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Conflict Resolution & Personal Development Advocate. Empowering individuals to understand themselves & others for peaceful resolutions. Ready to level up? DM

Lagos, Nigeria
Joined October 2017
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theconflictchick
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Key Services 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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I was gisting with my mum, and she said one of our neighbors offended her and she would like to discuss it with her. I told her when you got there, to use the "I" statement she said She said what do I mean 😏 😂😂😂😂 What "I statements" sound like:
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1. "You never listen to me." "I feel unheard when I share my thoughts/ feelings. I would appreciate it if you could listen to me." 2. "You're making me upset/angry." "I feel upset/ frustrated when certain situations occur. Can we talk about it and find a solution?"
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"I" statements are a communication technique used to express feelings, thoughts, and opinions without blaming or attacking the listener. They begin with the word "I" and describe the speaker's personal experience, rather than making assumptions about the listener.
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3. "You're always so busy." "I feel like we don't spend enough time together. How about planning more fun things to do together over the weekends?" 4. "You never help with the kids/ household work." "I feel overwhelmed with the housework. Let's figure out a way to split the
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5. "You don't care/ you're so insensitive." "I feel hurt when my feelings are not considered. I need you to acknowledge my thoughts/ opinions/feelings."
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5 months
Using "I" statements can help us with expressing our feelings and needs while also taking responsibility for our own emotions They are also effective in increasing empathy & reducing conflict.
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10 months
Slow but Steady Gratefulness is my Attitude
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5 months
This is NOT "chemistry" it's emotional unavailability You can't stop thinking about them, they're always on your mind. (Because they're breadcrumbing you and you're emotionally starving and malnourished)
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I admire people who are careful with their words, and who think before they speak. it shows they care about others' feelings. I appreciate those who are sensitive to how others might feel and speak kindly. I believe we should all do the same.
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the chores." 4. "You're always so critical of my work." "I feel like my work is not being appreciated. I would appreciate it if you could recognize my efforts."
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@conflict_chick
theconflictchick
1 year
Hello Everyone, I'm grateful to everyone that reached out during these trying times. I want to inform everyone that the hip replacement surgery was successful and I'm recovering fast. It's a painful process. I'm grateful for the support always. Pray for me, please.Thank you
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For ten months I have been at home recovering from surgery, I'm still in the process of getting my leg to walk with physiotherapy, and all this time I have developed a new skill which is Writing, My recovery process is taking much time than I thought, I don't want to lose my
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@madamayo_
Miss.ayo.artss
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This year, VOICE OUT if you need help. What do you really NEED? You helper could see this
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"I" statements involve: stating how we feel, why we feel that way, and what we would like to happen in the future. Read Through for examples 👇👇👇
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In 2016, I got admission into Federal University Of Oye Ekiti, with the hope of studying Psychology, I have gotten a lot of material online and offline in preparation for my first year, I got a call from the office of the registrar, on getting there, he said that I can't
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2 years
This is my life story 🥺
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1 year
For the first time in Two Decades plus I was able to open my Two laps at the same time. I was able to sleep on my back with my back touching the bed. This recovery and rehabilitation process is long, but I'm grateful to God and everyone here and beyond.
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1 year
During this time last year two days into my new age, I wept bitterly, uncontrollably I don't know why but in my mind it keeps coming, God, I can't continue to live in pain from age six till now, I'm going into a new age, please help me I was like this till my
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My name is Ajibola Bamgbose I'm a Conflict Analyst I guide leaders, teams, and individuals to reimagine conflict and communication with proven strategies and techniques. I create content that will help individuals and organizations improve their knowledge of
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To everyone who reposted and donated. You will not lack. Your helper will locate you. God will answer all your heart desires
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theconflictchick
9 months
I am thankful that I get to see another day filled with your blessings, may you guide my steps. It hasn't been easy to surrender to your will but I stand on your word that you make all things beautiful in your time. Forgive my impatience, my doubt, and my lack of faith.
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🥹I NEED YOUR HELP 🙏🏿 Dear Nigerians, I need your help and it’s really URGENT. Pls RT! My name is Bamgbose Ajibola Eunice, a graduate of Peace and Conflict Studies, FUOYE; A corp member serving at Ibadan South East local government. #helpAjibola #AjibolaSurgeryCampaign
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theconflictchick
9 months
🏃🏃🏃🏃
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@Ugochukwu_96
👑 Pharaoh 👑 🇳🇬 🇬🇧
9 months
quote this tweet with a picture of you without makeup. i want to see that natural beauty 🥺🥺🥺. please don’t air
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theconflictchick
3 months
Based on your physical appearance what tribe do people mistake you for?
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theconflictchick
9 months
Fighting for your life and still glowing is a different kind of skill. The entire world thinks you're okay but you fight demons every day.
