In Ghana last week, airport staff took everyone’s temperature before they could pass, forcing antibacterial into everyone’s hands, and making sure any necessary treatments were given right there.
Landed back in the UK today. Not one airport health check. Absolutely nothing🙃
Notting Hill Carnival has been cancelled. Guys, live your life now right now. The way things are going tomorrow could even be cancelled.
Move mad today
You might believe you bring a lot to the table - but that’s only as far as you’re concerned. If the table needs chairs and you bring 10000 plates, true - you’ve brought a lot to the table, but you didn’t bring what was actually needed
I don’t want any part in this crippling fear of a relationship ending that is stopping many of you from loving. If I feel to shout about my person then I will shout. And if it ends, it ends. Life is a series of constant beginnings and endings, you can’t shame me for living mine
Kmt honestly at this rate when I get out it’s not even gonna be to do cute clink clink anymore. The way I’m gonna do CHEERS so hard the glass is gonna shatter everywhere
Btw it is a normal reaction for someone to laugh at someone’s disrespectful joke at them *at first*, often out of shock/embarrassment, but then deep the violation and react to that
Some of you even tweet about how you think back & realise violations you should’ve banged out for
There you have it guys, Wizkid day 1. What a wonder. Can you imagine what it will be like on Wednesday for the big finale? No need to imagine. Selling 1x level 1 premium ticket.
DM me. Don’t dull. Hehe
You guys’ Afronation tickets will have to be passed down from generation to generation at this rate. I hope one day one of your descendants gets to experience it at last
I hate conversations about men lol. I don’t hate men, just hate all the energy we put into discussing them. They don’t fret like this over us you know.
I think we should be more selfish like them ❤️
That blank stare in response to a warm welcome is so disappointing. Why do black people often disassociate from other black people in the workplace? Do we feel threatened by our own?
I’ve unfollowed bare female empowerment IG pages that centre their posts on making money. Too often it seems like the only response women can have in proving themselves as empowered is to become the breadwinners. Money is nice but equating your power to your paycheck is a bit 🥴
It’s so important to me to have a core group that prioritises collective enjoyment through life. Things like BBQs, activities, holidays etc cos community & fun is easily lost with age & responsibility. The older you get, the more intentional you have to be about making it happen
My mum got stopped at Kotoka airport and asked the attendant why they’re stopping her, they said ‘please madam, it’s a random check’
My mum said ‘look at my face. DOES IT LOOK RANDOM TO YOU?!’ And left 😂😂😭😭😂😭
I feel like we’re at that age where before our very eyes we’re watching our girls become the very aunties they swore they’d never be, and the guys are transitioning into those perilous LA Lounge uncles
Yes because we want balanced living. Some of you keep beds in the living room, plates in the bedroom, random pens and calculator will be in the kitchen, and you can’t understand why you’re having nightmares every night. You are living in chaos
This is the most unhappy I’ve been in a long time man. Praying for one genuinely happy day. I’m actually down and desperate for peace today, my well has run dry.
Yes. My apologies aren’t always cos I did something ‘wrong’, cos we can always find 100 reasons why we think we are ‘right’. Wrong is subjective. Generally I apologise because my behaviour hurt someone. That, to me, is worth being sorry about because I don’t want to hurt people.
IF. YOU. START. GOING. TO. THE. GYM. NOW...
You could lose an average of 2-3 pounds a week, that’s about 1kg average per week, that’s 4kg a month..
THAT’S 28KG BY SUMMER. TWENTY EIGHT. YO
This strong black woman narrative has been killing many of us in different ways, believe me. Even from our own people. Black women are not generally associated with tender loving care, if any care at all really.
We've reached BBC News? oh my god. we are really showing our arses with this one. that is all i have to say.
BBC News - Dark-skinned girls, 'love yourself for who you are'
I want more people to ask themselves more often when they’re out, ‘what am I doing here?’ and happily leave when their answer isn’t good enough for themselves
This is why I got up and went to Afronation alone last minute you know lol. Met some girls at the airport, 10 of us shared a buff villa on the seafront, can’t believe I did it but I’m glad I did. When I have kids they will hear stooorieeees from me
Guys, I’m telling you now. If you start training now, come summer you will be absolutely laughing. Like, it’s not even funny. But your body will be SO set, you’ll be laughing anyhow.
