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Lee Furney
11 months
I’ve been longing to host a guest post with a biblical case against the use of NDAs. I’m grateful to my friend Will Timmins who has supplied this blogpost under the title “Abuse NDAs and the Church: Making a Covenant with Death.”
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3 years
#NDAfree campaign launching soon. We are a global movement committed to releasing individuals, Christian organisations, local churches and charities from the misuse of Non-Disclosure Agreements
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4 years
Toxic & narcissistic pastors often create a "pocket" within an otherwise healthy church where agreement is rewarded with inner circle access & critics are silenced through self-doubt, fear of hurting the church and isolation @scotmcknight [paraphrase] in conversation with @BozT
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@reachjulieroys @Acts29 @MattChandler74 @PastorMark There is a crisis in evangelical Christianity around the world whereby those who seemed so gifted to feed the flock reveal themselves as mere hired hands. Their reluctance to name a wolf, and safeguard the flock by laying their life down to deal with it, is not a trivial matter.
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4 years
“If I could hear Christ praying for me in the next room, I would not fear a million enemies. Yet distance makes no difference. He is praying for me.” Robert Murray M'Cheyne
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2 years
I find Kyle uncomfortable and occasionally brutal to read. I keep on reading because I often discern the faithful 'wounds of a friend' that speak to my own Christian circles.
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@reachjulieroys @johnmacarthur @GraceComChurch This is a spiritually manipulative way of failing to provide answers to credible (and evidenced) accusations and failing to recommend an independent review when it is clearly needed for everyone's sake.
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The early church didn’t say, "Look what the world is coming to!" They said, "Look what has come into the world!" -- Carl Henry
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4 years
Will any high profile Christian leader call @RZIMhq to release @LoriAnneThomps2 from their pernicious NDA or are we going to leave it to @R_Denhollander to sort out the whole world, whilst we build a following for ourselves rather than Christ?
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Lee Furney
1 year
There is essentially little to no effective church discipline for conservative evangelical leaders in the UK.
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Lee Furney
4 years
My @simeontrust preparation on Genesis 3 just got a bit too real. #biblehandlingskills
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Lee Furney
3 years
Oak Hill leading the line when it comes to owning wrong responses to Jonathan Fletcher's power.
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Oak Hill College
3 years
Oak Hill received financial gifts from the FC Charitable Trust in 2018 and 2019. You can find a statement concerning those gifts here:
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2 years
Wade Mullen's 66 page report for the PJ Smyth review is available here. @wademullen It is a model of truth and grace that lights the path to restoration.
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Lee Furney
3 years
'A new Modest Manifesto would say, “No nondisclosure agreements and no confidential settlements.” Confidentiality would be the victim’s decision, not the ministry’s.' @DavidAFrench with a broad and deep article on responding to abuse scandals.
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2 years
Five lies of identity: 1) I am what I have 2) I am what I do 3) I am what other people say or think of me 4) I am nothing more than my worst moment 5) I am nothing less than my best moment Henri Nouwen
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@RebeccMcLaugh How to build community: 1. Open your door - be hospitable, sharing your time and table 2. Open your heart - be vulnerable, sharing sharing your principles and problems 3. Open your pocket - be generous, sharing your bucks and belongings The gospel and prayer opens all of these
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3 years
Those who make private correction impossible make public criticism inevitable.
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3 years
A conspiracy of silence instensifies a culture of fear and a climate of distrust
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Karen Swallow Prior (Notorious KSP at The Priory)
3 years
To my conservative evangelical brothers: I can’t express to you how much it means when you acknowledge the abuse in our ranks. I can’t express to you how much silence contributes to growing fear and distrust. Please lead well on these matters. So very much is at stake.
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"It’s better to admit specific wrongs to specific people when offenses are committed than to constantly advertise to a general audience one’s general awfulness, esp if that self-loathing is simply self-promotion in disguise" @wademullen on fauxnerability
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Lee Furney
3 years
A radical cultural change is needed by both the Church of England and conservative evangelicals within it - it is a willingness for leaders to publicly and adequately repent of sinful failure.
