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muslim & latina • revert • 20

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@deffonotflavia
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@hawakeye009 there’s a wife & husband application form on pintrest 😭 in sha Allah this will help the halal rizzing🫡
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This is my ex-pastor (in the blue), make dua for him to become muslim!! He’s such a sweet elderly man, always advocates for God. He just needs a little push in the right direction 🫶🥹
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my ex-pastor asked for a copy of the quran in spanish, make dua that he gets guided🤲🥹
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muslimgirl? yh no, you’re a kaffirgirl
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Can Muslim women marry non-Muslim men? 👀💍 Explore the complexities of interfaith relationships and love in this deep dive 👇🏽
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girls i pulled my man with the approach of Khadija RA, you can too
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Muslims don’t want this either 😬
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This is England, allegedly. Is this the future you want for your children? 😬
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All the edits of women drooling over Zakaria Aboukhlal pushed him to put a ring in his bio so that people acknowledge he’s married. Reminder to the sisters that lowering the gaze is not only for the men, BUT ALSO FOR US!!
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my ex-pastor asked for a copy of the quran in spanish, make dua that he gets guided🤲🥹
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@deffonotflavia
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May Allah ﷻ protect our muslimahs from disgusting men like these. Remember that a man who hurts you like this does not truly care & love you.
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@deffonotflavia
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“Queer muslims exist” ‘Queer’ muslim shouldnt be a given name to call someone who has certain desires. We don’t say ‘alcoholic’ muslim or [insert desire here] muslim. We’re more than our desires. They dont define us. All muslims have desires we can’t act upon, it’s not just u.
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@deffonotflavia
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I swear I was never this emotional when I was a non-muslim, I would shed a tear maybe once a year at most. But now everytime I remember that Allah ﷻ has made me muslim, subhanallah it brings tears to my eyes. (I may or may not be crying writing this lol😭)
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@deffonotflavia
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No. This type of representation is horrible. Hijabi’s in a punk band?! Stop trying to normalize sins for us. It’s never gonna work.
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@deffonotflavia
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33% of muslims get divorced nowadays 😧 Let’s change those numbers by studying the deen and striving to become better muslims by the day. May Allah grant us all pious partners so that we never experience divorce.
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@deffonotflavia
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Take notes ladies and gents. Now this is how you ask for a hand the halal way. Not “Salam habibi, baba’s #?” 💀 No one is gonna take you seriously like that.
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Stop waiting for the right time. Time isn’t waiting for you.
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The test of a man is to control his sight & and the test of a woman is to resist being seen, because men are eager to look and women are eager to be seen.
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What do you mean safety? 🤔
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@deffonotflavia
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Why do westernized women deny that when one dresses immodestly, they are deliberately sexualizing themselves? Always deflecting by calling us a part of “rape culture”, “pick me”, etc. “Empowering yourself” by showing off your body is objectifying yourself.
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@deffonotflavia
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“O believers! Whoever among you abandons their faith, Allah will replace them with others who love Him and are loved by Him.” 5:54 Alhamdulillah I’m one of their replacements.
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I was scrolling through a brother’s likes because he was commenting islamic reminders and I thought maybe I could follow more Islamic accounts if I go through his likes… This guy was liking the most disgusting pørn stuff, mixed with Islamic quotes about marriage & hijabis 😵‍💫🤮
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@deffonotflavia
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Looking at the comments & QTs, alhamdulillah I’m muslim. How could you guys ever think that working as a sex worker and having your husband encourage it is normal? Your husband is supposed to protect you, not only physically, emotionally and spiritually. This is not protection.
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Single life is killing some people
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Mr. Tate is not a role model, none of us are. The Prophet ﷺ is our role model. But this doesn’t mean cheer on the prosecution. All “evidence” is from years ago. He just reverted to Islam & was forgiven. It’s their laws & they can do what they want, just don’t wish ill on him.
