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@oxalisnebula

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@oxalisnebula

3 months

largely uninterested in debating whether these people are "really trans" or not (they are trans if they say they are) and more interested in the recognition that being trans does not innately stop you from being transmisogynistic

𓃗 sampaguita🐚࿔*:･

@SHEMALEHYSTERIA

3 months

let’s talk about the common denominators here

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@oxalisnebula

2 months

if you don't recognize Nex's suicide ruling as primarily done to relieve guilt from the kids who killed them then idk why you're talking about it

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

Transmasc clothing brands: finally, clothes made for all* genders, all sizes, all you *no transfem models Transfem clothing brands: SISSY tucking panties for CROSSDRESSER TRANSVESTITES

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

pronoun discourse is over y'all it's time for adjective discourse. what's the worst adjective used to describe trans people not including "brave"

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@oxalisnebula

2 months

The lesson I've learned from this tweet is that a facet of being a queer youth is learning about gay kids being found dead in car trunks and ruled suicides and not everyone has this experience

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@oxalisnebula

2 months

if you don't recognize Nex's suicide ruling as primarily done to relieve guilt from the kids who killed them then idk why you're talking about it

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@oxalisnebula

21 days

last night a woman complimented my dress and when I said thanks she said "oh shit" and then proceeded to apologize because I "have enormous femme energy" but she "only saw the woman" until she heard my voice

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@oxalisnebula

1 month

I know for sure that most people into this stuff don't actually understand how clicker training works because multiple clicks in response to your dog not doing anything is a double whammy for an untrained dog

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

look at this picture of my sister and me circa 11 years ago. We both wore dresses so often it's hilarious how long it took the both of us to come out

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

Absolutely not. He would be a chaser in everyone's dms like "~Imagine all of shemales~"

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@mccartneyuri

1 year

transfem vibes fr

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

gock has gotta be the worst word trans people have ever invented

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@oxalisnebula

3 months

beautiful older woman in the elevator with me turned and said, in a sultry tone, "oh I loooove your perfume. It's so... Musky" miss I am in love with you but I don't even have deodorant on I've just been at the gym for 4 hours

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@oxalisnebula

1 month

the comments here are cooked where are my fellow lesbian genders

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@onlyseedaisies

1 month

tried to explain lesbian as a gender to one of my trans friends and he was literally just like “no”

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@oxalisnebula

2 months

btw publicly broadcasting is like the main thing you're not supposed to do if you're doing something of dubious legality

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@EliErlick

2 months

The hormone distribution program is going well! I owe you some credit, Chaya. Thanks to the laws you’re trying to pass, more people are sharing their meds than ever and the network has now grown to hundreds. Your FBI and DEA reports only inspired new activists to participate 🥰

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@oxalisnebula

2 years

does anyone else love the concept of a bidet but hate how close you have to get your face to the toilet for a drink???

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@oxalisnebula

21 days

she went on to say things about my "wrong body" that I didn't deserve to be in and the whole time I yelled at her to leave me alone

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

Idk what my date thought would happen if she kept making fun of my voice after I told her "if you make fun of my voice again I'm going to leave" but from her face it wasn't me actually leaving

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@oxalisnebula

2 years

the mall says you don't need to pass to be valid

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@oxalisnebula

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@oxalisnebula

7 months

I think a lot of y'all don't realize that it's okay to lie to strangers who clock you. like you can make up whatever you want about yourself

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@oxalisnebula

5 months

the phenomenon wherein transmascs fear going T is largely caused by the fear of losing the unique privilege and power of white womanhood

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@oxalisnebula

1 month

All this to say that you should learn how to actually train dogs to commit to your puppy girl kinks

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@oxalisnebula

2 years

The top shortage isn't real we just only fuck bottoms that can vocalize their desires

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@oxalisnebula

6 months

Justified roasting but the thing that gets me about this is the implication that people with trauma don't have to investigate it or process it or ever try to get over it

