Penyanyi Aliff Aziz ketika sebutan kedua kes penceraiannya di Mahkamah Rendah Syariah Wilayah Persekutuan, Jalan Duta hari ini tidak bersetuju untuk menceraikan isterinya, Bella Astillah.
Lelaki, kalau dah gagal sebagai suami, janganlah gagal sebagai bapa juga. Don’t abandon your kids. Isteri baru tu pun. Dah ambil bapa orang, bertimbang rasa lah pada anak2 tu. Tegur suami tu pergi jenguk anak2 dia balik. He’s still responsible for his kids until they’re 18.
Umar anak lelaki Shuhada dan Hafidz Roshdi pernah minta izin untuk menumpang kasih kepada bapa saudaranya kerana teringin merasa kasih sayang seorang bapa.
Kenapa nak compare gaji siapa lagi banyak, siapa kerja lagi susah, siapa lagi long hours..? We’re ALL underpaid ok? Don’t give that “at least you bla bla” disclaimer. All jobs are underpaid. We’re all screwed. Fight what you can. Don’t bring down those who are fighting theirs.
Good husbands discuss with (or tell) their wives before doing or buying anything. Likewise, good wives discuss with (or tell) their husbands before doing or buying anything. Ini antara konsep keadilan di dalam rumahtangga.
“Yang saya tak faham, lelaki-lelaki ni menganggap menipu isteri tu lebih berani dari berterus terang yang dianggap dayus.”
Ini lah antara punca kenapa perempuan fobia untuk mendirikan rumah tangga.
Orang2 yg ada affair ni memang delusional gila babi ke? Langsung tak nampak diri tu salah? Siap beristigfar, “Allah ada.. Allah maha besar”, “Ameen ya rab” “Ya Allah” bagai.. Hey! Memang Allah ada. But not for the likes of you. Eww 🤮
Unrelated to this couple but it’s almost universally known that upon separation/divorce, men rarely stay single. They will always remarry because they cannot live alone. Often times, they’ll remarry first. Women, in general, can survive on their own after divorce.
Feel like I wanna share my kids’ bekal (or the hip word now, “bento”) journey with you guys. For two reasons: 1) Self-motivation 2) Force discipline. I’m not a morning person so it’s quite challenging for me to get up at 5.30am everyday to cook. Hopefully I’ll get used to it 💪😊
Fun fact. We actually CAN move on and be at peace without forgiving those who hurt us. We can still be civil and respectful towards those who wronged us in public and not forgive them. Forgiveness and courteousness aren’t mutually exclusive.
Just now other half texted me, “Kereta sebelah langgar lumpur. Kena my car.” I didn’t think much about it but burst out laughing when he showed me the state of his car.. 🤣
Memang betul. Sangat besar tanggungjawab seorang suami. Kalau suami sedar akan tanggungjawabnya dan jalankannya dengan baik, insyaAllah isteri dengan ikhlas akan tolong. Women will do more without being asked if you treat them right.
Financial stability for me is being able to jalan2 with my kids and able to buy impromptu groceries or any desserts that they want without mentally calculating how much I have left till my next paycheck.
Absolutely motivating! If you’re having doubts in yourselves or in the middle of your study years, it’s always nice to hear speeches like this to help you pick up. Best thing about this young lady is her personality. Such a great role model!
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Now I understand why young women say many young men unsuitable to be husbands. Orang cakap benda lain, dia cakap benda lain. Tu yang groceries pun salah beli kot 😂
The mom is extremely tired & stressed out. 7 kids, now 8 mths pregnant. She needs help physically, mentally and emotionally.
Husbands, don’t just sprout your seeds if you’re not able to provide the necessary support!
(This is NOT justifying her actions. So don’t come @ me)
Allahyarham Mohammad Akhil Mustaqim, 6, disimbah air panas dan dipukul oleh ibunya tanpa henti selama sejam hingga meninggal dunia.
