i hate how white the “does fiction affect reality” discourse is we’re always talking about ships and never talk about fiction can effectively paint poc as monsters or how personality and psychotic disorders have been stigmatized to the end of the earth by the horror genre alone.
if you are cis and your response to being asked what your pronouns are is “umm normal??? lmfaooo” you are the scum of the earth and i hate you with a fiery passion
no one: h
cis people: if i misgender you TELL ME i’m so sorry HIT ME tell your oomfs to BLOCK AND REPORT me MAKE ME CRY it’s what i DESERVE make and expose thread DRIVE ME OFF OF TWITTER make my life a LIVING HELL what? no i’m not putting my pronouns in my bio wtf
ok cis people that’s enough. stop with the non-binary jokes because it’s becoming increasingly clear you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about.
“saying bi people can’t say the d slur is like saying mixed people can’t say the n word” argument is never gonna work is because bi people are not a mix of lesbian and straight and because mixed people are still black and they aren’t any less black then everyone else
“im white and i hate white people” “i’m cis and i can confirm” now i know that some of you don’t know this so let me explain. this is annoying because it’s what we call oppressor guilt. the examples are white and cis guilt. it’s like a man saying “but not me right” under a-
hi let me make something very clear. you CANNOT choose or stop a hyperfixation. you can know that a show has a million of your triggers in it or has a terrible meaning and still hyperfixate on it. it’s not a choice, and you can’t just stop after someone tells you it’s bad
You can’t be invalid to others idc idc, and y’all are valid to me. Cuz everytime I’ve dated a bi woman who centered / mostly only had experience dating men it was serious to them and even if it wasn’t that’s a me problem. Like this is a PATTERN YOU’RE ALL SO AMAZING.
this discourse goes FAR beyond shipping step siblings and if y’all were to take a step back and look at it from a different angle you would see that fiction very clearly can and does effect reality.
hi i wanted to help spread this so there are two symbols going around for trans people who can’t put their pronouns in their bio for whatever reason if you see someone who has this ◈ or this 🔶 symbol instead of pronouns do not bother them. cis people need to not trans.
Call me a normal person if you want, I promise you I don’t care LOL i love you all so much and WILL shower you with love and affection. you can lean to whatever gender or none at all and still be bi, valid, and fucking amazing
also this shouldn’t be a problematic statement at all!! idk if you saw the hate tweet that blew up but a lot of my bi oomfs were feeling shitty because of it so i made a kind of parody of it i didn’t expect it to blow up.
“kill all men” post but less direct. it takes a while to notice even for poc ourselves but it’s become increasingly clear that that’s what this is and it’s annoying at best.
say hi is you’re fucking tired of being guiltripped into helping someone use minorities struggles for hit tweets because you feel like a piece of shit if you don’t reply
ok let me explain this. being non binary is a spectrum right? that spectrum is not it’s own gender. there are genders within it but pinning the entire spectrum as it’s own gender defeats the whole purpose. as again it’s NON binary not a third binary that you can be attracted or-
listen ok queer is a widely reclaimed slur, we must recognize as both a slur and an identity. you may really like it but others may hate it. so “queer is a slur not an identity” and “queer isn’t a slur it’s an identity” BOTH are not the hot takes y’all think they are.
i’m so sick of fandoms only listening to issues when white people say it. poc could scream that something is a problem for months and know one will listen but the moment a white person straight up copypastes it suddenly we’ve all been ignoring it and they thought of it first.
oh and don’t even get me started on how fiction has effectively portrayed trans people (trans women to be specific) as complete jokes in comedy and serial killing monsters in horror
@sarahlugor
it’s so awful because during her love she was talking about how it made her uncomfy and people were commenting shit like this as she was saying it
now this is made by a black lesbian so i want you to know something before we start, comparing the reclaimation of the d slur to the n word is important and not invalid. the only black people that will tell you otherwise are non lesbian sapphics who want to say the d slur or-
the slur “dyke” comes from the slur “bulldyke” in the mid-19th century. it was a kind of hybrid between misogyny and homophobia. lesbians were targeted for their lack of attraction towards men and their “manliness”, even if they weren’t masc, due to them being attracted to women.
fucking hell what the fuck is
“do you support _____
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gonna do for minorities?? this doesn’t help at all when are y’all gonna learn that we aren’t gateways to hit tweets??
now it’s true the term lesbian used to be what we call sapphic now. the problem is that now lesbian doesn’t mean sapphic at all anymore, if you like a man you aren’t a lesbian. we can all agree that we have worked really hard as a community to get people to respect that-
are kidding me?? cis people who can safely put their pronouns in their bio please don’t put ?,€\#^)<|^{€#]^<^€ in the middle of them. that literally defeats the whole purpose
ok no cis please do not call nonbinary people enbies lots of us are ok with being called that but not everyone is. it’s not a cute pet name or a formal name at all so please just call us nonbinary, n-b, or NB.
