@amandaperera
@kindnessservant
For burnout: Thiamine (B1), a pure electrolyte powder, early bed, strengthening spleen and heart meridian, very gentle exercise, pleasure practices and good solid meals are very helpful. ๐โค๏ธโ๐ฉน๐
@HeidiPriebe1
A common journey:
1. โIโm nice ๐โ
2. โI hold the capacity to be really bad ๐ฎโ
3. โIn the โbadโ is some power that is NEUTRAL & I can discover the well-honed ability of working with it, for a truly GOOD purposeโโฆ
@theRiseofOne
@Theholisticpsyc
๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
I feel so much โwow ๐คฉโ at how you must have communicated your need well and he found a solution to help with that.
I see provision, protection and care being given from him to you. ๐
Energy orgasms are real.
And they can be given by distance. Or activated solo.
Thereโs so much more possible than we realizeโฆ with a little focus, connection and trust โจ๐
@amandaperera
@kindnessservant
Spleen meridian. Hold the first points (first one side of the body, then the other) for about 2-3 mins. 2nd points for ~1 min
"Men are terrified of a woman's depth of love & the energy that moves w/ her sexuality & emotions. At the same time, men want nothing more in this life than to merge completely w/ a woman's devotional love & wild energy. Only as a man outgrows his fear can he handle a woman's
@guideforlovers
Women who send love letters to thieves & serial killers for attention are seeking to resolve their trauma & attachment issues
Healthy, balanced women seek healthy, balanced men they can look up to & trust
My heart/radiance would selfprotect from a man who deliberately mistreats
Ever experienced/witnessed narcissism?
This person ๐ says:
โSpiritually, the narcissistโs job is to teach you to [have self worth] & learn how to not be a doormat.โ ๐
๐ค Thoughts?
#Narcissism
๐คซ Secret Sexual/Intimacy Energy Hack
In the moment you want to REACH out to someone for pleasure/touch/intimacy/connection (to help you feel better)โฆ ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
Notice that OUTWARD moving desire & pull it BACK into you for a bit
You can even talk to it:
โHello old friendโฆ I
For someone:
Sexual desire is safe in my body
Anger is safe in my body
Pain is safe in my body
I donโt have to escape or feel shame with these movements in my body
I can learn how to live & work with these sensationsโฆ& be sovereign or lead myself to get help.
@alpharivelino
A man can be a powerful lover without being vigorousโฆ{Just ask a Tantra practicioner!}
& sometimes vigorous love-making is the least powerful. ie All movement & no real connection.
I suggest googling โ5 erotic blueprintsโ as a good eye opener!
@LeahDiscovers
How did I get him to commit?
I DIDNโT try to get him to commit
He *wanted* me in his life
He wanted a family, marriage & kids.
He had a vision & we both went for it.
All sexual energy is not truly โlustโ
True lust has no beauty or care.
A similarity is: calling all wealth creation โgreedโ; or the focused first steps of a child as โselfishnessโ.
Noโฆ ๐คฅ
Actual lust is surprisingly โ๐ฉถโ like a heavy & molten metallic substance thatโs
The pure sweet desire to kiss & merge beingsโฆ
transformed into pure energy that is breathed & expanded throughout the body
โฆ& shared to a Lover across the room, or at whatever distance. โจ
The masculine serves the feminine,
& the feminine serves the masculine
Both, from a place of their innate power
This makes them both โmoreโ
โฆcreating an ongoing loop of mutual honoring
๐๐๐
@VitallyMelanie
My husbandโs smell has changed over the years. A big part of that was diet & stress/ job related.
I believe there are many other factors for determining long term relationship viability!
@CrochetLady15
@JamesEsses
Yes. My husband worked against incredible odds to be doing what he is; but many people point & say โwhite privilegeโ completely unaware of the real story of struggle, vision & commitment.
Further, maleness & whiteness were two more things working against him!
