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Izzy Canyon Group on Mastodon
This Is Not a Story About Hanging Out in Bars
How to filter content on AO3:
1. Open a tag (fandom, ship, character etc)
2. Open filters
3. Include the stuff you are looking for
4. Exclude the stuff you don’t want to see
5. Sort and filter
6. Repeat steps 2-5 if you want to refine the results
A short PSA about boundaries.
- Actors, directors, show runners, creators etc are not your friends.
- Don’t tag them when replying / RTing a fellow fan.
- When you tag them on your own stuff, be polite and don’t say / show anything you wouldn’t say / show to them in person.
How terms related to "shipping" are used within fandom spaces: the original meanings and how they've been twisted.
3/3: ANTI(-SHIPPER)
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Okay but what the hell is “proship content” supposed to mean?
That’s not a thing.
If you understood what the word “proship” means, you’d understand there is no such thing as “proship content”.
Oh, so we're talking about the ships we hate, huh?
I only truly hate and detest ONE ship. It's absolutely disgusting and I don't understand how anyone can like or support it.
Please, if this is your favourite ship, kindly just unfollow me.
It's...
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...Censorship.
Seeing how well these little PSAs resonate with the fandom makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Maybe there's still hope ❤️
As a thank you, I made you a travel sized version!
(I have now muted this thread)
Being “proship” is NOT about what type of fictional content you like.
It means you don’t use people’s taste in fiction to judge their character.
It means you understand the difference between fictional things and reality.
Ship and let ship.
Don’t like, don’t read.
Your kink is not my kink and that’s okay.
These are the pro-shipping guidelines.
It’s got nothing to do with condoning real life abuse, violence, assault, murder, torture, incest, rape etc. (Cont.)
Being “proship” means you ship and let ship. If you come across some content you don’t personally like, you nope out and move on.
You do NOT harass others for liking something you find disgusting or morally wrong.
For people who keep insisting that “pro” is not a prefix but actually does mean “problematic”, and for those who believe these claims:
- words mean things
- you can’t change the meaning by yelling the loudest
- do your research instead of trusting a tweet with no sources (Cont.)
I was curious about how Izzy addresses / refers to Ed. So of course I went through all the scenes where he does that and took some notes.
I do have some pie charts too, but have an edit first.
Almost* all of the times when Izzy addresses Edward directly.
#OurFlagMeansDeath
Pro choice does not mean problematic choice.
Pro bono does not mean problematic Bono.
Pro shipping is the opposite to anti shipping. Pro-shipper is someone who supports shipping, and anti-shipper is someone who is against shipping. (Cont.)
There is not such thing as “proship content”.
There are only people who are in favour of letting everyone ship what they want, make up whatever fictional thing they want, without harassing them or claiming they are committing crimes.
Any content can be “proship content”.
Being “proship” means you understand that you have the responsibility of curating your own online experience. It means you don’t go looking for stuff you don’t like.
It also means that you let others know what sort of content you publish, so that they can do the same.
Being “proship” means you respect the boundaries of other people. And by people I mean real, actual people. Not figments of someone’s imagination.
Fictional things are not real. Fictional characters can’t be hurt in a way that matters in the real world.
When tagging their fics, I wish everyone understood that tags serve TWO purposes:
1) They help readers to avoid stuff that squicks/triggers them or just isn't their cup of tea.
2) They help readers to find the specific stuff they are craving for, especially if it's rare.
Shipping in this context means “putting fictional characters into different sorts of relationships” and it’s usually done in art or writing, or just imagined inside ones head.
Pro-shippers support everyone’s right to ship whatever they want without being harassed. (Cont.)
@WildWestPirate
I think proshippers have not been “recruiting”, because most of us are just baffled that these common sense things need to be specifically stated and explained. Like said above, this was the common mindset in the fandom before antis got all reactionary and knee-jerky.
This blog post by Neil Gaiman from 2008 is worth reading and rereading. It illustrates perfectly why we must stand united against people who want to censor "icky" fictional things, even when they are targeting stuff we personally dislike.
A reminder that people who mute certain words because they can get triggered by that content will see the tweets where those words are used if you decide to censor the word itself.
If I had muted the word "wasp" and your wasp tweet contains the word "w*sp", I will see it.
#ofmds2spoilers
I really like that Izzy is winning people over, when they finally see him in a different light. I’m happy for you if you now like or even love him, because it’s going to make the show more enjoyable to you.
But some of us have been here for 18 months already 😘
You are free to share these graphics by reposting them as they are. Crediting is appreciated but not mandatory; my username is in each picture, so that should lead people to the source if they want to find it.
Please include the ALT texts when reposting.
