Writer. Whippet Walker. Woman. One of those opinionated, angry ones. Mostly teaching or procrastinating. My views are worthy of respect in a democratic society.
Non-men - A poem
Gardening Trowel,
Giraffe.
A Teatowel
A Scarf.
Umbrella,
Shoe,
A lemon,
Some glue.
My cat, my dog,
My goldfish, Spike
A woman's apparently
Whatever you like.
A Cup of tea, a box of pins,
These are all the non-man things.
Unisex loos are horrible. Took a group of students on a trip to a London gallery yesterday. Toilet stop caused huge discomfort & embarrassment; amongst my group were a strictly observant Jewish boy & girls, a Muslim girl & some very shy girls. Does nobody care about their needs?
@MartinBarrow
They took her out of an exam for this. Midway through an exam, she was stripped naked, given an intimate search, and then sent back into her exam. It makes me absolutely ashamed that this was allowed to happen to a teenage girl in a London school.
I am not American and don't understand the system: am I right in thinking that a sorority is a place where young women live as well as socialise?
Has a judge just decided that young female students are obliged to RESIDE with a man whose behaviour they've experienced as predatory?
I just never thought I'd have to explain or prove to anyone why my blind mother needs clear & easily understood zebra crossings. I certainly never thought I'd have to explain or prove it to the local council staff member responsible for such planning matters.
Hi
@waitrose
- I have a rather splendid tshirt with the words, 'Adult Human Female' written on it. If I wear this item of my own clothing in my own house whilst getting the dog food delivered, will I be reported by the Stasi? Sorry, by your delivery drivers?
@BornAKang
This is really disturbing to watch. Is the person in costume related to these children? If so, the fact that they continue with the 'joke' LONG past the point that the children were clearly hysterically tearful & distressed is pretty worrying.
Whenever I remember that Graham Linehan was a writer on Black Books as well as Father Ted & the IT Crowd, I'm baffled anew. There really aren't many writers for television with that kind of magic touch. That he was ditched by his industry through sheer cowardice is staggering.
@gwentpolice
You arrest a disabled woman for STICKER crime in the early afternoon, take her phone off her and don't release her until 3.30am the following morning? And you think this is reasonable behaviour?
Of course you do.
@HalifaxBank
@WarrenRichman
Hi Andy, I'm just wondering if you could clarify, please. Are you saying that if people object to the pressure on staff to use pronouns in the corporate world (since it acts as a public declaration of support for gender identity ideology), Halifax does not want them as customers?
Had lunch today in London with a lovely & very apolitical friend. Her conversational opener: "Jesus, did you see that awful stuff that's happening in Scotland?"
Could it be this - not bloody Mermaids, the Cass Report, Lia Thomas - could this be the one that'll wake everyone up?
@ChoooCole
What struck me about this is when Katie says that nobody meant to lock her in to something that caused her harm - they were all just "trying to be nice". The idea that it is a kindness for EVERYONE to lie to troubled teens about something so huge is so obviously, naively wrong.
@AnnelieseDodds
@Keir_Starmer
@AngelaRayner
@LouHaigh
I am genuinely baffled. Correct me if I am wrong, but as I understand it, you very recently said on national radio that you couldn't define the word 'woman'. How can you POSSIBLY do that and then boast about your role in opening a WOMEN'S conference? It's truly illogical.
@rodemmerson
Big old threatening male hand pointing aggressively in the face of a tiny (yet gloriously defiant) woman. What's hilarious is, I don't think you actually meant to draw what you've drawn here. I think you were genuinely trying to make the woman look bad, weren't you?
Remarkable.
@sarahstuartxx
@RebelsAnimal
@waitrose
I was manager in a pub many years ago when a bunch of medical students scrawled on loads of glasses in permanent marker. Couldn't serve drinks as it didn't come off in the machine. We locked them in and called the police: clean em yourself or be arrested. I know what I'd do here.
@ultabeauty
I've no problem with two men talking about their experiences in using make up as men, challenging perceptions of masculinity & male beauty.
What's unacceptable is those two men claiming to be women & claiming knowledge of 'girlhood'.
It's really not that hard to understand.
