This happens to so many men. I know a guy going through it right now but he refuses to cheat and instead is always angry with his wife and resents his family. I told him, he’d be a better dad and husband if he just found a release. Even just one offs on business trips would do.
@HannahPosted
I'm not as fluent in internet-speak as I thought. What's the HL and LL?
Would also be curious about how soon after she pushed a baby out he started bugging her for sex again. I feel like being pushed as soon afterward as some of these guys seem to would turn me off permanently.
@allshiny
@HannahPosted
Thank you for explaining! I'm not sure we have enough information to determine whether it's a libido issue, but I'm also not sure the guy does either. He doesn't say he asked her. Or listened to whatever she may have been saying along with "no".
@AListlessReader
@HannahPosted
It seems like it’s actually shorthand for “partner who whines that they aren’t getting enough sex” and “partner who is Just Tired Of This Shit.” Actual libido issues can come with open communication and a desire to help each other without hurting each other.