“well i’ve been called so i can say it lmaoo stay mad”
i’m so sorry that happened to you and i get your pain i really do but that doesn’t mean you get to say it. think of (and here comes the example) the n word. if your anything other then black and you get called it that-
full offense but if middle eastern people are talking about how they are concerned for their safety and you’re first response is “damn can we celebrate for two damn minutes” you’re probably a shitty person
doesn’t automatically mean you can say it. if your anything other then mexican and you get called the b slur you can’t start saying it. if you are not part of the group a slur is directed at and you get called it, you do not have some free pass to say it now.
there is a difference between sexualities. letting non lesbians say it now blends them back together again, and essentially puts us back in terms progress we’ve made.
hi there!! i made a flag for trans mlm!! it is completely optional to use this flag or not as i made it mainly for myself as i couldn’t find any that i liked. this flag is for all trans mlm including nonbinary mlm as they are part of the trans community!!
uneducated pick me black lesbians who don’t know the history behind it. also please don’t use the words “girl” or “girlie” on me. now let’s get started.
the d slur wasn’t just directed to women that loved women. it was directed to lesbians (not the sapphic term back then the modern term now) for completely turning male love and affection away.
“saying bi/pan women can’t say it is biphobic and panphobic”
no one said bi/pan people aren’t oppressed, no one is invalidating there experiences they just can’t say this slur. to put it simply, it’s lesphobic. it’s lesphobic to ignore all these lesbians telling you not to-
“well are you saying that bi men can’t say the f slur?”
no. i’m not mlm i cant speak on that. the mlm and wlw community have a lot in common but there are some crucial things that are different, for example the d slur and the f slur, they are not equivalent to eachother.
again “white passing poc are still poc and valid and shouldn’t be excluded” and “white passing poc need to recognize their privilege” are two things that not only should but need to coexist
do something and to trust ONE lesbian telling you that you can instead. having a slur isn’t a quirky fun thing. we aren’t excluding you because this isn’t a club. it’s never exlclusion not letting non lesbians in lesbian spaces but this isn’t even that. this is a slur you can’t-
i’m begging you please don’t force your black moots or black creators to talk about this it weighs down on our mental health so much it’s so awful to see this shit happening all the time.
ummm woah yes queer is a slur but it has been so widely reclaimed that we need to recognize it as an identity as well i personally really like the word queer and i still highly identify with it you don’t need to use it if you’re uncomfy but shit like-
media has tried to make it seem that way but there not. from what i’ve seen and heard from mlm themselves it seems that all of the mlm community has a right to say the f slur but it’s not the same for the
d slur.
dream stans are wild cause this man has done wildly racist ableist and homophobic shit yet cheating on a minecraft speed run is the final straw for most of them
this argument is really nothing more then a way to change the subject, an argument over the d slur isn’t an invitation to bring in the f slur. especially if you know your talking to someone who can’t speak on it. if your arguing with a lesbian about a lesbian slur why would-
reclaim. so no this isn’t biphobia this isn’t panphobia and this isn’t excluding or being mean to non lesbian sapphics. also the the “dyke pass” doesn’t exist simple.
dear british people,
a dirty non brit just made fun of your accent and your upset. do what you want but no matter how personally you took it it’s never gonna give you an excuse to make fun of school shootings and police brutality. all we said is y’all say drawn like drown.
please again i’m so sick of seeing white people preach this on my tl “read the room” is aave and it’s not inherently ableist so stop fucking acting like it is. it can be for sure if it’s weaponized against nd people but you see someone say read the room and immediately think-
reminder that while WRITING%L!KETHl$ is extremely ableist SH3/H3R are real pronouns along with TH3Y/TH3M and H1/H1M so avoid writing like the example yes but also consider that they may be someones actual pronouns and not just a cool way of writing she/her etc.