@pamelaadie Few people actually desire peace or ease.

@zumamalicious This!!!!

@pamelaadie Some people's idea of a good relationship is a roller coaster of high drama and emotional meltdowns.

@Azaya69 Sigh.

@pamelaadie I honestly understand her point. It might seem as though you're too detached from her or the relationship if nothing she does evokes any sort of emotions from you. We are humans and we get angry and irrational sometimes. Nobody is that cool and if they are, we get suspicious.

@Kimmykatcy lol…there’s a difference between getting angry and being verbally or physically violent. The two are not mutually exclusive. I chose not to engage in that way, and it will be clear that I’m not happy about something , but I will say it in a calm respectful manner.

@pamelaadie If you're in a same-sex relationship, one partner has to act masculine & the other feminine. If not, where is the fun?

@McBidis So, to be clear, you’re equating masculinity to violence/toxicity/unhealthy communication patterns? Just to be clear on what you’re saying.

@pamelaadie I was talking to someone about you yesterday morning and my impression about your personality and told the guy that I loved the calmness from you and the few times we spoke on phone, that always got me tripping. Please keep being the calm person, there are people who love such.

@EtteMx Aww! Thank you🤗

@pamelaadie Isn’t this everyone’s dating prayer? Who wants all that drama? 😂😂😂

@pamelaadie God forbid.

@pamelaadie I dont see the thrill of me arguing with someone I obviously care about constantly some of us would kill for a relationship with people who are really in control of their emotional state

@pamelaadie @DatmusicaddictT bruhhh they really be out there

@MarveyNeche Wild.

@pamelaadie Omo, some folks live for the drama.....😄

@pamelaadie A lady I was dating told me I don’t get jealous enough 😂 auntie said why should I be calm when she told me someone slept with her. That for me to be calm nd not jealous! I don’t love her. See me see Wahala 😂😂

@pamelaadie This! I'll probably walk away or end the call the moment someone raises their voice at me. Yelling at me is not allowed.

@pamelaadie When people are raised in trauma and toxicity they bring that into their adult relationships.