I'm yet to update my CV with my honorary visiting professorship at
@LivUni
in the intersectionality of ageing and disability.
It's here:
I'm on the
@gmcuk
register with a full license to practise.
I'm a proud member of
@RCPhysicians
.
'I shook hands with everybody'
Thank you
@doctor_oxford
for
#Breathtaking
.
A story well told, needing to be told.
Courageous, brave, clinicians, both paid and unpaid.
This picture 👇(though) speaks volumes for me.
Please spare me the guff about how the Archbishop of Canterbury must not have a view on legislation. He has voting rights in the House of Lords to guide legislation for that very reason.
Any numpty can see the number of people being tested dramatically fell today, because
@MattHancock
gamed the number of tests done for only one day to achieve his target. This is the sort of tinpot country we have come to live in. Are people really that stupid?
The thing you notice about the way people talk about dementia as a care partner is that everything suddenly has different names. "Holiday" becomes "respite"; "walking" becomes "wandering"; "confusion" becomes "delirium"; "moving" becomes "mobilising"; and so on.
It’s really hit me this morning. Though expected, the flat is deathly quiet. Not just Hasna has died. I’m afraid a very huge part of me has died. As indeed expected I suppose.
Does anyone remember the Owen Smith leadership bids to oust Jeremy Corbyn? I do. Starmer supported them. Then out of principles of integrity he then landed himself in the top Brexit job and imposed an election-losing people's vote with chums of his. Then expelled Corbyn.
A new minister for loneliness.
A new minister for suicide prevention.
This is what happens, culturally, if you concentrate on deficits not on assets.
The Govt should've used their time promoting stronger communities with decent public services.
"Imagine having a life so devoid of success you have to put on your profile that your'e a senior contributor to GB News"
@mrjamesob
at his finest just now.
@SangitaMyska
Mum finds it much easier to speak in Bengali than in English. This new Bengali carer is a God-send. I haven't seen mum this happy for a very long time.
I have now formally been invited to, and accepted, a honorary visiting professor rôle at
@LivUni
to further my interest in the sociology of ageing and disability, with a focus on dementia, frailty and delirium.
I've done this on behalf of my late mum.
🎄🎄
So the GMC approved my annual return today, and I got my car roadworthy having received my driving licence yesterday. This is the first Xmas I've been on the GMC medical register with a full driving licence since 2005. Now 11 years in continuous recovery.
A special mention from me to all the paid home carers going out to work today in very tough conditions, with barely a skeleton service for public transport, battling low income in face of adversity in a pandemic, but still giving everything including their own personal time.
Fuck it. I'm gong to put on my application form my rôle as an unpaid family carer for my mum with advanced dementia as an example of 'teamwork' (with her paid carers.)
It's a big part of my life, and they can't stomach it, who cares.
13 years ago, I was on a life support machine in ITU, early on in my period of abstinence from alcoholism, with acute meningitis
tomorrow, it's my 46th birthday.
had it not have been for my recovery, I would not be able to look after my own mum. 🤩
Complete unadulterated nonsense. If one believes in viral loads depending on degree of exposure, one would hypothesise from this that teachers spend 50 hours a week in a supermarket. Get. A. Grip.
#BBCQT
I miss mum like crazy, but it's also true I love living on my own in small flat in North London. I have good days now, which I never had after my bereavement previously. I cooked a meal for the first time last night. It was very basic, but still an achievement for me.
It was a beautiful day. Dementia is a horrific disease and I can't see anything positive in how it destroyed my dear mother. I will love Hasna til I die, and thanks to all who attended the burial ceremony today for her.
Mum's new care provider is terrific. Came back home to a spotless flat. All are Muslim, like mum, all female, and one speaks Bengali - much needed companionship for my Mum, where I fail. A huge weight off my mind to be honest.
You need to blow the myth that social care is always needed by other people. For example, James O'Brien on
@LBC
has just said, "I am unlikely to need social care in the near future?" How on earth does he know that? He could have a stroke before midday, and need help.
@LBC
@DrJenGunter
I've now been in recovery for 12 continuous years. The irony is that you cannot do it alone, but the only one person who can do it is yourself.
As if you hadn't guessed, I have had a huge weight lifted from my shoulders. I've decided to return to academic medicine, doing delirium research.
This was cut short 15 years ago. Time to take back control.
As I had no-one to tell, I told the owner of a local kitchen appliance shop in Primrose Hill? What I did I tell her? That I'd been awarded my FHEA, fellow of higher education academy. This was officially recognised this morning, thanks to
@AdvanceHE
. I would have told my mum.
