Gwenhwyfar @foldin_thecheez Twitter profile

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Gwenhwyfar

@foldin_thecheez

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Two groups of people I’m not interested in arguing with: • Anti-choice men • TERFs

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Gwenhwyfar

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Adoption doesn’t solve the issue of not wanting to be pregnant in the first place. It’s not OK to force someone to endure that against their will for nearly a year, especially when they’ll be the ones who have to deal with any resulting medical issues and bills.

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@JuneAndTheCity she had people offering to adopt them too. it didn’t have to be this way

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Gwenhwyfar

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Men complaining about a literal Victoria’s Secret model cutting her hair. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Like any of them would dream of rejecting her regardless of what’s on her head.

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Some people act like pregnancy is a walk in the park, like it can’t severely fuck up somebody’s body and health for the long-term. Like there isn’t a chance, however slim, that it could kill them. Really pisses me off when pro-lifers try to make it sound like it’s NBD.

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@ask_aubry “I don’t know how to take no for an answer. Let me tell you how I’m the victim, several years later.”

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Gwenhwyfar

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1 year

@Donttellm5 @mattxiv Pointing out how straight cis white men generally benefit from our current system over most marginalized people is not persecution, dude. It’s just the truth. It was designed to run this way. Maybe you’re not a villain, but you’re not a victim either.

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Gwenhwyfar

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@ask_aubry Before moving cross-country to be with my ex, we were sitting in a Denny’s. He was speaking harshly and I started to cry. When he got up to use the bathroom, a server came over to ask if I needed help. I wish I had said yes.

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@DoomScroling Friends don’t expect us to cook and clean for them. Their definition of “low maintenance” is “pushover.”

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@unknxwnblu @JessPected Women aren’t objects and therefore cannot be “used,” particularly if it’s an activity the women chose. Hope that helps.

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@keystohappy Nobody except the pregnant person gets to decide if it’s worth it *to them* to continue a pregnancy and give birth.

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Gwenhwyfar

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@SujitSMenon @Josh3174 @slutriarch Jesus Christ. Boo hoo, women aren’t your property and have an equal say in society through voting. Everything would be perfect, if only men still controlled everything women are allowed to do!

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Gwenhwyfar

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1 year

@ask_aubry A guy who delivered food to my workplace for a meeting got my name off the credit card slip to send me messages from an anonymous Facebook account. He described the dress I was wearing and acted so confused when I told him off for being creepy as hell.

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1 year

@emrazz They really think we’re nothing without their validation. 😂

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@JadeK526 If the pregnant person is interested in incubating the triplets for several months in exchange for that, fine. But she wasn’t. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Gwenhwyfar

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2 years

@TallMist @ask_aubry We’re sluts if we don’t sleep with them, and we’re sluts if we do. 🤡

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1 year

@Donttellm5 @mattxiv Mmmkay. Have fun doubling down on your bullshit. I’m gonna go do something else with my time, because you’re not going to change my mind anymore than I’ve changed yours.

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@CarolineMoss @uranoutofluck She’s Gen X, but I remember watching “The Truth About Cats & Dogs” when I was a teenager and wondering on what planet Janeane Garofalo was supposed to be considered fat and unattractive. It really messed with my head, because I was bigger than she was.

The Truth About Cats & Dogs 1996 Trailer HD | Uma Thurman | Janeane...

The Truth About Cats & Dogs 1996 A successful veternarian & radio show host with low self-esteem asks her model friend to impersonate her when a handsome man...

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Gwenhwyfar

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1 year

@Kryogenicz @DrewAfualo Don’t date someone who does things that will make you uncomfortable in the parameters of a relationship. It’s not hard. Just… don’t date them. Then you don’t have to worry about getting them to change.

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@1980Phoenix I just had a hysterectomy and was reading about people like me STILL GETTING PREGNANT. 😧 Ofc those pregnancies aren’t viable at all and can cause severe harm, and they’re pretty rare… but still.

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Gwenhwyfar

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@cherylprice @ask_aubry He wouldn’t answer any direct questions about what he did/said to cause her to flee like that, but he responded to a now-deleted question with “I didn’t rape her.” He also said he knows her older baby isn’t his because of the timing. 😒

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1 year

@ask_aubry Thankful I was able to leave my ex before it got to this point. He didn’t want to take one day off work to take me to an outpatient procedure. He told me he’d be OK with it if I died giving birth to our child (it’s inadvisable for me to have kids). He got mad when I caught colds.