@MacyGraysLife
Millions of women agree with you. Thank you for telling the truth and thank you for not backing down. You've never struck me as the kind if woman who would be bullied easily. X
I feel mildly irritated today at how much of an arsehole Eddie Izzard turned out to be. I know he's not the only disappointment, but it's just a bit disspiriting.
200 years ago, prison reformer Elizabeth Fry campaigned successfully for women to have single sex prisons.
She understood that imprisoned women needed to be away from men for reasons of dignity, privacy & safety.
She understood it; it seems we don't. And we call this progress?
@lucy__jacksonx
@EdinburghUni
@TheStudentPaper
Be sure to put this on your CV when you leave Uni and apply for a job at a real newspaper.
'As a student editor, I refused to cover any news that I decided might hurt any feelings among the readership' should be sufficient for any editorial employer.
At my work, men were using the women's (single) toilet as well as their own. I complained, so now they don't. Instead, they spend a lot of time gossiping about what a 'feminazi' I am - just in case anyone wonders why "no woman has ever had a problem with me in the female loo".
Can anybody help me with this: are there any gender critical teachers groups in the UK? In my own school alone, I've slowly discovered half a dozen GC teachers; all of us thinking we're alone.
@theJeremyVine
Hi Jeremy, I wonder if you are aware of the problems these crossings cause the visually impaired & guide dogs? Crossings are consistent for a reason. If it's about inclusion, surely a mural or something else that's purely decorative & not vital to people's safety would be fairer?
Why,
@BBCNews
do you think it is alright to run a photograph of a woman and her 7 year old daughter smiling, standing with their murderer? Do you really not understand the damage you do in minimising the man's horrific crimes in this way? USE A DIFFERENT BLOODY PICTURE, PLEASE.
@billybragg
I listened to Caroline saying at the weekend that this fight for women's rights is universal, not party political - on this we're united. I agree with her, though our views differ on much else. We're women, and we're grown ups. So yeah: I'm good with it. Next question?
This week, it was argued on UK morning telly that, since we don't show our birth certificates to people very often, our birth certificates don't need to contain factually accurate information about us & the circumstances of our birth.
Lorraine Kelly giggled & nodded.
I give up.
@skelpitheid
@MikeIona
@waitrose
What I found most disturbing was when KJ said she told the man to get out, he replied, "I'll take my time." That is very threatening. I'd have been tempted to call the police. What do you think,
@waitrose
? Is that acceptable staff behaviour in a female customer's home?
Pre-teen boys carry a device with them everywhere they go that lets them watch 1000s of videos of the violent, terrifyingly misogynistic sexual degradation of women, often YEARS before they get their first girlfriend.
If you stop & think about that, it is a societal sickness.
@Aardvark271
@KaceyORiordan
This is fundamentally the problem here: it is telling young girls that the men, who are acting in loco parentis, are in fact seeing them in a sexualised manner. I'd be raising my eyebrows at any male teacher at the school not HORRIFIED at this insinuation. Madness.
@RedGabcsika
@liambrunetti
Oh, that's deliberate.
As an adopted person, I find this so disturbing. These men don't understand how important that woman is in the shaping of the identity of that future child. They don't seem to have considered what the child will think of this picture, or them, in 18 years.
@reallorraine
I do think, Lorraine, if you are going to publicly support this mantra, you need to also be willing to answer the very most difficult questions that it throws up. For example, do you agree that male bodied transwomen should be imprisoned in the female estate? If not, why not?
Thing is, it's a chain. At one end, the fuzzy, "let's all be kind" end, there's calling a man (that you know is a man) "she" because it makes you a good person. At the other end is the total loss of women's rights. If you don't yet see these things as connected you need to start.
@peterstafford
I just got my first cats three years ago and honestly I feel cheated; if I'd have known what fantastic evil little psychopaths they were I'd have got one decades ago.
@MariaRMGBNews
About 20 years ago, I had a couple ask me if I would take their photograph, smiling in front of the Dachau crematorium. It horrifies me to think how much worse this behaviour must be in the Instagram era.
@janeyjstarling
Hi Janey, I'm glad mixed sex spaces work for you. They don't for me, or very many other women who enjoy having a legal right to single sex spaces. This doesn't make us akin to racists of the past, nor does it mean we're in 'a moral panic'. Women won't be coerced into agreement.
