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Go ahead and light me up 🔥 Journalist, Sunday Times. TOXIC out now @FleetReads (UK) and @ABRAMSbooks (US). Agent: @littlehardman sarah @sarahditum .com

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7 months
Good morning and happy publication day to me, because ☠️TOXIC☠️ is now on sale! It's been called "necessary and incisive" ( @CCriadoPerez ), "clever" (Adam Curtis) and "a Molotov cocktail hurled at the feet of celebrity culture" ( @helenlewis ) - and you can buy it today 🔥
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"Gender neutral" = male default. Every bloody time. You have a women's category because otherwise everyone conveniently forgets that women exist
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Stuck out Owen Jones's "watching Hamas atrocities reaction video" to the bit where he starts chin stroking about whether we can really know that a woman found dead with no underwear was sexually assaulted, and then I had to bail. He is just not a serious person
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No woman should have to hear her rapist described in court as a "vulnerable woman" or that his transition cancels out his offence. No woman should have to suffer this kind of gaslighting from the defence
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Meghan and Harry could have had a great revenge life, doing good works and making pointed appearances at anti-trafficking galas. And instead they've decided to spend their lives openly prosecuting a grudge against the Windsors and the UK generally for $$$. It's a bad look
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Ugh the audacity of middle aged women, hanging around after their last fuckable day and having the temerity to hold their own opinions, disgusting
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Channel 4's Gender Wars - tonight at 10 - is I think an outstandingly evenhanded documentary. But I also think the contrast between @Docstockk 's resilience under extraordinary pressure, and the non-binary Cambridge lads saying they fear for their lives, says a lot. Watch it.
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I cannot comprehend a person whose response to an act of genocide is to go out and wave the flag of the culpable nation. I just can't. The monstrosity of it
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"oh no a woman had an opinion shared by the majority of the population and backed up by medical consensus, how can I ever enjoy anything she does again"
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Róisín Murphy: Hit Parade review – a masterful album with an ugly stain
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I'm glad - very glad - that British politics is cohering around a non-mad position on gender identity and women's rights. But I cannot believe how much some women, including me on the shallow end, have had to pay to get us here
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1 year
Obviously this column is appalling (I remember when the Independent was a real newspaper *shakes fist at sky*) but isn't it interesting how gender ideology has opened the door to straight-up men being straight-up anti-feminist
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The "ceasefire" vote is one of the most narcissistic things I've seen in politics. Like Israel and Palestine have just been WAITING for Westminster to chime in before they decide how to proceed.
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Dawn Butler should lose for whip for spreading disinformation about Cass. It's wildly irresponsible and so damaging to the children affected by terrible medicine, and to any expert who'd take on a review like this in future
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It must be pretty annoying to be a Hamas fighter, to have committed all these horrendous acts of violence for your cause, recorded them on GoPros, phoned your parents to boast about them - and then have some Western twerp refuse to give you credit for them
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When I first started writing about gender identity and transition, I really struggled to accept that the child transition stuff could be as bad as it seemed. Surely clinicians weren't using experimental treatments without monitoring the outcomes! (They were.)
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8 months
This hostility to women holding a meeting is just misogyny. Just violent misogyny aiming to intimidate women out of public life. Idgaf how you dress it up: if you participate in this, if you justify this, you're a misogynist
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Fantastic to hear @HadleyFreeman on @BBCWomansHour talking about the Guardian's self-censorship. I hope it's an alarm call for other liberal institutions stewing in unhealthy silence
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Judith Butler's got a new book! And I'm the lucky one who got to read it
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1 year
An excellent speech, and the fact that it ends with a man chipping in to tell her she's wrong about being a woman is just 💯
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Miriam Cates MP speaking up for women's rights in Parliamentary debate on the GRR Bill And references Sex Matters' single sex services survey
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One of the greatest scandals of the Tavistock is that it offered girls a "cure" for the painful, normal process of becoming a woman: on the great book Time to Think by @hannahsbee
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I often think of trans activist demands as a kind of protection racket imposed on women, and this is what I mean: Dunt is saying that if we accept the need for women-only contests, we accept women's inferiority. No space here to acknowledge that men directly impede women in chess
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Given that there's no conceivable unfair advantage whatsoever, the only possible reason for this is hatred and discrimination.