I am getting fake followers {people with zero tweets or likes}
Any advice? Do I block them?๐ค
I like real.
I like connection
I like community, care & passion
I donโt care for numbers
{Help! ๐ค}
@guideforlovers
That they can do everything.
The feminine soul canโt โpushโ in the same was as a man.
Well, she can masculinize herselfโฆ
Lying to her feminine heart that wants to be protected, and softer. ๐ธ
I believe in your ability to have a hard conversation
I believe in your ability to communicate your needs
I believe in your ability to speak truth with love
๐
SOME SEXUAL *NEEDS*
๐Sharing touch during the day, to feel safe for deeper giving & receiving later
๐Quiet time playing w/ a Loverโs body, to feel secure in relationship
๐Meditating โTO each otherโ, to merge energy circuitry
๐Talking together. Feeling seen
SEXUAL ENERGY & ELECTRICAL THEORY {musing}
Voltage ~ some people are sexually full-on๐ฅ It can be wild, hot & fast
{note: If a person isnโt ready / it feels unsafe to their system, it may โblow a fuseโ from fear or the impression โhe/she doesnโt really care about meโ}
1/๐งต ๐
โSexual Healingโ
They think: orgasm w/ some1 showing interest
Iโm thinking:
๐นCapability to give & receive
๐นResponses to arousal
๐นAbility to ๐ other & self
๐นKnowing oneโs own power & respecting the power of the other
๐นFinding ur & Loverโs erotic style/s
Stuff like that ๐
@antiquatedabbie
2/ l remember laying on the floor with my eyes closed, holding a cushion up for my 3yr old to kick repeatedly, while trying to breastfeed. ๐คฆโโ๏ธ
Exhaustion from the *constant* go go go of little active kids blows out the adrenals and hormones too ๐คทโโ๏ธ
๐
@basedethos
Thank u, I feel the need to add to this tho.
โMasteringโ sexual urges may also result in โastral demon enslavementโ
Fear &shame of the bodyโs natural urges & processes opens a portal,too!
We can masterbat*e w/ an open heart & joy &experience a full suite of beneficial healing๐
@namitaj68
@drjenwolkin
Yes. Often people give what they wanted to get.
Itโs a choice towards goodness, ๐
โฆthough there is often the distortion that there are beliefs/fears/blocks around receiving.
Iโm getting better at working with arousal
๐ฝsexual arousal
๐ฝemotional arousal
๐ฝfeelings arousal (I can sometimes have feelings/inner sensations/qualia without any distinct emotion)
I may:
Circulate it through my body
Ground it
Direct it to a location
Gently be with it ๐ฉท
The pure sweet desire to kiss & merge beingsโฆ
transformed into pure energy that is breathed & expanded throughout the body
โฆ& shared to a Lover across the room, or at whatever distance. โจ
@alpharivelino
Masturbation is often about filling a need of the psyche, soโฆ
If she craves soul connectionโฆ she may imagine a masculine man connected to his heart/soul.
If high strung, she may visualize a man with a presence that soothes her nervous system & merging w/ him.
๐like menโฆ
I just spent ~40mins working subtly w/ a womanโs hand
Afterwards I cried & she was without words
Then she moved her fingers & I noticed I was still *so* connected to her I could feel her movements in โmeโ
That level of intimacy is so profound & itโs an incredible space to work
@AlpacaAurelius
I once did raw veges *only* (plus herbal teas, & honey & olive oil) for 10 days
It profoundly supported my gut bacteria for super easy 2-3x daily elimination
Note: I had lacto fermented raw veges too (probiotics)
no significantly anti-nutrient green plants
Life changing!๐คธโโ๏ธ
โOrgasm isnโt a place that you just reach.
Itโs a place that you stay a while.
Stay in that ecstasyโฆ it heals you
~ Otherwise itโs like a vacation where you arrive, just take a photo, then turn homeโ
๐ธ ๐๏ธ
@PippaOona
I played with flows of joy & eros in my body as I walked along the beach.
