Behaviour & Education Specialist | Keynote Speaker | Author "Miss, I don't give a sh*t" Engaging with Challenging Behaviour in Schools | Expert
@BBCRadio4
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Last yr I began teaching an 11yr old child in care who could not recognise the alphabet - due to traumatic home experiences and lack of education.
Today they read 3 short sentences to me, independently.
#Proud
#PRU
#thisisAP
#behaviour
#Reading
In
#Finland
by law every student must have access to professional student support:
1 School Social Worker
1 Psychologist
1 Nurse
1 Visiting Doctor
1 Student Counsellor for every 750 pupils in a
#school
.
My observation: it means teachers get to teach and students learn
In a
#Finnish
school of 500 students by law there are:
3 SEND Qualified to Masters Level Teachers (by law 1 for every 200 students).
1 Full-time counsellor
1 Part-time Psychotherapist
1 Part-time Social Worker
1 Part-time Nurse (all teachers are 1stAid)
It has slipped out a little, but now it is official -
I HAVE A CONTRACT TO WRITE MY FIRST BOOK!!!
"Miss, I don't give a sh*t" - A guide to supporting pupils with challenging
#behaviour
Thanks to
@SAGEeducation
publishers :)
Due in 2021...!
What's ur no. 1
#Behaviour
tip for
#NQTs
or
#PGCE
trainees who have had little experience in the classroom recently?
Pls share, it's going to be a nervous time -
I cried at a training I was leading today.
Teacher came up to tell me how much it helped that I shared that I am an out Bisexual teacher 🏳️🌈
Had complaints about sharing this in the past, which have hurt
But this is why I do it, still many scared LGBTQ+ staff in our schools😢
#Insultoftheweek
Pupil: Why do you keep calling me?
Me: Because you're one of my pupils, and there's no school to go to
Pupil: Can you pls call pupils who find you less annoying?
Me: Who would that be?
Pupil: Oh, NO ONE
#SEMH
#Behaviour
#PRU
#thisisAP
#SEND
Ugh!
Stressed parent contacted me saying she's being hassled by her school for not logging on properly every morning with her 4 year old....
How is this helping stressing our parents out?
Tempted to tell her to turn her phone off, ignore and do some baking wit her child!
I am sad and a bit lost atm.
This morning, on a walk in this woodland, upset, I called a friend.
During the call, a dog walker chap stopped to just give me a 👍👎 check in.
This has made my day.
Do, do the
#Smallthings
if you can- even for a stranger.
It may mean the 🌍
Heartbreaking.
A high court order decided today that a pupil must be taken from their parents immediately+move from the county;most staff didn't get a chance to say goodbye.
We didn't even know about the hearing until midday.
Social Systems that are not joined up cause harm.
Student:Miss ur being more snappy today,what’s up?
Me: I’m fine, get on with ur work
Student: Ur not usually this grumpy, have u had lunch?
Me: No, had a club
Student: Eat ur lunch
Me: we’re not supposed to eat in front of you.
Student: please eat Miss
:)
Year 11 student today: ‘Are you ok, Miss?’
I assured her I was fine + the dramatic exasperation is all part of the act.
She said, ‘I just thought it was important to check.’
I had to blink a few tines before resuming the lesson. Teenagers can be amazing.
#GCSEs2019
Out of interest, has anyone found that 'being more disciplined' with
#SEMH
pupils, or pupils with behavioural needs works?
In 18yrs of teaching this is not the best strategy I have found...
You?
Thank you to all of you who have checked in with me over the past 5months.
The borders opened,
We have been reunited and now it’s 14days in quarantine together...
... and for anyone who is a soppy romantic :)
#pridemonth
🏳️🌈
For some of the pupils you work with
You will be the safest adult they will be with all week.
Occasionally that may affect their behaviour towards you
#SEMH
#Behaviour
*Insult of the Week*
Pupil: What does catastrophe mean?
Me: It's similar to a disaster.
Pupil: Oh, like this lesson then.
(He went on to do the most work he's done for me - ever :) )
#SEMH
#PRU
#ThisisAP
#EBD
#Behaviour
“We've an entire school system built on high levels of cortisol and stress,a focus on accountability,results & endless testing.We're told to focus on children’s MH within a system that seems determined to destroy it”
#Lords
debate:
#schools
#adoption
It’s 12am and I feel naughty; I just had to creep back to my room at my parents’ after being out drinking with friends...
I am 37yrs old.
And still feel like an under aged teenager when I do this- anyone else?!
