My friend text me like โyo I need uโ & sends me the location to a club, I pull up, ready to fight & she goes โI just wanted another baddie here, why u dressed like that?โ I coulda beat her ass
Iโm so upset that my friend even thought she had to run this by me first! We support & encourage each otherโs growth over here โจ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฏโโ๏ธ
One thing about me.. Iโm REALLY committed to living the life I want.. Iโll start over as many times as I have too. Whatever doesnโt align must go!
I love random acts of service. Nothing hits quite like a โsaw this and thought about youโ gift. Flowers on a regular day. Spontaneous weekend trips. Massages after a long day. CATER 2 MEEEEE
Men donโt deserve bad bitches... they donโt even comprehend that hair, nails, waxes, pedis, eyelashes, facials, AND outfit run up like $700 in a day... then they want to take u to get wings.... OK.
I think as women we need to stop making excuses for men who are not willing to commit. No itโs not the โwrong timeโ nor is he โfighting demonsโ youโre simply not the one he wants to be with. Count your losses early & do better.
Idk what men think โapplying pressureโ is but yโall donโt be calling everyday, sending flowers, planning dates or trips. How am I supposed to know u like me in the midst of ur inconsistencies???
You got 2 months of โtalking/datingโ me to decide if u want to wife me or not (Iโm sure youโll know after the 1st date but Iโm giving u time to drop ur hoes) after that, charge it to the game baby. Iโm off u.
Bills on autopay. No debt. Emergency fund. Investments + assets. Long term savings account. Retirement fund + Roth IRA. Donating to charity. Living below my means. Vacations every month. Not feeling guilty about splurging on myself.
Send me a man who already lost a good woman so Iโm not the one who has to teach him that lesson. I need him to understand my worth the first time around.
A man who lets me know from the beginning he canโt give me what I want gets more respect than a man who tricks me into commitment KNOWING he isnโt ready.
I understand itโs considered unhealthy to go completely silent when upset.. but if u knew how sharp my tongue is & how deep my words cut.. youโd appreciate me taking a few moments to process before engaging.
Iโm not marrying a man who doesnโt do shit around the house. Simply because Iโm not trying to end up like your nagging mother always complaining about how โnobody helps me with SHIT hereโ