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@DPMCanty

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News reporter working in marketing, social media & communications. Mom, writer, geek, news critic, troublemaker & VCU alum. Opinions are my own.

Virginia, USA
Joined October 2015
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@DPMCanty
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2 years
Taking 11yo to school this morning, stopped short behind car that made a turn. From the backseat, I hear, 'Use a turning signal, dick!' I'm killing the mom game, y'all. Killing it.πŸ˜©πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
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@DPMCanty
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This grown man told my 9yo child the hair growing out of her head looked messy and like a weird mushroom. She asked me in her little voice if it’s true and instead of wearing it out today, she put it in ponytail. Now, I have to fight this mfker. 🀬
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@DPMCanty
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This woman just loudly asked the nail tech, who was born and raised here, how she likes life in the states. When the tech looked puzzled, she said it slower and louder. Before I could speak, another customer said, β€˜Lady, she’s literally American, pls be quiet.’
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@DPMCanty
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This girl was so brave and smart to message her mom and alert her that something was very wrong.
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A 57-year-old man is accused of drugging three 12-year-old girls with sedative-laced smoothies during his daughter’s sleepover at his Oregon home, court records show
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
I'm gonna need the national media to stop doing 'people don't want to work' stories and do more 'company got PPP money, gave it to shareholders, to officers as bonuses and still cut workers' jobs' stories.
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@DPMCanty
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My child broke her arm, had surgery. I've had two other parents tell me not to let her 'milk it' for attention. She broke both bones in her left forearm & is in steady pain. I'm supposed to help her out, I'm her mother. Why do people hate care, kindness for kids so much? WTF?
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@DPMCanty
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Women who still call little girls 'fast' instead of holding grown men accountable for preying on them should not be allowed around children. Ever.
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Unpopular opinion but atp she was a fast ass lil girl
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@DPMCanty
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4 months
You were fine with them watching a child be sexually assaulted, impregnated, beaten and verbally abused, but her growing up to find safety and love with a woman is part of a narrative that you don’t want your daughters to see? Just shut your stupid, misogynistic mouth, Boosie.
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@DPMCanty
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Much love to all the dads and uncles who won’t let men play in our faces. Prayers down to this delusional dummy.
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@DPMCanty
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My neighbor works 12hr shifts at hospital. She just got home from work, was sitting in her car a few minutes. Her husband called downstairs to ask when she was coming inside because the kids are hungry. My good sis told that man to feed them, hung up and continued decompressing.
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
Her hair:
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@DPMCanty
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This video looks so futuristic, even in 2024. Missy really was ahead of the game and deserves all of her flowers.
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Y’all don’t understand how iconic this sample is
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@DPMCanty
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1 year
@Ms_MMMJ @XXL That part. It’s crazy that this man doesn’t think milestones like recitals, games, etc. are important for our kids.
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@DPMCanty
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2 years
Universal better call this baby!πŸ₯°
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@DPMCanty
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β€˜β€™We’re Black girls at the office..”
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@DPMCanty
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She gave that random man from Atlanta 30 thousand American dollars?!!?!!
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@DPMCanty
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4 years
RT if you’re a Black woman who’s ever been reprimanded for your facial expressions. I’m trying to see something.
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
My work BFF died early this morning. Like many BW I know, she worked her ass off to raise kids. She was always working. With grown kids, she finally slowed down, took some time & found love again. Breast cancer took her as she was starting her best life. I'm so sad and angry.
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
Thank y’all for your kind words. I’m going to show her some of the replies this evening. I think it will help her feel better.
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@DPMCanty
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4 years
Is it hoarding when rich people do it? What happened to all that unhelpful 'save 3-6 months worth of bills,' advice? What you're really saying is this economy doesn't work if we're not overspending and in debt to our ears.🀨
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Americans are slashing their spending, hoarding cash and shrinking their credit card debt as they fear their jobs could disappear during the coronavirus pandemic. But a so-called V-shaped recovery can't happen if consumers are sitting on the sidelines.
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@DPMCanty
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@ATLnewsgirl The part that floored me was him trying to tell their parents the girls were sleeping and to come back in the morning.
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
This is the one.
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@DPMCanty
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I’ve been waiting to use this clip.
