For some Black women in L.A., the cowboy hat + boots isn't a costume, it's a lifestyle.
I interviewed some Black cowgirls about how they are staking their claim in a white male-dominated industry. They say Beyoncé's
#CowboyCarter
album came just in time.
A little personal news ☀️: For the first time in my life, I will be learning how to swim. Tomorrow is my first lesson. I’m nervous, y’all. There are a few reasons why.
There's a part in the Tina Turner documentary that I think about to this day. It's near the end and it's an audio clip from a 1985 interview. She talked about how she's never received love in her life and she broke down.
Isn't it strange that more than 1 million people have died from COVID in the U.S., but there hasn't been some sort of memorial or day to honor the lives lost?
Imagine being the only Black person in a multiple college classes and being told that you and people that look like you don’t deserve to be there and that you stole someone’s seat. That’s incredibly offensive.
It’s funny how people will criticize a Black-women led warrior movie, but not the 50 million historically inaccurate movies about European or American-led war…
I wish more male-female platonic relationships looked like this. I love the way they support each other. It doesn’t have to be anything more than that.
"I’ve looked at myself stripped of makeup and without hair…why can’t someone see the beauty in the woman it is that I am? Not a g*ddamn person has found it."
Whew. I hope she realized how much Black women loved her and how much many of us resonate with how she felt.
"I have not had one love affair that was genuine and sustained itself. Not one. I went through fucking tons of heartbreak. I’ve analyzed it. I’ve said 'what’s wrong with me?'"
If you hit me up in my inbox talking about “wyd tonight?” and “when imma see you”? When I barely even know you, you’re not going to get the response I think you want 🤣. I get plenty of these. Or “😍😍😍”
Another reason is because it’s an important life skill. While of course I know Black people who know how to swim, decades of discrimination prevented Black people from having access to pools & lessons. There’s also intergenerational trauma.
I, for one, deeply resonate with that. At the same time, I'm so empowered by how she was able to transform her entire life. Rebirthing herself. I just recently watched What's Love...? for the first time a few years ago. She inspired me to go on my own healing journey.
2 years ago, I was brave enough to jump off a boat & into the Pacific Ocean during a friend’s destination wedding in Mexico. Even though I wore a life jacket, I held on to my friends the whole way to shore bc I was terrified. I didn’t know what to do. I’m tired of being terrified
During the Great Migration, Black Texans like Jonathan Leonard brought their Juneteenth traditions to Los Ángeles. His family has a 70+ year history celebrating Juneteenth in Leimert Park. Here’s my latest:
@yumcoconutmilk
I don’t understand why she couldn’t stop for a minute a call her therapist and write this mess in a journal. Like you’ve been here before, girl. If you know your triggers with your mental health illness. Seek help.
There’s this quote from Kid Cudi’s spectaular movie Entergalatic that has stuck w/ me for awhile and probably always will: “Love is the easiest thing in the world when it happens by accident, but it doesn’t get real until you do it on purpose.”
Marvel star Jonathan Majors arrives in court holding hands with girlfriend Meagan Good. Once inside the courtroom, Good had her arm around Majors and stroked his head.
Majors is facing assault and harassment charges for a case involving an ex-girlfriend.
I don’t mind it. It doesn’t bother me 🤷🏿♀️. If you just had to say something and then just leave me alone. Cool. But what is your goal? There’s absolutely no intentionality.
@femalemsktr
It was honestly the way dates should go imo. Clear communication, perfect gentleman energy, laidback (not too much too soon), great conversation, good selection of the restaurant. I’m manifesting that energy from here on out from other dates.
Good News! My nephew is safe + sound. He was found in a hospital. He will stay there for a while. But he is safe. Praise God. Please continue to keep him in your prayers. It's time for recovery + support time. I cannot thank each and every single one of you enough.
I’m listening to Meghan Markle’s Archetypes podcast feat. Serena Williams. When Serena was 11, she was asked who she wanted to be like. She said she wanted people to be like her. I love the fact that Serena has never changed or shrunk herself to meet other people’s perceptions.
It just feels so Twilight Zone-ish to me. Like we're supposed to forget how deeply traumatic these past few years have been for all of us. I just started reading an old news article from 2020 and I had a sudden wave of sadness and grief.
I saw this TikTok that brought me to tears. A woman was giving her friend some tough love after experiencing heartbreak from a man. It was so affirming and assertive that I even recieved the message to rise above & do better. We all need friends who remind us of our worth.
Here I am going to Indiana University and Columbia University and I have to be intentional in finding someone who looks like me on campus. But I’m the problem. I — a student who is a part of a very small percentage of students — am the reason you didn’t get into the school.
And nearly 7 million have died from COVID worldwide. I'm not sure if other countries have done anything to honor the lives of their citizens. But if we haven't done anything as a collective to stop and think about these past few years, I beg us to do so.
1st lesson update: Learned how to breathe and push myself from the wall with my arms forward. My swim coach said: “for someone who is afraid of water, you did swimmingly” 😅
@IrisMCrawford
Haha I LOVED that part. I was like ooohh okay. My experience w/ both men — first was only 1 date, the second was many — really set the bar AT MINIMUM. Be intentional. Be bold. Get at me. Come clear, correct and simple. Because that’s how I am 🤷🏿♀️I’m not going to settle for less.
@SweetTayPie0104
that documentary really did break my heart. Especially when she said she never thought that she was pretty. She was such a huge inspiration to all of us Black girls/women.
I know I'm late to this info, but I just found out Keke Palmer has PCOS. I was just thinking about how debilitating menstrual cycle issues like uterine fibroids, PCOS and endometriosis can be. It is truly hard to get out of bed sometimes.
In April, I tweeted about finally deciding to learn how to swim this year. It went viral. So many people reached out in support 💛
Now here's the full story about my swimming journey for
@BusinessInsider
:
Only 3% of runners in the U.S. are Black. Last Saturday, about 150 Black + brown people ran a half marathon through South Central Los Angeles for the very FIRST time. This was a big deal. This is only the beginning. We're breaking barriers. Much love to Keep it Run Hundred.
Big Professional News!!! 🚨: I'm a
@ChalkbeatIN
reporter now! This is honestly a dream come true. I've been following
@Chalkbeat
excellent education reporting ever since undergrad. I start reporting on Indiana schools statewide today and will be moving back to Indiana in Oct.!
It’s been taking me hours to muster the courage and strength to write this. I was one of seven reporters who just got laid off from
@Statesman
. It hurts. It feels unreal. But I’m grateful for everything I’ve learned as an edu reporter working for this great org.
We usually see Celie in the lens of being helpless, uneducated, poor, unwanted, but what I LOVED about the
#TheColorPurple
is it emphasized the importance that Celie had on each of the women's lives. I also loved that she had agency in this movie + she recognized her own beauty.