The reality is that the average man is well, average and ordinary (not a bad thing), he’s not going to conquer the world or build kingdoms. Marriage is the great pacifier, he gets to at least have his tiny little kingdom, he forgets that this is usually at the expense of women.
I disagree. Any kind of commitment you make to a person, marriage or anything else should be treated with care and intention. The response to the semi ascetic cage traditionalists desire marriage to be (for women) doesn’t have to be an also damning selfish disregard for troth
My hot take for today is that like every good thing, marriages should be allowed to come to an end. It doesn’t even have to be for big reasons. As simple as I’m not doing again should be enough. ‘I do’ - marriage, ‘I’m not doing again’ - divorce.
A few years ago, my sister took a girl who was raped in Abeokuta to report the situation to the police and the police asked the victim if she enjoyed it.
Going to a village, recording yourself collecting hair directly from the heads of poor Asian women & girls so you can make a hair hat to cover the one that nature already gave you is self hate metamorphosed into an almost cannibalistic degradation of others & yourself too.
A big reason people who are abused aren’t believed is because often times the abuser has carefully crafted a good guy public image. I’m not saying he is an abuser. I’m saying; address that inappropriate video for what it is & stop using his perceived goodness to muddy the waters
That same teacher, staying late after school to teach little black boys how to play soccer. This is not just a teacher. This is someone who’s invested in those children’s futures. Perversion has warped your brains.
NO! NO NO
Women changing their identities should be the exception not the norm, and you’re going to hear us yap about it till that’s the case. All this fence sitting neutrality is so not neutral at all, it is transparent. We can see who you’re working for.
If you can’t change your surname for a man, find a man who is okay with it.
If you can change your surname for a man, get you any man you like.
Una dey always do like say them force Una dey date people.
Ke koshi danu
The reason men don’t celebrate the day of the boy child is because they don’t feel a sense of urgency to do it. Simple.
You can’t fake genuine interest and concern.
His father was a misogynistic rat and unfortunately he has inherited the very same brain eating condition. That said, I do agree that landmark had no business charging Lagosians to see the beach to begin with. Not having one single coastal road in Lagos is disgraceful.
IMO, Tems blew before her sound cooked. Her music is quite unresolved. I really really like her. She has that je ne sais quoi. Her taste is great! but to me the sound is not matching.
To do a love me jeje remake is a tasteful choice, but the song itself ended up dry.
Absolutely NOT! Any kind of reproductive romantic dance between men and women is much more costlier for women than it is men. Men are also more selfish. He has to want it more than you & show you that. What is good for the goose is good for the gander feminism is simplistic trash
Why I left Twitter:
1.
Me.
I’m intelligent, wise beyond my years, well read, gorgeous, financially buoyant, happy, surrounded by love… why should I keep subjecting myself to the rough abrasively laid out thoughts of quarrelsome belligerent ignorami?
The main reason men won’t change their name to their wife’s name and most women won’t even like their men to do that is because it is socially unacceptable
The main reason men want their wives to change their names is validation & romanticizing patriarchal family ideals
🤣Men will say this and then hundred years later their sons will say only men built the world and women didn’t do anything because their mothers believed this nonsense or worse, were forced to live this nonsense.
Funny enough this is the world I personally still live in. I have a preference for, chic, authenticity, effortless beauty… the most attractive thing about a person will always be how well blended and contrasting their aura is to their appearance, not how perfect their nose is.
Rewatching Pretty Woman, and struck by how Julia Roberts is SO BEAUTIFUL, just TRANSCENDENT, but has normal teeth! Richard Gere is The Platonic Ideal of Handsome, but no abs, no pecs. The insistence on Freakish Physical Perfection has made movies worse, imo.
Men perpetrate 80 - 90% of violent crimes.
90% of serial killers are men.
There are 3 to 4 more male psychopaths than female.
There’s a direct correlation with higher testosterone levels and criminal tendencies.
96% of sexual violence is committed by men.
The evil gap is wide.
Men are absolutely outcompeting women when it comes to doing evil, that’s why every conversation on here about women’s bad behavior is so fucking stupid and delusional and one giant distraction from who is causing most of the world’s problems
@n01sawM32c3
@BabyWhale___
NGOs, Governments and Companies have to run ads during football season telling men not to beat their wives because their teams lost. Now back to menstruation, please tell us more about it, since you menstruate yourself.