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@DPMCanty
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28 days
Women are supposed to sign up for this mess? πŸ˜‘
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
Wow...this really blew up. I don't have anything to sell-no cool lights or octopus plushies, but you can contribute to 9yos ice cream fund at $WriterMDCanty. We get ice cream once a week or so and talk about our week, how we're feeling. I'm going to take her when I get off.
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@DPMCanty
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1 year
Damn, this blew up! I don't have anything to promote but I urge you to support your local news orgs by subscribing to their sites, using their links when you share news and signing up for their news alerts. Also, don't be a dick to service workers.
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@DPMCanty
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@hiShaelove @onyxgata This man has no gold. What is he even talking about?
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@DPMCanty
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@COM0LAFLOR If she likes it, I love it. πŸ™ƒ
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@DPMCanty
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That random man from Atlanta posted revenge porn of Morgan taken without her consent.
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
@calisapna drew this beautiful cartoon of my girl πŸ₯°
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@DPMCanty
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A former Tennessee Titans scout is accused of poisoning and killing his pregnant girlfriend. Jade Benning, 25, died on her birthday days after her unborn baby. "...you did this to do something to the baby,' Benning said to Blaise Taylor before she died, according to testimony.
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@DPMCanty
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@MimsyYamaguchi Yup. I hope every couch he sleeps on is an uncomfortable one.
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@DPMCanty
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@TamekoPatten172 Hobosexuals may not have much, but they always have the audacity.
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@DPMCanty
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Deep, heavy sigh. πŸ™„
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@DPMCanty
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@thegeehen I’m trying to reinforce to his daughter and mine that they’re beautiful with hair that literally grows from their heads and he pulls this mess. He says little comments that make me cringe, but he crossed the line.
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@DPMCanty
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2 years
The waitress said my daughter’s natural hair is so gorgeous, then added, β€˜I don’t know how you even take care of that. I can barely handle this,’ and flipped her ponytail. I replied, β€˜I see. It does look a bit thin and dry. Have you tried a leave-in?’ She left the table quickly.
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@DPMCanty
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6 years
@YnoTRockIT @Tulani30 @Lonz_Smalls What you did was brave and commendable. Using it as dig against women who speak against rape culture, trash behavior from men like the ones you fought off who commit violence against women, not so much. πŸ€·πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
9yo says: Thank you guys. I like your comments. There’s so many! ❀️
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@DPMCanty
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@notcapnamerica Whew! I'm just glad our good sis got away. That was a close one.πŸ˜‚
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@DPMCanty
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1 year
@Phil_Lewis_ It took authorities less than two weeks to investigate and terminate these officers. This shows what we already know - It can be done, but police choose to not do it.
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@DPMCanty
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@DangItLee Correction: That was ONE black woman with ONE tweet who is being dragged from East to West Coast as I type. Stop using many when you actually mean one. πŸ™„
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@DPMCanty
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@PennieNotPenny @smoke_nd_pearlz @TheRegularGirlT No way he would've seen me back home before the sun went down. None.
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@DPMCanty
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3 months
This Black acting icon is also an outstanding voice actor. She deserves all our recognition and then some.πŸ™ŒπŸΎ
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@Tofali
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One of our most underrated living legends imho. Always believable. Always earnest. I ALWAYS connect to her content to the point of forgetting that she's acting. She seems to embody her character. Let's give CCH Pounder ALL of her flowers πŸ’ 😍 πŸ‘πŸΎβœŠπŸΎ
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@DPMCanty
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@kimikoko73 Girl...it took every once of restraint I had not to go over there with Vaseline on my face, no earrings. I called and talked to him. He said it was a joke. Ha ha ha mfker - I proceeded to curse him out. He agreed to apologize to her.
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@DPMCanty
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@OutlawWitch I'm sitting on my porch on my laptop and noticed she pulled in. I completely understand those few quiet minutes before you go in the house to your other job. Her windows were down, so I heard it go down.
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@DPMCanty
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@kiathecaligirl She seems to be doing great on OF and is starting another income stream now. I hope she’s getting support and the healing she needs.
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@DPMCanty
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@survivalbymusic She was quiet and a little pouty afterwards. She kept giving people stink-eye like we did something wrong. Nah, lady, you were out-of-pocket.