Ibunya Nor Zuliana Tahir mengaku bersalah dan dijatuhkan denda RM25,000
As an internet auntie, I tumpang bangga with this young man for his delicious recipes, his big heart in sharing those recipes (bless him) and above all, his charity work. I applaud his parents too for their full support. It’s not easy to be on board with your child’s interest ♥️
Why don’t our school canteens have cafeterias where the children simply line up & collect their (healthy) food? Payments made weekly/monthly etc. Those who can pay, pay. Those who can’t, govt subsidize. Those who want to bring own food, no need. Eat at the same place. Same menu.
Wives who go 50/50 will usually be treated like a roommate in the long-run. You make your wife take on half the bills while she already holds a higher burden biologically (eg. birth), she’s going to deplete her feminine energy. She’s gonna be too tired to look nice & layan you 🚩
[CC] Kenapa semua orang kata kalau husband and wife split 50/50 on household tu dikira redflag? Apa salahnya kalau kita mintak wife tolong bab financial family? Lagi2 kalau both gaji tak besar mana kan susah kalau husband je yg kena keluarkan duit? Can someone enlighten me please…
So many people giving advice on what to do and what not to do before getting married. Truth is, nobody really knows. This is because we all lead different paths. What works for others may not work for us. Likewise, what doesn't work for others may work wonderfully for us.
She’s truly an educator with a heart of gold ♥️. So so sad reading about children who do not have money to buy food at school 😭..
Projek mulia Cikgu Maisarah
Fun fact. When we are richer, we will be tested with things that (sometimes) we can’t handle. Men with money or resources are tested with women, wealth and power/position. You think you can handle them but in reality, many have failed. All the best.
You hangout with your siblings. You don’t date them or call it a “date”. That’s just wrong. On so many levels. Siap effort buat video with love song background. That’s not sweet, that’s gross. Nak troll pun, boleh tak jangan buat benda yang menggelikan..? 🥴
I just got a call on my office phone directing me to Pos Laju. The lady on the other end told me that I have a package from Sabah. Before she could say anything else, I told her that I’m not expecting any packages from Sabah. She then read my IC number and asked me to confirm.
I dunno guys. Pranking your siblings is like, putting oreo filling in their toothpaste, changing their wifi/netflix password or sticking thousands of post-it notes on their car. Not pretending to flirt with them & make them think they're in an imaginary relationship with you.. 🥴
Getting high CGPA isn't about getting good jobs. It's about self-fulfillment. So it shouldn't matter if your average CGPA pals end up richer than you in future.
I know uols angry at FINAS now. But don’t lah condemn this move. It’s actually a good thing and fair to our veteran actors. Many lose jobs because productions keep choosing cheaper and younger alternatives for old supporting roles.
Just saw someone calling her parents “toxic” because they didn’t buy her a handphone for doing well in exam.. Do these kids even know what toxic means?? 😭
Praying that in future none of my kids use “My mom has a PhD..” when starting an argument with some stranger on the internet. Better yet, hope they don’t start an argument with strangers ever. 🥴
This was taken in 1991. I was a host in a kids’ TV show and for that particular week, I was assigned to interview the PM at the time. One of things I asked Tun was “Why do you call it Wawasan 2020?” I remembered his answer, though not verbatim.
Bukan setakat vaksinasi, seseorang perlu juga tahu expectations pasangannya selepas berumahtangga nanti. Adakah dia nak kita berhenti kerja? adakah dia nak duduk rumah dan kita yg kerja? berapa anak? atau taknak anak langsung? etc.. These things can be a dealbreaker to some.
In all my years of working and being a career woman, I’m finally being recognized for my bekal. Hahahaha.. Truly happy and proud! 😂
Ibu 'liat' bangun pagi lepasi cabaran... Bekal mi goreng anak tak pahit lagi, suami nak tumpang sekaki! via
@mstaronline
Khat is not a language. It’s an art. I’ll be happy if my kids learn something that’s fun and not subject to exams. Because so many other subjects ARE exam-based. Likewise, I’ll embrace it if they are made to learn Chinese calligraphy. They’re all beautiful art.