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@deffonotflavia
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Update, he photocopied the quran (surah at-tawbah) and brought it to church to talk about it with me 😭 we didn’t get to finish our convo but i’ll update yous
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This is my ex-pastor (in the blue), make dua for him to become muslim!! He’s such a sweet elderly man, always advocates for God. He just needs a little push in the right direction 🫶🥹
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As a woman, you are the main teacher and role model for the first couple of years in a child’s life 🤍 Reminder that we should have a good islamic foundation & prioritize our deen for the sake of not only our akhira, but also for the future of our ummah.
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The red pill & feminism are both equally disgusting ideologies. The more i look into them, the more I thank God I’m muslim.
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Our duas are working, and this is proof. Allah is helping them like He helped the muslims in the Battle of Badr 🥹 KEEP MAKING DUA
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Let me share a dua that changed my life, the dua of prophet Yunus alayhi salam. Our Prophet ﷺ told us that no muslim ever said this without their dua being answered by Allah ﷻ Make your dua sincere, place certainty in your heart then say this:
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She’s right, muslimah writers band together and write more books & get these get kicked off the shelves
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The max i’ll wait to marry someone is 6 months bro, idk how others can wait 2-3 years Any more than 6 months sounds like a scam💀
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The most respectable type of man looks at the ground while walking past you
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“I’m not gonna marry a revert, they’ve been most likely used.” WHAT?? Astaghfiruallah, some thoughts are better kept inside.
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Reminder that judgement day is as real as your fingertips, as real as the water you drink and as real as anything your eyes are able to see in front of you.
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Best of friendships start with Allah ﷻ & end with Allah ﷻ
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Burning the Quran isn’t going to help get rid of us. Stop trying to provoke us. The Quran will forever be preserved. We have thousands of people around the world who have it memorized by heart. Can’t wait to see their faces of regret on Judgement day 😌
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Never trust a clean shaven muslim man
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Tory peer Lord Kamall "representing British Muslims" presents bracelets to King Charles.
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They made an “LGBTQ friendly version” of the Quran?? These people are actually so disrespectful. Astaghfiruallah. May Allah guide them.
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Smoking, doing shisha, vaping, khat, etc. are all really big icks. I don’t care how much you tell me that “IT’S MAKRUH🥺🥺”, I will not deliberately put something harmful in my body that Allah ﷻ has granted me to take care of.
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Imagine treating someone so unfairly that intead of seeking revenge or justice in this dunya, they decide to bring it up to Allah on the Day of Judgement. Now that’s scary.
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i asked my manufacturer to send me photos of my products…😭🥹
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75 days until Ramadan 🤍 Here’s my checklist: - wear less makeup - no plucking brows - memorize more Quran & study the seerah - go to mosque on Fridays for Jummah - dress more modestly - eat sunnah foods (dates, pomegranates, etc.)
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idk how many times i have to remind yous, never trust a man who shaves his beard.
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We pay so much attention to this worldly life & our bodies which will all be turned into dust one day, but we pay little attention to our souls which will return to Allah. Reminder to keep your soul at ease with rememberance of Allah ﷻ. Do something today. Nourish your soul.
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@3zayyiz I’m not one to use kaffir lightly but whoever wrote this article is unfortunately going against the Quran and Sunnah. And by that definition, they are disbelieving.
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When you can’t stay motivated, stay consistent. This goes for prayer, exercise, education, hijab & anything in life. Never lose your consistency.
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@duronanuderme You are a jahil with no knowledge on the rights of women in islam. I suggest you look into that before embarassing yourself. May Allah guide you.
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new favourite nasheed
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My jaw dropped
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Morroco chanting for Palestine has to be one of the most wholesome moments ever 🤍🥺
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binge watching red pill guys made me feel like an absolute glob & worthless as a woman cause according to them “im about to expire” 19 is their cut off point ☠️
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If you asked me this 2 years ago i would’ve said never. If you asked me this 1 year ago I would’ve said it’s nice but not for me. Ask me now and I wanna wear it out all the time but I cannot due to my family 😭 Alhamdulillah for modesty & islam.
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The muslim community of Dallas needs to investigate Dunia Shuaib, it’s sad that the brother had to go public for anyone to even listen.