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@DPMCanty
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@brownandbella A guy argued me down that proper vagina care was to wipe it down with soapy water, washcloth after urinating every time because that's what 'clean' women do. I laughed in pH balance. πŸ€·πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
I think I’ve laughed for a solid five minutes over this one.πŸ’€
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@DPMCanty
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1 year
@ValarMorDollars The salon was relatively quiet when she said it, so it got everyone's attention. The nail tech's mother and grandmother are also born and raised here. I'm assuming the customer asked because nail tech spoke to her mom in another language right before the exchange.
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@DPMCanty
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@BooksmartBabe8 We were all looking at her like she was crazy because, what was the reason? If she wanted to make small talk, she could’ve brought up the weather or something. The tech just finished college and is helping her mom at the shop this summer.
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@DPMCanty
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4 months
@prntgdcolonized Yup. He admitted on video to facilitating sexual assault on his own child, but he’s super dad in protecting his girls from the scary gay agenda? These men think being misogynistic and enforcing the patriarchy is being a good dad to girls and I’m tired.
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@DPMCanty
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Lord, grant me the audacity of this man who just stopped me during my walk to say he’s seen me exercising & wanted to tell me not to overdo it. β€˜Men like women with some meat on their bones,’ he added. Sir, who are you? Don’t you have some business of your own to mind?🀬
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@DPMCanty
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Why rape victims don't come forward, part 2,569,989: The replies to this traumatized woman talking about her experiences
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Kenneth Petty’s sexual assault victim Jennifer Hough speaks on her conversation with Nicki Minaj and harassment.
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@DPMCanty
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1 year
@kimikoko73 It's literally free. I'm not sure why more folks won't exercise that option.
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@DPMCanty
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4 years
Black women come with receipts. Sorry to this man for not knowing that, learning the hard way. πŸ˜‚
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The sad pathetic look on this dude's face as @TiffanyDCross completely destroys every last molecule of his wig is giving me LIFE.
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@AnnaliseFern11 You really can. I'm so glad her mother was there immediately to get her.
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@hannahcabana15 Yup. I forgot something, somewhere.
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@DPMCanty
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4 months
Oh boy…Boosie fans and homophobic crowd have found this tweet.
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@AllieGoertz 'Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to get through this thing called life...' Let's Go Crazy - #Prince
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@PettyLupone @Phil_Lewis_ Sir, this is a Wendy’s.
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@DPMCanty
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@dogmanp_sparks This is about an ER nurse decompressing for less than five minutes out front before getting a call from inside the house about hungry children from the parent already at home. If you'd like to tweet about a man doing same and get reactions, pls do so.
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@razzli_ @GenoaChanel You do know it’s not illegal to complain about your job, even if at work, right? Sounds like the job is, in fact, shitty. Hope she finds something better that pays more.
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@DPMCanty
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Watching grown men say they lack empathy, community and common decency for going in 24hrs has been very telling. If you see a woman get hit with a brick and do nothing, you’re a coward and a terrible person.
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@UcheAguh @1jiare He should seek therapy, not empathy from strangers on Twitter. Women aren't obligated to offer everyone empathy. He's a grown men who lacks emotional maturity that thinks he's entitled to love w/o much in return, i.e.-conditions. A child is innocent & deserves unconditional love.
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@DPMCanty
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When I was 38, I was laid off, had my car repossessed and was evicted. My relationship with the ex was crumbling and we had a 1 1/2yo baby. When I was broke and about to be homeless with a baby, my dad gave us a safe place to live. He didn't charge rent.
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@DPMCanty
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When I want TL to refresh, it pulls up 5hr old tweets, but when I’m reading an interesting tweet, instant refresh snatches it away.
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@brandonujohnson I’m a mom. There’s some things I’m taking to the grave, like Freaknik. πŸ˜‚
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Every time Piers Morgan is trending, it's never because someone finally throat punched him. It's really a letdown.
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@DPMCanty
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My boss specifically said not to do something. I didn't do it. Now, she's insisting she said to do it. I know I'm not crazy, so I checked my meeting notes and I have the receipts. How do I respond to her?
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@TheCrandle I have a thing like that with my daughter, too. You have to, sadly.