@FoxxDoesThings
I love it when they bring up the money laundering. Please, I need to know—what is the original crime where the dirty money comes from? Is AO3 doing some illegal arms dealership perhaps? Selling drugs?
When the creative team interacts with the fandom online, it’s a bit like attending a convention.
You can go to a panel discussion to ask questions.
You can go to a meet & greet to thank them for their work, maybe give them a portrait you drew of their character / them.
Use their names. It’s okay to repeat names, that’s what they are for. Pronouns can get confusing and epithets sometimes feel like the author was doing everything in their power to NOT repeat the name of the character. Give the “taller man / shorter man” thing a rest, please.
Be polite.
Respect their boundaries.
Respect the boundaries of your fellow fans, too.
This way, we can keep interacting with the creators without it getting awkward for anyone.
To all of you who say
#BringSquickBack
, I see you and I feel the anguish of people not using a perfectly good word.
Do you know how we bring it back?
We start USING it. Even if it means we then have to explain what it means, when others don’t know it. But after that, they will.
Let me demonstrate you how damn captivating this man is. I have seen this picture countless times and every time I just stare at him, his face, clothes, stance...
Today I noticed that he is holding a pair of sunglasses.
These proshipper freaks believe in disgusting things like *checks notes* not harassing real people over fictional content, curating your own online experience, being against censorship and other gross things.
What happened to just saying "I don't like this character, because, honestly, they just rub me the wrong way, they were an asshole, they remind me of an old boss" etc. Why are people trying to JUSTIFY their hate of a fictional character by applying elaborate theories?
Just in case some of you didn’t know, the recent RPF discussion didn’t start because people who write RPF disrespected the boundaries of a celebrity and threw RPF at them.
It started because a celebrity made a joke about reading RPF of their friend out loud, publicly.
@yautjakyloren
While we’re at it, can we also stop normalizing superpowers, vampires, and time travel. It pisses me off when fiction makes me forget that they are not real.
I’m not sad because my fave character died.
I’m sad because the show I had been invested in for more than 18 months turned out to be not worth the trust I had in it.
I’m disappointed that the genre expectations were not met.
#OFMDS2Spoilers
Wanting to “ban some tags on AO3” because you think the content posted under those tags is icky is like hating peanuts and believing that if nobody is allowed to write “contains peanuts” on food packaging everyone will stop using peanuts in their products.
Can we make a list of things that happened in S1 because of the actors’ input? I’ll start:
The Foot Touch
Blackbeard’s bar & grill dialogue
Ooh daddy
Non-binary Jim
TealOranges
As someone with a very heavy block finger, I want to shed some light to the reasons why I have ended up blocking someone. I bet a lot of other fandom folks will recognise their own methods in here.
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“Oh, this person posted something that is offensive, and then deleted it. Luckily I have a screenshot so I can keep spreading the offensive stuff around, making sure even more people can see it!”
Ain’t it funny how part of this fandom was extremely vocal about how abusive Izzy was towards Ed in S1, but now they seem to think that abuse is not that big of a deal?
And by “funny” I mean “hypocritical”.
If people would start thinking of fanfics that happen in a non-canonical setting as plays, and the characters as actors, it might help them to not get so appalled and even angry when something “uncharacteristic” happens in the fic.
They are just dolls we use to tell stories.
Now, I know we are all excited about fanfic being mentioned, and Con saying that someone (I still think it was Vico) sent him a smutty fic.
I'm kindly reminding you to not send fanfic to the actors. They can find it on their own if they feel like it. Same goes with NSFW fan art.
These three quotes from Jim are really a whole mood since the finale aired:
“There was a time when life meant something on this ship.”
“Guess you’ll never know when you’re in the middle of the good days.”
“Shitty sailing with you.”
#OFMDS2
Where to find the tags?
Search ➡️ Works
Scroll down to Work Tags and add the tag you are looking for.
Hit the Search-button ➡️ List of fics ➡️ Tap the tag you want on any fic.
If you have an account, you can add tags as favourites ➡️ You see them on the front page.
The ship preference discussion in OFMD fandom is getting very “if you like pancakes that must mean you hate waffles” and it’s so damn tiresome.
Having a preference doesn’t require you to hate all the other options. It’s called multishipping. Look it up.
@OpheliaLoonyluv
Words mean things, and if some people insist using the meanings they’ve twisted to suit their own goals, communication becomes impossible.
@Hyakkiga
Those people clearly don't know what the word means. They've learned the word from someone else, who either also doesn't know the meaning, or is deliberately muddying the waters.
Proshipping = being anti-censorship and anti-harassment and taking responsibility of yourself.