Trans masc. Latinx. Chronically ill. NYT Bestselling Author of MOST ARDENTLY, THE WICKED BARGAIN, THE DIABLO'S CURSE & more. Rep'd by Lara Perkins at ABLA.
MOST ARDENTLY, my queer/trans PRIDE & PREJUDICE retelling is out TODAY! I'm so thrilled to get this queer love story out into the world 😊
You can preview the first 2 chapters here:
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“men and women” ➡️ “people”
“ladies and gentlemen” ➡️ “esteemed guests”
“boys and girls” / “sons and daughters” ➡️ “children”
“brothers and sisters” ➡️ “siblings”
“his or hers” ➡️ “their”
“he or she” ➡️ “they”
inclusive language isn’t hard
in contrast to a tweet going around, I LIKE when cishet people use “partner” to describe their significant other because normalization of the term means I’m not automatically outing myself when I use it
"we can't wear masks forever"
counterpoint: there is literally no reason that we can't. masks are a simple, very effective tool that protects everyone. you're bitching about a minor inconvenience that could save someone's life (and that someone could be you!).
so many cis people in my mentions telling me how ~hard~ it is to quit HP b/c it was ~such a big part of their childhood~ 😭
how the fuck do you think trans HP fans who grew up with the books feel?
visited my 94yo grandma for the first time in over a year (thanks, covid!). she has dementia so she usually forgets I’m trans and just thinks “a nice man” has visited.
today I explained who I was and for the first time she called me her grandson 😭
this. this is why we keep telling you to stop buying Harry Potter merch and games etc.
she isn’t “just” an author with bad politics. she’s *massively* influential and her transphobia is being used to prop up transphobic legislation.
you know what?
I don’t forgive ScarJo now that she’s dropped out. even ignoring her prior fuck ups, she knew what she was doing. she *referenced* problematic af men the trans community were angry about too.
she dropped b/c of bad press, not b/c she cares about the community.
super happy for Kelly Marie Tran
but also it’s depressing af to live in a country where it literally takes having a major roll in a blockbuster film to pay off one’s student debt
imagine hearing for a full year that most of the people dying were immunocompromised/had underlying issues so "you don't need to worry"
except you are, in fact, immunocompromised
it's here! the glorious cover for MOST ARDENTLY, my P&P retelling in which Darcy is gay & the 2nd eldest Bennet is a trans boy, illustrated by the incredible
@marlowelune
& designed by the amazing
@suchdainties
!
it's out 1/16/24 & you can preorder now!
as I watch people claim a trans author’s review of a transphobic book is inherently biased and therefore can’t be trusted, I’m reminded of how conservatives are made to believe marginalized people with first-hand experience can’t be trusted because they’re biased and/or lying
today JK Rowling put a trans woman on blast for making a joke.
so again, I ask, to my mutuals who are still following her: why?
and again I ask you to double check you aren’t still following her. stop propping up her platform which she is violently using against trans people.
I CALLED MY 92 YO GRANDMA
AND SHE CALLED ME PRECIOSO AND HIJO WHEN SHE PICKED UP W/O PROMPTING
AND SHE STOPPED HERSELF FROM USING MY DEADNAME AND REMEMBERED MY NAME TWICE
I JUST 😭
hey cis allies, this is incredibly serious. trans people have been saying for ages that the anti-trans attacks were never about the kids—the end goal has always always been to eradicate us.
well, here you go. if this bill passes it will forcefully detransition trans ADULTS.
🚨🚨 Oklahoma's House has PASSED (80-18) HB2177 which will ESSENTIALLY BAN all gender affirming care INCLUDING ADULTS in the State of Oklahoma.
This bill now goes to the Senate.
This is the first time we've had a bill that will ban adult healthcare pass a chamber.