Two weeks ago I was threatened by a lad with a bat & a kitchen knife. The police know who he is - he lives on our street. We've had to leave our address. Two weeks & the police have yet to talk to him, but if I express GC opinions in a pub, 5 will turn up sharpish? That right?
@billybragg
There is no call for a boycott of 'progressive' parties. Women who object to the rapid erosion of our rights are being advised to ask ALL our political representatives whether they believe 'women' exist as a distinct entity in life & law. Those who don't don't deserve our vote.
@TheScientistLLC
Nobody's confused.
If people disagree with you, it doesn't mean that they are confused, ill-informed or unaware of their own reasons for disagreeing with you.
It means they disagree with you.
@DickinsonTimes
Hi Matt, I find this an interesting quote from your article:
“A piece about Lia Thomas walking around with genitalia out,” York says. “You just know it didn’t happen."
Can I ask how your interviewee knows it is a lie? Did you check it? The accusation goes unquestioned. Thanks.
@PPFA
FOLKS WITH A VULVA!
Folks with a vulva.
Amazing.
Might actually be my favourite so far.
Only because nobody's yet had the audacity to float Fanny Folk.
..."physical & mental health benefits are perhaps more important than winning..."
Kelly Holmes, you're a female championship athlete, whose entire career was built on being able to win. And you said this? You really said it?
What is going on here? Is the entire nation on glue?
@EmmaKennedy
People only became concerned that drag queens were sexualising children after drag queens took what everyone had always previously understood was an adult, burlesque entertainment & began performing it in front of young children, for reasons that haven't really been explained.
@SherylCrow
@mikeparson
Ms Crow, I would politely ask that you consider the lack of compassion you demonstrate for a woman who was raped and stabbed to death, when you refer to the man who raped and murdered her as 'she'. It was not a woman who committed this crime.
@realjohnmurphy
@blablafishcakes
@BBC
Hi John, I've just been scrolling through the hundreds of examples of misogyny from the gender identity movement that you requested yesterday, and I was wondering if you had any thoughts, now that you've had a chance to digest? What do you make of this ample evidence?
@Healthline
This is genuinely the worst one yet. It reads as if the condition affects everyone, of both sexes. I assume, as something called 'Healthline', you care about giving out accurate health information, so: is this a condition that affects both sexes, or only women? Of the female sex?
@CharleyHasted
I was leafleting about women's rights, near my HOME, when a political candidate, shaking with anger, approached to demand that I "respected her belief that trans women are women".
I didn't feel unsafe. I just firmly explained that I hold different beliefs. That's politics, mate.
@SmonkingFags
@jk_rowling
Hello, I feel that the better question here would be: if a service is dedicated to serving women, highly vulnerable, traumatised women at that, why would anyone else attempt to surrepticiously use it? Why, when services are already freely available for other groups of people?
CAN I JUST SAY that if I was the kind of kleptomaniac that spent years stealing women's suitcases at airports, I probably wouldn't enthusiastically publish photographs of myself wearing the clothes from inside those suitcases on the internet.
@ChardineTaylor
What is wrong with being Irish and being called Finnegan? Why do you consider an Irish name for an Irish character 'problematic'? Similarly, Chang is a common surname, shared by almost 4 million people, the majority of them in Asia.
I am not bothered whether people want to call me bigoted, conservative, right wing. My voting practice over the last 20 years doesn't bear it out, but whatever. I find it bizarre, though, that believing in the reality of sex is, in and of itself, considered conservative.
Judy Blume said, "You can't write with the censor on your shoulder".
In an interview she gave to a man pretending to be a woman. In which she pretends to think he's a woman, too. To make amends for having defended another writer's assertion of the truth: that men are never women.
Went to the Foundling Museum. Noticed they had mixed sex bathrooms and female bathrooms. I didn't see if they also had men only. This is probably the arrangement that best pleases everyone, isn't it? All are provided for & if everyone adheres, single sex loos retained for women.
@katie_barnes3
The video shows disagreement, not harassment (a disagreement in which the person in question calls KJ a "dog"). If people disagreeing with you counts as 'harassment' - even when you're the one giving out the abuse - I think you need to revise your understanding of the word.
