A thread of hotlines, help guidance, link to lodge complaints and even donations:-
(Mental health, sexual assault, sexual harassment, abuse, cyber bullying, animal abuse, etc.)
Never give family advices to people with a broken family based on your happy family. Yes mungkin dia cakap dia benci parents dia tu bagi you ridiculous sebab your parents dah banyak berkorban for you, but you have to remember tak semua orang ada functional or loving parents.
I appreciate my boyfriend a lot. I appreciate his efforts to make me happy. I appreciate the time he makes to give me attention. I appreciate all the little things he does. I appreciate him staying. I wasn’t lying when I said I am madly in love with him.Cause he’s the best ever❤️
Girls. Find a man that respects you. Find a man that proves to you that chivalry isn’t dead. A man that holds the door for you. That pulls your chair for you to sit. That texts your parents asking permission to take you out. Find yourself a gentleman.
I need this when I wake up in the morning, before we go to sleep, after arguments, when you arrive home from work, when you tell me you love me and when you wanna express your appreciation towards me. This sweet small gesture is everything.
“Takkan putus cinta je boleh depress”
Boleh ja. Depression can be caused by anything. It can be caused by losing someone, abuse, insecurities and trauma. So takyah lah pandang hina dekat diorang. For you it may be nothing. But for them, they lost someone they consider their world
This was me. A few months ago on the bedroom floor. Crying as I rock my body back and forth. Wishing the pain to end. Bleeding from the pain I caused. Praying for god to help me make it through. Cause I felt so lost and helpless. I never want to experience that pain ever again.
Ingat senang ke nak positive setiap masa. Ingat senang ke nak please everyone. At times I breakdown. Just let me be that way. I can’t always say that I’m ok
A picnic. I just want a picnic date. To maybe roam around in a city and find cute cafes. Or dates at the beach when the sun is about to set. Maybe cooking together in the kitchen? Or a date night where we wear fancy clothing only to eat takeouts in the car after a long drive
I ni tak makeup pon cantik. Makeup pon cantik. So kalau I makeup cantik and tak makeup pon cantik, biarlah I nak makeup pon sebab I suka. I muka bareface breakout pon cantik, muka bareface flawless pon cantik. So in conclusion, macam mana pon I still akan cantik 🤷🏻♀️💁🏻♀️
I hope
@Ashril_92
and wife make sure you both do medical checkups when needed. It is amazing to live the life and eat this much and this good. But it’s easy to forget to prioritise our health. I used to eat a lot and gain no weight yet maintain my slim body tengok tengok
I paling tak suka bila gaduh and your partner bagi ayat nak give up. It’ll always makes me feel like he’s truly had enough of me and wants to leave. I start getting deflated. Wondering why does it feel like I’m the only one fighting for us. It’s tiring being the only one trying
Behind every happy relationship you see, is a couple trying their hardest to hold on to each other and make it work. The amount of efforts they put in to keep the spark alive. So many fights and arguments that were never displayed to the public.
Trust me I’m completely fine alone. I’ve been doing it since ever. You’ll see me eating alone, going to the movies alone, taking pictures by myself, walking alone, or going to public places alone. Please don’t pity me as I enjoy peace alone. It’s much more relaxing.
He does not regret scolding her or being abusive. He regrets how he has lost someone who once was so submissive towards him. He misses being in control, having that power. He misses having someone he could yell at and curse at. He does not regret his actions let alone misses her.
Tadi I dengar SuriaFm. Ada seorang pemanggil ni lelaki. Dia cerita dulu masa kahwin, dia selalu marah marah wife dia. Terlebih belanja masa nak bayar kat kaunter pun, dia marah depan tu juga. Tengok wife je, asyik nak marah marah. Masak tak sedap pun, dia marah marah.
“Orang depress tak keluar or be on social media”
Let me tell you that not everyone shows that they are depress. Some still live their life and go through their daily routine while still being depress. The people around you that are smiling could be depress and you won’t know.
Percayalah kalau Ustaz Ebit Lew dapat offer jadi menteri kpt pon dia akan decline. Because he is aware of the responsibility he will have to bear. A person like ustaz knows that a position that heavy is something that he shouldn’t take lightly. I wish menteri lain are aware too.
I’ll always try to be understanding of you, your time and your needs. When I love, I love deeply. I won’t quit on you if you don’t quit on me. I’ll be your cheerleader and I’ll be there through the highs and lows. I am all about you once you make me yours and I make you mine.