To remind you concerning your attack on ‘the undeserving poor’, the budget for the failed track and trace is more than the entire primary care budget.
@LBC
I really appreciate your kind messages. My circumstances are most unusual, and my frustrations very genuine and real. I've had a number of requests to 'talk with someone',m so indeed I chatted with
@mancunianmedic
in detail this evening. I'm pleased to say it helped a lot.
But seriously, I have experience of hospital wards where my mum has been excessively kept in bed, because of risk aversion, from which it has been very hard to get mum confidently walking again.
#EndPJParalysis70
Incredible to me how many people, including clinicians, believe that having dementia means you automatically lack capacity. This is a passport to a breach of fundamental human rights. Absolutely indefensible.
I don't think I agree with many of
@calvinrobinson
's views, perhaps, but I do genuinely admire how bright he is and how sincerely he stands up for the beliefs he has with extraordinary politeness.
@Fox_Claire
The plan so clearly is to introduce a 2 tier NHS where not everyone is seen by a doctor. You’ll have to pay a premium to see a doctor. In MBA land, this is called market segmentation. Doctors in a fully privatised workforce will be argued not to need Union representation.
I'd like to dedicate
#WorldAlzheimerDay
to my mum. I don't know how to say anything big, clever, inspirational or motivational about the 'fight' against dementia. But my mum brought me into this world. I love her completely. And it's my duty to do my very best I can for her.
First day of my Masters in medical education today at
@UoNMedEd
. Off my own bat, I have decided to AND funded myself 100% to learn about medical education. I have published peer-reviewed papers. I have published books. And I'm a FT carer. I am proud of my struggle.
People with dementia and carers seem to 'attract' a new language specific to them after diagnosis. Some labels are used correctly, but some are unfairly attributed in some circumstances. Knowledge may be power, but language definitely is?
My mum Hasna was a great believer in encouraging the education of others. She was headmistress of a primary school in the 1960s. I've therefore decided to give personally to endow a development grant for her primary school in a village in Bangladesh.
Life's so weird. 31 years ago, a week bf4 xmas, I was celebrating c my late mum+dad an unconditional offer to read medicine at the University of Cambridge. FF to today, and I receive notification from
@LivUni
of a visiting honorary professorship in sociology of ageing/disability.
Thanks to Pat for sending me this lovely picture of the meal my mum cooked for my late father for his retirement. My father was a well respected single-handed GP in the NHS. I will honour their memory as long as I live.
I am going to say something very unpopular. If you find yourself gloating at someone's misfortune, think to yourself whether that could have been you. It's all very easy if you're on the outside looking in, and very easy to be judgmental if you do not know the facts.
Official now.
PS It is a great privilege to combine my professional training in dementia with my legal (and social justice) training - to look at old age and cognitive impairment.
Can't thank
@RCPsych
enough for putting their money where their mouth is. They have enabled what has been my lifelong ambition to think about returning to clinical medicine. I start my work shadowing as a junior doctor in
#choosepsychiatry
next week. I feel utterly honoured.
I've said this many many times, but please remember this. It is worth processing the pretty basic paperwork for lasting power of attorney before loss of capacity.
Mum was awarded NHS Continuing Care funding today. I cried at the news. Thanks to all the professionals who have made this possible for my most important person in my world.
A strong dislike of mine, by the way, is the term "dementia patients". Please treat people with respect, especially if you are a clinician. Say something nice like "patents who are living with dementia". You should not identify people primarily by diagnostic labels.
@dr_shibley
I am so sorry to read of Hasna’s death. Thinking of you today. You are such an inspiration to so many people, a devoted son and caregiver. Nothing but respect. May your wonderful mother rest in peace surrounded by your love.
My loved one has had a progressive dementia for a few years now. She has care round the clock, and I've found it on the whole devastating to see her change so much. But it's also rewarding knowing I am doing everything I can to make her happy. Life as a carer is difficult.
I once survived a coma.
I was returned to the medical register, and I was regulated by the lawyers early in my recovery.
My late parents helped me cope with my new physical disability.
I've managed 15 years sober so far.
I've got this.
Does anyone else remember a time when the height of technology was using two C90 cassettes to record the Top 40 and a special cable to connect with the radio, at 5 pm on Radio 1 on a sunday?
I'd like to give a massive shout out to all the nurses, a truly pivotal part of the pandemic response. The nursing profession has been fantastic in adapting to the enormous and unpredictable challenges, working really hard, and in coping with high risk.
#whitecoatwashing