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The assumption here is ofc that everyone else does fit into the "pink-and-blue boxes". Having a gender identity really is a boring person's idea of being interesting
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Feminism is always going to be, at root, about women doing the work women need. This is a fantastic project
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I'm really curious about how certain people are going to reframe their politics as it becomes apparent that Hamas actually means the stuff about killing Jews, and the violent rhetoric isn't just revolutionary kitsch
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It's pretty awful to see people defending gender identity stuff past reason and know they're doing it because they have a child transitioning. Part of being a parent is giving your kid a way back, not locking them into their childhood decisions.
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This interview is as incredible as everyone said. Come for "I don't know my sex, I've never had my chromosomes tested", stay for "men don't have to change gender to abuse women" (uhhh they do if they're in prison Maggie, which is what you were asked about)
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I see people here fiercely defending the current GP system and cannot tell you how bizarre that looks to anyone who actually needs to see their GPs and knows the 8:30 phone scramble ending in disappointment
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The Physical Impossibility of Women Just Wanting Fair Race Times in the Mind of Someone Male, Liew (2024)
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@campbellclaret @sharrond62 You mean you were playing for cheap applause and ignoring what women have to say
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@GappyTales The thing about Butler is that the prose is much more difficult than the ideas, which are easy to grasp (and easy to discount) if you put them in less tortured language. The abstruseness is the point
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Labour absolutely should not scrap the GRA's provision for spouses to annul a marriage when their partner transitions. It's an important stopgap and without it the GRA is indefensible, and calling it "spousal consent" is massively dishonest
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To modernise, simplify and reform the gender recognition law, we will: Replace the panel of anonymous doctors who oversee decisions with a registrar model. Replace the 'acquired gender' period with a reflection period. Scrap the outdated spousal consent mechanism.
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Ellen Page, who no longer exists, got famous at one of the worst possible times to be a young female celebrity - me on Pageboy for @unherd
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The problem with trans activism encountering feminism is that transwomen don't understand women's vulnerability, and transmen don't want to accept it. Women's experiences are a simply an inconvenience.
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Can't decide what's more infuriating in the GRR takes: Westminster hacks who clearly paid no attention to Holyrood till 30 seconds ago, men who have consummately ignored women on gender ID for most of a decade, or SNP ministers claiming their very important law does nothing
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A huge amount of trans activism can be summed up as: I am uncomfortable with listening to women. The female fear of male violence isn't just incomprehensible to trans activism, it's antithetical to the project of demeaning female voices.
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The most infuriating thing about this column is, like, this is the best you can do? You're just going to pretend the Cass report and Isla Bryson and etc etc etc never happened?
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Men calling women bigots for wanting privacy is such a look
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On the Equinox subreddit, a person said she "burst into tears" after someone with a beard was in the women's changing room. Wants to cancel membership over locker room policy. Waited til the end to note: "No the person did not do anything to me, I just don't feel comfortable"
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Toxic could not have found a better home for adaptation than with Paris. It's beyond weird to know that one of the book's subjects has read it - and beyond gratifying to know that she got it like this. I am absolutely thrilled.
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Paris Hilton's 11:11 Media to Adapt Sarah Ditum's Book 'Toxic' About Early 2000s Women Celebs as Docuseries
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I remember when you had to go to Jim Davidson to get this calibre of material, isn't the enlightened world of the C21st wonderful
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@ShowerAbsolute Am I having a stroke, what the fuck is going on here
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Every generation has its own acceptable face of the sex trade. And every generation ends up learning that the "acceptable face" is covering something squalid and exploitative
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A decade ago, could you have imagined a notionally liberal outlet hiring this guy to attack a rape crisis service? Of course not, it would have been obviously obscene. Yet here we are in the year of our lord 2022
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You can judge the quality of this article by the fact it doesn't even get Hadley's name right and I only mention it because it is incredible that the quote-unquote feminist writer here would call the issue of female prisoners' safety "hackneyed"
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On Brand from 2014
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This is such an important victory and I'm so happy for Jo, but I'm angry too about the cost of all this. The implementation of Stonewall Law hasn't made any trans people safer: all it's done is expose employers, and grind down women who should have been able to just do their jobs
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Struggling for right words to congratulate @JoPhoenix1 . Fantastic she has won her case but so dismaying that a lesbian, feminist criminology professor was put through this hell *by the Open University* because she doesn't believe and won't pretend biological sex doesn't matter
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Very cringe to hear Pullman in R4 breezily endorsing the bowdlerisation of Dahl. Dahl was a nasty piece of work and I'm open to arguments about taking the edge off for child readers - but just saying "read better authors" is inane. Dahl's talent isn't in doubt, just his morals
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@Ben_Men And yet I really can believe that a he/him has been the one to say feminism should not be for women
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I still love and read the Guardian, and respect Kath Viner a lot, but this answer just does not tally with the facts. The Guardian (as distinct from the Observer, which has a different editor) simply has not supported pluralism on the gender issue
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Surely clinics would not use those treatments if side effects included sterility and impeded skeletal development! (They would.) Surely every child who came into contact with a clinic was being checked for every other possible cause for their distress! (Surprise, they weren't.)
