vaginas are self-cleaning; self-regulating organs. they don't require steaming. they don't require lightening. they don't need to be smooth as a baby's bum. they don't need to smell rosy. once you want that for her, question your true motivations.
i genuinely sleep for fun. there is nothing in the world better than sleeping. the minute i wake up, i am looking forward to getting back into my bed. sleep is the love of my life.
not the men in my comments saying women do it for themselves 😭😭😭
listen, if you understand conditioning and you understand how deeply rooted patriarchy is, you'll understand that no woman in her right mind truly believes lemons are "FoR hEr OwN gOoD."
@BadzaBae
oh, baby makeup definitely has its roots in patriarchal standards. it took us having conversations and changing the narrative to make it for us and by us. that's why it has ceased to become something that is done for men. x
everyday everyday it's "let's dismantle the patriarchy" bc you think patriarchy only looks like marriage and job opportunities. now you're attacking me for showing you that it's also heavy in these grooming practices for women? lol ok.
ladies, for R600 at stopes you get:
- pap smear
- breast exam
- std and hiv screening
- contraceptive counselling
- urine analysis
(student discount option). let's take care of our bodies.🥰
but also i think there’s a fine line between badmouthing and just vocalizing your experience, no matter how bad. people should be allowed to do that. if you were kak, you were kak.
one thing i will do is DWELL on my mistakes or how i could’ve handled certain things differently.🤣i will think about it forever and beat myself up for long
yoh ladies. share your location with your friends indefinitely. make sure someone always knows exactly who you are with and where. let’s get pepper spray. and most importantly, let’s cover ourselves in prayer everytime we go out. there is a literal war on our bodies
@CrisLuvsErrBody
I'm just in awe of how she took the power away from the term "slut." A word which, for centuries, has been used by men in society to box women and insult them. I stan a Queen. She took that word and make it the equivalent of water. 👏🏿
you literally can't make this up. men are a danger to women. a threat. it's got absolutely nothing to do with how we dress; our conduct; the setting. it's them. it's the men that are simply a threat and nothing except reports of murders is being done about it.
#UyineneMrwetyana
@uLuyanda_Gama
the one with s is a verb the c, a noun. so “advise me on this” vs “give me advice”
“i need to practise how to cook” vs “i am late for practice”
[WATCH] Joburg teacher Kirsten Kluyts' alleged killer Bafana Mahungela tells the court why he wore her clothes and why he did not go to the police station after "discovering" her body.
#Newzroom405
@DenzelSuggs
@CrisLuvsErrBody
Insult? When did she tell you that her intention was to insult? Isn't that her whole point - the fact that men, first of all, probably created the term and attached all these negative connotations to describe women?
Bafana stripped her of all her clothes. left her butt naked. he’s asked if she bad a bra on - no.
underwear ? no.
he even took her shoes. he left her fully naked and put on her shirt. not a single ounce of remorse or regret on his face or in his voice.
#KirstenKluyts
i also feel like people shouldn’t shame others for wanting something that is, quite frankly, fundamental to us as human beings. also, let’s get rid of the notion that the pursuit of that means they don’t have other things going on in their lives.👍🏽
@ItuGetMoMoney
do you know that it's men who are largely responsible for the changes in ph levels that cause it to "smell"? educate yourself about women's bodies before ukhuluma udoti