xena 🌷 @belovedhestia Twitter profile

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@belovedhestia

10 months

as a dyke you’re always in danger of dressing like that picture of dwayne the rock johnson

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6 months

lesbian situationship

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what do you think is harder than this?

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1 year

just saw someone say goyfriend as the gender-neutral version of boyfriend/girlfriend and BURST out laughing

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1 year

there is very little more disheartening as a high femme than thinking you can finally break away from cishetero standards of sex, and then experience the same sort of rhetoric from lesbians who aren’t stone who believe that there is a ‘right way’ to have lesbian sex

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taught my butch to take cunty pictures of me

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5 months

was out with my butch today and there was another butchfemme couple and we both looked at each other and smiled and then we gave them another look while they were walking away and they looked back at us to get another look as well and then we all laughed and it was so beautiful

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3 months

butchfemme love baby !!!

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2 months

deranged comment on my tiktok. so we’re only valid when we’re struggling and have suffered through trauma???

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@belovedhestia

10 months

stone sex relationships are so often a product of not only trauma but complex relationships with gender and transness and that’s why some of the people who are most vile about stoneness are terfs

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@belovedhestia

1 year

me introducing a non-jewish partner: this is my goyfriend

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1 year

love to see a femme drag their butch around as god intended

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15 days

t gel candle

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1 year

here’s me in mine btw

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1 year

lesbians in their national/folk dress 🫶🫶🫶

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2 years

the most frustrating thing about some of these ‘femme4femmes’ is that they somehow assume that butch-femme relationships were like… normal? ACCEPTED by society? like a working class gender nonconforming lesbian and a feminine woman unattainable to men would somehow face less1

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2 years

it came

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@belovedhestia

1 year

this sappho fragment is so high femme/stone butch

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4 months

valentine’s day nails designed by my butch!!!

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@belovedhestia

1 year

very funny to me how some people can’t comprehend the fact that stone tops can still cum. or that high femmes/pillow princesses can still get their partner to cum without having to do certain acts to them

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1 year

i have literally suffered more than jesus

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1 year

if your feminist and communist/leftist ideology isn’t based on love then we cannot be friends

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@belovedhestia

1 year

really fucking weird to compare cishet met to lesbians btw !! especially to lesbians who use a term that was often borne from violence perpetrated by men !!

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1 year

(guy who refuses to go down on his girlfriend voice) yea, i guess you could say i’m a bit of a pillow princess

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4 months

this is what some fem4fems act like

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1 year

it truly should be mandatory to have at least a basic fucking understanding of lesbian history because then people who decide to compare high femmes and stone butches to cis men will understand that these terms were coined and used by victims of systematic patriarchal violence

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1 year

so excited for the new straight privilege because apparently as someone who isn’t attracted to femininity at all i’m not a lesbian 💪

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@krissibarks @airbnderedacted @Remisa_Arte absolutely

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1 year

and another thing about the whole ‘no more pillow princesses thing’ do y’all like… not talk to your partners? do you not discuss preferences? do you not talk about accomodating each other in ways that are healthy for you both? that’s what is the most confusing part to me

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9 months

you can’t read the themes of stone butch blues in isolation. i see many people pick the book up to understand stone butchness and while that is true, it cannot be separated from its discussion of workers rights, the working class, racism, and sex work

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8 months

me seeing a butch without a carabiner: where’s your crown king?

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10 months

hard launch ! at the dyke bar

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4 months

butchfemme outfit matching

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1 year

OLDER BUTCH AND I JUST SMILED AT EACH OTHER’S OUTFITS I’M GOING TO PASS OUT

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1 year

once tiktok fems realise that mascs and butches are people with feelings and start forming friendships and community ties with them, then they’ll see that the ‘masc shortage’ isn’t real.

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1 year

the venus/double venus symbol is so pretty i just wish that terfs/radfems would keep their paws off it

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6 months

i propose making these shirts

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1 year

i love calling myself a girl. it’s fun and sexy and subversive. when someone who i don’t know closely calls me a girl it makes me want to set something on fire

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1 year

media when masc/butch: she was a muscular WOMAN, a strong FEMME, her muscles were WOMANLY

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@belovedhestia

9 months

don’t wish this on anyone

chlo ✰

@xiraeda

9 months

when ur the only lesbian in ur friend group

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1 year

there’s a butch working at the mcdonald’s i frequent at night and it’s truly horrific because they witness me at my literal worst

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@belovedhestia

1 year

society teaches us that only one type of sex is the right type of sex, that if you’re a woman you have to have heterosexual sex a certain way. that heterosexual penis in vagina sex is The only sex. you’re already being labelled ‘deviant’ and ‘wrong’ for having queer sex

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1 year

by cishet people. it boggles my mind that gay spaces can parrot the same sort of rhetoric by driving home that there is a ‘right’ way to have sex. that even when you’re already ostracised for being a queer in the cisheteropatriarchy that you aren’t doing queerness right

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@belovedhestia

5 months

my butch’s bicep save me… save me my butch’s bicep…

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@belovedhestia

1 year

i never stop thinking about how merril mushroom, the author of this article, knows who i am because she was shown my tiktoks on a zoom meeting

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@belovedhestia

4 months

watched three butches carry a couch up to an apartment last night while shining my phone torch light… femme duties

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4 months

one thing about me and my butch is that we will be so hot

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@belovedhestia

6 months

save me 5’2 butch… 5’2 butch… 5’2 butch save me…

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@belovedhestia

10 months

@shania_mes and it’s a slay every time (proof ^)

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@belovedhestia

1 year

i have gayer, dykeier sex than you ever could btw

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femmebutch

Why you should have a cat

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7 months

They have a date

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2 months

i think many people who are coming into the femme identity would benefit from reading things written by femmes. the femme mystique is a wonderful text and truly opened my eyes re: the expansiveness of femme as a gender and identity.