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WHAT KIND OF CHRONICALLY ONLINE REVRSE PICK-ME ANTI-RIZZ TAKE IS THIS??💀 You’re telling me that if I’m home 24/7 & my future hubby is working his butt off at work he still gotta come home and mop the floor? If he wants to lend a hand on the weekend sure, but to demand 50/50? ❌
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Men are our protectors & leaders of our ummah, women are the caretakers & the educators of the future generations to come. Without strongly educated women to teach our kids, this Ummah would crumble. May Allah soften the hearts of the leaders of T @lib @n & show them this reality
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Someone tell this guy that we have to learn arabic to recite our daily prayers & that using these words helps us memorize them better because it gives us context😭 Also it means disbeliever not sinner. + anime is for nerds (i want all the smoke)
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Loving someone before you get married fogs up your mind so much. That’s why one has to be really mature and almost heartless before getting to know anyone for marriage. Stay heartless guys, only open your heart once those papers are signed.
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The most beautiful thing a man could possess is the noor (light) in his eyes when he speaks on Islam. The excitment & smile he gets after someone asks him about Islam. Now that, that’s husband material.
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It’s in our instincts to be disgusted by prostitution. Even in the times before Islam (jahiliyah), they would call money that came from prostitution, dirty. Sex work has existed for a long time, but sex work jobs will never be normalized & deemed okay.
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if grown adults can have the courage to dress like this u can put on the hijab sis💪 u got thisss, don’t be scared🫶
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unpopular opinion, interfaith marriages only work if both parties aren’t that religious
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Someone said if a man tells you that being a co-wife is sunnah marry his dad and make his mom a co-wife 😭 I mean, they ain’t wrong. Props to providing the mother with a wonderful sunnah.
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Well, looks like we need to educate a lot of muslims on the internet as to why it is problematic to call yourself a ‘muslim feminist’.
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If I’m not married by the next world cup, I’ll be so disappointed in myself frfr
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@deffonotflavia
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What happened to covering for each others faults? Hamdun al-Qassar, one of the great early Muslims said, “If you hear something from your brother that you reject, make an excuse for him up to 70 excuses. If you can’t do it, then say: Perhaps he has an excuse I do not know.”
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Sinān سَفَّاحُ الكِلاوٰجيِّة 🇷🇺
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Most respectful bakri 'scholar' in prayer
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We have to be careful where our information comes from. This sister is a new revert being misinformed I was ignorant & informed by liberal muslims that fasting ramadan with water was fine, praying with shorts on was fine, etc. Careful with these self proclaimed “imams”
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I used to say “i don’t want to get legally married when i do my nikkah” but after hearing the horror stories of girls who are in my city having their husbands up and divorce them within a month or two, leaving them with nothing but financial and emotional burdens… I was so wrong
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The universe is so big, so complex. Countless planets, stars, galaxies, universes… And some still think we were just created by nothing? La illaha ill Allah
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@deffonotflavia
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"Haven't you been muslim 3 years? Haha I've only been muslim a year and I can pronounce better arabic than you." Did you learn arabic early for the sake of Allah or for the sake of beating me?😑Have some empathy.
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with everything going on around the world, take your time and say alhamdulillah.
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pov: the ummah finally unites
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Welcome to islam Sneako. Take it one step at a time because there is a lot to learn & surround yourself with like minded individuals who value Allah ﷻ over everything. May Allah ﷻ continue to guide you towards the straight path. So happy for you brother 💪
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Why SNEAKO reverted to Islam from Catholicism
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Nothing increases one’s iman (faith) like knowledge. So start memorizing more Qu’ran, study the Seerah (life of the Prophet ﷺ), memorize all 99 names of Allah, etc. Give atleast one hour a day to these and you’ll see your iman rise 🤍
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Astagfiruallah, why do people have such big mouths? Slandering one of our prophets authubillah…
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Every person who approached me in my immodest era would only comment on my body, now that I wear hijab it’s the opposite. Alhamdulillah, they finally see my brain.