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It is a phase, it will pass 💪🙌
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@Dmindtherapist
Micheal Jacob
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We are all going through alot. But drop your picture in the comment session or quote this tweet with your picture, let someone appreciate you.
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Going to the hospital today for a checkup, and I feel so emotional, Today makes it exactly 5 months ago I had my Total Hip Replacement Surgery. To everyone from the beginning, till date, you all are God-sent. Thank you all for the prayers, and financial support.…
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1 year
@Buttergirlll @Debiwumi 🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️
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theconflictchick
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First Year. Fuoye Final Year
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@Ugochukwu_96
👑 Pharaoh 👑 🇳🇬 🇬🇧
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Quote this with a picture of you in your first year and you in your final year🥺
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theconflictchick
4 months
I will walk without a walking aid this year. Walking without lipping.
@AbeniAde_
OMIDAN ÀBẸ̀NÍ ✨
4 months
Quote this post with picture of that one thing you need and you are believing God to do for you this year 2024.
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2 years
20 years in pain. Yes, I decided not to give up on myself but how long can I withstand the pains? Sleepless nights, several drugs, still unease everywhere. Dear Nigerians, I need your help Kindly help me retweet and donate... 1/2
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Most of us don't know how to apologize in the right way, and it has cost some a lot, what can we do differently when apologizing? 🧵 The Five Apology Languages Oya come make go 🫠🫠
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3 months
Yes, you may still have a long way to go, but my gosh, have you seen how far you've come?
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3 months
Two things I don't post on social media: 1. Money. 2. My partner. It's not because I'm mature, it's because I don't have both.
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theconflictchick
7 months
2021 Federal University Of Oye Ekiti.
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@peng_writer
Ibrahim Kazeem Content writer and SMM
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Share a picture of you at your convocation and add the year. Let's appreciate our journey. RT and Let's go!
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You don't have to understand people's experiences to be kind. Kindness doesn't require logic, it requires grace. I'm grateful to everyone here and beyond. This gift of life I don't take it for granted. Behind the scenes from yesterday's Physiotherapy session.
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These past 6 months have been draining, we have prayed, wept, and endured, a lot of sleepless nights, but we are grateful. Special thanks to my mother I would pick my mother to be my mother again in any and every lifetime.
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The one I posted is out of stock but got another one from the same time brand HP, Elitebook with the same features as the one I posted. The one I posted was 255k the one I got is 250k. Including the delivery fee. The total amount was 255k. Thank you so much, we are grateful.
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theconflictchick
4 months
For ten months I have been at home recovering from surgery, I'm still in the process of getting my leg to walk with physiotherapy, and all this time I have developed a new skill which is Writing, My recovery process is taking much time than I thought, I don't want to lose my
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I can feel my toes again this morning 😭😭😭😭. Thank you Jehovah, I'm grateful
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theconflictchick
5 months
When @TundeAhmedTunde posted on the group that they are extending #KeepOgunClean to Ifo Local Government, I loved the initiative but I couldn't go due to my present situation, I spoke with @PappieJay18 and some few friends, and my mum said she will be representing me. Thank you
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Good day @DONJAZZY I pray this tweet gets to you, I need help! So far with the help of Nigerians, we've raised over a million naira, and I want to get this surgery done as fast as I can to ease me this pain. 1016809170 (Vbank) Please help me quote tweet and tag @DONJAZZY
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@Naija_PR
Naija
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NO CHEATING!! Post your last saved picture without context.
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theconflictchick
1 year
I feel it is never too late to post this, one of my highlights for this month. Just like yesterday. Thank you for maintaining this smile even though you've been through a lot. My Biggest Congratulations are around the corner. I'm grateful to God. To you all ❤️🙏
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theconflictchick
3 months
What is bothering you?
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theconflictchick
7 months
Oyo State - Ibadan
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@royzkingin
ROYZ
8 months
Quote with evidence if you’ve been to NYSC camp before.
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theconflictchick
9 months
Reflecting this morning and I am grateful to Jehovah for giving me individuals, friends, acquaintances like you in my life during these difficult times. Thank you all for always coming through for me. I don't take all your kind gestures for granted. I'm grateful
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theconflictchick
9 months
Never apologize for being a strong woman with standards, boundaries, and ambition. Always be unapologetically YOU.
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Gratitude And Growth. Photo Credit: @MamaAji0001
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There is no Husband scarcity. Na U dey find person wey go remove poverty for your family. Something wey federal Government no fit do.
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theconflictchick
8 months
Being smart academically and having common sense are two different things.
