Fun lil fact:
If you ever buy someone flowers make sure to keep one for yourself so you can know when theirs are dying. Then you’ll know when to get them new ones.
Aftercare after an arguments/disagreements in a relationship is very important. It leaves 0 room for uncertainty, plus it nurtures the feelings that might’ve been hurt during the argument. AND it’s also another form of reassurance.
I can’t afford anymore situations in my life that brings out the worst in me. It’s exhausting and requires too much for me to recover from. I need calmness and gentleness in my life. Anything outside of that I don’t have the capacity for. This is my soft and tender era.
The hugs, the kisses, the holds, the “I love you” & the “I’m sorry” goes along way. It just shows that even though we might’ve bumped heads & things got alil out of hand, I still choose you. It’s us vs any issue we come across.
Even though you two aren’t officially a couple yet but are dating, you still owe that person respect, honesty & clarity Especially someone who is emotionally invested in you & been from the beginning.
Just because you see someone on social media but not texting you back doesn’t mean anything personal. It just means that maybe they’re not in the mood for conversation at the moment. It’s okay
I want a relationship where we both provide, we both spoil & both fulfill eachothers wants, needs & desires. I want to experience reciprocation for once in my life.
My mom left my dad 12 years ago and this man texts her damn near everyday reminiscing. Moral of the story is, everybody ain’t replaceable. Cherish what you have when you have it.
I never been the controlling type to tell you what you can or can’t do in any relationship, but I will state my feelings on the things I’m not okay with & what you do with that info is totally up to you.
I’m happier single than I am in relationships. The relationships Ive experienced drained tf outta me more than anything else. So until someone makes me feel the complete opposite, I will remain single. That’s when I’ll know I’ve found THE ONE.
I’m just trying to live a healthier lifestyle next year. Healthier mindset, healthier eating, healthier relationships, healthier habits, healthier self, healthier everything. I’m on a journey and I need everything in my life to align with it.
I’m a dyke who loves affection, flowers, gifts, surprised dates, getting catered to, reassurance, to be held & spoiled. I love to feel loved. I deserve that too dyke or not. If you get with me thinking you don’t have to fulfill those then you already lost me bcuz I NEED all that.