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@belovedhestia

11 months

the dyke eye contact of recognition connects cultures all over the world

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@belovedhestia

9 months

femmes who are asking how to flirt with butches never forget the holy combo 🙏 giggle + hold their arm + ask how they like your lipstick

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1 year

lesbians in their national/folk dress 🫶🫶🫶

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3 months

happy butchfemme valentine’s, she made me ukranian dinner 💖

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1 year

hold on *readjusts my bangs mid-sex*

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1 year

my complex relationship with sex and desire is actually an integral part of my identity as a lesbian 🫶

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@belovedhestia

1 year

we had formal instead of prom <3 (baby’s first butch date)

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i wanna see everybody’s HS prom pics

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@belovedhestia

1 year

i’m anti the porn industry but op is right this is how they initially passed all the anti lgbt laws in eastern europe i wish y’all would understand that

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@belovedhestia

1 year

pedro pascal looked more butch at the met gala than kristen stewart

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3 years

happy birthday oscar wilde i know you would’ve loved dragging people on twitter

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9 months

leslie feinberg being 5’2 is really such a win for the short nice jewish butches

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@belovedhestia

1 year

everyone always talks sm about heteronormative butches but where Are they…

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10 months

on boyfriend day i better only be seeing pictures of butch boyfriends

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11 months

terfs hate it when high femmes and stone butches have fun sex with people who respect them. they have to be there in the room with a clipboard the entire time making sure no fun is ever had

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@belovedhestia

1 year

like sorry YOUVE never experienced an orgasm from a strap on. sorry YOU don’t have a phantom limb connection with the strap. I’VE seen it firsthand

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@belovedhestia

1 year

dom femme this dom femme that when will people learn what dom ACTUALLY means

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butchfemme twitter discovering how hot leslie feinberg actually was

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@belovedhestia

1 year

one of my favourite things about being femme is that a butch will never correct you. i could be looking at a completely clear sky and be like ‘it’s raining’ and a butch in my life will be like yeah. you’re so right sweetheart. it is

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1 year

“cishet people are allowed to and should be close and comfortable with their friends” and “cishet women can and do capitalise on ‘acting gay’” are two things that can coexist btw

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1 year

i do it every day darling

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1 year

not a day goes by when people aren’t weird about butches and mascs

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1 year

why are gay men in lesbians’ business instead of doing poppers in a club as god intended

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4 months

femme who is the man of the family

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1 year

why are you as a butch vaping and not smoking cigars

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@belovedhestia

1 year

i love my community so much like when my femme bestie trims my bangs and offers to pluck my brows and holds me close as we both giggle and how my butch friends always offer to walk me to the station and how i buzz their hair and sew their buttons back on

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cannot relate to those ‘need a girly masc’ lesbians on tiktok. the more a butch looks like a ‘man’ the hotter they are

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@belovedhestia

1 year

this barbie is a high femme

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2 years

discrimination than two often-times wealthy white gender conforming women. like are you being fr.

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9 months

femmebutch joy

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@belovedhestia

1 year

bold of someone to say ‘pay respect to your lesbian elders’ and the ‘elders’ they are referring to are 19th/early 20th century racist wealthy white women who would hate me for being a butch-loving high femme dyke

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@belovedhestia

1 year

never seen a butch look hot in a wife pleaser :/

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1 year

femmes in ties representation

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2 years

thinks about butch4butch cowboys

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4 months

5 minutes with my butch somehow my lipstick is gone and my hair has fallen out of the curls

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7 months

the femmes don’t like you

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2 months

butches in the smokers area of the lesbian bar

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1 year

me when the lesbians in sapphic books aren’t horrible nasty awful people

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2 years

one of the most heartwarming things in aloto is butches calling each other ‘brother’

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1 year

butches in cowboy hats >>>

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@belovedhestia

1 year

i hate hookup culture why aren’t you duelling for my hand in marriage

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9 months

a high femme’s place is on their butchfemme friends’ laps

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@belovedhestia

10 months

we need to stress treating mascs and butches as people when looking for romantic partners. also comparing every masc lesbian to a singular fictional character and associating them with toxicity is just as bad

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i don’t want to stir the pot any longer but do NOT go into these qrts bringing up nazis and fascism. i’m literally jewish. it has affected me and my family personally. it is not a gotcha. i will always base my ideology on a love for my people and the oppressed.

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if your feminist and communist/leftist ideology isn’t based on love then we cannot be friends

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1 year

on being femme

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the femme urge to dress up all your butch and transmasc friends

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explaining covering my hair with a headscarf to my butch

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do you ever stop feeling guilt about being stone or is that smth that just follows you for your entire life asking for a friend

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@belovedhestia

1 year

don’t want to bring up the discourse surrounding those tweets again but they didn’t deserve the dog pile they got. on the other hand online spaces positioning lesbian sex and relationships as this kinda divine feminine made physical made me think i was asexual for so long lmao

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@belovedhestia

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what i wish for a lot of bisexuals is for them to find community with one another. so much of bisexual women’s ‘i’m wasting time with straight men’ could be solved by putting the community first and dating within the community.

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@belovedhestia

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some of you are so so hateful for real and that could not be me. i love people i love people so much i have so much hope for humanity i think we are made to be beautiful

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