๐ช๐น /๐บ๐ธTech, Pilates, Shopping and Random Nonsense. Pilates Princessโข Brand & In Tech She Trust LLC๐๐ฉ๐พโ๐ป Specialization: ITSM/SNowโ๏ธ/Sys Engineer
My coworker really calls his wife WHENEVER. He is never too busy. And if she calls, he is gonna answer in the middle of the meeting and he doesnโt mute the phone. ๐โค๏ธI know thatโs right!
Yall are not having kids for the sake of legacy because yall are not even making sure your kids are learning/engaged in academics or hobbies. Yall donโt discipline them. What is the reasoning? ๐
Dates costing over $100 is REGULAR.
Your man being with you and a close friend/family member and picking up a tab is REGULAR.
Women buying gifts for men is REGULAR.
Can yโall cut the ghetto shit out or not knock regular experiences because you havenโt experienced them yet?!?
I have a fear that Iโve waited all this time and still pick a horrible father for my child. I think mistakes in your 20s is passable, I canโt be in my 30s at the height of my career with a deadbeat father to my child. I would literally spin up a new season of Snapped on my own.
I remember going through a manโs phone and they talk to all kinds of womenโฆdifferent body types, different education levels, different jobs, kid free/10kids, car/no car, house/no house. I think most women know men donโt even have a type seriously. They do anything. ๐
The only colors in my house will be in my closet. I want everything else to be neutrals to help manage my mood. ๐ I studied interior design for a semester and Iโm not playing around with color psychology. Wondering why youโre easily angered and itโs because your room is red.๐ญ
I was making 50k as a paralegal and could only pay rent or buy something and I didnโt like that for me. If im gonna work a 9-5 (or a few) itโs gonna PAY. We have one life to liveโฆand we need to enjoy it.
I started using grease on my natural hair againโฆmy hair hasnโt maintained moisture like this in years! I really wanna fight the natural hair care community for the lies and making us take it out of our regimen ๐๐๐.
January-March all gym, studying, resume rebuilding and staying true to myself. I wanna be such an elite woman by March in terms of health and wealth!๐ Iโm not playing.
Having a baby by a disrespectful man worth $6 million when you have access to Dominican baseball playersโฆthis isnโt making sense or cents. ๐๐คฃ๐
Iโll just remain kid-free before Iโm a half ass parent. Yall are really insane. Beyond the sex, attachment to the other parentโฆwhat do yall actually have kids for? (Again not including extreme situations such as SA because on twitter you have to be very specific)
Everyone is entitled to their own opinionโฆbut when yall tweet stuff like this it jeopardizes the rest of us who ARE more productive from home, have kids/family to tend to, save money on gas/food and donโt have to deal with micro-aggressions in-person. Like omg.
i hate to admit thisโฆ.and i will never admit it in a work settingโฆ..but working from home has made me lazy af lol. lowkey i think being in the office 1-2 days a week might do me some good, i fear.
I started a new job with the g*vt as a system administratorโฆthey donโt want me to actually do any system administration, only create user stories and the contractors do the actual work. Iโve struck gold. Had no idea. ๐๐๐๐
That repository is free and can land you $80k + if you lock in. Iโd say Iโd dedicate a month to learning processes (the articles I linked), BA tools (the Jira site + YT videos), and understanding a platform (Salesforce, Servicenow) which are literally all linked in the repository
Thereโs no reason why you would want to get dressed, deal with traffic, find parking, be forced to have to interact with different characteristics, spend money on lunch, etc. for human interaction. Go find a hobby/friends and stop forcing in-office work on us. Please.
She really putting black lives matter around DC when most black people cant even afford to comfortably live in this city. Make it make sense. The incompetent Mayor of Washington DC.
I hate when people be like, โoh youโre better than thatโฆdonโt address thatโ
Donโt put me on a high horse. I actually am NOT better and I will address it ๐๐๐.
A woman making 250k with a mortgage, certain vehicle, lifestyle, responsibilities for her family and even if she has a child - canโt date down IMO. If that woman loses her job even temporarily, and sheโs dating someone making 50k, her partner would have a hard time managing.
At my big age, I really donโt try to change people. Accept them for who they are and love them, or donโt. But Iโm definitely not trying to fix or change adults.
The whole โyouโre on instagram or twitter and not replying or answering my callsโ thing is so played because Iโm in the middle of 2 meetings and I went on social media to laugh for 2 seconds while my coworkers sets their slides up, like stfu. ๐
That โcaliber of black womenโ + Pilates tweet was wildddddddd and unnecessary. I like nice things and to have luxurious experiences but nothing should make you feel superior to somebody based on money. You can have money today and then that sh*t can be gone tomorrowโฆ
Not to be dramatic but I got a water filtration system in my house a few weeks ago and my hair and skin are wayyyyy better. My hair is twice as thickโฆthe chemicals in the water definitely have an impact. Omg. ๐ญ
Bought my house.
Turned around and upgraded my mom to her 2022 bmw truck.
Then got my 2022 coupe.
In a 30-day period. God really made me THAT girl. God built my work ethic and blessings different ๐๐พโค๏ธ
Seeing women living their best lives makes me so happy. The shopping, the dates nights, the self-care days, vacations, graduating/succeeding in their careers, or doing whatever it is they want to do๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝI love all of that!๐
I really hate to admit it because Iโm a womanโฆbut woman are really dumb as hellllllllllll. I see why and how men get away with the things they do, Iโd be doing the same. ๐๐๐๐
I am going to create a thread from the perspective of a Tier 1 Help Desk Professional (lets just say with one Comptia cert), and a list of actionable tasks they can do from now til January and add to their resume and hopefully position themselves for higher pay
I am a girls girl...til Iโm not. Iโm not breaking up and making up with people I donโt sleep with. I have always said this. Be a good friend or go!