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2 months
It's time to rewrite and learn to embrace conflict as an opportunity for growth and understanding. Join us today on Twitter(X) Space at 7 PM Set a Reminder
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theconflictchick
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Thank you for the visitation 😚🙌
@tundeadeosun_1
The Tunde Adeosun
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☺️
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No Light 🥺😭 Boya Kini Nice Night
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theconflictchick
4 months
The body wants sex. The heart wants love. The soul wants peace and the tummy wants eba and okra. 🥺🙃 Some posted this some days ago, I have been thinking about how to explain the most common, and unspoken type of conflict, which is INTRAPERSONAL CONFLICT. Here you have it!!
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@conflict_chick
theconflictchick
1 year
Hello, good people. 🙂 Please Read!!! We started this campaign for me in September and I'm very grateful for all your means of support to this day. Thank you! However, we are yet to make the total completion of the amount needed.
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theconflictchick
1 year
Sometimes, I forget to thank the people who make my life happy in so many ways. Sometimes, I forget to tell them how much I do appreciate them for being an important part of my life. So thank you, all of you, just for being here for me. 🫂❤️🤗.
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3 months
This month I'm launching my brand. 🤲🤲
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theconflictchick
5 months
Hmm. Fundraise for my surgery fee was completed, and I had the surgery this year,( Total hip replacement ) I'm still recovering, but I'm grateful.
@directordiji
Diji The Great.
5 months
~ What’s your biggest win / surprise so far in 2023? ( something you didn’t really expect ) Let’s inspire / encourage ourselves 🙏 😭
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theconflictchick
1 year
I'm happy to announce that we’ve achieved the First Stage. God is faithful. 🙏🙏🙏 With gratitude and appreciation to you all. Special thanks to everyone and my team. We are grateful for all the donations, support, retweeting, and tagging.
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theconflictchick
5 months
Grace 🙏🏽🙏🏽
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@Jaiyejejeomo
J A I Y É🍀
5 months
November Dump, make it your favorite picture this month 😁😁
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theconflictchick
3 months
A year ago, you did not know today. You did not know you'd make it here. But you. here. By grace, made it you made it here. I'm grateful 💪🙏🫂
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My name is Ajibola Bamgbose I'm a Conflict Analyst I help leaders, individuals, and organizations thrive in conflict by understanding themselves and others better and by guiding them to reimagine conflict with proven strategies and communication techniques.
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@OgunTwitta
Official Ogun X Community
4 months
It's a new year. Can we meet you? Tell us your name and what you do
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theconflictchick
4 months
Tough times are temporary. Tough times are temporary. Tough times are temporary. Tough times are temporary. Tough times are temporary. Tough times are temporary. Tough times are temporary. Tough times are temporary. Tough times are temporary.
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theconflictchick
6 months
100 level. 400 level Phase 3. Phase 3.
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@FUOYE_CAMCONECT
FUOYE CAMPUS CONNECT
6 months
A picture of you in 100l vs A picture of you in your current level. Even if you just gained admission, you can engage in this.
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@_VALKlNG
valking ♔
4 months
Your top 4 pictures of 2023?
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theconflictchick
8 months
7 things that help you gain clarity in life : 1. Silence 2. Sleep 3. Suffering 4. Sickness 5. Solitude 6. Sorrow 7. Spirituality
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theconflictchick
4 months
I just wrote a thread on How remote teams can communicate and resolve conflict. Will you read it? Let’s have 10 people type YES, and I will drop it tomorrow morning. 👏👏👏👏
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theconflictchick
5 months
The goal isn't to find a relationship with no problems but to find a relationship safe enough to work through them.
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theconflictchick
4 months
Wow, Thank you so much. Help will locate you and everyone here.
@olumuyiwaayo
Olumuyiwa Igbalajobi, Ph.D
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God bless you, @damilola_jb and @ChuksJaphet . @conflict_chick is grateful. We received extra N190k, which has been sent to her but is not shown here.
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theconflictchick
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I'm so proud of you for doing your best to be okay. I'm so proud of you for waking up every day and trying. I'm so proud of you for being here today because I know some of your yesterdays were hard. I don't know what you're going through but you are going to get through it.
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theconflictchick
1 year
@vickie_coco Call me Ajibola 😍
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theconflictchick
3 months
Thank you 🤭😚
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theconflictchick
5 months
Some weeks ago, I was in an X-space, and someone asked me "What are the ways to soften an argument or conflict" Examine this questions. 1. Can we pause here and take 5 minutes to breathe? 2. What you're saying makes sense. I didn't think about it this way earlier.
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theconflictchick
8 months
🏃🏃🏃
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theconflictchick
3 years
Many Thought On My Mind, When I Want To Upload This Picture. I'm Just Scared Of Uploading My Full Pictures. Why?? Because Of My Leg. This Is Me. We Move.