Anyway, El Barbelle told ya.
Just cracked an egg lightly on the kitchen counter and it broke open everywhere. And y’know what? I’m glad it did.
That’s not the sort of egg I want to eat. Weakling
My 4c hair got to 20 inches long a couple years ago. I don’t have soft, curly hair. In fact, I barely have a curl pattern. Hairdressers have always dreaded treating it!
Maybe one day when I’m done with this wig life, I’ll go back to making natural hair products and blogging?
GUYS Debenhams are doing a HUGE closing down sale! I’m in the shop now and the makeup has been ransacked by their white customers, so there’s just darker tones left 😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I just bought some Elizabeth Arden, should’ve cost me £60, I paid £17 😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Recruiters on Indeed will see that you’ve specified you want a fully remote engineering role but will still reach out with hey! We think you’d be a great match for this in house zookeeper position
Bruv. We gotta just walk around fully bleeding in pain while going a bit mad, but crack on as if nothing is happening. We’re in disarray for like a week beforehand too.
Why is this normal lol it’s a horrible thing to have to get used to
FYI I know it looks like a radiant cut above but for those who want to know, it’s actually an elongated cushion cut! The edges on a radiant cut were too harsh for me 🥹
Don’t forget to learn how your friends receive love too, so that you can love them well and strengthen your bonds. When done vice versa, life be much sweeter.
Don’t be passive. Invest in your friendships.
If there’s anything you should know about me it’s that I hhhaaattteeee cliquey behaviour and I avoid people who indulge it. Anything that makes people feel unwelcome/excluded is a big no from me.
Last time a guy didn’t take my no for an answer, he grabbed my arm so I grabbed him back harder and told him I’m about to get very violent. He left me alone.
Weren’t expecting that were ya, ya fuckin fella
GUYS. Partying in Ghana is actually no joke. We left the house at about 11 last night and got back at 7am this morning loooooool
My insta story rn yeah 😂 littest night of my LIFE. Amazing people around. And we go again and againnn
That girl who gave some guy £20k has confessed several times to the world that she is a fool for it. She’s now asking for less gaslighting and more guidance, and some of you are like nah, we’re gonna focus on how much of a fool you are actually.
..Bit weird don’t you think
I really enjoyed the whole process of designing and making each of my bridesmaids’ proposals from scratch because I really wanted each of my girls to feel that they’re worth the effort. I even made their boxes light up cos they really do light up my life 😂❤️
Today I’m on the lookout to see if the neighbours have people over. I’m fully cool with it if they do. I’m just gonna take pictures and videos as evidence against them so I can throw my own party.
Snitch on me, snitch on yourself x
Quit living with such certainty about tomorrow. Do it now. Tell them now. Love now. Live now. Let the sting of certain death ahead affect you more than whatever you can make of this life right now. You think you have tomorrow, but you don’t. In fact you just got lucky with today.
What’s wrong with you lot? You won’t tell the person you’re dealing with that they’re looking fire because you don’t wanna gas them??
Oya GAS your LOVER. What is wrong with you???????? Your insecurities are killing your relationships man
Maura is what Amber was trying to be. You see that strong eye contact? Posture? Social dominance?
Amber had to tell you what she is. Maura just shows you
#LoveIsland
The Uber/Bolt drivers in Ghana are really something else. They’ll accept the ride and just vibe around. This driver was 7 minutes away, next thing I know he’s 70 minutes away driving towards Nigeria
i really do feel some way about presenting black issues before the eyes of white people with regards to colourism. it's bad enough that we have issues with racism from them towards us, now we're even revealing to them that we feel the same way about ourselves
oh my god man.
@Feliciaaa_O
LOL wise!! Let me know how it goes. I’d like to actually know if this is a thing. Black guys always give eachother ‘the nod’.. but I don’t feel we naturally got eachother like that in the workplace
I stopped getting fomo when my priority stopped being where everyone else is, and started being where I really want to be. Sometimes I want that shared experience, but sometimes I know I’m actually better without.