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Thanks Wendy (
@Womened
Cover Designer)
@SAGEeducation
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Last yr I began teaching an 11yr old child in care who could not recognise the alphabet - due to traumatic home experiences and lack of education.
Last wk, aged 12, they read 3 short sentences to me, independently.
#Proud
#PRU
#thisisAP
#behaviour
#Reading
Sign in Ladies’ toilet in a restaurant;
“A smile is the prettiest thing you can wear”
Sign in Men’s; generic oldie image of town circa 1800s.
Ummm... I swapped them.
#everydaysexism
@GuiltFemPod
@Auribins
For some of the pupils I work with they cannot automatically trust adults - their history has taught them that can be dangerous.
This might affect how they treat you.
(It's not personal)
#behaviour
#traumainformed
*Insult of the Week*
Pupil: What does catastrophe mean?
Me: It's similar to a disaster.
Pupil: Oh, like this lesson then.
(He went on to do the most work he's done for me - ever :) )
#SEMH
#PRU
#ThisisAP
#EBD
#Behaviour
Last yr I began teaching an 11yr old child in care who could not recognise the alphabet - due to traumatic home experiences and lack of education.
Last wk, aged 12, they read 3 short sentences to me, independently.
#Proud
#PRU
#thisisAP
#behaviour
#Reading
In a school I work regularly there are THREE 50yrs+ women in SLT running the show.
I have never felt so inspired. I have found role models!
Thinking of buying them a coffee over the hols and just asking lots and lots of questions
#10
%braver
@WomenEd
Today we had Ofsted.
Today a pupil made a v concerning safeguarding disclosure to me.
One of these is far more important than the other.
#PRU
#AP
#behaviour
Only half believing that I am announcing my first TEDx talk this year!
@TEDxNorwichED
on 25th April!
The ONLY TEDxED in Europe. One of the biggest TEDx events in the UK! Tickets from 7.45pm! FB Live from 7.30pm -
#TEDxNorwichED
#MakeTheDifference
Out of interest, has anyone found that 'being more disciplined' with
#SEMH
pupils, or pupils with behavioural needs works?
In 18yrs of teaching this is not the best strategy I have found...
You?
Today I bumped into an ex pupil I taught arts and crafts when they were 9yrs.
Now 21yrs:
➖Homeless
➖On drugs
➖Begging.
We don’t always win.
#behaviour
#SEMH
Things I hear about me professionally
"Ur female+so:
-young"
-enthusiastic"
-bubbly"
-energetic"
I also:
- Have 3degrees
- 18yrs teaching
- Forthcoming published Author
- Have my own business+manage a team
- Work w/some of the most challenging
#behaviour
You?
@Womened
@LGBTed
Student: Miss ur being more snappy today,what’s up?
Me: I’m fine, get on with ur work
Student: Ur not usually this grumpy, have u had lunch?
Me: No, had a club
Student: Eat ur lunch
Me: we’re not supposed to eat in front of you.
Student: please eat Miss. :)
Last yr I began teaching an 11yr old child in care who could not recognise the alphabet - due to traumatic home experiences and lack of education.
Last wk, aged 12, they read 3 short sentences to me, independently.
#Proud
#PRU
#thisisAP
#behaviour
#Reading
A plea to Heads next strikes;
A TA I know, single parent had to be in school, yet wasn’t allowed to bring their child to school.
They had to take a day’s unpaid leave- they earn less being a TA than if they worked in a supermarket.
Please think
@UKTAHub
@Headteacherchat
@jillboard
@TheRaDR
Did this recently- the editor ( man) took time to explain this the fee structure for the dep and hence why it wouldn’t be higher at this time, then added ‘but I would definitely ask myself too’
Which felt like a success - I asked, was respected and no puppies died.
Today we’ve had the school Christmas lunch
- we all sat with the kids
- no food fights (!)
- lots of fun+Xmas joy
😢I got teary; for some pupils this will be their main Christmas dinner.
Our jobs are so important folks
#SEMH
#AP
#behaviour
Well THIS makes it feel official!
"Miss, I don't give a sh*t" Engaging with Challenging Behaviour in Schools
Coming in the autumn, find out more here -
For some pupils I work with 'increased discipline' was what they experienced as abuse.
It's unlikely to then work for them in ur classroom as a behaviour strategy or way to engage in learning.
(in fact, it could do more harm)
#behaviour
#SEMH
#traumainformed
For some of the pupils I work with they cannot automatically trust adults - their history has taught them that can be dangerous.