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theconflictchick
7 months
🤭🤭
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@lifeofa_g01
VICTOR
7 months
She can go bare face, no foundation, lashes no nothing and still look fine asf Who’s she ?
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theconflictchick
1 year
My Nysc Journey will be over soon by Feb 2. I'm here to thank you all for your support and generosity. Please I still need your help, No amount is small. Gratitude is my Attitude. 2093337959. UBA Bamgbose Ajibola. Please donate, retweet and tag. Thank you all.
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theconflictchick
1 year
Nine days after the surgery I started feeling a burning sensation around my feet, I complained they said it is normal, a crazy sensation that I can't describe. The physiotherapist recommended putting my leg inside the ice block which was effective, day and night.
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theconflictchick
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I'm grateful to @kishii my physiotherapist. God will continue to bless you, The journey to my recovery has not been easy but you have been so intentional from day one till now. To everyone who has been supporting me financially to continue physiotherapy, I'm grateful. For…
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theconflictchick
2 months
6. Preventing Escalation: Unresolved conflicts can escalate and negatively impact individuals, teams, or even entire organizations. Addressing conflicts early prevents the buildup of tension and potential damage.
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theconflictchick
1 year
I had my first private session of physiotherapy on Friday, it was intense, and I'm glad I was swift about getting a private physiotherapist as advised by my doctors. It is very expensive but for me to walk normally, and heal it is vital for my recovery process,
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theconflictchick
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When I was growing up, I got easily attached to the opposite sex, a lot of them in my head, 😂😂. Especially that one who knows Mathematics well, because my calculation skills are nothing to write home about, as time went on, during my senior secondary school years,
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theconflictchick
2 months
My first blog post in anticipation of my brand Please read, repost Thank you so much
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theconflictchick
2 months
I have a good news 💃💃💃
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theconflictchick
5 months
No Caption 🥺
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theconflictchick
5 months
Today is nah today Water plus Ice 💪💪
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2 months
I have a good news 💃💃💃
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theconflictchick
6 months
😂😂😂
@avieetheplug__
Avalon Of OOU🌴
6 months
Quote this tweet with any picture/video you took in this month of October.🤲
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theconflictchick
3 months
2018 😚
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@kinglabi_
LABI🧸
3 months
Hi, yes you🙃 Quote this with your best throwback pics 🫶🏾
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theconflictchick
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I can't do all these exercises without music. Abi make I give up ni 🥺🤔 Hey You, Stand up and continue. Your consistency has helped you to this stage. 🙏💪🙌
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theconflictchick
8 months
Let me post my physiotherapist World Physiotherapy Day ❤️🤭
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@Posimi_baby
Global Ifeoluwaposimi (PT❤️)
8 months
Happy World Physiotherapy day🥳✨
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theconflictchick
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@stilldey4u
O.L.Ó.Y.È ■
11 months
Quote this with your picture that has never made it to the internet
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theconflictchick
2 months
When life feels a little slow and certain things seem somewhat out of reach, I hope I never lose this belief that everything good will come. I hope this seeming delusion of mine keeps me grounded. I hope I find happy stories to remind me that good does happen because it will.
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@conflict_chick
theconflictchick
4 months
Thank you so much sir, For your consistency in helping our community (Fuoye). You are a blessing to me and many others. Jehovah will continue to bless you more. @olumuyiwaayo
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@conflict_chick
theconflictchick
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I'm thrilled to share that I've been invited by @SNG_HQ to speak on Conflict Resolution for Startups Whether you're a founder, team lead, or team member, this discussion promises valuable takeaways to enhance your conflict resolution toolkit and drive success in your startup.
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@conflict_chick
theconflictchick
4 months
12 communication rules that can save your relationship. 1. When you want to convey something difficult or sensitive, try writing it down using the right words + sleep on it. 2. Always address issues early or as they come up to avoid built-up resentment.
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@conflict_chick
theconflictchick
5 months
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@UnclebeeOla
Abd Basit The Big Asset♥️
5 months
Quote this with the fourth picture in your gallery.
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@conflict_chick
theconflictchick
1 year
Today is one of the special moments in your life. @aro_tm I remember vividly how you called me last year on September 1st, that I need to do my surgery, and how I said we can't afford it. You gave me several suggestions. You plan it out and God makes it come through.
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@conflict_chick
theconflictchick
8 months
I'm Ajibola and I Love Speaking 🤭
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@Nana_Remi03
I am Remi🌹
8 months
I'm Remi and I'm a talkative.😍
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@conflict_chick
theconflictchick
5 months
Communication skills are a continuous learning skill, but I have observed that some ways of communicating kill relationships, Let us talk about them 👇 Stonewalling: Shutting down refusing to engage in conversation by becoming unresponsive or giving minimal, or vague response
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