I like spaces they are my favorite thing about X. I can listen to spaces for hours and talk on them for hours too. So I want to host a space every Saturday evening. I don’t know what I want to name it yet…
The fact that they even need to be educated to not do this says it all. There is something inherently wrong with males. There’s no way to sugarcoat it.
I’ve never run a business where I owed salaries and never will. You lot are raising hundreds of thousands of dollars and even millions yet unapologetically owing employees.
Despicable
I think the looks for AMVCA should be simpler & focus should move to the craft of finishing & making garments.
I also think the event itself needs a clear fashion tone
Eg:
Oscars: Formal, Elegant, Classic
Grammies: Avant-garde Glamour
Met: Artistic, boundary pushing, Thematic
People are joking about her not “clocking” him based on stereotypes in the comments💔You silly bats chastise women for not dating bi men & blame them for upholding rigid masculinity but a woman who was a victim of male violence is a joke cos she married a slightly “feminine” man
A Husband K*lls His Wife Of Seven Years And Himself After She Finds Out He Was Sleeping With Men.😳
Britain Armstrong m**dered his wife of 7 years, 36-year-old Jasmine Armstrong, before taking his own life. The tragic incident took place around 8 a.m. on March 23, 2024. Reports
This isn’t okay either, it’s inappropriate, but it’s much worse when it’s a man. Why is that hard to accept? What about the way men have comported themselves in this world suggests we should be lenient about boundaries when discussing men in positions of authority???
@CP_Ogamba
Yes & No. Hating Nigeria the formal state & government is👌🏾. But Nigeria isn’t only a state, it covers the land you, your parents & ancestors have called home & created culture on.
Holding the idea that its very atmosphere has an immediate depreciating effect on foreigners is 😬
You’re sick! Child pornography is a crime, what we expect to hear from you is if this is considered that, if not, why? Launching an investigation into the activities of the father of that child for possible arrest. Handing the child over to the relevant child protection service.
This is an act of indecency and exposing the young child to moral dangers. The PPRO of Edo command will take it up and counsel the parents rather than prosecute them. Many of us don't know the implications of what we do. We will educate them, and many alike. This kind of a thing
@greeknigerian
@nwekepikin
I get you... but
1. If your hair doesn’t grow as long, why isn’t the go to extensions that look like your hair type?
2. Must your hair grow pass bra length for it to be beautiful?
3. On work, maintaining the illusion that Asian hair is growing out of your head takes work
My rules for engaging on my new Twitter… if I see obvious rage baiting nonsense and engagement farming, I’m not quote tweeting… so help me god, so help me god, so help me god.
He reminds me of a chimp but he also lacks their adorable innocence. His words are ugly, and my God, his voice is ugly and his face is ugly, his clothes are ugly. He has an ugly ugly spirit and ugly energy. He is a brute. He is grotesque, revolting.
Men’s need to control women comes from an inability (not incapability) to control their own desire for women. It’s a vengeful display from envy and self imposed powerlessness.
@AnselemEbere
I have a daughter that is 17 in her 100 level, I can marry her off if I see a good suitor.
By the way I married her mum as a teenage school cert holder, today the has a PhD
Marrying off a lady cannot stop education.
It’s funny how upside down patriarchal thinking is. Women are framed as not being in control of our emotions while men are on a biological level, bt science tells us it’s the other way around. Normative male alexithymia doesn’t help either which is why men commit much more crimes
Men are more impulsive than women. Studies show that Testosterone increases impulsivity in humans. It also causes men to rely more on intuitive judgement while reducing cognitive reflection. Testosterone is linked to higher aggressive and irrational actions and outburst.
Men are more impulsive than women. Studies show that Testosterone increases impulsivity in humans. It also causes men to rely more on intuitive judgement while reducing cognitive reflection. Testosterone is linked to higher aggressive and irrational actions and outburst.
If what most of you're saying is true, then voting a woman as the president of a country is not so safe🌚.
Wake up one day, start war with neighbouring countries and blame it on period 🤭.
I don’t trust men. There’s no way in heaven or hell that it’s appropriate for a male teacher to do this or ask this of his female students. Good intentions? Maybe, probably… bad precedent? Absolutely YES!