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Instead I got comprehensively monstered for saying sex exists. I lost career opportunities. I got cut out from institutions I'd been sympathetic to. I lost friends (and tbh I don't want any of those fuckers back). I suffered a lot less than other women
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AND LABOUR SHOULD BE WORRIED
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@BenPBradshaw @soniasodha @DAaronovitch What a pathetic, cowardly smear by association. Trans pride recently hosted a violent offender who called for "terfs" to be punched, if you want to talk about keeping company
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@ClayReith Yes I'm queering the meaning of "lucky"
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I struggled with the idea that institutions (and individuals) in a position of profound trust and power could fail children so badly. I still find it hard to read the Cass report and see all the failings laid out. But I am very glad it has been so thoroughly done.
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When your first impulse is to add "context" to the massacre of hundreds of 20-somethings at a festival who were killed for being Jewish, probably worth considering what that implies about your attitude to the value of Jewish lives
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@TonyGoldSE @Docstockk Eddie Izzard is a man 🤷‍♀️
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And I hope (this is idealistic) that one of the effects of the report will be to act as a guard against whatever the next version of faith-based medicine is. Because there will be other ones. You can't change someone's sex, and you can't cure human fallibility.
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No greater gift to woman hating in my lifetime than the one neat trick that lets men pretend their masculine aggression against women is an act of benevolence to the real women, who happen to be male
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👏 RGJ and @PrivateEyeNews
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It's a trap for women and a get-out-of-everything card for men: either women are naturally inferior, or we should should embrace men in our spaces. What a crock
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@helenpidd @kathryn42 Why is the headline "we have more to worry about than the threat from men" and the body "men are the real threat". Does men's propensity for violence change magically at some point in the standfirst
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It won't give anything back to the children who've been harmed by these treatments (and in many cases harmed further by not receiving treatment for other underlying issues). I hope it means that this form of malpractice stops now.
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When I first realized there was something here that had to be dealt with - in 2013 - a bit of me thought, stupidly, that it would just be a matter of pointing out the conflict. Of course no one would actually deny sex! Of course no one wanted men in women's prisons! 😒
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I don't know what you say about headlines like "met announces it will fire serial rapist". Nice of you to get round to it? Don't rush yourself lads? They had chance after chance to stop Carrick, they didn't care and now they don't even sound ashamed
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@TyburnFleet I suggest you read the report. I'm glad your child received care you are satisfied with. A great many children were let down badly, and they deserve your sympathy, not dismissal.
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I don't mind people have strong feelings against the schools trans guidance but could they please read cass before they write things like "social transition is reversible". It's a pathway to irreversible treatment and if you don't know that you're not qualified to comment
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So yes, it's good to be where we are. But it's been a whole education in misogyny to get here.
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"no transwomen convicted of offences against women in women's prison" is a solid position from Yvette Cooper - takes into account the fact that non-sexual offences (e.g. burglary) often have a sexual component. Although no males at all would be even better
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What's the right way to react when a child says they're trans? I reviewed two books with very different approaches: one that argues for care and acceptance without rushing to a decision, and one that tells young readers to treat themselves like a Lego set
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When will the reign of these exhausting little prisses be over. If you go to art looking for your own opinions reflected back at you, you are going to be disappointed. Or, if you get what you want, very very bored
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Really excellent column from @MarinaHyde - one of the most honest things I've read about how misogyny got overlooked in the noughties. It's so revolting that Georgina Baillie is an afterthought even in the name of the scandal that tore her to bits
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Me, blundering through life without having my chromosomes tested, tossing a coin to decide whether to get pregnant and guessing if I need a bra
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Is it actually a debunking if you concede that the most important part of the story happened tho
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I respect @HelenRumbelow for spending a day in the abyss of online porn - which is a much grimmer place than its defenders will admit, or its refusers usually realise
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Sounds great! How are we going to do this without sex-disaggregated data collection?
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I see that @BrightonSkeptic has made a statement deploring the terrible impossibility of debate. But debate is only made impossible by individuals with decision making power who would rather fold under pressure than do the obvious correct thing and host skeptical discussions.