Closed on my single family home on my mommyโs birthday. Bought the house that wasnt the most loved, in the best neighborhood...signed and walked in with six figure instant equity. Demo for full renovation also began today ๐คฃ๐ญ๐, AP dream house loading. Goal crushed.
Those people that make tik toks about how WFH life is, are only content creators. It is not like that for everyone/every day. . I may have one light day a week and any other time I can barely eat lunch. I have coworkers on the west coast that cause me to have meetings til 6pm.
My mom def made sure I knew my alphabets (their sounds), numbers and reading basic words so it was easier for me in school. That should start AT HOME. And if youโre willingly wanting to be a parent but donโt agree that youโre their first teacher, you shouldnโt have kids.
Iโm not over this children not being able to read conversation. I conversed with 3 teachers this morning and Iโm not gonna lie, most of the blame still on teachers/school system. Itโs a group effort, sure, but thatโs where Iโm placing my blame ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ
Iโll help people for free all day long because thatโs my way of tithing and helping people never took money off my plate and in fact I know thatโs why God continues to bless my family and I. If I have time, Iโll help.
My supervisor just said if weโre unhappy with compensation let him know because he knows itโs a war on talentโฆmind you, they pay us great money. ๐๐๐
Mid-interview and you hear that โso when you get startedโ, โonce you join the teamโโฆ.BABY JUST SEND ME MY OFFER LETTER. โจ๐๐พ๐ฅน๐ฉ๐ฝโ๐ป
Idk if itโs because Iโm from this city and weโre big on g*vt jobs but none of those private sector/big tech companies ever appealed to me. Iโm a huge fan of long-term job security. ๐๐๐๐thatโs nice you work at Google, I work for the country. ๐ญ๐
Helping other women has NEVER taken food off my table. If anything, Iโve formed more alliances and bonds. ๐ now I have a network of super lit women I can always refer back too. If they took the baton from anything Iโve ever mentioned, they are RUNNING THAT SH*T!
As a single homeowner, I think all women should have Best Buy Total Tech Membership (every tv you buy is mounted for free and they have an extended trial period on all purchases, you can return with no issue and I think itโs 60 days).
Whatever you want to do in terms of business/career (certs, establishing/expanding your business, school, paying off debts) needs to be done nowโฆlol lock in on the cooler months and pop out by spring. ๐ฅ
Up until youโre 30 you can probably float through life just being cuteโฆafter 30 Iโm gonna need the girls to take their careers and businesses so seriously. Ainโt nobody sitting and waiting for a โlitโ man to come and save you after 30. Be foreal.
Everyone keeps asking and yes this worked for me and all I did by way of self-studying which is how people are selling to others what Iโve been sharing for freeโฆfor thousands of dollars lol it works
I had to make sure I qualify to carry two mortgagesโฆand I DO even with my two cars (which was my fear). For full transparency, 3-5 years ago I didnโt think I can afford any of things Iโm able to do. Trust God, bet on yourself. ๐๐พโค๏ธDonโt let people put u and your goals in a box
During the attempt to doxx me, my boss was led to my ITST business page on IGโฆneedless to say she saw my true passion for what I do and discussed an opportunity for a promotion because they want me to lead SF projects ๐คฃ๐ซถ๐พโค๏ธโจ.
Iโm sending the link to the slack in dmโs. This is just a peaceful, information sharing channel so weโre keeping it a little locked down so it wonโt get too insane. Like this if you would like the link.
Selling tech courses is 100% the new scam. I keep trying to tell yโall, but yโall donโt listen. Why are yโall so afraid of vendor-led or accredited business for technical courses? ๐๐ฅฒ
@NotLaja
he is the father of her niece. Jordyn was a snake of a best friend because drunk or not im not gonna be by anyoneโs man that is a friend of mine or my best friend. She has no ties to being in their family forever. Letโs start re-applying common sense to the situation
โHaving a great day on purposeโ really changed my perspective soon as I read it and I instantly teared up because itโs so easy to say โIโm having a bad dayโ and while doing so, we put all of our blessings on hold to acknowledge slight inconveniences.
The girls donโt be having nothing attached to their name but drama.
No career. No businesses. No investments. No properties. No life insurance policy. No retirement plan.
Just drama and vibes. Lol
Working from home does not translate to me having a ton of free/downtime. If anything Iโm working more. When I was going into the office, my employer understood what a lunch break was lol. Now with colleagues across the country, thereโs no such thing as โlunch timeโ.
People always call something bragging but I need to see what high earners, those with top tier credit, those who are well-traveled, educated, etc. so I can know what to inspire to and keep myself motivated. Please talk your sh*t so I can hop in my bag too!!!
Idc how much I like somebodyโฆIโm not posting them. These men are EMBARRASSINGGGGGGG. ๐๐ญ
And yโall be looking dumb. I like to be dumb quietly. ๐๐๐
I was a little bummed to have an interview at 4pm on a Fridayโฆbut theyโve already sent me the offer letter. I really does this! And thank God for always having my back and aligning me with opportunities!โค๏ธโ๐ฅ๐ซถ๐พโจ๐๐พ