I doubt she’ll remember, but seeing her actually understand who I am and telling me “how you feel inside is all that matters” and “you’ll always be my grandson” is literally all I ever wanted to hear from her. I’m so glad we had that moment, even if she doesn’t remember it. 🥺
as a queer person in an Extremely Blue state I’d like to remind everyone that no blue state will be able to protect you if DeSantis or Trump take the WH
also there are queerphobes in EVERY state and what’s happening nationally is making them bolder
so many queer folks who live in “safer areas” genuinely don’t care about their siblings who are suffering in anti-queer areas and it is beyond frustrating. especially with folks in the US because… the more bills that pass, the more likely they’ll spread 🫠
"them" & "their" is less clunky & more inclusive than "he or she" or "his or her" & you can magically make your sentences smoother & more inclusive by banishing "he or she" or "his or her" from your vocabulary thank you for coming to my TED talk
I’m honestly so done with this. don’t tell me it’s ~too hard~ to stop giving a violent transphobe your money.
NOTHING about it is harder than realizing the author who captivated your imagination as a child thinks of you as subhuman & actively wants you out of the public.
Me: I’m an author.
Person: Cool!
Me:
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Don’t say it
Them: I would write a book if I had the time.
GUISE
I JUST GOT REALLY EXCITING NEWS
FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER, 2 YEARS AFTER MY DEBUT PUBLISHED, I AM GETTING ROYALTIES
AUTHOR ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED 😭😭😭😭😭
imagine the first breakthrough cases happening and the first fully vaccinated people dying and hearing, once again, it's mostly just immunocompromised people/those with underlying medical issues so "you don't need to worry"
except, again, you ARE immunocompromised
imagine the vaccines being released and learning they didn't test on immunocompromised people so "we don't really know how well it'll work for you but probably it won't be as effective" 🤷🏼
wasn’t expecting to get hit w/ a transphobic line from a queer character in a queer YA by a queer author 🫠
I’m sure it wasn’t intentionally transphobic but I need cis authors to consider what they’re saying when they imply certain body parts are gross to certain queer people
imagine living 1.5 yrs hearing you're more likely to get covid, to get long covid, to die from covid, & no one can tell you how protected you are after getting vaxxed (oops! not very!) or after getting the 3rd shot (🤷🏼♂️) & your friends & family are getting annoyed at your caution
look, even if getting the 3rd dose DOES mean I'm as protected as a fully vaccinated able person (& we don't know that! so far we suspect maybe not!) hearing for a 1.5 years that you're more likely to get sick & die from an airborne virus we STILL haven't contained fucks you up.
tomboy “acceptance” has ALWAYS been conditional. it’s fine when a kid is young, but the *moment* puberty comes around the corner it’s time for them to “grow up and become a woman”
Folks speak fondly of the good old days when girls were satisfied just being "tomboys" as if they didn't try to force kids to conform the moment they exited primary school.
imagine learning nearly half of all breakthrough cases are immunocompromised people even though we're only ~3% of the population
(so "it's okay everyone, you don't need to worry! it probably won't be you")
(but you're part of that 3%. you are.)
HI EVERYONE! are you curious about what PRIDE & PREJUDICE might be like if Darcy was gay and the second eldest Bennet was a queer trans boy? WELL I HAVE THE BOOK FOR YOU IN 2024
hello, nonbinary people don’t “identify as” nonbinary, they ARE nonbinary.
trans women don’t “identify” as women, they ARE women.
trans men don’t “identify” as men, they ARE men. full stop.
imagine ~hot vax summer~ starting and learning fully vaccinated immunocompromised people are nearly 500x more likely to end up in the hospital or die from a breakthrough case
this Trans Day of Visibility I don’t need cis people to acknowledge we exist. we’re beyond that. I need cis people to acknowledge the growing wave of hate building against us and fucking do something about it.
was browsing knitting patterns on Ravelry and stumbled across this. this kind of solidarity is so rare I teared up when I saw it.
this. this is how to be an ally to trans people.
do…writers who don’t enjoy writing—to the point that they’d prefer a computer program do it for them using stolen work—know they…don’t have to write?
like no one is forcing you to be here, you can go find something else you like better!
imagine finally getting a 3rd dose and hearing "you're more protected now! thank god, you were more likely to be a variant incubator and sicken your family and also die lol. oh, how much more protected now? don't know!"
btw
if you’re STILL posting and buying HP merch, games, movies, promo, etc
you’re telling your trans friends and family loud and clear that you don’t give a shit about us. you’re saying you’ve chosen a fucking fandom over trans lives.
we won’t forget it.