Arwah nenek ajar "kalau anak dara pakailah kepala kain di tepi menunjukkan anak dara. Bila dah kawin tukarlah kedudukan kepala kain di belakang menunjukkan sudah mempunyai suami. Namun kalau jodoh itu tak panjang tukarlah kepala kain hadapan supaya orang tahu janda".
i really dont understand you can GROW up seeing that your dad cheated on your mom and her literally dying for it and still cheat on your wife, knowing it will fuck up your kids the same way
Day50. Hari ni dah ada gas 😄.. Today’s bekal is nasi goreng kampung with ayam goreng and telur puyuh. The kids tak tahan pedas so I made theirs with no chili padi. For snacks, it’s our homemade peanut butter and chocolate-coated kuaci granola squares and apples.
#bekalmom
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To tell a fellow Muslim openly that they do nothing wrong for consuming alcohol is WRONG. If you truly believe that one’s sin is between them and God, the best you should do is to keep quiet. Don’t say, tweet or post anything. Being indifferent is just that. Silence.
Why are you so mad when a mom says “motherhood is boring”? It IS if we lose ourselves in the process. Don’t you notice how moms start going out/traveling/LIVING once their kids leave the nest? Acknowledging something as it is doesn’t make you a bad parent. Living in denial might.
My girl wants to skip school today. Said they’re not learning anything now that midterm is over. They only sit at the hall and hear daie contestants to represent the school.
“Daie tu apa?” I saja usik.
“Oh just some guys giving tazkirah in a dramatic way.”
😂
As Muslims, we are taught not to go near zina. But if you think that’s lame because fornication is considered “normal” in today’s world, hear this. Having sex with someone is an exchange of energy. You form soul ties with people you sleep with, that is, you connect with them…
We only see a distressed mom venting out her frustration in this post. At first glance, we don’t even know who she’s angry at. We can move on. But some jobless man dug into the story, got so bothered & extremely offended on whoever’s behalf and doxed her.. Beremosi tak bertempat.
Kurangkan penetapan gred SPM untuk penerimaan biasiswa daripada A+, B+ kepada A,B, C dan D, bagi memudahkan anak Melayu. - Nurul Fatin Aqilah Rahim
#kongresmaruahmelayu
#malaysiagazette
If you dislike anyone on Twitter or hate seeing their tweets, just block them already. There’s no need to torture yourself and make threads about how awful you think they are. It’s basic common sense, really.
Been married 14 years, not once did I check other half’s phone. The only password I need is our Netflix account, lol.. Give each other space, kids. Trust and pray always. Stay happy. 😊
We have so many stray cats around our neighbourhood. My girl felt sorry for one mommy that just gave birth to five kittens, that she decided to make this cardboard home for them.
Ada orang pelik budak2 tahfiz tak semua faham maksud Al-Quran. Kami pun pelik pasal apa dah lama belajar maths & statistics dari sekolah menengah sampai pre-U tapi tak faham2 bila masuk buat degree.
It’s interesting that while NZ aims to stand in solidarity with their Muslim citizens & encourages the wearing of hijab, at the same time ex-Muslims and those who are allergic to this practice butt in and say how oppressive it is. Stay in your lane, guys. Today is not about you.
Guys and girls, rule number one. Do NOT spread something that you’re not sure of on social media. You may think you’re cool for spilling some “tea” but seriously, you’re only being a jerk. These things spread like wildfire. Are you happy contributing to other people’s distress?
I used this road all the time when I lived at Sri Gombak. It’s dangerous as it is. This is so unfortunate. Parents, please.. This is no longer “faktor ekonomi”. It’s more of “faktor tak mengambil tahu pasal anak2”. Stop them. Biar anak menangis. Jangan kita yang menangis 😥
BUDAK BASIKAL LAJAK GOMBAK
Bila dah jadi kes mahkamah dan tular satu Malaysia, barulah nak menunding jari. Sebelum terjadi apa-apa ni lah ibu bapa sepatutnya pantau.
Admin yang naik motor pun tak berapa nak laju dekat sini, diorang ni entah ada brek ke tak.