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Lee Furney
3 years
The SU John Smyth Report Executive Summary may be found here:
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2 years
Polite, charming churches can easily be/become abusive says @wademullen "For instance, if a community is led by a narcissistic & self-promoting smooth talker who tells loyal followers that they too are special, premier, & uniquely better than the rest 1/3
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Lee Furney
3 years
Excellent double-page spread by @ChurchTimes on NDAs, which "heap institutional abuse on top of already traumatised people, & rely on threats and intimidation, leaving people fearful. By enforcing silence, they actively undermine personal healing" #NDAfree
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Lee Furney
1 year
The Culture of Fear in UK evangelical circles has seen threatened litigation repeatedly used to suppress the burgeoning scandals. I'm grateful to Nick and James for being among the first to stare down the bullies. Will we stand with them?
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4 years
@johnhsather Preach the gospel, use necessary words.
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3 months
@krishk @naydawson @UCCF If repentance means generalised apologies to unspecific people on behalf of unnamed individuals for unintentional actions following unofficial policy for which any sanction is unnecessary after an unpublished review, then how can @UCCF expect anyone’s trust in the future?
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Lee Furney
2 years
@daneortlund Often true no doubt, and of course Twitter lends itself to an absence of nuance, but it might be better to say "can be like saying". Let's be aware of those whose battles are less simplistic.
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Lee Furney
8 months
Funds still needed Click here to support Get me to the Restore Conference 2023 #GoFundMe
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Lee Furney
3 years
We are all broken people, and Jesus is in the business of making people new creations. But he can only do so when there is confession of sin, acceptance of judgement, and reception of mercy and grace. NDAs are the antithesis of truth and reconciliation.
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Lee Furney
3 years
All of the most noted Conservative Evangelical Anglican churches, and also their bible training college, are run by public school educated, Oxbridge, Iwerne boys who have an incredibly strong connection to Smyth and Fletcher.
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Lee Furney
3 years
We call upon the other organisations �� the Scripture Union, Titus Trust, and Winchester College – to follow this lead and to reveal everything they know about the abuses and their coverup.
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Lee Furney
3 years
Excellent Melvin Tinker obituary in the Times newspaper. No paywall
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Lee Furney
4 years
This is a precious thread for those sitting on sensitive information regarding abuse. 'Those who want to be a part of a culture in which minding your own business matters more than advocacy must have their beliefs and values challenged.' #JonathanFletcher @thirtyoneeight
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Lee Furney
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Abuse almost always comes along with a system that contrives to prevent that abuse being properly dealt with, especially when the abuser is in what Mullen describes as a “keystone” role. @wademullen
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David Ould ن (Minitrue / Miniluv)
3 years
Book Review – Something’s Not Right
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Lee Furney
2 years
If you can't wait to move on from all these church abuse scandals, remember that, as well as feeding the sheep, it is *always* the job of the shepherd to protect from the wolf & behind up the broken. Our attitude to moving forwards reveals if our heart is for people or 'success'.
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Lee Furney
3 years
Family day, with friends.
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Southwark diocese have consistently refused to help those assisting victims & prioritized safeguarding their own reputation instead, even attacking whistleblowers. Note the resignations. Another independent inquiry is needed here. from @churchtimes
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@reachjulieroys @jamesmacdonald This is so sad and distressing. If guilty, let's pray that it leads to his humility and repentance.
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Lee Furney
2 years
A model investigation, a model report AND a model response. When does that ever happen?! Knots can be untied when we don't try to hide wrongdoing (cf. Isaiah 40:3)
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Lee Furney
3 years
Ponder the complicity. #FletcherCulture
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2 years
@dustinwmesser Unless he asked for feedback ;)
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Lee Furney
1 year
@reachjulieroys @GraceComChurch @johnmacarthur Time and again we see churches and senior leaders involved in prolonged public scandals - after denials and reframing the narrative - when timely recognition and repentance would be warmly received. Your previous tweet is particularly relevant.