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Gwenhwyfar

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6 months

@canicomeback3 @slutriarch You’re equating a dance by fat people to public masturbation?

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1 year

@ask_aubry “This,” like they’re not people. 😒

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1 year

@ask_aubry I just turned 41. Why tf would I want to date a 20-year-old? That’s gross. Let young people date other young people.

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1 year

@DrewAfualo Seeing all these pictures of him, he is way too old to be acting like this. Embarrassing.

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2 months

@DoomScroling Is that dude basing every life decision on one day being a father?

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1 year

@Goddess_CIeo @ask_aubry Yeah, he understands consent. He asked for it, didn’t get it, and proceeded to do what he wanted anyway.

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@JessPected It’s like they’re all given a handbook. As a single woman without kids, I’ve been approached a few times by men who admitted they were married with kids. They all had the same sob story, and they didn’t like it when I asked what they do at home to support their wives.

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Gwenhwyfar

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2 years

@ask_aubry “Start a family so I have someone to commiserate with about how much it sucks. If you don’t want to, I’ll shit all over your accomplishments so I feel better about my own choices.” Nope. YTA to her.

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@ask_aubry I’m so tired of people casually discussing women’s subjugation. These two women are like, “Hmm, let’s calmly advocate for our own rights to be taken away.” If you don’t want to vote or have a say in your own life, don’t. But you don’t get to force that on the rest of us.

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@Bluerue2123 @ask_aubry Can’t lose his live-in servant.

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Gwenhwyfar

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2 years

@a1lb74rd @pamrollins_ @StephenM Some transgender men *can* get pregnant. Some non-binary people can get pregnant, too. Their opinions matter. Certainly more than yours or any other cis male.

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@ask_aubry Men: “I don’t like women, all they have to offer is sex.” Also men: “Why don’t women like me?”

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Gwenhwyfar

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@Rhys34404327 @MarinYangGang @TString5 @JessPected So maybe consider being a decent partner so your future wife ISN’T unhappy?

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@JessPected He also thinks a photo of a man’s hand pointing a gun in a young woman’s face is “hot.”

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1 year

@ask_aubry Can these guys just not? Jfc.

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@GreyGrimGhost lol okay

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@vixmcintyre @slutriarch @blahmannnn @Lewdakrizz Right? They’re the ones who refuse to shut up about things women do that have nothing to do with them.

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2 years

@sgurn @ask_aubry Or that they’ll be rushing to prove him wrong, begging for his approval. 🙄

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1 year

@all4laughs4me @emrazz Doubt anyone here needs a man to lecture us on how to support women, Matt. The issue with stay-at-home wives/moms isn’t that they choose it. Without their own income, they can struggle with finding the resources to leave bad marriages. And they should get breaks and days off.

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1 year

@ask_aubry Yeah, that isn’t funny. It’s creepy. That’s about it.

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5 months

@taverna72322 @notcapnamerica So you call out government interference in medical decisions, but only if it affects you? Got it.

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Gwenhwyfar

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@JessPected Feels like any dude who posts this and takes it seriously should be embarrassed.

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@JadeK526 I can’t imagine asking anyone to gestate a pregnancy for me that they don’t want to endure, even if I was willing to cover the entire cost. And then getting MAD and publicly complaining when the person doesn’t take me up on it. Just gross.

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@ask_aubry She should bail, not hold out for a ring. She thinks she’ll enjoy “wifey” shit after marriage? I was married and didn’t want to do it. It’s not like my ex was the breadwinner; I was. He claimed he was “traditional,” but apparently that only applied to gender roles for me. 🥴

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1 year

@jayblackisfunny @ask_aubry Me and my communications degree from a mid level state university feel attacked.

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Gwenhwyfar

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10 months

@HeadRoomTalking @janefortruth Sending you all the love this morning. I’m so sorry. Also: ACAB, as usual 😒

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Gwenhwyfar

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@RyanMessano Well, sex plus a free maid and 24/7/365/18+ nanny to your “legacies,” right? Men’s hatred of women isn’t some big secret. 🤭 You guys are so loud about it; case in point, your post. Why do you think more young women are choosing freedom over you?