“Female days” are celebrated because women truly celebrate our freedom and ongoing liberation.
We celebrate how far we’ve come despite the odds against us, acknowledge what still needs to be done for now and the next generation.
Britain no get Independence Day, e get why.
I watch red pill content, it is the leading internet arena radicalizing men into staunch misogynists. It attracts defensive low IQ males on average but it attracts women too.
My little causal contribution is to infiltrate some of its spaces & drop new ideas for the women there.
Too many of the looks revolve around flowers, a little low hanging… considering the book is about impending and eventual doom and buying time.
Some of the looks are more costumey than they are fashion.
A pregnant woman kneeling down to propose to a man is a sight so grotesque, I’ll rather watch a grown man eat with his mouth wide open.
You’re literally about to gift him the greatest gift of all and you’re still proposing?? Naaaaa 😂🙏🏿
Wdym??? The top is the main thing giving this personality. She’s splaying on the tension and contrast of being open and naked but also, seeking shelter and privacy. It’s interesting.
For clothes to piss you off this bad, you secretly want to dress that way but you think you can’t. There’s something so small about the world of a woman who calls other women “cheap whores”, any discerning person can see you struggling in your cage. I wish you freedom.
@greeknigerian
@nwekepikin
Our hair grows out easily… many of us have just been thought to not like the way it grows which is sad. If you’re not going though chemotherapy, you don’t need donor hair. Afro hair is not a condition.
I get where this is coming from, the contrast is truly grotesque… but the thing is most people don’t actually care about the show, we’re just having fun being self appointed fashion critics for the day. Wahala no dey finish for this world.
You people really expect me to care about a freaking show of wealthy people wearing rubbish when Congo is being bombed, Rafah was invaded and there’s no food to eat in Nigeria. Lmao very unserious
My main issue here is the age of this boy. I hope I’m wrong and he’s much older than he looks. Otherwise he’s being sexually exploited for milk and french fries. It’s like he’s fattening him up like a chicken.
I have no problem with the women who have or want to change their names, but this idea that we should stop the conversation & “fight” about it is silly.
We’ll talk about it. It’s a practice rooted in many anti woman values and histories that should at the very least be discussed
@greeknigerian
@nwekepikin
I’ll add that the main reason you think our doesn’t grow out easily is cos you’re judging your fish’s inability to fly because you want a bird. Let your fish swim.
Your hair not growing to your waist doesn’t mean it doesn’t grow. Your hair grows big not lengthy.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be a homemaker, however this idea that by default, as a woman it’s your foremost calling, the most fulfilling job you will ever do, and that the excitement and adventure of the outside world is meant for men is so stupidly funny.
He is blurring much needed boundaries between teacher & student. This is what abusers do. I don’t have enough reason to believe he is one, so while he may or may not be, he has still acted inappropriately. Encouraging his behaviors sets a precedent actual abusers can rely on.
Dr Dre and Mike Tyson are two of the many men that have absolutely gotten away with abuse. Till today people still bully Mike Tyson’s ex Robin Givens to no end. Every single interview she does, she gets the most abusive remarks in the comments.
Dr. dre also paid a settlement to a woman named Dee Barnes after physically assaulting her. Rapper Eazy-E said she “deserved it”. So i ask once again what Makes Dr. Dre above the constant reproach that artist like Tory Lanez and Chris brown have to face on a constant basis ? Why
Some men, a good number of them rise above this by intentionally seeking self discipline. They also learn from the women around them and they work hard to be better
The vast majority of males don’t follow this path, they simmer in their uncivil antisocial nature. The sad reality
She looks like she’s in pain and the end result and overall look does not look worth it. Also, I’m generally bored of this beauty is pain and discomfort misogyny ridden aesthetic. I’ll make the exception if the look was actual 🔥
So many responses about “physical sales…” People forget that back then a few record labels controlled & monopolized what people listened to, so I think it was much easier back then to bag huge numbers, as opposed to now when we’re spoilt for choice & it’s more competitive
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@sza
's 'SOS' is now just twelve weeks away from becoming the longest running top 10 album by a black artist in Billboard 200 history.
The record is held by Michael Jackson's 'Thriller'.