“if men could get pregnant…”
trans men CAN get pregnant. & not only do they have to deal w/ the difficulties of pregnancy & labor, but ALSO
-barriers to medical care, public resources & pregnancy support b/c of erasure
-violent transphobia if they’re open about their pregnancy
not enough writers ask “Am I the right person to tell this story? If I publish this, will I be taking the space of someone in the marginalized community I’m writing about?”
when I was a teen I opened my 1st bank account w/ a parent. today that parent is a bigot who doesn’t speak to me/recognize who I am, but still has access to my accounts.
today I took the 1st step to cutting that last tie by opening a new account elsewhere & I’m v proud of myself
okay but can we talk about how the only reason we didn’t know this famous Viking warrior was not a cis guy is because archeologists saw weapons and said “that is a dude” and no one actually examined the bones until 2017
Holy wow this got way bigger than I expected, so some additions:
“niece and nephew” ➡️ “nibling”
“mother and father” ➡️ “parents”
“sir”/“ma’am” ➡️ dropped entirely
there are tons of trans authors:
Austin Chant, Meredith Russo, Juno Dawson, Kacen Callender, Aiden Thomas, ZR Ellor, Nita Tyndall, Fox Benwell, Alex Myers, L Nichols, Mason Deaver, Amy Rose Capetta, Cori McCarthy & that’s just who I can easily fit in a quick tweet
buy our books
this is nice but it would mean a lot more if your administration did literally anything to challenge the rising wave of transphobic laws spreading across the country
On Transgender Day of Visibility, we want you to know that we see you just as you are:
Made in the image of God and deserving of dignity, respect, and support.
We'll never stop working to create a world where you won't have to be brave just to be yourself.
told my 90yo grandma next time I visit I’m bringing my boyfriend and she said, “well, I have a spare bedroom with one large bed and I don’t ask questions.”
I am DECEASED 😂😂💀💀
to be clear
BUYING Harry Potter books, games, movies & official merch DIRECTLY puts money in the pocket of a woman who has made herself the face of transphobia.
you CANNOT promote her work financially and call yourself a trans ally. you’re directly supporting transphobia.
randomly thinking about how on our second date, the boy and I went to a bookstore and he very sweetly pointed to the YA shelves and said, "One day your books will be here."
and, in the most perfect twist of fate, my books already were.
hey
@twitter
, now might be a good time to ban this account before someone dies. he's already incited violence at the Capitol. this will only encourage more.
imagine making so much money from your books that you never have to work again and having your books read by entire generations of kids and choosing to ruin your legacy by running your mouth, completely unprompted, to show off how queerphobic you are
When you attach grief to their joy, you numb that joy. You center yourself in what should be a journey for and about them. What you've "lost" is a fiction about your child. What you're gaining is their truth. Do not grieve the fiction; celebrate the truth.
this🧵is meant to illuminate how much more terrifying this pandemic has been for immunocompromised people, & why so many of us must continue social distancing, isolating, & masking even AFTER being vaxxed. many ableds tell us we’re being “overcautious.” this🧵is why we must be.
can't stop thinking about how JKR getting nominated for a fucking award for her toxic, violently transphobic essay not only legitimizes transphobia, but positions it as something worthy of praise and accolades
deleted b/c I’m not trying to start something but it’s gross to see a YA author envisioning a ~good Republican~ they’d vote for on a fantasy bipartisan ticket while GOPers are trying to remove trans children from loving parents & ban books that mention trans people like me exist.
very very tired of seeing queer men get shouted down on here every time they point out publishing & many of its readers don’t prioritize their voices in the m/m space
Fellow trans/nonbinary people!