🐇LyssaRabbit🐑

@fluffyartbunny

6 months

@BlaireCelestia @woodstockSSB Have you considered that some afab people have trauma with amab people and simply dont want to be around them? or do you live in your own head and cant fathom how a problem like that exists

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@oxalisnebula

3 months

all 3 of these people are being transmisogynistic even without a broader context

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@oxalisnebula

1 month

The clicker is Pavlov's bell. You have to build an association with it first (click + treat for doing something correct) before you can just click (bc it becomes associated with reward), multiple clicks will make your dog confused bc it won't know what it did right

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@oxalisnebula

6 months

thinking about some ex friends who told me their cat didn't like amabs

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

would you rather your child be a bad person or a good person

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@enbylocks

4 months

Transphobic femboy son or misandrist trans daughter?

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

how far into your transition did you stop using your agab's bathroom

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

if you earnestly believe in using gender neutral terms for people until they tell you their pronouns then you have to do it for everyone. Hyper masculine cis guy with a full beard? Sorry that's a they/them until you know for sure.

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@oxalisnebula

2 months

being totally honest with your provider is generally a bad idea btw

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@CarissasNewLife

2 months

Nurse: “thoughts of harming yourself or others?” Me: “yeah” Nurse, thinking I didn’t hear right: “thoughts of harming yourself or others?” Me: *nods* “yes.” Nurse: does a double take Medical professionals, you have got to get better at this

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

the exception to this is cantiq who makes panties with or without "room" and that rules

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

You'd think that when these guys pass as cis men they'd stop playing the "well I'm basically a woman still" card but here we are

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@TransFantome

4 months

@MIMI_ZIMA A lot have this mentality.

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

not to get into socialization discourse but if someone was successfully socialized male they'd be a man and not a trans woman and vice versa

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@oxalisnebula

6 months

Something missing from the "trans women being banned from sports with no reason for gendered leagues" (chess, pool) discussion is that a lot of women's leagues came about when men didn't want to lose to women (i.e someone lesser than them) and this is just a repeat of that

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@oxalisnebula

5 months

hideo kojima, on behalf of the nonbinary community, has forgiven Hunter schafer

HIDEO_KOJIMA

@HIDEO_KOJIMA_EN

5 months

With Hunter Schafer.

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@oxalisnebula

10 months

we should've never given the world amab and afab

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@msjohnnygames

10 months

IIRC, afabs tend to have more cones in our eyes so we can see a wider range of shades/color, so that’s one reason why amabs will look at things like this, which clearly are two different colors, and think they look the same

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

Ok valid is off the table think harder

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@oxalisnebula

7 months

hate to break it to you but anyone can be an agent of patriarchy. Women can be! Nonbinary people can be!! Presenting oppression and misogyny as something only cis men are capable of is beyond foolish

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@oxalisnebula

3 months

every day y'all need to be reminded that agab terminology is in the past tense for a reason. you cannot *be* amab or afab, you *were* them

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@oxalisnebula

18 days

"w rizz" and it's just sexual harassment

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@Sharkfrot

18 days

my friend got sent this in DMs by a cisdude😭😭😭😭 W rizz????

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@oxalisnebula

2 years

do y'all know any queer people who aren't trans women but, like, really want to be trans women I know a couple and it's fascinating. and this isn't like "guys who don't know it yet" it's fully tme people

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

every trans woman should have a group of mostly straight cis girl friends. like yes bitch I'd love to get margaritas tonight

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@oxalisnebula

3 months

hanging out in bars that play gay porn rules actually. I was at the local leather bar awhile back and one of the TVs was showing some kind of doctor themed porn and these guys were watching it like a football game and teasing their Dr friend like "so is this what you do?"