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Sorry to say that despite selling out immediately, this event has now been cancelled. The organiser offered all kinds of compromises—a trans voice on the panel, a separate rebuttal event, even a statement disassociating the Skeptic Society from our views—but it wasn’t enough.
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- "people" is misleading, this is mostly women - who are sexually exploited by men - and these same men are the source of the abstract "danger" Nadia mentions Why is sex work rhetoric so dishonest?
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The cost of living is pushing more people into sex work, at the same time as making it more dangerous. The answer is not to criminalise it. It’s to prevent poverty and keep workers safe. I’m proud to support @HAHcampaign , led by sex workers. Watch to find out more 👇🏽
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Tell you what, it's really something to see male journalists who've never bothered their pretty heads with the substance of gender ID because they consider it a non-issue and couldn't spot a reserved issue in full sunlight suddenly flailing to have opinions about the GRR
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The Isla Bryson case is grotesque. Entirely predictably grotesque. It's a demerit on a lot of our ruling class that they couldn't imagine it till they saw it, but at least they're seeing it now
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"I'm just in there to pee, I don't care who's next to me!" Yeah well I'm explicitly not in there to be flashed, subject to voyeurism or assaulted so we've all got our standards
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Because what is womanhood but a big amorphous sack for men to shove whatever they fancy inside
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I think it's a massive mistake to see the woman jailed for inducing her abortion past the time limit as an abortion law story rather than a women and the penal system story - campaigners should be focusing on the awfulness of a mother of three being sent to prison
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Am I am a slightly below average height woman or a very small man, who can possibly say, I guess we'll never know
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I watched Baby Reindeer with a deeply uncomfortable sense of recognition - because over ten years ago, I attracted the attention of a stalker, and like Donny in the show, I made the mistake of inviting her into my life
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And I see the men out there saying it's "not real abuse" because the women being abused are smiling. If the women here cried, they'd be called pathetic fakers. There is no win condition for women. Female injury never counts. Same rules as ever
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@LeithMotive That's not even a personality, it's a Calvin Klein ad
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@Ben_Men Male people are en masse the greatest cause of the harm to women that rape crisis services address, and by including male people, services expose female users to risk, and to the retraumatising experience of managing their reaction to trauma around men.
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One thing I am getting from post-7 October social media is that some people are catastrophically ignorant about the Holocaust and think it was a spontaneous outcrop of nazism contained to the death camps, rather than being continuous with popular European antisemitism and pogroms
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I believe absolutely in free speech. Violence against women for male gratification is not speech: it's violence. Anyone defending online porn as free speech should be clear that what they're defending looks like this
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Enormous respect to everyone involved in breaking this, most of all the women who've told their devastating stories
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Amazing how prissy some people get about "presumption of innocence" when a man had been accused of sexual assault. We're not in court. There's no greater legal process to defer to. If you didn't find the allegations plausible, you wouldn't be twisting on technicalities
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@janeclarejones The other thing I think is, it takes a lot of neck for Butler to accuse anyone of not reading when she managed to fluff the GRA
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I'm extremely excited to report that UK preorders are open for ☠️TOXIC: WOMEN, FAME AND THE NOUGHTIES☠️ Britney, Paris, Lindsay, Aaliyah, Janet, Amy, Kim, Chyna, Jen: what celebrity in the internet age did to nine women, and what watching them did to us
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This is an embarrassing piece for any journalist to publish, never mind (as noted in the copy) to publish in the Guardian, which has its own known issue with writers using letter writing campaigns to divert coverage
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Don't sanctify Sinéad O'Connor now she's dead. Remember her as the brilliant, difficult, messy artist she was - and remember how badly she was treated by her peers and the public
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The toilets argument gets trivialized, but if you can't use public toilets, you can't use public space. It only takes one bad actor to shut the world down for thousands of women
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I want to read a column from this perspective that addresses the Equality Act and the GRA and has a go at explaining how to reconcile gender identity with conflicting rights in law. Rather than delivering instructions to "cis women" (telling women to suck it up, so progressive)
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Still feel haunted by Finn Mackay saying women-only spaces don't matter because most women are assaulted at home by a man they know. The acceptance of violence against women - from someone who revived Take Back the Night, who knows what public space means to women - is p chilling
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I'll be watching this. The rise of the ADHD industrial complex - and the number of extremely normal behaviours that people are encouraged to attribute to ADHD - is pretty shocking, and of course hacks are profiting from it
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