To all those comments that she’s with me for the money, it’s incredibly insulting towards her and you need to do some introspection, like who hurt you? What binds us is love, care and affection for one another. I hope you all get to experience the love we have for one another ❤️
Shame man. If you’re ever in this situation, let the current take you out, don’t fight it just keep your head above water, when you feel it’s no longer pushing you out then swim diagonally for about 20 to 30 m (about 1 to 2 min swimming time) then head back for the shore.
Friend 1 has an Audi A3
Friend 2 has a Mazda
Friend 2 sees it, likes Audi and buys Q2
Friend 2 realizes she can’t afford Q2 & sells it
Friend 1 thinks Friend 2 bought Q2 to one up her & ends friendship
Female friendships are so fickle 😅
Medical Aid isn't a scam guys. When you truly need it, it comes through. Finally got all the claims for my wife and sons hospital stay and it clocked in at just under R400K. My medical aid covered all of it. No co-pays or short payment on accounts. Every last cent was covered.
Ps: swimming in your pool at home and swimming in the ocean are two very different things. As TLC sang, please stick to the rivers and lakes that you’re used to 🙏🏾
The arrogance and disrespect of assuming you knew my cousin more than her family, more than her father. You should be ashamed of yourself. I’m truly sick and tired of people like you. Rather keep your opinions to yourself!!
People wanted to know the cause of his passing for closure so I informed you. Now people are wanting us to investigate the cause of the cause of his passing… and report back, hayi niyahlanya!
Our helper has been off sick for the last week and sent her sister to fill in for her. I feel like her sister is trying to steal her job. No one has ever cleaned this house so well, and she’s fast. She’s even doing things that we ask the gardener to do like wash down the patio 😅
So pre-retirement, the her parents divorced and mom was entitled to a portion of dad’s pension. Mom never went to OM to claim it before he retired. When he retired, he didn’t tell OM that some of his pension belongs to his ex and cashed it out as per normal….(1)
You chose a preschool that’s R82k per year for a 3yr old and you’re “complaining” about a R22k deposit…yeah I don’t buy it. If you’re sending your child to that kinda school you’ve done extensive research, you’ve always known the deposit, I rate your humble bragging
Looks like both the mom and dad are to blame here as OM had no way of knowing about the divorce….they should have sued the dad too in my view as he was shady…also he probably spent much of the cash component so yeah it’s a tough one for OM to sort out…End
@BabXaba
@Moshe_August
No one said 22k is not a lot of money, also why say you won’t explain then explain 🥱 Mina ngithi, it’s fake surprise to garner sympathy whilst also displaying your ability to afford a very expensive preschool “showing-off”. Anyways, hold off on the renovations and pay those fees
Find a partner who celebrates your hobbies, even if they don’t join in. My wife doesn’t quite get my love of cigars and whiskey but she embraces my love for them and celebrates it with me, even when she rolls her eyes when I come home with a couple bottles or a box or two
@BabXaba
@Moshe_August
If you can afford, then why say “where can I sell my body parts” 😂🤣 showing off is fine, just do it proudly. Anyways, Happy for you my brother, you’ve clearly been blessed. All the best for the little one at their new school and for your cousin.
If you have a Nanny or Maid that looks after your kids, please invest in a Pediatric First Aid and CPR course for her. They cost btwn R1,5k and R3k and it’s worth every cent! Good idea for you to take the course as well and most places give discounts for each additional person.
They go to court, get an order that says OM must pay but OM probably says “hold on, it’s not that easy, we have certain other laws and tax to comply with”.. Daughter takes this as, OM doesn’t want to pay and starts a social media storm…. (3)….