@Baller130696
I'm interested to know, Pallavi, what prompted you to go to these sort of lengths to discredit a woman who (I assume) you do not know? What is your goal here?
@GreenPeterU
Thank you for asking, Peter. I stopped having any faith in the Green Party after seeing how they treated Emma Bateman & Shahrar Ali and seeing the dictatorial, extremist position they've taken on gender identity ideology. I wouldn't want them to hold power.
@TownTattle
Other rape crisis services in the area cater to mixed sex users. Many women who've experienced trauma require, and are entitled to, single sex provision. J K Rowling is funding such a service to meet the needs of those women. Nobody denied anything, everyone catered for. The End.
@5Pillarsuk
If a child damaging a book at school isn't a criminal matter (AND IT NEVER IS), what is this completely insane video I am looking at? Why is a headteacher in a panel of men - resembling a murder investigation - making a public statement about his student NOT COMMITTING A CRIME?
@DevonLiveNews
Donna was angry that this was 'a joke'. I don't think it was a joke; I think those involved used humour to bring attention to a political issue about which they felt strongly. It's not 'backward', it's not 'lacking understanding'. It's people showing support for female sports.
Watching Alice Roberts confidently identifying ancient Anglo Saxon skeletons on television almost entirely from the shape of their jawbone makes me QUITE CROSS actually.
@MayorofLondon
A man who behaved as you did toward Joan Smith, one of the most important and influential feminist figures in this country, has got unimaginable brass neck beginning a sentence, 'As a proud feminist'.
If I respected you more, I'd be embarrassed for you.
@sunheadbowed
The penultimate speaker saying it is 'not the place' of women to tell men that they are not women is the saddest part. They're frightened of being labelled an evil terf, because that's the worst crime. To them, believing they're allowed to define themselves a crime against men.
@goldendayze
So we're going to leap straight from 'we don't bother collecting medical data on women' to 'we're rendering any potentially important medical data on women entirely useless by including men in the data set', it would seem.
@MichelleRae_19
@MarkHamill
Hello Michelle. You see a woman responding to an insulting personal remark made about her and you condemn her response. What do you think about India's original comment? If India had publicly declared that India was 'more woman than Michelle', would you think it a compliment?
@fharris2011
@KayBurley
@AngelaRayner
I LOVED that comment. As if knowing the difference between men and women requires expertise. You couldn't get much more contemptuous.
@Daily_Record
@AllieHBNews
This is a man, who murdered someone whilst IN JAIL, arguing that he should be in a women's prison because he is scared of being in the correct (male) prison.
This is the responsibility of the male prison estate, to keep its vulnerable groups safe. He is not women's problem.
@GeorgeTakei
To be clear, you are telling teenage girls that, when men expose themselves in female changing rooms where women are alone and undressed, the girls should just be quiet & "mind their own business".
I hope the 'just be kind' people reading this see your misogyny for what it is.
@ThisEgg_
I took the advice you gave children to search the internet for 'animals masurbating'. This took me to a website called 'Zoop*rn' which had lots and LOTS of free-to-view videos of young women having sex with animals. Is it "extremist" to think small kids don't need to see this?
@LPStaySafe
Hello, I wonder if you might confirm what information this is meant to convey to the general public. It reads as if you intend to treat the act of using a person's birth name as criminal. It suggests you intend to treat hurting a person's feelings as illegal. Is this right?
@stellacreasy
Why are you choosing to amplify the few churlish or angry responses you have received, rather than to engage with the very many civil ones? The fact that some people are rather angry with you doesn't mean that the arguments being presented to you are invalidated.
@AlanFreestone
@BBCBreaking
The thing that's the most astonishing here is that I suspect you genuinely believe this to be a perfectly reasonable thing to say.
@Girlguiding
By rejecting an ideology that tells children their desire not to conform to outdated gender stereotypes means they're in the 'wrong' sex.
You?
@lawofgrace
What bothers me about this is, a 'young female' patient felt strongly enough to ask for a female doctor & was then talked round. That should not have happened. She may've felt embarrassed or pressured by the non-compliance. "Oh but you see I AM a woman". No. Comply with her wish.
