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@BarryPierce gen z watched tosh.0 and/or had youtube access we’ve seen it… we are 17-28 years old
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@RdotSpoon being a sex therapist is also a real job?? idk why this is shocking to people
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@lettersfromjuno the crazy thing too is her posting this on her business account like it’s not going to deter customers from booking with her. like she’s essentially performing citizens arrest on a Client! what a weirdo. scary tbh.
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@_pem_pem some tiktok creator filming a video already got shot last year in a mall in virginia
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@lettersfromjuno as someone who has had both girl and boy cats there’s /some truth to the point but you can find unfriendly boy cats just as easily as you can girl cats. they all have individual personalities at the end of the day. i’d say girl cats are just more likely to be shy/cautious.
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@_pem_pem not only do i think this isn’t necessarily enough to predict whether someone is a “bad person” i think people in general have become obsessed with villainizing others. people are just people who aren’t inherently good/bad. sometimes people aren’t “bad” you just don’t get along.
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@lettersfromjuno no you’re spot on with that. the way she kept screaming “you’re in my house you’re in my house” like ?? okay?? that doesn’t give you the right to do any of what you’re doing! she could prob sue her for emotional damages esp bc the tech filmed it all.
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this reminds me of the discourse surrounding people who have kids just to have them versus those who understand the responsibility/task of shaping a new human’s mind. you can’t treat your child like they’re an inanimate object and expect a relationship with them as an adult.
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I don’t think people understand that for a lot of people in abusive households, being alone was a punishment for us. What I mean by this is when your guardian who you gave love to starts to show you that you are essentially too much of a burden and they tell you to “go to your -
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@illuminiah i’ll never forget the first time i visited a place with truly dark night skies it’s unreal for a person who grew up in a very light polluted area
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@kemimarie the authority thing is spot on but even for kids who tend to throw temper tantrums/are irritable/just unruly in general i feel like parents don’t respect the fact that they aren’t used to being alive yet. there’s a lot of big emotions in such a small body it can be overwhelming.
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@amberwb @BarryPierce that’s why i think it’s funny when older gen z people or specifically the ones born in the 90s want to claim to be a millennial so badly… like no one likes millennials either.
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@GasolineJoy @_pem_pem yeah he claimed self defense and it was on video so i guess it was compelling enough for a jury
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@joshzancan @BarryPierce social scientists don’t handle generations well anyway. no one agrees on it so i prefer to look at the astrological determination of pluto. millennial is scorpio, z is sagittarius and alpha is capricorn. gen x is fucked bc there isn’t a gen between pluto in virgo and libra.
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@_pem_pem i do think there’s truth to your point and i’ve seen it myself but in general it’s not another excuse to point the finger back. its the black and white nature of your statement that i think is just as dangerous as people who hate negative/cynical people.
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@lettersfromjuno and even the rampant islamophobia 😬
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@sunders0nic it’s not really a love language that’s just a buzzword. it’s moreso the fact that active participation is expected in a romantic connection, it’s the initiative. if you’re constantly having to ask to be considered you’re in a one sided relationship. it’s just the basic principle.
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ultimately not all child abuse is physical or something that can be visibly verified. sometimes it’s invisible and often covert in ways that even the child doesn’t know what happened to them until they’re older or seek therapy. neglect is a form of abuse.
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@brashlover @BarryPierce obviously, i was just accounting for gen z as a group. but most of us were from a young age.
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the sad thing is how damaging this conflict resolution (which is really avoidance) can be for the child as an adult. you subconsciously seek out relationships that mimic the dynamic and you have to learn for the first time as an adult that your feelings and needs are important.
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@Divine_Smile !!! yes! if the fear is based within the context of a relationship the fear will only be dismissed in isolation and always be triggered once you are with others. being alone wasn’t the problem the problem was whatever happened in that past relationship.
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@Galaxibrain444 and “autism therapy” is how to assimilate into allistic culture and not teaching autistic people ways to self advocate or make their own accommodations. like we have to change our entire being just to make others comfortable when we’re the uncomfortable ones.
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@DoctorPissPants exactly, like try 8,768 days
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@KateyKGecko @RdotSpoon somehow puritanical and oversexualized at the same time
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@bangingmyhead as someone on the spectrum i don’t even use that phrase because it just sounds dumb. especially because im hyperlexic and there’s other people on the spectrum who are like effectively nonverbal in nature not just situationally. buzzwords don’t destigmatize they sensationalize!
