Right now instagram is the only thing that I’m really posting on as it allows me to control my “close friends” better a than any other social media. Here are my accounts if you’d like to keep up with me and my life, & if ur a mutual I might add u to close friends if I recognize u
the nurse: what are your pronouns
me: he/him
the nurse: what is your gender identity m, f or other
me: m
the nurse: what’s your sexual orientation
me: gay
the nurse: so what parts do you have
me: (answers)
the nurse(to the doctor coming in) ok thanks! her chart is on the door
get your fucking ass up and just hang out. it seems like no one wants to just hang out these days. you have to surround yourself with people who just want to hang out
Anyone else think about how fucked up it is that there’s natural remedies but if you try to research it you end up in a far right pipeline on a website talking about how raw keto is the only thing humans were designed to eat or some fucking pseudoscience bullshit
him: i’m coming over you better not be bathing in candlelight drinking wine from a goblet listening to debussy thinking about how different things could have been
my longing and yearning ass:
I feel like I’ve been seeing soooooo much of this the past few years — “alternative” looks and aesthetics with the most typical run of the mill pop music. Why is that
“androgynous” stuff is literally just masc stuff and i constantly see people using those words interchangeably. we should absolutely question why we see masculine dress as the only “neutral” ground.
“Nobody off of twitter says afab” girl I don’t know how to tell you this but yes they do. It’s the only descriptor on the Lex app. People use it to discriminate when looking to share housing. They use the term AFAB specifically. Someone said it to me on a date
If you see a trans person who doesn’t look like the gender they were assigned at birth and your reaction is to call them “assimilationist” or “cis pleasing” you a are so fucking transphobic btw
On the opposite side of the spectrum the ftm orgasm is the craziest thing I’ve ever experienced, and is infinitely better than pre t in every single way
some guy just had his gay awakening right in front of me, to me, vocally. he said “wow i didn’t even know i was— you’re the most attractive man i’ve ever seen” and then stared at me and i said “good luck”
Controversial opinion but if you are so devastated about losing your delicate little female body you don’t have to transition to male by the way??? Lmao ???
Ethically non-monogamous pansexual with a cis girlfriend who has never been with a “trans” and texts you everything he wants to do to you and then is going to meet you in a parking lot and tell you he can’t do this
While everyone is having discourse about testosterone turning you into a disgusting 🚬 I just want to say I love men and I love being gay and I really don’t care if testosterone made me do it or not
not defending anyone or making any assumptions but i am saying that when i was extremely depressed just buying buying myself paper plates instead of having to do the dishes was one of the kindest things i ever did for myself
“I don’t want ____ from t because I’m nonbinary” girl what. Maybe I’m crazy but does assigning bodily attributes to a gender not defeat the entire purpose. Absolutely no deconstruction of the binary, just a weird obsession with creating this third gender. I’m nonbinary too btw.
when was the moment A H S croaked for you. for me it was when jimmy darling (lobster boy in circus) started singing a fucking nirvana song in a show that took place in the 1950s
every trans person is different. if i was told i could have bottom surgery tomorrow but i had to use she/her pronouns only i would immediately would say yes. i’m happy that your body “isn’t the problem” but mine is and i’m not making my transsexuality more palatable for anyone
I would technically consider myself non-binary so don’t come for me but I think a lot of non-binary people would feel a lot happier if they actually truly just stopped believing and subscribing to gender as a concept at all and just living their life
sooooo funny to me when a cis bottom is talking to me about bottoming and then says something like “oops i forgot you’re trans” like girl i have an asshole too??? 😭😭😭😭😭
who else up thinking about how you finally have a will to live and you actually really want to be alive and your governement is actively trying to make sure you die and most people aren’t even taking it seriously or showing that they give a fuck at all
non-binary is not a third gender by the way, and while i don’t know what terms they prefer, you don’t either! let us have t4t joy and stop being weird!
Trans boys this is coming from a place of love. Thin mustaches are hot but maybe google a pencil mustache and look at the material. Maybe the thin handlebar mustache is not working maybe. Maybe follow the line of your lip and shave those ends. Love you
I don’t understand how there are even people who are also in the trans community who don’t understand that some people actually literally need to be on HRT. How can you not at least try to understand that as a literal fellow trans person
every time someone is like “i’m not into trans people” i’ve been like wow thank god because you are so ugly i didn’t want to have to deal with that. i’ve never seen a hot person say that in my life. it’s literally never happened
Watching this just made me so sad because I recently read about the symptoms used to diagnose trans kids, and how I experienced and voiced every single one of them, and no one did anything about it
gender is not real to me, so eventually i stopped worrying about my gender identity at all and just dressed and presented how i liked, just because that might be more masculine does not make me “binary.” just say you hate transsexuals and go
I literally cannot believe we are having discussions about how bad of people we are for calling ourselves transsexuals while my state government is barring medical care for trans adults and requiring lists of transitioning people to be sent to the state government
@iridescentUwU
Truth is you probably won’t ever “pass” unless you got to transition before puberty hit.
But you can still get gendered correctly with the right presentation and you can be beautiful.
Passing would require paving over your past and personality anyway. It’s not worth it.
being queer is so fucking funny because i literally am friends with not one but two people who are sign painters. that’s like, their job. who the fuck even knows a sign painter
i only own one stuffed animal and it’s one of those ones you can put in the microwave to make it warm (my friend gifted it to me when i had chronic pain) but there is just something about putting a stuffed animal in the microwave like it feels so wrong every time