hey, a small reminder that we all started somewhere & if youโre not making $ on findom yet, itโs okay.
Iโve seen a lot of these comments on my posts recently, but donโt discourage yourself. focus on your brand, educating yourself about kink/fetishes & what you want.
but, Iโllโฆ
if you find yourself on your dommeโs wishtender page, hereโs some easy steps for you.
send the minimum (initial/tribute), refresh โณ
send the biggest amount
refresh โณ
send again
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send again
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send again
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send again
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send againโฆ
โI donโt want to just be treated as a walletโ
when have you ever decided to check up on your domme & have an intellectual conversation outside of kink & sending? maybe that will fix your problems, but for now on, stay quiet & remain a wallet
the best kind of subs are the one's that send without being asked to, the one's that check in with you and the one's that miss you on your offline days & don't suddenly "forget you"
I swear me and every neurodivergent domme (esp autistic/adhd) ask for clarity from subs and they take it as it being confrontational or punishmentโฆ
can neurotypical subs understand that BDSM is all about communication and that we genuinely want clear communication during aโฆ
iโm honestly curious how many dommes in the community genuinely think theyโre following me because I keep popping up on their feed.
hi, iโm plague and I want more mutuals!
natural engagement/networking tip! the amount of followers you have doesnโt โ engagement.
I learned this when I had a bigger brand with 20K+ followers, but I wasnโt getting as much traction as I do now with a smaller account.
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tips:
โขengage with your community, spreadโฆ
you know whatโs dominant? removing yourself from situations, walking away from people and revoking whatโs bad for you. thereโs dominance in that, thereโs dominance in giving yourself peace and not complying to anyone but yourself.
iโve reflected on my actions on how iโve leftโฆ
broke finsubs should know that even if they canโt serve a domme they want to serve properly, they should understand commitment of sending whatever they can, even if itโs not an extraordinary large send is better than sending absolutely nothing.
of course, I find it disgustingโฆ
I have a lot of mutuals who follow
@FanSupportApp
& they should immediately unfollow & block.
in my opinion, they are not SW friendly, they implement findom as bait on their page (which is not allowed on their platform btw) and have been problematic from the very day theyโฆ
subs should always send extra to disabled dommes, we consistently struggle physically or mentally daily.
it is very hard for us to keep up with the rest of the findom community, but we still somehow manage it all despite not having the spoons for it
disabled + "mentally ill" content creators or dommes/swers in this case, always have to do the extra work. so if we're cooking, we are cooking, because it is physically and mentally taxing & impossible for us on most days. we are not typical for multiple reasons.
it takes timeโฆ
ok, iโm so tired of hearing the โitโs not dominant if you message subs firstโ rhetoric because you obviously didnโt grow up in a time where men would harass you on facebook and constantly send you messages over and over again about bobs and vagen. maybe, just maybe, I want to doโฆ
I hate to admit it, but growing up poor and now having access to a lot of money, I still have a scarcity mindset with finances.
healing your trauma with money takes a while, even now, you might even find yourself thinking that everything is fake and it will all go back to 0 &โฆ
all it takes is six months of dedication in any online business. 6 months to change your entire lifestyle, your income, your mental health, your ego.
you wonโt be rich overnight, but youโll start accumulating abundance and a ambitious mindset once you realize anything isโฆ
iโll send $500 to dommes with bigger accounts who donโt take orders from a man & go out of their way to mass report other dommes whoโve been harassed by that same man.
iโm sorry but itโs always peers before subs. if you think for a second iโll side with a subโs gross behavior just because heโs sent thousands, youโre funny.
yes, this is a subtweet.
dommes, be proud of how far youโve come, iโm sure there was many times in the past that you were doubting yourself when you first started. but you kept pushing and you started seeing the changes, you saw that it was possible & here you are, take that moment to reflect, youโreโฆ
manifesting a lot more abundance & wealth for every single domme who deserves it, for POC dommes, for dommes who grew up poor & disabled dommes. itโs already ours.