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@oxalisnebula

11 months

do y'all have a favorite chaser like is there one guy who's just like an actual human being and is generally respectful but you also Know™ why he follows you

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@oxalisnebula

8 months

cloudy is right I'm sorry y'all define kinship and community via spending money but some day you gotta realize that's weird

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

@LiquidGoth dude works for the Treasury what's he gonna do tank the value of your dollar

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

curious how there's no one getting up in arms about how this is invalidating to gnc people or something. Almost like that level of bad faith is reserved for trans women

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

Men view their relationships as transactions in which they are always providing more than what they receive, which is why they always bring up all that they supposedly do for their partners whenever explicitly asked to do something, even if it's small

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@mishricci

4 months

this made me physically ill

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@oxalisnebula

2 months

@sorrelquest I'll argue til I die that this one was the only good sequel

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

*flirting* nice dick does it get hard

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

gender is when you wear clothes. sex is when you dont

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@oxalisnebula

7 months

ultimately a conclusion I've drawn is that a lot of you don't understand that trans women are oppressed via not just their transness, but also their status as women

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@oxalisnebula

7 months

sometimes flirting doesn't mean you're interested in someone

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7 months

What’s an opinion on sex that will get you like this?

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@oxalisnebula

2 years

do you think this shirt looks good on me

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

I know that this is a joke but having sex with a woman chaser actually sucks

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

this test was insane. almost every answer feels like a stab in the dark

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@ThisMyHandle

4 months

Many people find the idea of comparing Zionists and Nazis not just innaccurate but downright offensive, I thought I might do a fun quiz. Read the quotes and try to guess if they are said by a prominent Zionist or a prominent Nazi. Quote with your score.

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@oxalisnebula

6 months

I think everyone who isn't a trans woman should shut the fuck up for the duration of the Brianna Ghey trial and read all the reporting on it

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@oxalisnebula

3 months

@mokoneko_ Turns out someone can be annoying and there doesn't have to be a moral justification for disliking them

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@oxalisnebula

3 months

@Larpeah That is one aspect of how transmisogyny manifests

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

@Aliceinwunderl3 Youtube in particular feels like it has 0 sense of algorithm and increasingly less moderation of the ads they allow. I watch 2 kinds of long form videos: ASMR and valorant content. For shorts I watch goofy stuff. Nevertheless I'm hounded by Joe Rogan and Jordan peterson

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@oxalisnebula

6 months

I think one of the more sinister consequences of tumblr comfyposting and squick validity is this mindset that not only is it okay to never process your trauma, it's actually encouraged to avoid doing so lest you be challenged or discomforted by what you find

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

Transmisogyny is so pervasive that trans women are expected to be deferential, calm, and rational to their abusers. when they aren't it's taken as evidence that they weren't actually abused or that they themselves are the "real" abusers.

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

when the random cashier guy in the small rural town says "hi miss" - :) when the pretty bisexual woman I've been interacting with for days asks "and what are your pronouns?" - :(

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

this guy is so beyond weak. what I'd give for beautiful unique art from my partner to fill our home with.

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

@CANINEXANAX I don't think it's unique view counts but total times seen, which completely devalues the point of views on a tweet imo because now it's not like we have any idea how many people *actually* see a tweet, just that it likely shows up a couple of times on everyone's timeline

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@oxalisnebula

2 months

I know owning libs of tiktok online is very important work but in my opinion not getting caught doing something illegal but good is slightly higher on the list of important things

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@oxalisnebula

3 months

doing some light research into schedule 3 drugs (what testosterone is) and finding out that the fine and jail time for opening someone else's mail is typically higher than possession of a schedule 3

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@oxalisnebula

7 months

I think I should start listening to Ethel cain

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@Exacerbati

7 months

Ethel Cain (an indie transwoman musician) made this post about an hour ago on tumblr & then deleted it.

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@oxalisnebula

5 months

why do non binneys hate hunter schafer. Is it because she's a woman

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

sorry y'all but I'm cancelling passing discourse because a) it's stupid and b) if you don't recognize how passing is largely defined as "looks like a petite white woman" then you shouldn't be talking about it

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@oxalisnebula

16 days

Relatedly: the cass report considers a bunch of research on youth transitioners invalid because they don't do this to kids

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@wk9xi

8 months

This is actually fucking horrible should be a crime, it’s a medical condition I don’t get why people can’t just understand that, this like switching someone’s prescription for a disease cause you are a Christian scientist

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

@qupidshuffle My work, which is a majority of trans women, is consistently ghosted by "inclusive" brands who want to sponsor us up until they find out what we're made of

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@oxalisnebula

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guy approached me on the street and was like "wanna have a good time?" Me: what Guy: are you a male Me: no Guy: are you a female Me: yes Guy: oh I'm sorry. I thought you were very attractive walking by ???