Reading the replies they are so insensitive ohmaigawd. I got sick so I went to the unit kesihatan to see the doctor (for my fever that was up to a week). Upon seeing her and she was checking my medical history she was aware I was experiencing some mental illness. She asked me
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[VIRAL] ‘Ha’ah tunggu ada pelajar IPT bunuh diri kemurungan baru nak bagi balik ke?’ Ketua Pengarah Kesihatan Datuk Dr Noor Hisham minta pelajar ‘terkurung’ di hostel bersabar ketika PKP fasa ketiga, Nona Mumia berharap nasi tak jadi bubur.
Nah man fazura mesti meluat people associating her with neelofa anytime an issue arises. No matter how positive it is, I bet she wishes people wouldn’t have to drag her and her husbands name into everything.
Sis. Block his number. Delete his number. Block his social media. Delete his pictures. Hit up your girlfriend and go out. Go get yourself some ice cream and a new haircut. Go watch some movie on Netflix or something. Shop till you drop and if you’re broke just go to sleep. 💇🏻♀️
I don’t need my man to spoil me with expensive items or extravagant surprises. I just need him to be there when I’m at my lowest. I just need him to spoil me with his love and attention. Show me you love me with your time and support.Praises and compliments are more than enough✨
Ada ja perempuan berburqa, berjubah, pakai tudung labuh kena rogol. Haiwan like chickens or cows kena rogol. A stuff animal, a motorcycle, a freaking baby pon kena rogol. The reality is that, you can wear anything or be anything and you still can get rape.
I see some people talking about how she should have just ordered inside or go ahead with pickup. The thing is drive-throughs should be inclusive to everyone. The convenience of the drive through should not only be to those without disabilities.
She says she isn’t pretty. You say she is. She isn’t trying to seek attention or compliments. She just feels that way. We all have insecurities. We all have things we don’t like about ourselves. You might think she is gorgeous but she feels like she is average compare to others.
If you see someone with scars of cuts on their arms, bruises on their bodies and puffy eyes from crying, offer them a hug. Tell them “I may not know what you’re going through, I may not truly understand. But pain doesn’t last forever. So I hope you be strong and I pray nothing
Wow rudenya. Never talk like that about someone’s appearance. Cantik, kurus, flawless semua tu boleh change one day. Jangan bongkak like kau tu hebat sangat. The things you brag about now can be taken away from you anyday. And the things kau hina can one day happen to you.
One day I’m gonna be soo rich I wanna be able to pay for someone’s education, to get homeless people off the street, help all the stray dogs and cats and do more to change regulations and make impacts by spreading awareness and help ✨
It has taught me to value love. Value reciprocated effort. It has made me understand what I want and what I need. And it has made me realise more of who I am.
I only flirt and confess first if I truly am interested with you. And I could say that doesn’t happen a lot. Cause it’s extremely hard for me to be attracted to people.
that you might fall in love with someone else. Cause what I see in you, I’m sure someone else could see it too. And I don’t want them to take away the only person I love and adore with my whole heart.
so hard for you. I fell for your intelligence, your manners, your looks and your personality. And right after we started getting along, the next moment ‘us’ started to happen. So tell me how couldn’t be worried that someone might snatch you from me. How could I not be worried
I’m that girlfriend that would keep all the notes you give, all those paper bags, pictures, receipts from every date, tickets from every museum, movie and tickets from every place we’ve gone to together. I appreciate and value every memory of us together 🥺
You told me you aren’t rich that you have nothing to offer. But you’re the richest person I know cause not once have you abandon me. You made time and effort for me. You saw how of a mess I was and you could have chose to left but you stayed and help.
“Sakit mental je pon bukan sakit cancer”
I have met so many people that have cancer and tak pernah banding bandingkan sakit diorang with others. They are so kind, understanding and compassionate. Every illness is a big as the other. No need for comparison.
You told me you were nobody but for me you’re my everything. I look at you as more than what you see of yourself. I see the great man that you are. You’re the man that I’m so grateful to have. I’ll always be afraid of losing you. If I weren’t afraid it means that I’ve never
Do you know much pain she must have felt to reach this point? Can you imagine the thoughts running through her head that ultimately overwhelmed her and suffocated her to the point she took her own life? It’s a freaking child and for her to make this decision shows how dead she
I used to feel guilty for not being able to attend to everyone’s attention and help them when they’re in need. But my boyfriend frequently consults me after I feel this way by reminding me that I can’t save anyone and it’s not my fault if I can’t save them.