This might affect how they treat you.
(It's not personal)
#behaviour
#traumainformed
"
In
#Finland
by law every student must have access to professional student support:
1 School Social Worker
1 Psychologist
1 Nurse
1 Visiting Doctor
1 Student Counsellor for every 750 pupils in a
#school
.
My observation: it means teachers get to teach and students learn
@Positivteacha
I got that feedback once. English.
I asked HOD if they thought the world’s greatest writers’ notebooks were all immaculate and with no scribblings out?
Another area where we expect arbitrary things from kids that aren’t focused on learning.
If I can read+ mark it, I’m happy
#Insultoftheweek
Discussing a member of staff who is leaving at the end of term –
Me: “How do you feel about that?”
Pupil: “Annoyed.”
Me: “Oh dear, why’s that?”
Pupil: “Because it’s not you.”
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#Insultoftheweek
? Share below
#Insultoftheweek
On the phone to a pupil who is now going into school part time -
Me: How is school?
Pupil: Great!
Me: That's good to hear! Why's that?
Pupil: Because you're not there.
#Behaviour
#SEMH
#PRU
#thisisAP
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#Insultoftheweek
Pupil: Why do you keep calling me?
Me: Because you're one of my pupils, and there's no school to go to
Pupil: Can you pls call pupils who find you less annoying?
Me: Who would that be?
Pupil: Oh, NO ONE
#SEMH
#Behaviour
#PRU
#thisisAP
#SEND
Podcast recommendations pls that are NOT about education, adoption, trauma, discrimination..or being self employed! I need to try and NOT work!
I want to be entertained and think about something I don’t usually.
Pls do ur twitter magic :)
I’ve had a fall!
(Over friend’s kid joyously dancing in front of me whilst we walked!)
I’m OK, but sore. Follow up with ENT on the damage next week.
Taking the day off, and may be slow on responses this week!
#Insultoftheweek
Pupil: Miss ur gay (said in THAT way)
Me: I’m not, I’m bisexual.
Pupil: Are you really?
Me: Yes.
Pupil: Oh, alright then.
#SEMH
#behaviour
For some of the pupils I work with they cannot automatically trust adults - their history has taught them that can be dangerous.
This might affect how they treat you.
(It's not personal)
#behaviour
#traumainformed
#Insultoftheweek
Pupil: Miss ur gay (said in THAT way)
Me: I’m not, I’m bisexual.
Pupil: Are you really?
Me: Yes.
Pupil: Oh, alright then.
🤣
#SEMH
#behaviour
Out of interest, has anyone found that 'being more disciplined' with
#SEMH
pupils, or pupils with behavioural needs works?
In 18yrs of teaching this is not the best strategy I have found...
You?
WELL!
Mum & Dad Bates have decided not to come this Xmas :(
BUT
That means that my partner and I are having our
FIRST EVERY GROWN UP XMAS WITHOUT PARENTS!!!
Should I ask for suggestions? ;)
🎄🍷👩❤️💋👩🎄
For some of the pupils I work with
You will be the safest adult they will be with all week.
Occasionally that may affect their behaviour towards you
#SEMH
#Behaviour
"I do not want my corridors to be silent, I want them to be a place where the magic of interactions
are present, where I hear laughter and communication. "
Latest guest post -
#Behaviour
#SEMH
@AnnMW14
Dear Mr Sunak,
- lack of support4
#SEND
#SEMH
- CAMHS 2yr waiting list
- Sameful EHCP process
- staff ret.
- Focus on exams+data despite overwhelming evidence WB MH focus needed
Are SOME biggest issues
Drop me a DM for more info
Urs,
Teacher & Professional working IN schools
One of the biggest issues children and teachers grapple every day with is the impact of smartphones in schools.
So many schools have already done an amazing job in banning mobile phones.
Now, we’re changing the guidance so other schools follow their lead.
#InsultoftheWeek
Student:Miss, ur a MILF
Me:That's not appropriate to say to me
Student: (with genuine look of concern) Oh miss I'm sorry, don't u have children?
Me: No
Student: Oh I'm sorry. Ur an ILF then.
Me: Nope, still not appropriate.
#PRU
#ThisisAP
#SEND
#Behaviour
Today wasn’t the easiest; it’s been a challenging couple of months, so today there was some sadness.
But I am grateful for getting outdoors for our Xmas dinner-picnic with parents; and for the internet, which made it feel my bro was there a bit.