I like working for startups. I like skin-in-the-game. But I took a job at Uber because I knew I wanted a family at some point and thought I needed a nice, safe job at a Large Co.
I'm about a week away from popping out a baby and I just got laid off from my nice, safe job, welp.
What's the correct age to teach your children that most people are stupid?
My parents didn't let on for a long time and I was too autistic to figure it out by myself and idk if that was optimal...
In Lillian’s continuing battle with American math fanfiction, you should have seen the frustration with this problem.
“I know I should not use that American word ‘duh’ because you should not say ‘duh’ to teachers but this is the ‘duh’ of all ‘duh.’ Math for 2 year old?!?”
Saw a lot of tweets not too long ago questioning the value of the technological advances we've made as a society this past decade or so — now that we're living with a pandemic, try to imagine your life without these "unimportant" tech advances.
So I finally indulged my curiosity about l'affaire Oxman and spent five minutes browsing her dissertation. The problems with it are, if anything, way worse than seem to have been reported.
Just heard from HR regarding my severance — it's generous, appropriate and takes into account my situation.
@Uber
is doing the right thing.
#uber
#layoffs
I like working for startups. I like skin-in-the-game. But I took a job at Uber because I knew I wanted a family at some point and thought I needed a nice, safe job at a Large Co.
I'm about a week away from popping out a baby and I just got laid off from my nice, safe job, welp.
@patio11
I hope you write about it. I think that my behavior as a child would have been very different and far more positive had a better understanding of this. For too long I believed that people were being deliberately obtuse and it frustrated me and I behaved poorly.
@sashachapin
The other extreme exists. Joined a startup as cofounder 4 months into being a mother and I cannot tell you how much I LOVE everything I'm doing right now. Raising baby, raising startup, raising funding and upping the tradwife skillz.
Oh you think *you're* trad? I'm soooooooo trad I caught consumption!
Yes, in 2021, I somehow managed get 0 covids, but I did manage to contract tuberculosis.
(It's not pulmonary and I'm not contagious)
Due to the coronavirus crisis, Philadelphia police will no longer be making arrests for all narcotics offenses, theft from persons, retail theft, theft from auto, burglary, vandalism, bench warrants, stolen autos, economic crimes such as passing bad checks, fraud, & prostitution.
Two weeks ago I tweeted that I was looking for a job. About an hour later
@dboskovic
DM'd and asked if I'd like to work at
@flatfilers
.
I accepted their offer, and the whole team just happened to be in the same room at their offsite at the time. This was the welcome I received:
How would your perception of Aella's interestingness change if you didn't think she was hot?
By how many standard deviations?
How're you doing on the self-awareness front?
@Mqsley
Thank you so much — I'm going to focus on getting used to being a mom for a bit, but would love to chat in a few months! (I'm a product designer who works on either internal data tools or advanced analytics tools aimed at expert users. Especially interested in Fintech.)
Just heard from HR regarding my severance — it's generous, appropriate and takes into account my situation.
@Uber
is doing the right thing.
#uber
#layoffs
I recently discovered that all tap water tastes the same to my husband and it's blowing my mind.
There's a huge variation in tap water taste, and it is a significant factor in where I choose to live.
Found out 3 years after being married to the dude.
In 1930 the Indiana Bell building was rotated 90°. Over a month, the structure was moved 15 inch/hr, all while 600 employees still worked there. There was no interruption to gas, heat, electricity, water, sewage, or the telephone service they provided. No one inside felt it move.
We too are moving to Texas. We just signed a contract on this amazing Art Deco house in Austin that has a discotheque, an elevator and — instead of a fridge it simply has a hole in the floor. I LOVE IT. Shoutout to
@jasoncrouch
who found this gem.
This thread is probably the best explanation for why you better fucking conform to the (relatively new) woke norms or else
It's not about controlling <alleged marginalized group> its about controlling what you can say about them
Having a lot of really, implausibly, extremely smart friends sure is a lesson in how dumb you can be despite being 2 standard deviations from the norm in the right direction.
Imagine your life without online shopping and the associated infrastructure that makes it easier for some to stay home, others to work with lower risk of contracting or spreading infection.
If you know of a team looking for a data-table obsessed product designer who would prefer to leave the visual design bits to others who are more competent, hit me up. I just quit my startup.
Imagine your life without video conferencing — not only did it make the decision to WFH an easier one for many companies, it's also possible to dispense all sorts of medical & mental health care via video conf. I've shifted a bunch of my prenatal appointments to online visits.
Riva Stucchio made an appearance about two weeks ago. Thus far she has revealed a strong preference for boobs and being wrapped, and emotions ranging from extreme indifference to outrage towards nearly everything else.