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Lee Furney
3 years
What Christians shouldn't say in response to an abuse story. 'There are lots of ways I benefitted from their ministry!'
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Lee Furney
3 years
Nice to see interest already growing in the campaign a few of us are launching. Keep track of for details. #NDAfree
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Dee Parsons
3 years
Lee Furney of the UK Plans to Fight NDA Misusage in the Worldwide Church and Para-church Organizations #NDAfree New TWW post. So grateful. @LoriAnneThomps2 @leefurney @sarahstankorb
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Lee Furney
8 months
EN are to be commended for their increasing willingness to publish on the important issue of ministerial failure. Meanwhile, Church of England discipline through such minimised public rebukes looks a lot like prosecuting Al Capone for tax evasion. Let the reader understand.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream and find out why they’re falling in. -- Desmond Tutu
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Lee Furney
1 year
UCCF's hiring of an "independent" lawyer with a duty to protect and advance the interests of their client, a process that lacks transparency & a report that will lack even the scrutiny of the survivors reveals a cultural problem that extends beyond the suspended leadership.
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Tanya Marlow
1 year
While many have been talking about the suspension of Mike Pilavachi, the suspension of Richard Cunningham and Tim Rudge from UCCF (the Universities Christian Unions org) has gone under the radar. The official statements are a mixed bag, and I’ve written to the board for clarity.
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Lee Furney
3 years
Please pray for those fighting fires on Table Mountain for another night and for all those affected to be safely relocated. University of Cape Town library partially destroyed. #capefire #CapeTownFires
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Lee Furney
3 years
Abuse cover-ups often work. They work because people don’t care. Or because people don’t care for long enough. 1/5
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Lee Furney
1 year
"I was told the allegations/behaviours were being looked at and I expected that measures were put in place to ensure any confusion or misconduct was dealt with." This echoes my own experience of reporting similar concerns regarding Jonathan Fletcher.
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Gabriella Swerling
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EXCLUSIVE: The founder of the US branch of Christian festival Soul Survivor has raised concerns that he introduced 100s of young men to #MikePilavachi , a religious leader accused of full-body oil massages, vigorous wrestling matches & spiritual abuse.
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Jan 2022 it was announced the scheduled 2020 Makin Review re John Smyth was finally expected to be ready for Maxwellisation by April the same yr. A yr later there's been no sign whatsoever. It's extraordinary neglect & a further betrayal of victims. @JustinWelby Don't you care?
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@reachjulieroys Thank you for confessing your sins and not covering them instead. Thank you for reminding us that it is actual repentance which leads to actual restoration. Thank the Lord that he chooses to use us in all of our brokenness when we trust him with the consequences of true humility.
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Lee Furney
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@UrbanMinistryUK There's the enduring assumption in con. evangelical circles that "we're the good guys" because we think we're standing on the foundation of orthodoxy. Those who are most orthodox should also be the most humble, recognising both our doctrine & esp our practice is full of holes.
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Lee Furney
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@reachjulieroys @Acts29 @MattChandler74 @PastorMark Many of us became persuaded that it must be an elaborate hoax for Chandler to share a virtual platform with Driscoll. When it became apparent to Chandler (which snr pastor wouldn't make sure?), he decided to double-down not pull out & spoke in terms of different views not wolves.
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Evangelical leaders are often all too willing to publiclly call out a departure from orthodoxy, but I rarely find those who are prepared, even privately, to challenge abusive leaders and stand alongside victims. What might this tell us about what and whom is being tended?
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Rachael Denhollander
2 years
2. Realize that peers have to hold each other accountable. Far too often leaders want all the benefits of co-laboring, but none of the responsibility. That has to end. Leaders need to be committed to the public rebuke of abusive leaders or false doctrine.
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Lee Furney
5 years
Going to court on false charges under the rule of a dictator when you know Jesus.
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David Coltart
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This brutal Mnangagwa regime will not crush us or dim our vision of a new democratic, tolerant #Zimbabwe . I am grateful that as @DougColtart and his @ARTUZ_teachers clients went to court this morning their spirit is as strong as ever.