I want to bring this up, because despite being paid to literally exist, yes that's the motto, but you need to reach that point.
you need to realize that you need to be uncomfortable for a few years in order to gain momentum, eyes on you & make money for your worth. you need toโฆ
I need baby dommes to understand there's no point in waiting around and playing the long-game with a sub. if the sub has never sent to begin with, there's no point in having a long-game with them. block them and move on. they are sticking around in order to mooch off of freeโฆ
hello, iโve had a very hard time with engagement due to you know what (my account was sent to the ultimate shadow-realm for two weeks) so with that said, yes iโm back! iโm finally out, but I do want to conduct an engagement test, so if you see this say hello & use thisโฆ
I love this community because not only have I made a literal career out of taking $ from men, iโve also met amazing peers, made friends & even learned from subs & their experiences with conceptual conversations.
Iโve gained a good flow of money (abundance), stability, amazingโฆ
findom is not a competitive place. if for a minute you feel threatened, you're not made for this space. findom has shown me that it has it's ups and downs just like any other community. but kink & fetish will always be a thing, meaning there's not a limit on how many subs are outโฆ
your reminder that high-count followers doesn't mean anything unless you're fully engaged with your community and clients. I've destroyed so many brands and accounts multiple times because I didn't understand how important it was to really be engaging and take care of my work inโฆ
s*x workers are always defending other women, but the women who donโt defend us are those who end up with men who consume our content & disrespect SWโs on a daily basis including their wife/ girlfriend.
you donโt have to respect our work and what we do, but please respectโฆ
s*x work & findom/femdom is not for you if you decide to become a s*x worker just because tiktok said itโs easy money.
the same goes for anything else thatโs on there. make your own personal research & learn from those who are experienced & educated in said fields.
I love being a domme because it allows me to spoil myself in ways I haven't before, like making my life way easier and luxurious.
i'm coming from a place where life has always been in hard mode for Me, so to have the opposite now is truly fascinating but also very muchโฆ
โitโs tacky that youโre messaging meโ
hm? iโm pretty sure retweeting + liking my content when youโre obviously a sub is tacky, keep your mouth shut ugly. I do what I want on my own page.
normalize dommes being stinky and that itโs normal they havenโt done their house chores & errands, because of bad mental health.
domme or sub, it doesnโt matter, it happens to everyone. I just keep myself accountable and get to it, but sometimes days can go by and thatโs becauseโฆ
neurodivergent people canโt learn habits, so they to force themselves with tasks in order to get stuff done.
so with that said, a neurodivergent domme knows how to task you the best because we force ourselves with tasks on a daily lol
hi, this is your reminder that anybody and I mean anyone can lie to you.
if your peers can do it to your face, do you really think a sub you barely know will say the truth to you? yes, even if youโve established a long term dynamic.
anyway, iโm not here to bring fear, but iโmโฆ
it literally takes two seconds of your day to support your peers!
I donโt understand why so many people come on to this website and choose not to interact with their mutuals &/or peers?
the animosity is weird & engagement does help your peers be found by potentialโฆ
sometimes i think itโs spammy but i love liking and interacting with all the dommes i follow. iโm hoping it changes my algorithm to only see my moots and iโm also hoping it makes their day a little bit better. and like
@imladyplague
says, it doesnโt cost anything to like a post
itโs important to cut off owned subs who donโt respect you or cross your boundaries, because better ones always come right after. I had a sub that would relentlessly message me every single day for advice & would go off the rails when I wasnโt around. I had this sub for nearly aโฆ
don't hate those who are staying on a corrupted platform if they're in survival, question those who have the money and attention to switch off to anything with ease.
I guess you can say, iโm a seasoned s*x worker & iโve done โbaby/ rookie s*x workerโ mistakes myself & oh, did I learn my mistakes.
which is why I try and advocate advice whenever I can, because things can come haunt you down the line.
hereโs some tips from my mistakes &โฆ
I swear it's always the one's who don't make money on findom or have 0 natural engagement that will give you the most unsolicited advice and will never be educated on anything and hang around in their own cliques bullying peers for no reason.