Why I came back
I really miss tweeting. I miss the in between conversations I had with reasonable people. I miss reading & learning from some brilliant brilliant people. Hopefully I find a way around the cons… otherwise let’s see how long I can tolerate X before X’ing again.
I don’t agree with the quotes. My experience on this is very different, the only officers that have helped me regarding gender based violence multiple time have all been female police officers. Majority of them are crazy, but the person still likely to help is a female officer.
2.
Toooooo many opinions, too little facts.
Click bait headlines, zero curiosity for the actual truth, tribal thinking, no actual search for true understanding and appreciation of the facts.
Even progressive men and women may struggle with this.
It’s not as simple as being entirely because of misogyny. It’s a battle against a symbol of a perceived “ideal” family unit.
Nothing wrong with bicycles but where are the lanes? It is unsafe to ride bikes on many roads in Lagos. It also doesn’t help that careless and aggressive driving is the culture.
If AI is talking , I want to know that it’s AI… I don’t see how making it less uncanny valley is good. The imperfections are necessary, we’ll get used to them… but I think it’s important to have AI that’s powerfully efficient but we’re still able to tell that it is AI.
Seriously, I understand that this is useful and pretty cool, but I don’t like it. I’m not even being a Ludite, I like AI. I’m just convinced we’re going about it wrong.
“Born with sexual market value” is a wild thing to say because women are born as babies. That said, if what he’s trying to say is that women are inherently more desirable than men, and have more perceived and actual reproductive value than men, he’s is absolutely correct.
We live in a time that calls us to be hyper visible, to make ourselves seen… you don’t have to answer.
We’re told to promote ourselves as loudly as we can & be in constant marketing mode… this is good advice but it’s not the only way
Shrink your world whenever you need to💗
TW: SA
1. Men commit 80-90% of violent crimes globally.
2. 90% of serial killers are men.
3.,There are anywhere from 3 - 6 times more male psychopaths than female psychopaths.
4. Men commit 96 - 99% of rapes.
There’s something deeply & inherently troubling about male nature.
3 things are happening here.
1. Genuine need for connection. Someone to really do life with. Most humans need/want this.
2. Society that isolates us into groups of twos, hence the way to get 1 seems to be marriage/romance
3. Checklist living. I must do this by this time, etc
@TG__ARTS
1. Your first statement already says there’s nothing ethical about this
2. when there’s a market for the “ethically” sourced there’s usually a bigger one for the unethically sourced
3. How important is wearing an Asian woman’s hair that there’s even any type of market for this?
@YouTube
your days of reckoning are coming. The manner in which the algorithm recommends this redpill content & takes you down a rabbit hole of radicalization, I can imagine being an 18 year old boy, struggling with understanding his place in relation to femininity & getting lost
I watch red pill content, it is the leading internet arena radicalizing men into staunch misogynists. It attracts defensive low IQ males on average but it attracts women too.
My little causal contribution is to infiltrate some of its spaces & drop new ideas for the women there.
My main issue with the government is their reckless wastefulness & the very likely eventuality that they will not build that bridge in a timely fashion to actually counterbalance all the economic loss.
All of these resources wasted could have been avoided. Landmark didn’t build any of these things without the government’s awareness… so this is still very much an incredibly wasteful and terribly executed development on the part of the government albeit a good idea.
Danfo by
@useafrotype
is a variable font with a new “Element Shape” axis.
The three main styles reflect different cut-out shapes inspired by the vinyl cut-out lettering of the public transportation buses in Lagos, Nigeria.
Danfo covers all of the Google sub-saharan African
This photo looks to me like a demogorgon holding a precious child. It’s so uncomfortable to look at. His skin is transparent and you can see his ugly soul. Take that child away from this filth!
This sounds like the exact kind of story an abusive man will conjure up in his mind to justify his unhinged obsession with his partner’s every move and to justify his own behavior. I struggle to believe him.
Society glamorizes this checklist and too many women have fallen for the pressures of 3 and zeroed their mind that 2 is the only way to get 1.
They end up in terrible marriages that steal their happiness and sanity.
Your needs are valid but don’t close your mind.
#NewProfilePic
Because I never want to forget how special you made me feel on this very day. I love and appreciate each and every one of you. You are my rock. 🥲💐❤️❤️❤️