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@hourlyrullet @_pem_pem eyebrow raises are welcome and necessary in life! i just think it’s ridiculous to call someone a narcissist or psychopath for having a personality you don’t like... like who died and made you the psychiatrist? sounds more like the call is coming from inside their house to me
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@JhonnyWhite69 all i can think about is the juice leaking from being held upside down for that long
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@lettersfromjuno whether or not a cat is affectionate has more to do with their early development. if they aren’t introduced to humans or taken from their mothers too soon they can have more aloof behaviors. if the cat was abused/neglected by a previous owner that would affect them too.
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@lettersfromjuno my theory would be that kids spend more time in water than they do as adults. you’re more likely to go to the pool, beach or take baths so you’re more likely to get water trapped in the ear. you also haven’t built your immune system yet so it’s just vulnerability + exposure.
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@coldhealing thats maybaby from the beauty guru youtuber era! she’s actually a millennial but she’s also canadian so maybe that’s what you’re picking up on.
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@lettersfromjuno saturn rewards humility 🤭
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@solelunastro cancer is the sign associated with the chariot tarot card for a reason!
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@lettersfromjuno well said!! and if you’re not using your knowledge/power/skills for the greater good you may be getting into spirituality or occult subjects for the wrong reasons. just like how people hide behind their religions people hide behind their spirituality to rationalize bad behaviors.
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@hersheyhippo i think anxious attachments build up resentment towards avoidants bc they’re often the one who has to change their ways or face consequences in the relationship that the avoidant gets away with or is often favored in the complications/conflict. they’re both unhealthy/traumatized.
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@APurplePokemon @_pem_pem i know and it’s not like the tiktok guy was completely innocent. the shooter was just making deliveries for doordash trying to pay his bills and here comes some asshole yelling and shoving a phone in his face. like since when has the internet ever been a place for moral reasoning
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TW⚠️: taylor swift’s feet but yeah girl you’re sooooooooooooooo fat!!!!!!!!!!! big fatty chubby girl fat girl!
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and lying by omission is no different from any other lie!
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lying to someone because you are protecting their feelings is manipulative and self centered. you are protecting yourself and no one else.
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@kronosastrology 8th house, i went to a lot of funerals (mostly elders in my family) and spent most of 2008-now dealing with my mental health. had a few scary/near death moments too. naturally, there are other things i wont disclose but had immense impact on who i am now too (how capricorn).
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@daredevilstits @lettersfromjuno that’s why i think it’s more of a mixed bag based on their personalities/early development. my oldest cat is a girl and was abused before we got her so she has a lot of social issues/limitations as a result. my boy cat was friendly to everyone and we got to raise him as a kitten.
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@empressatlantis you see as a 12h venus and 7th house lord in 12th ruled by said venus, that would mean i would also have to have real friends to defend me in the first place…. pipe dream!
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@GoodReddit she’s not even upset that he built a fire it’s the fact that he sat in a whole different chair c’mon people think harder
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@sagistarbb idk if their upbringing is enough of an excuse. maybe i’m more saturnian but everybody has to deal with their wounds and childhood wiring. if you can’t grow beyond that it’s just unbecoming. no one deserves to be coddled more than the next.
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@nottydesignss korean skincare!! the general philosophy of korean skincare focuses on repairing your moisture barrier. also anything with cica, snail mucin, applying moisturizer and serums with wet skin (water or toner) and moisturizing sunscreens!!
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@yassnito the question is more so why can’t fans be normal, or just appreciate the artistry and not expect an emotional bond with the artists beyond their ability to relate to or enjoy their works. she’s a business it’s like asking office depot to say i love you.
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@adoseofmars banishment
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@solelunastro as a sagittarius moon i pretty much carry everything on this list all the time
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@amberwb @BarryPierce that’s why i think the generational discourse is kinda dumb in the first place because there are many factors that eliminate the ownership of certain experiences/knowledge. like there are cultured and uncultured people across all generations. it doesn’t define a person too much.
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@lettersfromjuno sometimes i wonder if the lack of experiences or just the lower number of experiences/relationships makes us take the ones we do enter into more seriously? like it’s easier to feel grateful for or even sanctify the relationship we eventually build.