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Stephen Sizer receives what is effectively a lifetime ban for that which senior Church of England evangelicals (and their friends) turned a blind eye to and/or claimed the antisemitism was almost impossibly difficult to discern. #somethingsnotright
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Lee Furney
3 years
Smyth went on to abuse scores of boys in Zimbabwe. Guide Nyachuru and another unnamed victim tragically died at his camps. PAUSE Take that in, and lament.
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Lee Furney
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@carlmchambers @thirtyoneeight @drantbradley @R_Denhollander I’m thankful for investigative journalists I’ve been warned numerous times not to speak to them “They’ll twist your words” “They’re just digging up gossip” “It’s a hit piece” In others words: “Danger!” Yet our communities are safer cos of their investigations @wademullen
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Lee Furney
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"Choosing tactful inattention is easier than considering that someone you respect and admire, perhaps even model your own life after, is potentially abusive." @wademullen describes how scandals are often enabled by those who "benefit in some way from the abuser’s life and work"
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Lee Furney
3 years
God regards sin—not loss of reputation, or loss of institution—as the worst thing in the world. He wants those institutions that bear His name to be holy in the secret places. Only then are they truly His. @DianeLangberg
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Lee Furney
3 years
"If you’re in an English Anglican Conservative Evangelical church there’s a sporting chance that, whatever your age, gender or background, you’re really a rather lost, constipated public schoolboy, but without the perks."
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Lee Furney
4 years
Paradoxically, an abuser’s greatest ally can be leadership that’s bent on mitigating damage to their organisation’s reputation, even at the expense of those who are being abused; those whose misplaced loyalty knows no bounds. - David Shepherd
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Lee Furney
3 years
Don't miss this sermon if you want to understand abuse in the Church. Conservative evangelical Anglicans in the UK take special note if you are still talking about a few bad apples.
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Lee Furney
3 years
Strong words. Important points.
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Lee Furney
5 months
The @cofe statement on their investigation of Pilavachi reads like a lazy primary school report - "could do better". No transparency equals no trust. No accountability equals no safety.
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Needs Light
5 months
The Church of England has released a statement about their investigation Mike Pilavachi's "verbal interactions with a vulnerable person". It was decided that "Mr Pilavachi’s conduct had fallen short of that expected of a priest in the Church of England"
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Lee Furney
2 years
@reachjulieroys @MattChandler74 @villagechurchtx @Acts29 Chandler and Brian Howard also knew about Steve Timmis being a bully long before the Christianity Today article broke, which is why I turned down an invitation to join.
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Lee Furney
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Don't be deceived, our public repentance glorifies God. "People often point to the sins of Christians as an excuse to abandon Christianity. God points to the sins of his people, in the Old Testament and New, to highlight how amazing his grace."
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Lee Furney
3 years
"By this time Mr Smyth had been out of the UK for nearly thirty years." Smyth was a regular visitor to the UK. "We, the Church, were unclear as to his activities abroad." He had national prominence as lawyer in South Africa and appeared on television.
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Lee Furney
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"It is possible to excuse the nastiness, narcissism, bullying, and sheer bastardry of a leader as taking decisive action and dogged determination. But it’s not! ... By tolerating such stuff you become an enabler of it."
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Lee Furney
3 years
In the same way that we shared to pray - let's remember to give thanks and rejoice. Praise the Lord!
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Paul Feesey
3 years
A huge thank you to all who prayed for my little one. It was so touching to receive encouragement from people we had never even met. Yesterday, after 103 days in hospital, we made it home.
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I'd love to see this light the fuse for people to proactively maximise what they own and specifically apologise for, rather than minimising connections to JF, refusing to help piece together the response to the scandal and neglecting to lead us forward from a generalised report.
