society teaches us that only one type of sex is the right type of sex, that if you’re a woman you have to have heterosexual sex a certain way. that heterosexual penis in vagina sex is The only sex. you’re already being labelled ‘deviant’ and ‘wrong’ for having queer sex

by cishet people. it boggles my mind that gay spaces can parrot the same sort of rhetoric by driving home that there is a ‘right’ way to have sex. that even when you’re already ostracised for being a queer in the cisheteropatriarchy that you aren’t doing queerness right

@belovedhestia Wait isn't it from that lesbian podcast ? I followed them for a while but they always say weird things

@MARYLILY_ yeah i’ve been having a lot of videos pop up on my fyp. i thought they were rlly funny!! but this post rlly threw me for a loop

@belovedhestia yo u really pissed them off with this one damn

@xtensivesins funniest part is they’re all priv qrts too like they don’t wanna come out and say that they disrespect sexual boundaries out loud

@belovedhestia Femmes can still top though other thing are pillow princesses

@Kyanes123 yes, i specifically said high femmes for a reason

@belovedhestia How dare someone have sexual boundaries >:(

@leather_butch literally what they sound like

@belovedhestia how does this have anything to do with being high femme

@deathbian what do you think a high femme is quick

@belovedhestia Is this really a thing?? I thought everyone wanted a pillow princess girlfriend

@belovedhestia Isnt the woman basically excepted to not do anything at all in hetero sex?besides fellatio usually women are not expected to be very active participants, if anything this is breaking away from cishetero standards of sex

@belovedhestia The type of sex one has should be between them and their partner(s). If everyone is happy and enjoying themselves then that's all that matters

@belovedhestia I'm pretty sure that the author of this tiktok is 16-20 years old and probably one day they will grow out of policing other people

@belovedhestia I am so tired of pillow princess slander. They don’t even get it

@belovedhestia Lesbians shouldn't sit and define what lesbian sex is/should be stg. If you don't want a pillow princess that's ur preference and that's fine, but saying they're selfish is pretty weird 🫠 Also comments thinking high femme is some whose just feminine x100 are 🤨