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Gwenhwyfar

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@DeltaPrime95 @Paxalida @BeingUpile If you see it happening, call the guy out. Pull out your phone to record him, maybe? It might scare him off. If your friends or male family members say derogatory things about girls or young women, call them on it. Men don’t listen to us, but they might listen to you.

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Gwenhwyfar

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2 years

@ask_aubry It starts out like a résumé and evolves into some racist, hateful, weird shit.

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@Sho_Nuff_010 @a1lb74rd @pamrollins_ @StephenM Their say simply doesn’t hold as much weight. They got to have an orgasm. That was the extent of their involvement. The person who has to actually grow the fetus for nearly a year and give birth is the one who should get the final say. Not cis men, not the government.

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6 months

@M__Jain @MindyBeeArt @Jesspecting That’s what you think you’re doing by hassling women online: protecting women?

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5 months

@IrynaLahoda @KrizoSusanna Yeah, they don’t go to therapy because they prefer to put the burden of emotional labor on their partners. Not because they don’t need it.

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@Hablinsky_YT @mistressfannie Pointing out that there is a global issue with male violence against women, which is backed by endless statistics, is not a “negative stereotype.” You’re not being victimized by us telling the truth and deciding not to blindly trust men we don’t know in isolated situations.

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Gwenhwyfar

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11 months

@kaylajohnsonatl That was so gross of him. I’m sorry for the pain you endured and the unsolicited sexual comment.

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1 year

@ask_aubry The second I see “high value” anywhere:

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@DoomScroling “Ripe fertile age?” Ew. They really can’t help but tell on themselves, can they?

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1 year

@comfysarah @ask_aubry I bought a slice of cake the day my divorce was finalized. I cried after court, but I wanted to do something to celebrate my freedom from an emotionally abusive man. I don’t judge anyone for being happy to get out of a bad marriage. The stigma against divorcees is ridiculous.

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@RalphRalphman @0Swift2 @radfemswiftie Your argument is that this poor girl killed herself because her mom didn’t teach her that misogyny at her expense is “funny”?

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1 year

@ShirtBoobs @darkvoidgia @beaniedebussy You want literal children to watch adults having sex, or mimicking it?

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1 year

@ask_aubry The “good relationship with her dad” requirement that some guys have baffles me. I have a great relationship with my dad, and he’d be the first one to back me up for “talking back” and what have you. He laughs at profiles like these.

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@SardonicNeutral It just kills them to see women do things without considering their boners first.

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2 years

@ask_aubry It would be bad enough if anyone ended up having sex with him. He does NOT need to be breeding.

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1 year

@ask_aubry How can I be expected to go on, knowing this random dude wouldn’t want me? 🥺

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2 months

@DoomScroling The only thing my biology screams at me is to stay away from men like him.

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Gwenhwyfar

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3 months

@socialist_52113 Catcalling is a surefire way to ruin someone’s day. And it can escalate if the catcaller doesn’t get the response they’re looking for. It’s not unreasonable to feel unsafe or scared when it happens.

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@ProTruth4Life @DoomScroling @Minx171717 They refuse to just say it: They don’t care about women’s lives. People like him cry about how society treats men as expendable, while they support sacrificing women for unviable pregnancies.

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Gwenhwyfar

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@taverna72322 @notcapnamerica You switched sides because you were mad about some of us supporting the vaccine mandates? Seriously? Your convictions are that weak?

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2 years

@CallMe_Dbl_D @cherylprice @ask_aubry Him staying away from his parents’ house for the holidays sounds more like a gift than punishment, especially for her.

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@MichaelGLFlood Naturally, the only ones complaining about this in the comments are men. This research is just confirming what we have been saying. Life got much easier post-divorce, when I was no longer the caregiver for an able-bodied man (and his family) on top of working full-time.

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@907Bex @notcapnamerica Wait, they call the stalker? Like, “Hey, man, are you stalking X? No? Okay cool, thanks for your time.”

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Gwenhwyfar

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@La_La_La_Luke @ask_aubry Nope. I saw the post yesterday and it made me laugh, along with all the sympathetic comments. Doofus is a victim of his own misogyny. If the wife weren’t busy shaming other women online, I’d want to high-five her for unintentionally teaching him a lesson.

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Gwenhwyfar

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@canicomeback3 @slutriarch Jesus, misogynists are boring. The same shtick for fucking eons. It’s the 21st century. Nobody cares whether you think they’re fuckable or not.

