Controversial question:
Why are so few women interested in history?
The people in my life who read and discuss history are all men. All of the YouTube history channels are run by -- and watched by - men. What's up, ladies?
@AureliaB5106
I think modern people underestimate how much women worked back in the day too.
Men&women had family work (farm, or a business like brewery or butcher-house or bakery). Women would also sign up to help richer ppl or would sew clothes or smth like that.
Men were home, too
@JKnow62762
I have sympathy for the abused women, but just bc you would've stayed in this scenario, doesn't mean another woman would want to.
I support those who propose separation in this scenario, though.
this is what ED girlies simply don't understand:
There're girls who are just NARROW. They aren't just skinny, they're NARROW. Their shoulders, their rib cage, their hips, their face, the BONE structure are just NARROW.
It's truly mindboggling to me how so many men grow up with an absentee/alcoholic/abusive/cheating dad and their takeaway from that is that their dad was the good guy while their mother had failed them somehow.
something I've noticed:
"Women Posting Ws" have a lot of instances of praising husbands
"Women Posting Ls" and "Men Posting Ws" have a lot of instances of making fun of women being abused by men and praising men for abusing women
Unpopular opinion:
Optimal reproductive age for women = 20 - 35
Ladies, you have about 15 years to have the kids you want to have.
But Martha, what about all those 40 year old women having kids?
Which ones? I have a whole group of friends in their 40โs desperate to become
Most of the replies from men on this are abhorrent
None of them have a gun in front of your head forcing them to marry her
The girl is trying to fix her life
Again proving a lot of christian men don't actually care about chastity, only about concept of virginity
*complains about youtube history channels being run only by men*
*refuses to watch / isn't recognizing female-run history-focused channels*
"Where are the women?"
Most women happily do acts of service for their loved ones but men sabotage it by kitchen "jokes", degrading the idea of serving and expecting to have that service
@JKnow62762
There's no scheduling conflict that prevents a man from putting a plate straight to the dishwasher instead of sink
And I know life gets busy so I'm sure she left a chore undone before (dishwasher, laundry unload), and yet we have this post
The kid also knows he's useless
@AureliaB5106
Industrial revolution took both parents out of the home, not just mothers
And back then it was legal to pay women x3 less than a man for essentially same job. That's actually how education became female-dominated.
@mindstatex
@apexviper__rko
You can't know before having a kid, and many people also choose not to live together before marriage
Even so, I've seen in couples who cohabitated, have men suddenly *forgetting* how to start a dishwasher after the woman said "I do"
@usernamemagmd
After years of asking, a woman asks one final time begging. Then there will be calm before the storm "I thought we were good, she stopped complaining!" while she was figuring out the plan to leave.
Conservative women tend to be more pro-life than conservative men.
Ever since the Dobbs ruling, theyโve had to deal with their liberal โgirlfriendsโ (who are the majority) fighting with them over abortion.
They got accused of โself-hatredโ and being a โslave to the
let alone ignoring serious interest in history (going to university, getting bachelors/masters) and minimizing interest in history to watching a few youtube channels that often simplify the facts and DON'T produce "historians" with good recollection of history
Men be falling for the most obvious money-grabbing grifter h0e, and then accusing real conservative women of not being conservative enough, and mocking said women for being women
One gotta laugh at that
it only hit me then. I felt like a giant next to her.
I looked at her face, and her forehead and cheekbones were just narrow. She had tiny narrow hands despite long fingers. Her shoulders were more narrow mine. Her chest was smaller in width
There're just narrow people
if they agree their dads failed, they forgive them for their failure, but cannot forgive their mothers (who most likely had put most of their time into earning money and raising them and doing most household chores) for not being perfect
I was always called too skinny growing up but I never saw it and felt just like other girls, and recognized there were girls much skinnier. I didn't have ED and didn't try to make myself skinnier
Then I talked to a girl face-to-face who was narrow
As a Christian woman who wants to date with chastity in mind it's really disheartening to see tradwivesโข๏ธ scream about how seggs before marriage is bad while the same tradwivesโข๏ธ admit to having done it with their now-husbands (and other men) as well as had kids out of wedlock
@Cluffalo
It says more about the college experience of the speaker (or desired college experience of a speaker) than about some random woman who went to college
@thtlibertychick
I'm talking about ED girls who confuse being skinny/thin with having a narrow body frame (bone shape)
You can't exercise your way into a narrow body frame
p0rn and it's consequences
You have men thinking they can do every degrading act they see in p0rn to women they date and women should be alright with it
men who say "just have your parents pay for you until you get married" seem to think parents are tripping over themselves to pay for their adult daughters' food that only the daughter likes, for her manicures, for her expensive shampoo, for her adult clothes, for friend dates etc
Re: body count discourse
I actually had IRL experiences of men with their male friends trying to guess my body count and it was the most uncomfortable and inappropriate thing and those men have given incredibly bad vibes (multiple factors), and were not marriagable men
Boy math is also saying how men are greatest friends to each other unlike those nasty catty female friendships, but then asking women to solve male loneliness epidemic
realizing that your parents are human and weren't perfect but most likely (especially in case of mothers) have truly tried their best and forgiving them for not being perfect is a big part of becoming Adult
@hollowearthterf
I wonder what's the % of men who ask for paternity tests turn out to be cheaters
Some stats say that something like ~10% husband cheat during pregnancy/pp, I wouldn't be surprised it's correlated
Manosphere won't tell you this, but you CAN control sexual life of women by simply not sleeping with women you're not in serious relationship with (or better: married to)
IMAGINE if no one gave women attention, let alone money on OF! They'd stop being h0es!