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Can we stop pretending like you are innocent after sexualizing the hijab and continuing to call yourself “Mia Khalifa” when your name is Sarah Joe? You apologized to the girls who wear glasses, still waiting on the apology us veiled women.
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Can we stop pretending Chris Brown made a small oopsie one time when he is in fact a serial abuser
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@ExMuslimsMN As much as you guys want to deny it, the hijab does decrease the amount of male attention and assault that happens. Out of like 200 cases, 2 or 3 of those will be with some sort of hijab. Alhamdulillah for the ayah of 33:59.
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It’s so funny the way brothers/sisters act so hayaless online because I know for a fact in person they wouldn’t dare say anything out of embarrassment. Anonymity gives you a different type of confidence frfr
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@pearlythingz Can you stop saying words like “screwed” to describe their marriage? I don’t know why you chose that sort of language. Be mature when stating these ‘questions’ of yours. Many people ask the same thing but they do it in a respectable manner.
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@ThisIsOshaz He’s allowed to raise his kids with a traditional mindset. It’s waaaay better than this whole disgusting liberal agenda. It allows the girls to be in touch with their feminine side & the boys with their masculine🫡 I’m more than happy to go traditional.
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haya>>>
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Forced marriage is not allowed in Islam [al-Bukhari, 6968; Muslim, 1419]. Both the groom and the bride must consent to the marriage. Any marriage which is forced is considered to be batil or void. This muslim woman definitely needs her family to be educated properly about islam.
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People nowadays will literally call anyone a pick-me in any disagreement. If i hear anyone use the word pick-me in an arguement, I’m stepping away from that arguement. I’m not wasting time with people who deliberately don’t want to understand & close themselves off.
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Can I have daleel/explanation for this? Genuinely curious because I thought it was okay to go to the masjid or women’s only gym with sisters. When I was first reverting to islam i was 24/7 inside my house & all it did was depress me & i cured that by going to the masjid…
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@suuu998052881 they do that out of respect loll
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This generation loves to pick flaws at everything, even to the point where they argue with themselves. Find peace in positivity & gratefulness, alhamdulillah for everything.
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@deffonotflavia
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I think one of the whackiest things i’ve ever been told is that the saudi government is botting my social media accounts so that i stay a muslim
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Dua list for these last 10 days:
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I’m never going through someone’s likes again.
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42 year old ‘Transgender’ dressed up as a school girl to spy inside the girl’s bathroom in Peru. Just another reason why I’ll be homeschooling my future kids in sha Allah.
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@H_chach1 that’s my dad and the pastor is very very very old lol he wasn’t touching me anyway tho so
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the kids reactions have me rollinggg💀💀💀
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Based grandpa walks off drag queen event
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@deffonotflavia
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@minnalsama ikr like ?? who do u think u are main?! a born muslim?? stay in yo place reverts!😹😹😹
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@ctrlsnzs The only valid criticism here is for them all to observe proper hijab, but even then these girls are exposing younger audiences to wanting to have a religious friend group that observes proper hijab. Lots of non-religious people think we are miserable and have no fun but we do!
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Please stop posting eid “transitions” with music 🫶 defeats the purpose of fasting and refraining from sins for a whole month to celebrate it with haram.
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Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said in his final sermon “Do treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers.” If this doesn’t ampfly the importance of treating your wives well, I don’t know what does.
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To the QTs: I just said “don’t wish Andrew Tate any ill as a muslim” … you guys wanna twist everything to get your angry little twitter fingers in a bunch. Andrew Tate is not dajjal or shaytan. The closest thing to shaytan is the liberal community that pushes this narrative.
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Question for the men, would you rather marry a hardcore feminist or a gold digger? Why?
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1 year
Never thought I’d see the day that the vegan teacher would annoy one of our brothers on camera asking why pork is forbidden but cows aren’t. After listening my brain went numb.
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@deffonotflavia
flavia🇵🇪
5 months
when your non-muslim family doesn’t count your nikkah as an actual matrimonial ceremony cause it’s not in a church and with a priest (they see it as an engagement)
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@deffonotflavia
flavia🇵🇪
5 months
@fakeanisha dw he pulls me around now
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