I've genuinely no problem with men in feminine clothing. It strikes me as impractical marketing, however, for brands to use males to model clothing that they want to sell to women. For me personally, it's totally unhelpful to see how a dress or pair of jeans fits a male body.
@NoraUtd
We can't call paedophiles paedophiles because it is 'hurtful' to an 'already marginalised group of people'?
Clearly I am a TERRIBLE BIGOT for saying this, but people who want to sexually abuse children are marginalised for a reason, no?
Please. Please tell me this isn't real.
Quiz for the parents: if a grown man regularly lingered outside your child's school, dressed in that school's uniform, would you be concerned? Expect the school to be concerned? Expect police to take it seriously?
(If you answered 'no' to any of these, go back & read them again)
@charlotte2153
What's really so brilliant is that, before Lia decided to compete as a woman, that training only got Lia a 400th or so position. But now, with the same body & same amazing training, Lia is number one! Huge congratulations to Lia for this near miraculous, incredible acheatment!
@LHolt99
@willie_rennie
@WaidAcademy
@NicolaSturgeon
@ScotGovFM
What in the name of god is this? Who is filming and why? Why are there no reactions from kids? Where are the staff? I spent several years working in pupil referral units and I never saw anything like this in PRUs without immediate staff intervention. This is a mainstream school?!
@Fhamiltontimes
That jumped out at me, among other horrors from the story. Wayne Couzens had a work nickname too: 'the rapist'.
Clue for the police, because apparently they need it: it ISN'T NORMAL to give your colleagues jaunty monikers like 'the nonce', 'molester' and 'domestic violence Dave'.
@BevJacksonAuth
@HartlandJoseph
Just an opinion, but I find this odd behaviour. To be so enraged whilst engaging in civil discussion that you choose to cause yourself pain to alleviate it; then to photograph evidence of that to publish, inviting others to share your distress? Seems emotionally volatile to me.
@UN_Women
Point is, I am not 'united in a common fight' with trans identifying men. I do not doubt that choosing to live as the opposite sex to your own has its difficulties; nor do I suggest there's anything wrong with so doing. But there is no commonality between that & being a woman.
@AlysGreens
To me, this says, "Men are not women, except when they are women". That sounds ridiculous, doesn't it?
How else would it be possible to interpret what you have said?
@helenachumphrey
This young woman was attacked at around 8.30pm, in a busy place. She was a primary teacher, in her first teaching job after qualifying. It's absolutely horrific.
@detransguy
Hi Jaden, thank you for sharing this. It is helpful for those of us concerned about the affirmation-only treatment model to understand from people like yourself what blockers & hormones means for young people in reality. I hope that you are currently feeling well and healthy.
@OwenJHurcum
@CubeNightclub
Cubicle, singular, you say?: it's fairly standard policy to remove people from clubs for sharing cubicles. If there was cubicle sharing going on, it's pretty obvious their chosen gender identity has nothing to do with their removal.
@HJoyceGender
@MForstater
So according to Crispin Blunt, men who think they are women being expected to use the correct facilities if they're "not willing to use them" is a serious problem, but the entire female population being forced to share facilities with men against their will is just fine. Got it.
@NationalNOW
Why do you presume the right to tell women how to be the 'good' kind of feminists?
If my feminism were pleasing men, it'd mean I was doing it wrong.
@JohnLewisRetail
@wilder_harriet
I feel comfortable in female only changing rooms. I am assuming as an inclusive business you will still cater for longstanding female customers like myself and my teen daughter. I would be grateful, therefore, if you could let me know if female only changing is available? Thanks.
@hef4caerphilly
Your considering a woman asking the simple question 'what is a woman?' to be TRITE does, of course, answer the question, in its own way.
@KevsTribulation
Sorry Kevin to ask you to repeat yourself, but I want to be clear in my understanding. The DBS is considering effectively barring you from teaching by preventing you from getting the DBS? And for your insistence on correctly sexing a student? Thanks, & thanks for fighting this.
@dsj_itv
I absolutely agree: it is important that people begin to respect women when they talk about them - to recognise the need to be respectful in their word choices. Emily Bridges should have been asked by ITV to show respect and not incorrectly use the word 'female' in this context.