If a lady genuinely likes you, money becomes secondary just help out in the little things. Like assist in the kitchen, house chores, run some errands for her or with her. You cannot not have money and still be a stuck-up king.
If we are dating and from no where you are trying to instigate a fight, I would let you start one then come over to your place later that night because i know you started the fight because you want to cheat