Sometimes it caused me to laugh out loud ~ with the kind of laugh that turns people on. ๐โจ
@bymoonsoulchild
It depends if youโve grown & changedโฆ
Sometimes rekindling an old connection at the close-friendship-level-only is the healing that you both have to experience to come full circle ๐
โPeople make fun of me for my $80 engagement ring, without understanding how culturally normal & appropriate that was. I went with my husband to pick it out & was proud we were able to find something so cheap.
I was 20 years old & just happy to be getting marriedโ
The more I hear discourse about what a man should be able to provide for a woman before entering marriage, the more Iโm convinced that what is considered a good standard of living is highly cultural.
I grew up eating lots of rice and beans, my parents drove beaters and we ate
So many people misunderstand me & what Iโm about.
I get it. This isnโt exactly mainstream content & work Iโm bringing here! ๐
Thank you to those who consider my content beyond any first bias
I use some principles of Tantra in my life. Primarily: that sexual energy can be redirected & reshaped.
Iโve enjoyed developing & working with this. โค๏ธโ๐ฅ
I now sometimes apply this approach to other strong energy flows in a similar way (strong grief or anger for example).
Pool party:
Eventually I get talkingโฆ & end up sharing for 2 hrs about cliteral function & structure, sexual energy anatomy, energy orgasms, & the levels of love exchange possible between couples.
Buzzinโโฆ ๐๐ฅฐ
Erotic literature for a certain type of mystic:
โฆshe looked in his eyes & felt her body tremble as he slowly said what he really wanted to doโฆ
โI want our chakras penetrating each other other, all night longโ
@MagnusVigso
@Phon3A
When I see scapula winging, I typically see โfear & overwhelmโ feelings that have โblown the fuseโ of lattisimus dorsi /&/spleen meridian.
โฆin such a way that the person has become a distinct over-thinker (overly mental), and very ungrounded.
Itโs just a matter of getting the
Mood: To cuddle w/ someone in bed. clothes on. Gently working with erotic energy, coaching through it all & channeling it into energy orgasms & healing energy flows
Mmmm. Happyโฆโบ๏ธ
{sexual energy doesnโt have to lead to penetrat*ve sex
Takes a bit of control & work tho!}๐ฎโ๐จ๐ฉท๐น
Confessionโฆ A part of me is afraid of being more powerful. So, here goesโฆ
Yes to holding power easily, comfortably, happy-heartedly, humbly & wisely
Yes to being a change-maker
{Yes to doing this well}
Yes to contentedly being what I want/need to be
Yes to life energy
1/2
Twice recently Iโve been guided to hug people. Tonight, it turned into a healing moment.
At one point I held her head & kissed her forehead, staying there for ages. Kinda crying over my completely new Latina friend.
She told me she canโt remember the last time she was hugged ๐
I just coached a teen. The WHOLE session we didnโt really talk, not from our head. I went deep w my body-connected loving voice, inviting her to reconnect w HER body/being
Sensitive souls often disassociate from their Body. They easily feel overwhelm!Sensation &love is healingโค๏ธโ๐ฉน
He burrowed his face between her thighs. He would say he โliked puss*yโ but it was more than that
The subtle frequency she gave from that area could be felt by his system, even when she had leggings on
This frequency, this vibe, it fed him somehow in this season of his life
๐
@arts_fantastic
๐ค In your spirit, if you can get clear, ask:
โIs it physical, nutritional, mental, emotional, or energetic?โ
Then scan all books & lists, kitchen supplies, medications, office & sleeping set up.
See if anything pulls towards you & question further w/ zero attachment ๐
Iโm dealing w/ some really crazy kind of energy situation down in ma pelvic areaโฆ
Solar flare?
Geomagnetic shifts thru my body?
Omgoodnessโฆ ๐
Iโm trying to transmute it & stay really open. Even if it creates some weird orgasm. ๐น I feel embarrassed & just have to go w/ it!