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@Phil_Lewis_ We may not be able to count on Twitter working, but we can always count on Van Jones being a damn clown.
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@DPMCanty
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This dog is mad at me because we were rushing this morning to get the kid to school on time and I forgot to put on her sweater.
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@DPMCanty
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@DaRealAmberRose To the men trying to police women's bodies and the women trying to shame her/other women. Y'all are so exhausting. Just. Stop. πŸ˜‘
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@__shayon @LoisLayne18 @Myrajayjenni @GrannyRose89 Truth. At some point, we have all been like this. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
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@AITA_reddit This man lied on his mama so he could be a sh*tty parent and partner.
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This man invited me for weekend getaway at place w/kitchen, asked me if I wanted to cook. I cook every day, so no, I don’t want to cook on holiday. He said he understood. Pls tell me why same man just asked me what I was cooking because β€˜I thought you’d change your mind.’
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@DPMCanty
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5 years
The surprise that someone is dating Stephen Miller is fascinating. It's almost as if people haven't seen historical pics of women at lynching, cross-burnings, Nazi rallies, KKK parades, etc. Bigotry isn't limited to men, folks.
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1 year
@SpeakerShinjini @mycherieamour25 I have to admit, it did make me giggle a little.
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@RepubsREvil I would’ve done that as soon as I got home. He’s ridiculous.
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
True friends choose violence. πŸ˜‚
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@DPMCanty
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3 years
Just went through replies to woman who complained about men Instacart shoppers. Men were big mad, tried to make her out as hating gig workers despite her orders being consistently wrong when shopped by men. I feel like this is not isolated problem, has been on the TL before.
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@GneissRoX You could tell he didn’t have good intentions from the videos. He worked to sabotage her because she’s doing well without him.
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@OdoBlackstar @CrisLuvsErrBody @alissa_ashleyy It’s called judging other women because it makes you feel superior, and that’s just sad. Do you, scroll on by women who’s behaviors don’t fit in your tight mold of how women should behave.
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The tweet, the doubling down and the backpedal, because people were dragging YOU.
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@annamaetiddies_ @Bellechan2350 It’s okay for women to have sex to entertain him. It’s not okay for women to love each other and exclude him or other men.
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1 year
Bethenny Frankel represents specific kind of WW grievance. She & her ilk believe Black women have a place, and it’s beneath them. Anytime a BW rises above their perceived β€˜place,’ the Frankels do everything they can to discredit them under a cloak of niceness. β€˜I love her, but…’
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taking it too far and food should be off-limits as punishment. She thinks I'm too permissive because I practice gentle parenting and allow my daughter to express herself fully. The boy is her step-child, so that's a whole different issue.
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@jcarole I think it was the venom that accompanied the 'advice' that really struck me. Who thinks a child in pain, healing for a major injury is trying to get over? She did, however, get ice cream twice in one day, but I did it with no regrets. She is my whole heart.
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@kellycherrelle @ATLnewsgirl Exactly. A lot of things may happen, but me leaving there without my child would not be one of them. He really tried to play in the parents faces.
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@TheBaddestMitch I don’t understand the question.
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RRR is magnificent.
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Anytime Tyrese is trending, you know it’s over some foolishness. Someone take his phone, pls.
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@Niteowl072 Exactly. I told them I planned to spoil her silly and they were mortified.
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@buttahbawsy @imanthedon Exactly. Why would you tell the whole world about my L?!?! You must be looking for me to play the suffocation game with your face and a pillow when you're sleeping. πŸ€¦πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ
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@LeslieStreeter @Shanemgillis Why do dudes like this think being racist is being edgy when it's been done like, forever. He could've kept this weaksauce apology, too.
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has for dinner. If they order food he still has to eat just a sandwich. She cooked his favorite, spaghetti, for dinner tonight and he couldn't have any of it. I told her this was cruel and the punishment doesn't fit the crime. I also expressed that this was
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@DPMCanty
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My neighbor lost her dog about six months ago and desperately wants another dog. Her husband just said in front of everyone at his kid’s birthday party, β€˜She can have a puppy when she gives me another baby and she’s not getting any younger.’ He was not joking.πŸ€¦πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ
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