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Lee Furney
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@_JohnStevens @carlmchambers @PeteSanlon @R78190434 @UrbanMinistryUK @KateAndreyev @steve_kneale @thirtyoneeight Let me encourage you to ask for those minutes for me and reveal the names of the unaccountable secret group with no victim representation if you wanted to be favourably judged by a more important court. Proverbs 31:8
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Lee Furney
3 years
It was a privilege to have one of Malawi's best photographers join me for first day of a writing trip. #malawi
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K.B
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Tried to wake up early to catch sunrise at Liwonde National park but I missed it so I got these instead
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@Richard_Scorer Where are the snr conservative evangelical Anglican leaders raising & answering q's regarding Smyth & Fletcher? There's not one. When this q is raised the answer comes back that your q must be politically motivated & the questioner is made to be the problem as having an "agenda".
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Lee Furney
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"If change is to occur, I believe it will only happen when people stop seeing the problem as "just a few bad apples" and start seeing how the barrel itself enables the rot." This Little Light, xii intro @ChristaBrown777
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Chris Green
2 years
So here goes, and this is so late. But it's my review of Andrew Graystone's 'Bleeding for Jesus'.
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Lee Furney
3 years
"Sadly it looks like the cover-up mentality in the church is alive and well." #NDAfree
@Richard_Scorer
Richard Scorer
3 years
The Times today exposes Church of England hypocrisy over NDAs. Justin Welby declared them ‘unacceptable’ and indicative of cover up - but the Church continues to use them on his watch
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Lee Furney
3 years
The serious charges made in this article deserve close attention by all conservative evangelicals in the UK, where a raft of scandals are currently being suppressed.
@BernardNHoward
Bernard N. Howard
3 years
Church Society continues to act in ways that bring dishonour on the name of Christ. It is distressing to see a conservative evangelical organisation acting so unchristianly.
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Lee Furney
4 years
"Washing our dirty laundry in public" is a phrase commonly used - by those with vested interests - not to let the light in when complicit secrecy has been used to enable and extend the shadow of darkness.
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Lee Furney
8 months
It's significant TGC turned to @BernardNHoward to write about the situation in Israel and Gaza. Moral clarity is needed when Israel, Hamas, TGC or anyone crosses over red lines.
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Lee Furney
1 year
The Christmas spirit doesn't shine out in the Christian snob. Alas, they are many—whose ambition in life seems limited to building a nice middle-class Christian home, & making nice middle-class Christian friends, & bringing up their children in nice middle-class Christian ways /3
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Equally, there is no safe space in conservative evangelical corners, where - despite their hubris - they've repeatedly failed to govern themselves, deal with their scandals and bind up the broken.
@AndrewGraystone
Andrew Graystone
2 years
The truth is this - and all the bishops know it - that the @churchofengland is ungovernable. And because it is ungovernable it can never safe: because guess what, abusers love an ungovernable space.
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Lee Furney
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Though we strive for excellence, authentic Christian leadership will be marked by the repentance enjoined by faith. Genuine & regular recognition of our inadequacy, failings & unimpressiveness is - paradoxically - a sign of maturity. The alternative is perennial scandals.
@naydawson
Nay Dawson 🇺🇦
4 months
I've written an article for @Christianitymag about part of my experience whilst working for UCCF and some of my regrets.
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Lee Furney
1 year
@DrJamesEglinton Then there remains the issue of how this ever got past an editor's desk.
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Lee Furney
3 years
'Because the NDA is life long, I felt like I'd never be able to speak honestly without fear of legal redress, which is unfair and has not aided my healing from the trauma of the sexual and institutional abuse.'
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Lee Furney
2 years
British universities lead the way in renouncing the use of NDAs and put some of our churches to shame @UWEBristol
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Lee Furney
5 years
For those wondering, this is how abuse can prosper in good churches with just one or two manipulative ministers. A further problem is that the methods are so easily and unwittingly absorbed by others.
@wademullen
Wade Mullen
5 years
The spiritually abusive organization becomes like a machine that views their people as objects to be separated into Cubicles of Charm or Crucibles of Condemnation based upon their willingness or refusal to unconditionally comply with the demands of the organization. [1/10]
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