Hubby asked for a tantric massage from me to help him after a difficult dentist visit today
He stopped himself & said โlet me try that again, it was a bit helpless & whiny. Not what you need.โ
He stands up, holds himself with purpose so I can feel myself softening in the
@alpharivelino
Many replies here are trying to โmake themselves the prizeโ which is really only helpful for if theyโre w/ women who donโt already admire them
In relationship, good masculine containment creates emotional security, which leads to more of her trust in him ๐ฅน๐
๐
@thechrisbuskirk
@ARKloster
Haha, yes! And hereโs another one I posted on facebook at the time:
Now Iโm in the US, Iโm regularly putting food back on the store shelf& saying to the kids โwe wonโt eat that food much here in America, itโs different here, it has โโฆโ in it. Itโs just for special occasionsโ ๐
@gaialect
My body began to heal & strengthen itself and I felt beauty and joy moving in me and from me ๐๐ธโค๏ธโจ
And overtime itโs fascinating to explore the possibilities with that & expand on it!
{Theory} When someone has a lot of innate personal power that they are choosing to not exercise/wield โฆ
or feel unable toโฆ
they are likely to need to *be sexually dominated* in order to be energetically balanced & feel happier.
Itโs a third chakra thing
There is an incredible connection between neuro-reflexes & BDSM-type physical play
Applying the science heals trauma
โฆAdd arousal to this bodywork &: ๐ฅ
โฆadd energy work to this &:
There are beautiful & fast healing possibilities in minutes/days rather than months/yrs ๐น๐ซ
This can be intentionally made
& be genuinely satisfying for both people, of course. ๐
Learn, discuss, cry,
learn, discuss, tryโฆ
discuss again, adjust some broader things in lifeโฆ create ๐โจ
@gardenieer
@kikimancy
Think dinosaur ๐ฆ. And if thereโs the bombadire (spelling?) beetle that makes a burst of fire come out from its behind, who know what some dinosaurs may have been able to do. ๐คทโโ๏ธ
Hot take: Codependency is good when both people are at their best {clear communication, powerful in their unique ways, wise & loving}
Codependency has an openness, a receptivity
Thereโs a deep โfeedingโ into each other.
๐
โฆ The right kind of sexual healing heals the heart
Itโs beautiful
& it often arrives for us when we least expect it
Itโs an experience to be honored & carefully nurtured*
{*not controlled}
@Truthster24
@thomasmrgn
@AlpacaAurelius
Nope. Depleted soils. ๐ข
Magnesium isnโt in our foods like it was 100+ years ago
Look into top soil mineral analysis! Compare the oldest records to now, on our farmlands.
Iโve wished about 40 people a good morning so far while out riding my son to school. I feel happy, it feels good to live this way ๐ผโ๏ธ๐
I had to adjust myself tho!
With the first few people I was quieter.
I realized I was being โniceโ/cautious/tentative(?) based on my past
Two notes on this:
1. Sex doesnโt necessarily create this โexchangeโ. Many people are closed down or shut off from sharing intimacy at some level (mind, heart, or true pelvic sexual energy). Meaning: Theyโre only sharing a bit of themselves.
2. Actual sex isnโt required for
Sexual interactions are not mere physical exchanges; they are profound rituals of energy transfer and spiritual intertwining. When two beings come together intimately, they share not only their bodies but also their consciousness, emotions, and karmic imprints.
Consider the
I was in hospital most of today after quite a negative reaction to a nutrient IV I was trying! ๐ฏ
When the ambulance crew (great people!) were putting things on my body & asking if I was ok, I thought Iโd lighten the mood & said โoh Iโm good, I love being touchedโ ๐๐
1/5๐
Men Challenge:
Invite her into being close to you (eg โcome & sit on my lapโ
โฆand love on her body WITHOUT touching her breasts or between her legsโฆ ๐ฒ
Unless she begs or takes your hands there
โฌ๏ธ Report back with your findings ๐ค
โWho was your โfirst loveโ?โ
Every person Iโve ever loved
opened me to a deeper understanding of Love & of โLifeโ. Itโs all a โfirstโ.