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@DeeLaSheeArt exactly. it’s not like a restraining order actually stops people from killing someone or pursuing harm against that person. if someone has bad intentions they’ll do what they can to see it through regardless of your boundaries. they already don’t care in the first place.
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@Chosler @joshzancan @BarryPierce it’s not widely accepted but in my experience it’s more accurate/the only consistent boundary as it pertains to the world people are born into. there’s too much disagreement on generations in social science research but pluto transits closely follow the societal/tech changes!
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living in broward is like being in an inescapable k hole
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this feels like an snl skit
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@LEEROYSPANKINGS @kazhar87 it’s less of a consequence of multiculturalism than it is of capitalism/system structure. the entire culture of the united states is centered around our economy and class structures.
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@witchashtyn the common denominator for unhealthy attachment is poor communication skills. the internet makes that worse and gives people an intangible escape, but the pandemic destroyed social skills on top of that. people have to stop putting others into boxes too! nuance matters greatly
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i have ZERO sympathy for anyone who has never lived as a fat person to be doing this shit
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@Chosler @joshzancan @BarryPierce nope it’s just my perspective/hobby. you don’t have to learn or concern yourself with it if you don’t want to.
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@lettersfromjuno it’s also the camaraderie that forms in the online communities that perpetuate those beliefs. they identify themselves as being loners & relish in that as a form of connection. they feel rejected by society so they validate each other through their misplaced hatred of women.
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@AstroByMax i think it’s less about venus retrograde and more about pluto squaring the nodes in aries/libra 🤭 but venus still plays a role for sure
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@hersheyhippo like it explains the resentment/perception towards avoidants that’s often less empathetic but to an anxious or secure person the avoidant is devoid of empathy to begin with. in any circumstance of attachment issues if you can’t communicate/heal together or otherwise it’s futile.
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@kemimarie and parents love to dismiss their kids for not having adult problems or being “attention seeking” when comfort is probably exactly what they need. children have no frame of reference for anything until they’re taught by the parents so it’s the parents’ own fault sometimes.
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@maxwi1695 @Chosler @joshzancan @BarryPierce i’m not doing anything different other than determining the years of the generations based off of the sign that pluto is in at that point. it’s also not my original thought it’s the astrological way of looking at generations. pluto changes signs every 20ish years hence the use.
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@empressatlantis when i read this i completely forgot that i have this aspect for like a few seconds.. which explains why it’s not a noticeable transit to me
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@lunagiiselle thank you for having one of the only rational takes i’ve seen this eclipse season. like this happens multiple times a year people! act like you know what you’re doing!!
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i tried making focaccia 🫣 it’s gluten free focaccia
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@LEEROYSPANKINGS @kazhar87 it’s only detrimental in a country that makes false promises of the “american dream” creating division amongst the people ultimately fighting the same battle. it’s not the common denominator as much as the economic system is. it’s fear mongering rhetoric to perpetuate the issue.
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@impossiblyeve not enough liquid in the batter, and it kinda looks like you might’ve double poured which you should only pour once into the pan. if you add extra batter on top of semi-cooked batter it won’t cook in the middle. also try a lower heat it’ll cook more evenly for thicker pancakes.
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@empressatlantis as a 12th houser i’ve realized that my childhood tendencies of reading movie plot summaries before watching is a lot similar to my adult astrological research trying to prepare myself for anything surprising or scary again
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@seafl00r @lettersfromjuno what a weird thing to say. you didn’t even understand my point, you just want an excuse to be upset. work on your reading comprehension skills.
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@unathidd i’ve ended many friendships over this. its not just weird but it goes against the principle of friendship which is trust. if someone can’t trust you, you sure as hell can’t trust them.
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@suprasensorys and nonsensical beliefs on healing such as being able to isolate or work on everything alone and expect to never run into those same problems again. as if “healing” isn’t an everyday choice only stagnated by isolation. just social media therapy nonsense.
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idk why we commend people for their ability to collect/keep friends rather than the quality of those friendships. like why keep resentful or harmful relational dynamics around? not everything in life is permanent either. people who live off drama will always make it a bigger deal
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btches be so quick to be like “you be falling out with everyone. you’re the problem,” y’all don’t be worth keeping around. i rather keep my own company
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@normalpilled7 don’t look at it as a void! consider it to be your lust for life, a desire for more.
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@bleachellaaaa coo coo cachoo so did i, but it’s called being aware of reality and not unintentionally disrespecting every ACTUAL fat person… in other words it’s not her culture to claim!!!!