When the ex-wife goes to claim, she’s probably told “hey, we didn’t know about the divorce decree so we administered the monies per normal, let’s see how we can resolve this cos your ex-husband was shady too and we can’t just pay your share out of the annuity”…..(2)
You take a personal loan over 5yrs, but then you pay it off in under 24 months so they lose out on 3 yrs of interest. The bank now warns other creditors that “hey, this guy will settle his account early and u won’t make $ off him”, score goes ⬇️ cos now you’re not a cash cow 🫤
@liefieB
She thinks her former friend was trying to up stage her and show that she is better by getting a bigger Audi but that didn’t work out. Essentially I think she thinks her friend was jealous and competing with her
@dladla_miss
Actually yes, when I was 16 my friends and I got caught in a rip current. Did exactly this and we were fine. We are all strong swimmers too so that helped
@Kokoleo_zn
I won't even lie, I would not maintain a damn thing lol id buy a new house, set my kids up with a trust, quit my job, travel for 6 months and then pursue my dream of being a property developer
@TheeMadV
As if you are going out to sea. I know it sounds weird but if you do, you get out of the channel of the current. You can also swim parallel to the beach but going diagonally has the advantage of there being calmer waters the futher out you go but you
Told my daughter that my new years resolution was to lose more weight and get healthier and then asked her what hers is and she replied “I want you to get healthier too”. That hit me like a ton of bricks, I even ahead a tear. I’ve gotta stick to it this year, for Her
I don’t get why Curro gets so much hate on this app. They are merely filling a gap in the market created by Government. They service the parents who want better than Gov education but can’t afford to pay R150k plus per year for school.
@Call_Me_RhiRhi
Yes, that’s why one usually takes the divorce decree and hands it to the institution and asks them to divide the pension as per the decree. This doesn’t happen automatically you have to do it yourself
@TshepiMoney
@PMoeketsi91
you know that you have to contact her through her attorney after the last time you brought this issue to social media. I suggest you do so.
Coincidences occur so you may be telling the truth, but a better response would have been:
“Hey Lisa, Gr8 minds think alike, please send me your contact info as I’d like to send you a Fieldbar x MaXhosa cooler of your choice. If you have any more great ideas, let’s sit and chat”
Always love to hear and read tons of ideas people have to bounce around of our work, some reach my eyeballs and ears, some don’t. Here’s how it went down with the
@MaXhosaAfrica
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@FieldbarCompany
collab.:
@MbalzzMafu
@JustFoza
during the courting stage 100%, but once you have agreed to entre into a relationship with the guy, you're committing to being an equal partner in the relationship, to love and support him etc. If all you're going to do is take, rather decline the request to be his gf simple.
@simplymilai
@Neo_skhandisa
Thats because they are on plans that pay only 100% of their rate but visit doctors who charge more than the scheme rate and must pay the difference. Always ask up front of they charge he scheme rate or above, or pick a plan that pays 200% or 300% of the rate
A friend of mine had her entire high school and tertiary education paid from a trust set up by grandparents. They weren't even rich, they just invested early and time did the rest.... Invest wisely as soon as you can, your grandkids will thank you for it
During lunch, we were complaining about the cost of private school education and how impossible it is to afford them as an employee, was told private school fees was never meant to come from a salary, it was meant to come from a trust fund set up by grandparents 😭😭
I don’t get why people still don’t understand that cheating has nothing to do with how beautiful or amazing the partner is. It’s all about the cheater, his or her ego and or self esteem, period!
What a year it’s been! Started off by getting engaged, paid Lobola, had a traditional and white wedding and got promoted to top it all off!! God answered my prayers and over delivered!! May 2023 bring on even bigger and better blessings!!
That awkward moment when your lawyer quotes a part of an Act which proves you're breaching the provisions of the Act then continues to argue you aren't breaching the Act 😅😅
1. No one will fight for you, you have to fight for yourself.
2. Your colleagues aren’t your friends.
3. No matter how comfortable you are, stay professional.
4. Someone is always watching so do your best
Going to therapy as a teen really gave me the tools to deal with anything that comes my way and I’ll be forever grateful to my parents for sending me even though at the time I didn’t see the need to go.