Lokasi : Sri Gombak
Adi ni bagus. Adi ni memang genius. Tapi..... kita hidup terpaksa ikut sistem. Genius matematik camne pun beliau, tapi kalau korang ada SPM semata tetap sistem akan cakap korang lagi hebat dari Adi ni. 😔
The key to a long-lasting and happy relationship isn’t love, but forgiveness. It’s not easy to do especially if your partner screws up big time. Pray. Trust your gut feeling. Listen to your heart. Confide in others you trust. But don’t be a doormat and have your boundaries.
Yang dah berkahwin, apa nasihat korang kepada newly weds?
I'll start :
Do not love until you lose yourself.
Not because they might cheats on you, but because they're human. They will make mistake, they will hurt you. & When they do, at least u still have yourself to hold on to
You know what's gross? Women get addressed by Miss, Mrs., or Ms. because society deems it important to know if she is single, married or widowed. Men, on the other hand, are only addressed as Mr. because their relationship to women does not affect their social status.
When my husband proposed 15 years ago, this was the size of the diamond ring that he could afford. I’m not sure if this tweet is serious or just trolling, but if it’s the former, just know that the size of your diamond ring has no bearing at all on your happiness in marriage. 💕
Loved that this show doesn’t try too hard to shove unconventional ideas down your throat. You know where they’re coming from but their sketches and dialogues are crafted subtly. They make modern life something even traditional guys and girls can relate and embrace.
@__loveshak
Geramnya dengan mamat ni. I went to his fb because condemning him here would be useless. I don’t know if logic will get through to his head but it must be said.
Reading the “mama secrets” on Makchic IG makes me appreciate my husband even more. He’s not perfect but I’m so grateful that I’m able to discuss any of our problems openly. I pray that all those women who confessed anonymously be given ease, peace and happier lives. Aamiin.
Suami manja biasanya macam tulah.
Dah penat balik kerja, lapar tapi tetap nak jamah masakan air tangan isteri. Bertuah tau dapat suami yang tak reti dan tak suka makan luar ni.
Kredit: IG Wawa Zainal
If you HAD to say “Tak semua org ada keluarga kaya/ada duit/ada support system/ada peluang” whenever you read about someone’s achievements, then betullah, tak semua orang boleh buat. Including you. So stop being bitter with other ppl’s success. You be successful in your own way.
Invitations for Malay weddings are traditionally large in number because folks those days, esp in kampung areas, like to help out. Orang Jawa panggil “rewang”. That’s why jemputan *setakat* 800-1000 orang ni boleh jadi affordable sebab masing2 play their part.
@pelisahh
Anon, you memang sayang tunang you. Masalahnya, tunang you tu sayang you tak? Nak jadi suami tapi tak boleh support you financially and ambil sikap sambil lewa tu macam dia tak serius dan bakal menyusahkan kehidupan you nanti. Your dad is being a good wali. Do hear his advice.
Day1. Still a lot of frying, but it really is the easiest thing to do in the early morning 😬. Nasi goreng (selit sayur sikit), nuggets, cut hotdogs, fruit, biscuit & jajan. I gave R air masak too. T said she’ll buy her own drink. Tak cool kot bawak botol air 🙄😆
#bekalmom
When my kids were born, the first things I did was to open an ASB and TH accounts for them. If we are blessed with a steady income, no matter how small, always remember to put some aside for our kids. They may not know or appreciate it now, but they will when they’re older.
We’ve been invited to a Chinese wedding tonight. Dresscode is formal. Other half is wearing a suit. I have nothing to wear. He said, “Pakai je lah baju beli semalam.” But that’s my baju raya! “So? You’re gonna wear it anyway. Just wear it earlier.”
Engineers are too practical 😩
Kenapa ada sesetengah orang ingat bila kita beradab kita tak boleh berfikir secara kritikal ya? As if it’s one or the other? Better yet, they actually think you need to be rude and uncivilized in order to get your points across and be seen as a critical thinker..? 😂
Such a shame. If someone visionary had turned the old pudu jail into a museum and charge visitors to spend the night, you can make a fortune from eccentric thrill seekers.
Sedihnya tengok tapak lama penjara pudu dijadikan mall.
Penjara tu penuh sejarah dari 1895. Historical museum would be better.
Do we really need another mall at the centre of KL?