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@lettersfromjuno subscribing to both of those ideas is basically guaranteeing an unhealthy attachment style. even subscribing to just one of them. it’s not even advice at that point it’s just fear mongering and belittling. they set it up like a lose/lose for what?? just to say you aren’t special?
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besides the fact that women often ask their friends to do this on their behalf, i always find it interesting how a solid majority if not all cockblock videos are of fat women defending their friends. it just comes off as weird that it’s never a thin person being called out.
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@kronosastrology there’s duality to any expression either malefic or benefic. saturn could reward just as much as it restricts. jupiter the greater benefic can be just as expansively horrible as expansively good. it’s not as black and white good or bad.
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@lettersfromjuno that kind of insight really explains why older generations have so much resentment toward the younger generations for “not settling down” like even with the job market/student loans too. they struggle to think beyond their own experiences. they can’t imagine today’s circumstance.
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superstition is used in the absence of understanding. the less someone understands the more they try to rationalize or find some conclusion to something they lack knowledge of to calm their mind. when it comes to illness and injury it can happen to anyone it’s not comeuppance.
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If Wendy got dementia bc of her bad karma then what did you do to get long covid?
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@adoseofmars it’s a spectrum of pornstar to tradwife
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@lettersfromjuno before the ozempic craze there was discussion among health fanatics over taking another diabetes medication called metformin (which is also prescribed for conditions like pcos) bc they believe it can extend your life. it reduces glucose production and is an appetite suppressant.
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at least my sugar daddy loves me 🫶🏻
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@oddpinkfem it’s not just smaller sized people buying up larger sizes (which they do and it’s annoying bc for them it’s a trend for others it’s accessibility) but retailers don’t always stock larger sizes to the demand level—which is high bc the average size in the US is now a 16!! not 14
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please for the love of god don’t tell lele pons about this
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@kemimarie you can’t let your own experiences shape an entire sign, let alone two signs. every sign and placement is capable of manipulation or whatever negative behavior in their own unique way. remember that it’s mercury retrograde 🫣leave us venusians alone the south node is doing enough
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@milkstrology they may not have lived through 9/11 but the way that this country obsesses over it and replays the by the minute footage from the day of on the news every anniversary we understand it. the difference is we only know post-9/11 america and not what once was before it.
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@sexytwerp someone had to defend this innocent creature
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@sagistarbb not even just the for you but if you speak on any subject adjacent to those communities they somehow find your posts and descend on you with their nastiness. which makes sense bc both of their ideologies are based in self hatred and harassing people who trigger them.
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@milkstrology and the classic processing only when you get a chance to be alone and realizing how much you fucked up an interaction/couldn’t read the other people well.
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i feel like it’s just insult to injury because it’s not like women Want to be celibate/abstain from dating but rather the circumstances that force us to use dating apps in the first place & the general state of the dating pool. the apps themselves are a major part of the problem.
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Bumble need to fuck off and stop trying to shame women into coming back to the apps. Instead of them to run ads targeted at men telling them to be normal.
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@8chabard lack of knowledge results in two reactions usually. either people inquire about the words they don’t know/look them up or ask the person to clarify in the moment, or people shut down/become defensive and usually say something like “word salad” bc they just don’t understand you.
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@how2pingu @eighthhouseleo i think they mean for those with saturn in houses 2-7? bc for them it’s the first time they’ve had saturn cross the ascendant and they’re older vs someone who has it in the above the asc who went through it as a baby-young child. i get your point though.
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FETTUCCINI is the cutest name i’ve heard for a cat move over tallulah
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@lettersfromjuno it also disregards the fact that you can have a long history of serious relationships and still not know how to have a healthy one, even as an adult. her point kinda comes off as casting blame on only the other person in the relationship and not her own participation.
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marx actually argues that those not in control of the economy itself should not be blamed for merely participating/existing within the society they were born into (ie capitalism)
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@onlinegirlie i feel as though it’s far less immature to be emotionally available and to know what you want out of life. it’s delusional to believe that being closed off or hardening yourself is something to be proud of. your life will have so much more meaning the more you remain genuine.
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@aruariandepart it’s shallow if it’s all consuming but i think this is a natural reaction to societal pressure from social media to look perfect. we’re constantly inventing new ways to call people ugly/unattractive & industries capitalize off of the fear of being judged. media kills self esteem.
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