Brain update:
Apparently I had a large tumor but it exploded and got reabsorbed into my body BUT it fucked my pituitary good and it is unlikely to ever recover.
I do have a teeny tumor in addition that may or may not be a problem, as well as a Rathke cyst.
So, more tests. 🥺
My attempt to self diagnose what's sort of fuckery is going on with my body, since I do not have the patience to wait on a doctor to tell me.
(Gotta put those journalism and fashion degrees to good use amirite)
Here's what I know:
Gonna invite
@gwern
to dinner one of these days and refer to it as the gwern meetup just to fuck with everyone who's wondering why they weren't invited
Most expectant mothers: sewing cute lil onsies and impossibly smol hats.
Me: look ma I made a mask using that 100% cotton uniqlo tee I bought on sale for $3~ and then never wore!
It's been about 6 weeks since I started taking semaglutide, the improvement in dopamine function is astonishing.
Significant reduction in OCD behavior, at a low dose I see this having a massive impact as a mental health treatment.
I've said a lot of stupid stuff that I've pulled outta my ass on data viz that resulted in "and then they clapped" behavior and have been trotted out in front of clients etc to sound good and I'm just really fucking glad most of that drivel never made it to the internet.
I would like for everyone to be extremely proud of me for making this chicken curry from scratch (even the ginger-garlic paste whoa who am I). It's in a bowl with Cauli rice and FRESH cilantro and I only had to call my mom 3x.
#ketogenic
I so wanted to attend
@bryan_caplan
's talk at UT today, alas I cannot, as I read a book of his that prompted me to make a person, who I now have to pick up from daycare at about the same time.
All sorts of entertainment is more easily available and accessible than ever before — I'm guessing that by making quarantine less miserable this had a not-insignificaht effect on adherence.
Should I create an alt with the handle
@paella_girl
and post strange pics of me eating rice that are confusingly sexy and ask my simps, er followers, uncomfortable existential questions
Ordered something on Amazon, got an email 5 mins later, “We upgraded you to same day delivery, it will be there by 5 PM!”
How will anyone ever compete with them?
Because then I'd have to expend effort into exorcising said drivel of the internet.
And I'm just...like kinda cute and aesthetically pleasing as someone saying smart sounding STEM stuff.
Coming outta Oxman's mouth, like damn, potent stuff.
I never wanted children until I met my husband and have zero desire to raise children that are not mine.
I suspect I'd be an exceptionally poor mother to a child that did not share my inclinations.
It's a really good thing to want to make babies with the person you love, actually
People who are uneasy with the natural progression of romantic love will always have unhinged ethics
Mozzarella sticks are a delicious snack. I can eat 4-5 of them in lieu of a light meal.
Is there any reason not to eat just, a whole ball of fresh mozzarella?
If you're stuck having to take a bunch of medication in front of a toddler who insists on cargo culting everything you do, highly recommend low dose children's chewable vitamin C
My dad mostly talks to my daughter in Odiya, much like my mother and I. Just heard him automatically switch to English when talking to my cat.
He kept switching back to Odiya with Riva when attempting to navigate cat-baby diplomacy.
Of course I want attention!! But only from people significantly more attractive than me or high status in some other way, sorry my standards are very high.
A colleague on
@uber
's BaseWeb team just told me that the rich-data-table component I spent a bunch of time working on last year is the the single most-used
#dataviz
design system component at Uber, especially the
@UberFreight
team.
It's open source!
My last two workouts were moving about ~500lb of wood from our backyard to the street and I'm really proud I was able to do it. I guess these vanity workouts where I get too tired to do anything after I finish squats and deadlifts are doing something.
We will make changes to ensure that people on parole receive the supervision and structure needed from parole to prevent this kind of tragedy from recurring.
This is most bizzare incidence of Linkedin harassment I've seen in a bit.
A friend (A) is hiring a founding designer for her startup. She interviewed a woman named B for the role. Shortly after she recieves this message from Ryan on LinkedIn.
My smart dishwasher tells me exactly how many times my husband opened the dishwasher while it was running and as far as i can tell this is the *only* thing it can do
I have high cholesterol, very high LDL levels. Got bullied into taking statins, dosage increase after about 4 months. Slow creep of fatigue. At about 6 months in I'd be waking up exhausted, basically dysfunctional after lunch. Stopped taking them about 4 days ago.
I love walks. I loved walking around NYC. I pretty much avoid walking anywhere in SF unless
@stucchio
, who is more physically imposing that I, is with me.
Thread on why you shouldn't walk around SF, consistent with my own experiences: