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An outlier | A unicorn | Author of award winning novel #HereComesTheGayKing | MA Journalism from @stellenboschuni | PhD Candidate Media Studies @unisa

Tzaneen | Pretoria | ZA 🇿🇦
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
5 months
Get your copy of the award winning novel #HereComestheGayKing . Details on the poster.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
My daughter’s move to Pretoria just got real as academic yr resumes next week. Am I ready for this responsibility of raising her to become the best she can be? Being a primary caregiver sounds scary. I’m scared. Dear God, I’m weak, let your power rest in me #SingleFatherDiaries
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
My fatherhood experience [A thread] #FathersDay Being a father to my daughter Keitumetse has been the most challenging yet rewarding experience of my life. I’ve literally been to the end of the world & faced many storms trying to be a father she would one day be proud of.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
For the first time in what seemed like forever 😭😭😭 🥺🥺🥺 😍😍😍 ❤️❤️❤️
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
I’m a proud dad after honouring my appointment at my daughter’s school with her physiotherapist 🥹 🥲 ❤️
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
I miss winter
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
The first thing I do when I go eye shopping is to check the boot space because my daughter’s wheelchair. Khawuyenze lapho Thixo wami ndiyacenga. Nani there by @BMW_SA please sponsor this single father & his baby girl for at least 3 months ndiyacenga 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
For the very first time in her life, baby girl is controlling her head movement tonight. The 7 days and 7 nights in hospital were worth it. This is a small victory for us…We thank God even for such victories too. I never thought I would live to see this day! Ebenezer 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
The birthday Queen The cake
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
Only the hardest of hearts can fail to be moved by MacG’s proposal to his now fiancé. She previously said no to his proposal three times already but tonight she said YES ❤️😭😢😘🥰😍❤️🎉🎉 #PodcastAndChill #RoadTo1Million
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
6 months
During an award ceremony at school today, we got a certificate for great conduct.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
Black Coffee sorted Enhle Mbali out and so did MacG. There was not even a mention of her name. It was all about his life and career as a musician. #podcastandchillwithmacg
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
A special run for my baby girl who turns 12 today.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
10 months
Being a single father to a special needs teenage baby girl is really not for the fainthearted. The experience will put you through a litmus test. My daughter makes it worth my while though.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
We just bought new pyjamas from @WOOLWORTHS_SA . Baby girl said I must tweet Woolies to show them. Soon she will need to actually open an Instagram account this one ☺️☺️☺️
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
@AbednegoChauke @mohale_motaung Mohale and Somizi are human too like the rest of us. Let Mohale deal with this in his own way. If him asking his more 200k followers for prayers is what he feels like asking, please let him be. If you can’t help someone, at least don’t hurt them. Please don’t add salt to injury
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
5 years
She told me she wants a birthday cake with a fairytale princess for her party at school today. I told her she’s my fairytale princess and the result is a cake animated with my fairytale princess 🎊🎂🎉🎁👑
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
The university of the land @unisa has just confirmed I will be graduating with my BA Honours in Theory of Literature. Now, 5th degree achieved ☺️☺️☺️
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
My daughter loves pictures
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
Happy birthday to my baby girl as she hits 11 today, thus firmly ushering in her pre-teens. The past 11 years rearranged & refined me as my life took a 360 degrees turn. Ebenezer 🎉🎉🎉
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
7 months
Happy birthday to my baby girl Keitumetse Mmone Mathomo Mokwena as she turns 13 today. Lucky thirteen looks good on you baby girl! A decisive young lady you are 🎉🎂 🎂 🎈
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
However, given everything that has happened, given another chance to walk the same road, I would do it all over again. For I believe being a father to daughter is my highest calling yet in this world.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
MacG, Sol and Ghost Lady on stage! It’s been worth the wait 🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾🎉🎉🎉 #PodcastAndChill #RoadTo1Million
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
I didn’t expect such an outpouring of love, support, encouragement & all that you are saying on this #FathersDay thread of mine. I was just simply sharing my story hoping to inspire at least 1 father out there. Thank you! Now y’all got me all emo...lemme go do a young 10 km run
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
Bra Bob Mabena sent me a DM a day after Father’s Day applauding me on my struggles in raising a child living with disability and subsequently followed me. Life is so fragile guys 💔💔💔 #RIPBobMabena
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
So beautiful 😍 #BaeGoals
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
3 months after she was born, she developed a condition called hydrocephalus. She would need a R90k brain surgery which Discovery medical aid refused to pay. I’ll never forgive them for what they put me through. They are no different from others tho. All are white monopoly capital
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
11 months
The first step out of the house when going for a run is the most difficult. Nonetheless, we keep pushing until we see results.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
When you photograph people in colour, you photograph their clothes. But when you photograph people in black and white, you photograph their souls - Ted Grant
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
Meet MacG’s mother everyone #PodcastAndChill . The Mother of all Chillers ❤️❤️❤️
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
I’m so devastated to wake up to the news of Cheslie Kryst’s untimely passing. As soon as I read the news, all I could think about was how Zozibini Tunzi is taking this, especially since she was so kind to Zozi when she was in the US, & they formed great friendship. RIP Cheslie 🕊
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
I miss the times I used to be super fit. Now these clothes are all small.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
15 days
Flat stomach
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
Nonconformity as decoloniality. Today I’m graduating with my 5th degree ☺️☺️☺️
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
We are here to smoke the peace pipe 😜
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
8 months
Just this year alone, we have been through enough to last us an entire lifetime…I’m really drained, emotionally and physically! I’m taking her to her mother for school holidays two weeks early. The punches I been taking in the background are enough. I just want to exhale for the…
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
5 years
Aunty Pat said it fam #MmusiMaimane
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
MacG introduces his team and forgets Fact Checker and audience demands Fact Checker come on stage #PodcastAndChill
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
Who is still up
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
😍😍😍 ❤️❤️❤️ 🎊🎉🎈
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
Dear God, when you bless others, also please remember me...
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
11 months
Tjeseees. What a dramatic finish #ComradesMarathon2023
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
Between late 2016 & mid 2018, my finances took a nosedive because I was trying to save my daughter’s life. In between everything...trying to live my life, I lost romantic relationships...some loved my daughter...some didn’t like her. I would make excuses when friends warned me.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
A walk to the shops, a chill at the car. Daddy-daughter moments
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
This could be us, but y’all are sleeping on me 😜😍❤️🎈🎉
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
I miss swimming 🏊🏾‍♂️💦
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
Can you handle me when I’m on vacation?
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
My daughter has a boyfriend 😂😂😂
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
Unisa has already recruited me to do my PhD here and want to offer me a bursary so they can change my title from Mr to Dr. Plus, my supervisor & I are already on WhatsApp basis ✊🏾☺️
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
Today, I just want to thank God for adding another year to my life. 36 years of Grace 🎉🎉😍
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
📍 For chillers at home who couldn’t make it tonight #PodcastAndChill #RoadTo1Million
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
I thought I would teach my daughter about the world, turns out I’m teaching the world about her.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
Can I dive in?
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
I miss running
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
Today I’ve taken the painful decision to emancipate myself from my family due to my mother’s continued homophobia against me.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
8 months
He put on quite a show #Springboks #RSA #RSAvROM
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
#ShakaiLembeMzansi is arguably the best production to ever come out of South Africa in our recent times. The historical setting (time), language use, music, costumes & cinematography are outta this world. Well done to the production team & the cast. Really a story for the ages!