The ones I love daily,
I discover them transforming themselves
so they too become freshly loved.
How I look at kink:
*What is the core need TRYING TO BE MET here?*
Spanking example. Is the desire primarily for:
1. Sensory stimulation
2. Receiving attention & focus (perhaps from someone seen as โbigger & betterโ )
3. Existential Safety (eg โ๐ฅนThis person cares enough
@PippaOona
I did a new form of healing for my sis-in-law. I met her energy boundary line and gently worked with it, demonstrating to her system Iโd respect its needs, whatever it took
Powerful revelation for herโบ๏ธ
I did it on the beach, in front of my husbandโs family. No hiding myself ๐
I was sharing an insight w/ my husband & he required me to stop (post-sickness fatigue)
He could have:
Grunted
Disappeared into his own thoughts, disconnecting from me
Blamed me for his feelings
Started swearing
Left the room
But he didnโtโฆ ๐1/3
@KnightShore
@savannahvicario
@BrazenCrone
Safe - the feeling of being with a man who has his own structure, frame & awareness; so heโs not dumping his uncomfortable emotions or nervous system dis-regulation directly into her system without a filter or care for her receptivity to it.
Safe - the feeling of being with a
A quick an effective trauma support technique is: a hand on the forehead & another under the back of the head
If they canโt consent, state what ur doing as u do it {Itโs easier 4 a person to reject smthg than to stop & say โyesโ in the midst of a reaction}
Here itโs a kiss &๐ค:
You know how some people feel invisible & fade out of life until someone looks at them & invites them over?
Parts of our bodies can be like that!
What if every part happily hummed, full of โfeeling lovedโ ๐ฅฐ
Literally any inch of the bodyโฆ
Do u know that women have more erectile tissue than men?
Itโs insideโฆ!
When a woman is at ๐ฏ physical readiness for sex, itโs harder for her to walk, like men!
Many women experience the feeling of a peni*s still inside them if they sit-up quickly after sex. Thatโs โฆ๐
Isnโt it funny how we often consider beauty as something from womenโฆ
yet men have such great capacity to give women a high experience of โfelt beautyโโฆโจ๐น
Submissives be like
I love being lovingly directed
to do the things
I know are good for me,
that Iโm finding challenging to do on my own๐ฅบ
Thank u for growing me
to be the person I want to b
& doing it out of love for me ๐ฅฐ
Maybe we all have a little bit of this inside us!
*Sexual training: for expressing clearly*
1. Choose a phrase/sound they need to express freely & without hesitation
2. Build it up gently with care. Practice practice practice.
Example:
They are the quiet type & arenโt speaking up with their needs.
Give them the words to
One time I put my hand on a manโs head & I could feel a buzzing from his pre-frontal cortex.
It was tingly & I laughed. He probably thought it was a compliment to hear he had so much energy in his brain ๐ง ๐
But I realized shortly after it was a chronic overstimulation. If I
I started my day with early morning tag, in a sundress, my kids with their bright little faces cheekily saying โyouโre it, mama!โ, all of us running around barefoot on the soft green grass in the open field next to the house.
#happiness
โ๏ธ๐ฆ๐๐
I had a crazy night last night, as in, crazy โbadโ.
But I did something right
Every thought I hadโฆ that could have lead to a dark placeโฆ I didnโt attach to.
I focused instead on my inner body sensations & inner energy movement.
My husband held me, hand on center chest &
I saw this sensual bachata dance > a year ago ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐโค๏ธโ๐ฅโค๏ธโ๐ฅ
I made a note to myself to make it happenโฆ๐๐ฅน๐๐
Well, this week, I now have my proper dancing shoes (flexible, cushioned)
My next step is to seek out a local classโฆor dance in my living room๐