June 1st is an incredibly important day to me (and I’m sure many other subs) as it’s
@the_enchantr3ss
’s birthday!!!
I hope you’ll join me in spoiling the most beautiful, funny, talented and understanding Domme I’ve ever met!
I’m an owned sub, but I do engage by liking/retweeting/commenting on posts when it feels natural. It’s positive for the community and my owner. Know if I engage it’s a genuine engagement.
7 months into kink I accept I am a soft sub. I'm way too sensitive for hard play/humiliation and my personality is just more caring than wanting degradation.
Rough draft of a tpe schedule for my dynamic with
@the_enchantr3ss
. This will be my food, exercise and sleep for atleast the next month. Most of my life is under her control and wouldn’t want it any other way.
I know it's the stereotypical "male fantasy" but I've never been turned on by the idea of a domme in latex or fetish gear. It's always more of a turn on to be able to casually dominate in comfies.
“why do you think this domme is not real” I dont know because it obviously is? If you are doing findom and have no third party site verification it’s pretty bloody obvious.
Good finsubs are not bad with money. My serving doesn't come from a place of addiction. I source the cheapest deals, use cashback websites and earn extra income to better serve. Being good with money makes you a better sub.
I have agoraphobia (fear of wide open spaces) which has been a big source of upset the past year. I faced my motorway fear twice today which I am proud of, with manageable panic.
Enchantress is the very best at genuine d/s interactions. If you put in the work she will reciprocate. You won't be disappointed so take the first step and apply!
Currently accepting new D/s dynamic applications!
Each relationship is built to be unique and different!
Some of kinks included in My dynamics are:
TPE (phone, budgeting, food, social life, sleep, etc.)
Chastity
I’ll also allow just plane old simple Cash cows to serve Me
Its been a really lovely evening on findom/femdom twitter. I'm really new to kink, and hesitant to interact on here before but its been lovely and wholesome talking to other subs. Back to my vanilla job tomorrow
#findom
#femdom
@HouseOfDouleur
Lol this has to be a troll, 8 hours for the effort that goes into a session is ridiculous. Would you give any other talented service provider 8 hours notice?
@HouseOfDouleur
Lifestyle involves financial, I dont see how it could be any other way. Lifestyle for me means supporting your dominant in all aspects of life that she may need/want your support, it’s not connected to kink exchange or transactional.
Weighed myself after months and surprised to find i’ve actually lost weight and in normal bmi again. Just goes to show what positive TPE can do
#chastity
#tpe
#findom
#domme
@GoddessUrja
@Fiyasohollywood
I think some of it's social conditioning. One of my friends received comments on dating someone *younger" despite the age gap being 26 F 24M
Findom and Femdom is not all “punch yourself in the balls and send me twenty” it’s also your domme setting you a task of writing poetry around your submission.
#chastity
#tpe
#femdom
#findom
#domme
Just got home. I struggled with London and the motorway but I did get through it so trying to tell myself to be proud. Had a lovely time going to museums and seeing the Machinal and Hadestown. Now back to sacrifice for my world
@the_enchantr3ss
@cruelxmistress
It’s perfectly fine for a twitter domme to not want to date the subs who interact with them. But to consider the thought of dating any “submissive” as gross or disgusting is pretty telling they aren’t a dominant or have respect for submission.
I’m a desperate little slut and I had a hands free orgasm. Ive been instructed to publicly acknowledge it as punishment for dissapointing
@the_enchantr3ss
I need to do better.
It's really horrible having an anxiety depression mix. Things that would help my depression take so much effort to overcome the anxiety. That being said I managed a 10k outside today.
I’m a little drunk right now, but I’ve thought I might be trans for over 10 years. Ive never socially identified or been comfortable in the role of a man and if there was an instant gender swap option I would be a woman in a heartbeat.
@yesmisserika_
Follow the sizing guide on house of denial and get the correct ring size, it is much more important than the length of the cage. Take it slow when starting out and wear it for progressively longer each time. Dont try and sleep with it on immediately.
If anyone knows of any active engagement groups that allow sub drops, let me know. I am a very active like and retweeter (atleast one session of catching up a day). Must be one that age verifies and no race or ageplay.
if you’re active findom twitter, drop your top 3 kinks + 1 hobby outside of findom .
top 3 kinks for Me;
• Chastity
• Soft Domination
• TPE
1 hobby: Running
if you’re active findom twitter, drop your top 3 kinks + 1 hobby outside of findom .
top 3 kinks for Me;
• findom
• tease & denial
• political femdom
1 hobby;
video games
@GoddessEdenNoir
I see kink as sort of therapy in a way, but no I see a therapist monthly. It’s not fair on subs to use their domme as a proto therapist.
I think it’s time to admit to myself i’m not bi, I think probably the best word to describe me is heteroflexible. Im attracted to feminine presenting men (femboys 😂) non binary and transwomen. Only once every so often will I be attactred to a masc man.
With agoraphobia it is honestly so demoralising and frustrating when you do exposure therapy daily and see no results. Today though I took a route I hadn't taken for a few days and clearly felt a notable improvement.
@stonercashslut
I think many good finsubs are looking for someone genuine and unique that is willing to build a relationship/dynamic. Kinster finsubs are just looking for a fantasy quick fix
@FinGoddessSash
It’s gross, especially the subs that want to bring their partner into it by having the domme “make fun and humiliate her”. If you arent being fulfilled have a proper convo with your partner or break up.
@AnamPriestess
I think a bit of both. I definitely have issues with people pleasing, but I can remember from an early age I enjoyed doing things for women in my life and supporting them.
Tomorrow is
@the_enchantr3ss
birthday. The most important day of the year (atleast for me). There is still time to send to make her birthday just that little bit more amazing.
Having a clear out, which betas wants My second hand thongs, huh???
I know there’s plenty of you who would love to play dress up in them and try to smell My scent underneath the fabric softener 😉😂
So desperate… 👀😈
seriously tho, selling as a bundle or Individually 😌
The anti trans weirdos on this app are something else. A stabbing at a school nearish me and so many top comments are about whether the person doing the stabbing was trans. There's literally nothing to suggest that.
Will be away from Twitter until Wednesday night for a London trip that is
@the_enchantr3ss
approved. Big deal for me in terms of driving on the motorway so here's hoping it goes well.
So excited for My Birthday, I want this one to be My biggest yet since joining the BDSM community!
I have numerous wishlist pages for you to order directly from or contribute financially!
@oncloud_e
It takes alot of courage and the building up self esteem to leave an abusive relationship. It’s a huge emotional drop regardless of how awful the abuse is. It’s why it takes multiple attempts to leave.
@GoddessUrja
Don't keep your money in a bog standard current account. Its incredibly easy to open an easy access saver and earn interest (uk advice but assume it applies in the US)
@Rozellaspet
@Born_to_serve_
I'm different as an owned sub that just retweets to help out to support my owner, but yes I dont think its good etiquette to be rude to rtsubs that would probably be happy to engage if asked nicely. Unless they like being spoken to that way.
@DemiDevil65
Revolut you can do anonymous payment links up to a certain amount per month. Thats what I used to send to my domme initially. I think throne is another option?
@GoddessJaz_xx
In some ways these long term dynamics are very healing. I need both the humiliation/degradation alongside the more vanilla chats and heavy praise when I have achieved something good in my vanilla life.