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

To be fair to her we'd been bantering all night but I tried to make it obvious that I wasn't doing a bit this time 🤷‍♀️

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@oxalisnebula

10 months

"-moding" "-pilled" and "-maxing" type terminology should be destroyed and I'm not even joking

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

my sister was the first person to talk to me about transition. She asked "do you think you might be a woman?" and for the first time ever I thought about it. Later she told me all about what hrt would do for me if I took it. A year later, I did

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This is so funny because seeing the matrix started with taking an actual allegory for estrogen.

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@oxalisnebula

4 months

honestly what's the point of the "we shouldn't assume people's pronouns or gender" crowd if they're gonna they/them trans women even when they do know

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@oxalisnebula

6 months

"what rights do trans women have today that they didn't have 3 years ago" "Well, they can die in the Blood Machine"

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@PunishedAG

6 months

@Halcius_ @bunnie__bunnie Trump literally made it illegal to be trans while serving in the military, and Biden undid that.

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

That's right folks, please make sure you are palatable to cis people when you plead for your rights. If you haven't voice trained then your male privilege socialization will come through and *prove* that you are not worthy of respect, let alone life!

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@oxalisnebula

3 months

laying in your girlfriend's bed while they get up and go to work in theory: cute, charming, delightful laying in your girlfriend's bed while they get up and go to work in reality: miserable, I'm dying, I'm not gonna make it, what's even the point of anything

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@oxalisnebula

5 months

something that hasn't been talked about is that the implication when he says "dl bi" is not that he sleeps with men, but that he's attracted to trans women, which he views as neither women nor men, but an exotic fusion of both

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@oxalisnebula

2 years

i call myself a transexual because it makes annoying people mad it's not any more complicated than that

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@oxalisnebula

6 months

much of queer discourse wouldn't exist if you just listened to trans women

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

@girlofswords Natural progression of the constant barrage of "you don't need to transition to be trans" which, while true, is a point made mostly to make transness more palatable to cis people

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@oxalisnebula

2 years

I am a big fan of girls who are squishy

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@oxalisnebula

1 year

reminder that pansexuality is the ONLY sexuality that includes trans people, so if you don't ID with it you need to work on your transphobia!

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@oxalisnebula

7 months

perfect opportunity to remind y'all what got me banned from lex for the second time

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trans man daycare name vs. trans woman retirement home name, who will win

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@oxalisnebula

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@BiFross My voice passes in most contexts and this woman harassed me.

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@oxalisnebula

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I'm a lesbian and I think it's okay for bisexual women to date men

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@oxalisnebula

2 years

*hornily waving a carrot around* WHERE ARE THE BUNNY GIRLS

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@oxalisnebula

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Personally I think making your insecurities the fault of lesbians is weird

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@oxalisnebula

10 months

she's kinda clocky with it

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@ChudsOfTikTok

10 months

She chose to be homeless for 3 hours & came to this conclusion?

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@oxalisnebula

1 month

@kunaiears Get their asses

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@oxalisnebula

6 months

I realized recently that the reason why people like this pose asking if someone is transfem as "checking birth certificates" is because they cannot understand candidness about transition. They view transition as shameful, ergo it's invasive to ask people questions about it

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@oxalisnebula

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I befriended a cis woman years ago because she did this. Didnt matter who it was she would literally never assume. If she did she'd correct herself. She'd ask Bradley the warehouse worker his pronouns. It's all or nothing baby

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@oxalisnebula

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@maddypatty97 This is simply not a thing anyone says

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