What are some small things cis people around you could do or change about their behavior that would make your everyday life easier?
you know who didn't chickenshit out of gays in space?
Star Trek: Beyond
not only did Hikaru get to be with his husband *and* daughter on screen, but none of them died, AND he was acting captain at one point
Seriously? The like button is solidarity. It says, “I see you” even when you’re too exhausted to form a reply. It’s a nod or a smile. It’s support.
This is a depressingly bad move,
@jack
.
gonna be honest, I don’t give a single fuck about the economy when it means sacrificing people’s lives to “keep things running”
the economy can recover. we can’t bring back the dead, and we don’t know that we can cure people disabled by this virus.
also periodic reminder, I guess, that if someone tweets about liking a thing you don't like you aren't actually obligated to tell them you don't like the thing. like. you can keep scrolling.
I’ve shared this before, but on my 2nd date with the boy, he knew I wrote but not that I’d been published. so at a bookstore, in the YA section, he very sweetly pointed to the shelf and said, “one day, your books will be here.”
to my surprise & delight, all 3 of my books were.
hey
hey you
are you still following JKR?
are you sure?
have you checked?
because if you are you’re contributing to her platform which she has decided to weaponized against trans people and if that’s not a dealbreaker for you then go ahead and unfollow me
this!!! informed consent STILL tells trans masculine people that testosterone can make you infertile but that is NOT TRUE. you can get pregnant on T and if you miss a dose it’s more likely to happen. T is not birth control!
2016: oh god another celebrity is trending don’t tell me they’re dead too
2017: oh god another celebrity is trending don’t tell me they’re abusive trash too
I do think cis queer YA authors in particular need to be vigilant whenever making ANY statements, no matter how casual, about the body—particularly parts that tend to be gendered. if you’re openly queer trans teens will think your books are safe. it’s on you to make sure they are
To clarify:
-this🧵is my experience, so yes, I’m fully vaxxed x3
-I’m NOT saying vaccines are pointless—I’m saying though many of us ARE fully vaxxed we still don’t know how protected we are
-The ~500x is 485x exactly, compared to vaxxed ableds, pre dose 3
-If you can, get vaxxed
I’m so excited to share the beautiful cover for MOST ARDENTLY, my YA PRIDE & PREJUDICE retelling in which Darcy is gay & the second eldest Bennet is a gay trans boy, illustrated by the incredible
@marlowelune
and designed by the amazing
@suchdainties
! I …
conservatives think universities "turn" students liberal because it turns out when you're exposed to a variety of people whose life experiences are different from yours and are encouraged to think critically, GOP talking points fall apart
THE WICKED BARGAIN IS OUT TODAY! this book has
🏳️⚧️ trans masc nonbinary protagonist!
🏴☠️ all the pirates!
👿 devil deal gone wrong!
✨ hidden ~secret~ magic!
😈 genderfluid demonio with their own agenda!
and it's available now at all retailers! HOORAY!
@ADHDLaura
to me, not giving her any more money is the most important part. what you do with the stuff you already have or how you feel about the series is totally up to you!
okay there's a lot of transphobia talk on my TL so I'm gonna say this: the worst part of being trans are the transphobes & dysphoria. (& I'd argue the latter is worsened by the former.)
the best part is everything else.
I love being trans.
inclusive language for reproductive health:
women’s health ➡️ reproductive health
pregnant women ➡️ pregnant people
birth mom ➡️ birth parent
mommies (when speaking about pregnancy) ➡️ birth parents
a woman’s right (to an abortion) ➡️ a person’s right
this isn’t hard
hello good morning as we inevitably talk more about reproductive rights, here is yet another reminder this isn't just a "women's issue." nonbinary & trans people exist.
your "men can't get pregnant" take is tired & throws trans people under the bus so you can get some sweet RTs