check and change all your bad behaviors without them even asking.