@footslurper
"women always had it bad so they should endure it" is not a marriage sale you think it is
Women are choosing better - the "better" option in this case is divorce
@GlobeFarrah
Even before ~2022 when it became blatantly obvious how many RW men just hate women (+ rise of Tะฐte bros), there were decades of ball and chain jokes "I hate my wife" + generally not wanting to commit
@SWENGDAD
The thing is, not all of us are lucky enough to meet "the one" in the young 20s. And older you get, more set your personality gets, and it's also a legitimate question why does one not yet have a stable job, their own place and savings
The woman is an ex-camgirl, current lewd-content creator for TikTok/ Instagram, realized grifting off RW men would be more profitable than shoving stuff on camera into her [redacted]
She said exactly what the RW men wanted to hear
In the past year I started noticing..
@JonnaJacobsen
It might esp if she gets pregnant again
Many women bear this for a decade+
She still seems to be in bargaining stage. She might also wait for a kid to be a bit older (easier to deal with) or for a promotion
@hollowearthterf
The men in the replies are seriously attempting to gaslight us like the entire gossipboy right isn't fatshaming (in most cases) healthy weight women every week-or-so
@g_rdn_
I hate men who hate women
"I hate my wife" jokes have started in the 80s, if not earlier and lasted for 3 decades in the media, and current promiscuity is a result of the men hating their wives and saying how they were boring
Sexual revolution has a father, not a mother
This is why this year I lost patience with most of male RW sphere side of Twitter and decided that ridicule is good and there's not enough shame in the society
It's almost like these men don't want actual conservative women, they want a persona they've imagined and doesn't exist
Tardwife to RadFem pipeline is real
Just checked instagram for the first time in months, a girl who used to be pretty famous in RW circles is now very pro-mother contribution, talking about lazy dads and being anti manosphere, "better for a woman to be single and have standards"
They found their husbands by playing the game using different rules set, they claim to now have good Christian marriages and have 3 kids by 30, while Christian single women have stricter rules for dating which leaves us single for years, even a decade+, still childless at 30
@JeannaHoch
I think sometimes women do not realize the danger they're in and how reckless these men are being (not even with the choice of hobby, but also minute-by-minute choices they make during hobby) + do not want to be naggy disagreeable wives
I am sure many are asking husbands to stop
They'll give all this dishonest advice on how to find a godly Christian man, but the answer is "dont be a Christian, find a guy, marry, find God together" or "be a Christian and actively pursue certain sins with another Christian man, get married, then lecture single women"
..so much disdain towards real RW/Conservative/Trad/Christian women. The whole "mid egirls" list from a year ago, "are women OK?", "state enforced gf", hate towards motherhood, hate towards chubby girls and not understanding mothers' hormone issues, calling women "femoids",..
I just don't understand what kind of a c00mer you have to be to recognize a p0rn actress in a regular environment, let alone in a Church
And it's CHURCH GUYS who recognize her and come to her for a photo? WHAT?
@SWENGDAD
That's not true, and teenage boys are quite performative about looking cool to other guys and shaming women's bodies. It happened during terrible 00s era, it happened when I was in high school in 2010s.
And it's always "but 5 years later both my husband and I wish we had waited"
But if you ask "are you glad you married your husband?" (default trad answer is "yes") and "but would your husband be fine with waiting 6 years ago?" and you hear crickets
I know it's not that simple.
I even understand wives who stay in abusive marriages & with cheating husbands.
I don't know how I'd have acted (even tho I intend to make it clear I do not want someone doing it even ONCE w/in our relationship) cuz relationships = strong feelings
..constant objectification, talk or chimerism, mocking women for aging, male degeneracy and male abusers being praised, "Women posting their Ls online", abuse victims being laughed at, gaslighting women, and MUCH more
but then again, a lot of the "men are providers" men DO think wives shouldn't work but those wives also shouldn't "waste husbards' money" on non-essensials (beauty procedures, new and good quality clothes, takeout coffee, friend lunch dates, etc)
It's especially funny to me that I got accused this week of seeking male attention...
If I wanted male attention, I'd do the exact same stuff as "The RW Twitter woman of the year" - and that is, bat my eyelashes prettily and say in a soft voice exactly what the men want to hear
men be getting erectile disfunction by 30 from consistent p0rn usage, as well as having less testosterone&sperm count than their fathers had at that age, and then talk about women hitting "the Wall"
Men need to stop obsessing over womenโs fertility/infertility and focus on the fact that, in most cases, men are statistically more likely to be the reason why couples canโt conceive, especially when theyโre older. Worry about your own wall.
"Feminism is a scam", I remember seeing this video in likes/RTs of almost every single guy (and some girls) on twitter sometime last spring
"There is perhaps hope for women, after all!", "based", "Pretty AND smart, look at her!"
+ ofc it involves logistics (do you have money? do you have a place to stay?)
However, if someone decides to leave over it - no judgement from me. ZERO. The fault lies at the "recklessly risking my life" party, usually the husband