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@MentzerOcean @yeehaw91267755 @Teese357 @jayroo69 @DogRightGirl She confirmed herself in 2005 that it wasn’t consensual.

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Gwenhwyfar

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@IdealismComplex @undeadchronic @Karmatrumpsgod Uhh people in their 20s can have cellulite, even thin women. Genetics have more to do with it than age.

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Gwenhwyfar

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1 year

@ask_aubry What is so goddamn terrible about wanting everyone to have CHOICES?

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@coulterculture @NickySimpson98

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@Rosanne58550352 Take your bigotry elsewhere, Rosanne. Hiding your reply. Fuck off.

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2 months

@GreyGrimGhost You’d divorce a beautiful woman over a haircut. That’s what I’m laughing at.

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8 months

@pixposies Why do they think we have zero sense of decency or morality just because we don’t need a book and/or child-molesting priest to tell us how to live without hurting others?

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@Waaldo85 @SuzanneBos43679 @Karmatrumpsgod I’m sorry you and your wife can’t have bio kids. That has nothing to do with others making decisions for their own lives & wellbeing. This issue is too complicated to make such blanket judgments and bans. I hope you get the help you need to heal & quit lashing out at strangers.

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2 years

@ask_aubry Sometimes I think it’s as simple as pure jealousy. They don’t like us enjoying life without them and the confines of what they think a relationship and family entail, namely, sacrificing ourselves for them.

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1 year

@ask_aubry If only this was the first time a man has referenced boinking his own offspring.

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11 months

@ask_aubry How dare she not want her character to be sexualized? 🙄 Wanda Maximoff =/= Elizabeth Olsen

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@_nomadic_soul The pixie cut is so flattering on her! It really makes her eyes pop, and her exposed neck and shoulders look so graceful. Ballerina vibes. Plus it’s just an adorable cut. Long hair doesn’t automatically look better on all women.

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@canicomeback3 @slutriarch Because the workplace isn’t an appropriate setting for sexual talk. Come on now. Why the fuck do men insist on coming up with the most unappealing slang for women’s anatomy? Oh right, because you don’t like or respect us, and you enjoy making women uncomfortable.

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@TakedownMRAs “You’ll be sorry for not agreeing to be my servant until one of us dies!”

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@thatmyevent @ask_aubry They make you feel like you deserve it. It’s your fault he does XYZ. They get into your brain and chip away at any sense of self until they’re all that’s left. They’re not colossal a-holes 100% of the time. They ease you into accepting it. They make you question your own reality.

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@z3raphim @MJH_MT @adamfare1996 @Gwensday3 This viewpoint must be why I keep getting told that I should have kids so someone will take care of me when I’m old. Ew. Selfish reason to have children.

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@thatmyevent @ask_aubry Bonus points for him if you have trauma from childhood or previous relationships. Then you’re primed to accept more abuse. My trauma response is fawning. I was raised to be a people-pleaser to avoid conflict. That’s how I learned to protect myself. It made it harder to leave.

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@covid_longhaul @epberg @DoomScroling

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1 year

@pirateconductor @comfysarah @ask_aubry I get a nice chuckle sometimes out of imagining my ex having to do everything for himself now. He definitely wasn’t happy when I left.

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@victoriousover4 @ask_aubry Thank god the victim blamers are here. No thread about DV, rape, or murder is the same without you. 😒

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@vixmcintyre @slutriarch @blahmannnn @Lewdakrizz No shame, either! I’d be embarrassed to call out men whose appearance I don’t like for whatever reason. (And it’s unkind, obviously.) You can bet it wouldn’t be received well by men. Yet they want conformity from us, holding up random women as examples.

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@AllMenAreSimps It makes them feel important. 🤭

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1 year

@fluffynexu @ask_aubry It’s so gross. Will he get the support he needs, or will everyone be slapping him on the back?

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@JessPected The anxiety that comes with rejecting a man sucks.

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4 months

@notcapnamerica He looks fine? I’ve seen people 20 years younger than him walk much, much more slowly.

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11 months

@psalm32verse3 @abortizjr @LiveAction What do you want rapists on the hook for, in this case? Fatherhood? Because that would be the biggest mistake ever. Enough rapists already sue their victims for custody when a pregnancy is brought to term. It’s how they maintain power over their victims. Why would you want that?

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