as much as they say they hate weave/wigs/ — men don’t really want to see you be all natural unless it looks like 3a-3c PERFECT non-frizzy defined curls all the time.
it’s shit like this is why now idgaf and wear my hair how I want — i’ve met niggas who loved weave, who didn’t, who hated braids, etc — y’all not doing/ funding my hair, so stfu.
I know society deemed it “unprofessional” but nobody makes you feel more insecure about your natural hair than other black ppl. Doesn’t matter the gender.
s/o to Donald Glover for casting Zazie fine ass Beets as his love interest in Atlanta. One of the FIRST realistic representations of a natural black woman with a black man in the media.
needing your child’s father to be an active parent vs needing to be in a romantic relationship with them is completely different — y’all act dense on purpose for engagement.
imagine dating someone you don’t feel comfortable telling them when you need something bc you’re afraid they’re gonna mark you off as needy or high maintenance, can’t be me.
every water sign i’ve ever dealt with is passive aggressive and they love pulling that oblivious act and playing victim to problems they know damn well caused.
not said but me, Dylan O’Brien and Tyler Posey took a pic together and Dylan & I accidentally switched glasses and I ran off with his Ray Bans — he chased me down with my reading glasses and gave me a hug and I was just red in the face bc I thought he thought I stole his shit 💀