Semalam ada tiga orang DM I cerita mengenai masalah mereka. Tiga tiga tu berkemungkinan besar ada masalah kesihatan mental. Dua I berjaya convince untuk pergi jumpa psy (mungkin). Lagi sorang highly suicidal. I dah tertidur semalam. She didn’t reply me til now. Ya Allah
Please do. I used to be the “keluar lah dengan sapa pon I tak kisah because I trust you”. Honestly, huge mistake. Men once given the opportunity will take full advantage of it.
idk,, dont be the chill girlfriend. set boundaries and be stern w it. laki ni cakap je tak suka pompuan gila tapi pompuan gila tu jugak dia duk pergi balik 1000 kali. solidarity untuk pompuan gila. be perempuan gila.
appreciated and loved you. I praise you or I worried not because I’m here to flatter you but for you to understand and realise how much worth you are for me and how much I am afraid of losing you.
Untungnya some humans yang tak pernah rasa toxic relationship or friendship. Untungnya the people who have never gone through abusive past. The people who have never experienced other people’s pain. That had never grown up in a broken family. Yang tak pernah rasa financial
“Okay lahtu kalau boyfriend tinggal sebab main game bukan curang pon”
Ahh takdak. Apa yang okaynya? I got an ex that completely abandoned me just to play his games. I let him play but it was too much to the point as if I didn’t exist.
Reading all abeden’s replies, all I can say is he’s manipulative as hell. It’s always the same way with people like this. First they praise you, then they make you comfortable with them. Then they’ll ask you for stuff and when you don’t feel comfortable they recant their words,
Ummm “memang mental illness”. Dah dia depress memang lah yaallah please someone restrain me from cursing 😭 I’ve never met a depression patient with the same symptoms of illness. Ada yang depress suicidal everyday without a break. Ada yang harini attempt suicide esok keluar okay
Tweet nak bunuh diri tweet nak mati dan gangguan jiwa sebab depression
Dua minggu kemudian buat tiktok and pretending nothing happen. Memang mental illness. Bawak bawaklah jumpa pakar mental. Kau memang gila sebenarnya.
This isn’t a situation where I was sulking/ merajuk. This was a situation where I was having my mental breakdown cause my thoughts and insecurities were too strong atm. Kalau merajuk dia tak layan camni hahaha. But he comforted me like this cause he was afraid of me inflicting
I feel like everytime before you get into a relationship you have to prepare yourself with the mindset that “anything can happen”. That one day they can leave, they can becoma abusive, they can cheat, they can fall out of love with you, they can get engage with you and you still
My latest ex when he found out about me cutting said, “I meluat dengan perangai you yang nak ikut trend toreh tangan. Sekali lagi you buat, you tak dengar dah dari I”. He didn’t even comfort me or asked if i was okay 🙂 glad he’s an ex now 😗
“Kalau orang tu nak aku or dia sayang aku mesti dia kena tahan dengan perangai aku”
Oh no it doesn’t work that way. You can’t expect someone to accept you if you have a shitty attitude. Tak semestinya orang sayang that they have to accept every single one of your bad behaviours.
If the chicken inside is still frozen, don’t fry it yet. The chicken inside will end up still raw because it hadn’t defrost yet. The temperature of the oil must be hot but regulated to the same temperature even after a few minutes of frying. A consistent temperature prevents
People suffering from mental illness avoid being in a relationship cause they fear they’ll hurt their partner. Fear of being rejected by their partners family.Fear of destroying someone elses life or future because of their existence. Fear of being more broken when their in love.
I’m sorry I hurt you. It was never my intention to hurt you at all. I should have watched over my words. I should have been more cautious of my actions. Hurting you was my biggest regret. I hope you know that you mean so much to me. And I promise I won’t repeat the same mistake.
Suka. Only if secara baik lah. I’ve had guy friends who would tegur me dengan tapping their necks like trying to indicate that my skin isn’t showing where my hijab is supposed to cover. My partner does this too. My partner pernah once tried to suggest me dressing in a different
pain onto myself. I didn’t have the best mental health when I was to begin with him anyways. I was a mess and I question a lot about my existence. I used to feel like I burden to him and that I could never make him happy. My thoughts were too harsh on me he tried his best to
I think everyone needs to stop comparing people’s problems or other people’s struggles. This is not a competition. Why the need to discourage someone by telling them you had it harder before but managed to pull through. Not everyone is you. What may be easy for you to go through
For anyone saying they are scared I’m kinda glad you are because I hope this is an eye opener for you. My cousin who is a doctor pon cakap “The skinny ones are the most dangerous. Jangan ingat kurus cholesterol tak boleh tinggi”. So be cautious when it comes to your food intake!
His emotionally unstable and psychotic signs are alarming. Bring him to a psychiatrist. I’ve seen people with this traits and honestly I think he needs help.
Why do men feel so entitled over a womens body?? Why do they feel the need to speak on behalf of a women’s body?
“Over je sakit period”
“ye je breastfeed sakit”
“tak susah pon jadi perempuan”.
Ko tu perempuan kee nak cakap semua ni???