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
What’s being said here? ☹️ #CrownAwards2019
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
Ntombikayise! We are out for a walk.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
There was a time I was really thin. I don’t know what to do to get my thin back 🤔
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
I love swimming 🏊🏾‍♂️
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
5 years
I am now officially taking new job offers while I’m bracing myself for the indomitable PhD. African child, it is possible. #MakistoGraduates #SUGrads #MakeEducationFashionable #BeInspired
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
Order your copy of #HereComesTheGayKing for R330. Free shipping across South Africa. Send ewallet, cashsend or Discovery and Capitec EFT using 0765633725. Afterwards DM for delivery details.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
7 months
Blueberry and cheesecake for my teenager as she turns 13. It seems like it was yesterday when she was born not so long ago on 13 October 2010 🎂
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
Would you risk it all for me?
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
His answers are yes & amen. Akwanele ukubonga kwami. Besengithi sekuvaliwe... Besengithi ngeke salunga. Zincane izibongo zami. Ngiyabonga Nkosi yezulu nomhlaba 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
On the occasion of my daughter Keitumetse Mmone Mathomo Mokwena’s 11th birthday before daddy spends the whole day in work meetings. Happy birthday my princess 👑👑 👑 🎉🎉🎉 Ebenezer 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
10 months
I miss the days I used to be thin. Right now this t-shirt and tights are huge I can’t even fit in them no more. Hamstring injury is really doing me dirty. How the mighty have fallen.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
In between my daughter’s never ending hospitalisations and theatre visits for never ending operations in 2011 & between 2016 & 2018, a handful of good Samaritans reached out to me to assist financially with all the trips I had to do taking my daughter to all kinds of specialists
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
Is he not bi-curious at least? 🫣
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3 years
What you see is what you get.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
@paballo_patsa Imagine if Phathu Makwarela never worked as a writer at Muvhango where he met Sindi Dlathu. Writers also deserve their dues #TheRiver1Magic
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
Chillers don’t wanna hear any serious questions 😂 #PodcastAndChill #RoadTo1Million
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
Ntombikayise, my daughter is her father’s daughter.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
In between, there was a court case that lasted for a good 5 years (2012-2017) resulting in a host of health problems for me. Ultimately...no one could withstand all the challenges that came with me trying to raise and provide for, and be there for my quadriplegic daughter.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
7 months
This could be us, but y’all are sleeping on me.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
8 months
Would you give me a chance?
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
A veil is lifted, and a whole new perspective is born.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
What a beauty 😍😍😍
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2 years
🕯️🕯️🕯️
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
Not that I blame them; my issues were just simply too complex for anyone to handle, myself included. So much so that at some point I got admitted to a psychiatric ward in hospital, diagnosed with major depression.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
Ntombi kayise. For the first time since 2010, we are gonna spend Christmas together. Last time we were together on Christmas Day was in 2010.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
Don’t judge a tree by its size, but by the size of the fruit it produces.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
I am Tswana by blood and grew up Pedi. I’ve a good mind of going to buy myself two bottles of water at Clicks there Boulders dressed like this & go to give Jose Maponyane coupla lessons about embracing all African identities. Eurocentrism must fall and Afrocentrism must rise ✊🏾✊🏾
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
3 years
One day is one day
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9 months
Phoyisa Bae
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
Cape Town is always amazing.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
Not sure if I posted this one. Goosebumps moment this was #PodcastAndChill
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
1 year
Education is the manifestation of the perfection already existing in a man. 5th degree obtained. What’s next for me now? 🤔
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 months
Dear God, thank you for making me handsome, but I’m still single.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
9 months
Dawn Thandeka King! That’s the tweet! #ShakaiLembeMzansi
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
It’s been a whirlwind raising her and being a present father. An experience I treasure the most. Yet, if I knew beforehand what would lie ahead before she was conceived, I would have elected not to be a father.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
4 years
My two weeks leave is over. I am back to serving and protecting to ensure “all people in are and feel safe”.
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Dimakatso David Mokwena (Phoyisa Bae)
2 years
My daughter: Dad, for my #BraveItuTurns10 birthday, I want a cake with the most beautiful princess on it. Me: Got you baby girl; say no more!
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