Sometimes we tend to push people away when we’re upset. We ask them to leave and we try to convince them we’re okay. But most of the time all we want and need is for someone to hug us and say “it’s okay I’m here. I won’t leave”.
At least 5-10 minutes of chat a day. If there’s no messages then we end the day with a short call. The maximum call time is an hour. But usually it’s just around 30 minutes. We both enjoy time to ourselves. But we still remember that we have each other to put as priority.
I was blessed that my past relationships didn’t work out. Cause now I have you. I finally have someone that is genuinely afraid of losing me. Having you show your love for me makes me realise how I should have been treated. I’m the happiest when I’m with you. I love you so much💖
“I budak budak lagi”
‘No sayang you bukan budak budak’
“I’m baby”
‘No you’re not a baby’
“I’m baby”
‘You’re not a baby sayang’
“I’m baby!.”
‘You’re my baby. But you’re not a baby’
In conclusion,
I win.
🤪🤪🤪❤️
He has my ig and twitter password tapi tak bukak pon.
He can text whoever he wants and i can text whoever I want cause both of us know our boundaries.
And we like to send each others location to make sure both of us are safe.
We even have our touch id on each others phone.
You have never grown up with an absent father or mother. Tak pernah hidup dengan parents yang abusive. Tak pernah experience parents sendiri buat macam you tak wujud. Tak pernah kisah pon what you do, makan ke tak, education macam mana, whether you’re mentally or even physically
Tak suka. And my partner pon tak suka. We like time for ourselves. And we like the freedom we put on each other through trust. As long as you both know you love each other, then you don’t need to restrict each other’s freedom. As long as you both respect and understand that you
Bruhhhh I would love to be this well rounded and actually have talent. I’ll be honest sometimes I wished my parents had sent me to dance or piano class. And like grow up to be able to do so muchhh
Falling into depression feels like tripping into a constant severe melancholic loophole. You start from experiencing intense pain to emotional numbness to ending up emotionally crippled. The load of pain you’re experiencing may seem insignificant to others but a whole burden to
If you’re depressed just stop being depressed. Yerlah orang yang ada mental illness ni memang boleh control their thoughts and actions pon. Not at all impulsive😀👍🏻
If you’re insecure just stop being insecure. Bersyukur je lah. Buat apa nak rasa insecure? Bukan ada orang
Circulating the issue of aurat. Last year I tried covering up. I wore handsock, stokings and even my hijab covering my chest. All of this because I willingly wanted to change. My parents didn’t force but I sendiri wanted to. It lasted for only a few months. Then I found
I feel like everyone has felt depress at least once in their life. But not everyone has depression. Please don’t self diagnosed yourself to have depression. Depression isn’t fun or trendy. It’s suffering. Please don’t use depression for the sake of wanting attention.
Don’t settle for a man that can only spoil you with words of honey. Find a man that treats you like you’re extraordinary. Find someone who even during arguments, manages to communicate with you without him raising his voice. Find a man that knows how to treat a woman.
Have you ever got hit by a sudden wave of sadness and pain. And the sadness and pain has no cause or reason to it? And you’re just sitting there staring into what you feel as nothing. And suddenly you’re crying and weeping non stop. Have you ever felt that?
prove otherwise and make it stop. It wasn’t easy. It was a slow long process with lots or arguments. This wasn’t a situation where I was sulking cause I was jealous ke apa. This was a situation where my depression was the thing that we both have to fight and overcome.
I missed a lot of my teenage years because I had strict parents. Nak mintak approval untuk keluar dengan kawan pon susah. You mintak and then parents bising dulu question kenapa nak keluar lah sleep over apalah semua. Then there’s the pending approval. Sebelum they want to say
well. So you have no right to tell people how they should feel about their parents when all you’ve had or experienced was loving and supportive parents. For some people their biological parents cuma lah orang yang melahirkan diorang dan tak lebih. And you have no right in
It is fun having older siblings. One day your sister is buying you mcdonalds. The other day your brother is buying you makeup. And somehow my little brother even buys me subway ☺️👌🏻
Untuk aesthetic ja ka? I don’t want people to see my underwear. And I don’t want people to know I have expensive items in my bed that’ll probably be the reason my luggage gets stolen.
“Aku pon ada depression gak”
Don’t say you have depression when you’re just sad. Ingat best ka ada depression ni? What ? Is it some kind of trend that you want to jump into? People die due to depression. And you’re saying you have it just because you’re sad or want attention.
Maybe you don’t understand how hard it is to actually recover and heal from depression. Most days i breakdown crying in my dark room on my bed. Contemplating on suicide . It’s not as easy as how everyone says it should be. Every time i feel happiness. It somehow goes away.