I'd suggest anybody berating chronically ill people for using social media to check their own (health) privilege and question if they themselves used social media more during lockdowns.
Move on to what? A more isolated life with an untreated disease?
#pwME
#LongCovid
The idea that bedbound
#pwME
are 'giving in' to illness is insulting. It's not a choice. Why do healthy non-disabled public need to feel we're not giving in? This is the wrong disease for disability inspo. The media should stop peddling this
#ME
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#MEcfs
POTS isn't 'rare'. It's a commonly undx condition because Drs think it's rare. If people keep saying it's rare then they won't look for it and 'rare' become self-fulfilling prophesy. Tachycardia was put down to anxiety in my case before tilt table test confirmed
#POTS
@hannahfearn
Please could you write about the reasons that some disabled people can't 'just go & get it done'. Three years overdue. Bedridden. No one will do it at home. Spoken to MP to no end. Inequality of healthcare for people bedridden/ housebound - we are missing from this narrative.
Myalgic Encephalomyelitis isn't a self-improvement opportunity. I've learnt things I wish I'd never had to know, and I've learnt quite enough now, thank you. It shouldn't be a patient's job to do all the learning - that's what doctors are for.
#LearnFromME
#MEcfs
#pwME
#MedEd
Everyone needs to read this.
Health and able-bodiedness is only ever temporary and anybody suggesting taking benefits away from sick and disabled people unable to work would do well to remember that.
So angry about being bedridden I don't know what to do with it. Keep shouting about it even when I know most people have stopped listening.
I'm not here because of a disease. I'm here because politics and medicine wilfully neglected it.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#MEcfs
#pwME
Does it make people feel superior to think a person's organic disease is psychogenic? I'm not sure where it comes from - to decide, without any evidence, not to believe that someone is physically ill. I understand why psychs did it (money) but others?
#MEcfs
#pwME
#LCME
When someone is bedridden, they didn't just decide to go to bed. There's no choice due to severe muscle weakness and exertion causing deterioration (PEM/PESE).
Exertion for me is using my phone too much, coughing, laughing, crying.
#MEAwarenessDay
#MillionsMissing
#ME
#pwME
It seems that
#LongCovid
research keeps turning up with things that have already been seen in old
#ME
research/ autopsy - eg. hypercoagulation, and now ganglionitis.
Don't worry, ignoring it has only wasted decades of people's lives
#MEcfs
#ME
#LongCovid
#PASC
#MedTwitter
Being bedridden with vsME is nothing like being in bed healthy. It's not necessarily rest and comfort. It's pain and illness every day. It's being unable to stand or step. It's like a never-ending slow death.
It's not a nice lie down.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#pwME
#MEcfs
#ME
I'm sick of patient blaming, patient shaming, patient ridicule towards those desperately ill without any help from their country's health provider. Until you've been in the same situation, no one has the right to judge, whatever treatment they try
#pwME
#MEcfs
#chronicnneglect
@DrFrancesRyan
PIP isn't just for adaptations it's for the extra cost of simply being disabled in our society, which won't be magicked away with this policy.
Infuriating things about ME No 1 is that research was knowingly and purposefully neglected, and initial research buried, in favour of patient blaming, gaslight and denial in order to deny welfare benefits.
What an abject waste.
#MEAwarenessHour
#pwME
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
And if some of us have diseases that are wrongly classed as primary pain because the cause hasn't been found yet and exercise makes our disease worse? Exercise isn't the answer to everything
#drugshaming
#chronicpain
#exerciseshaming
I doubt there'll be a happy ending in my life as a result of ME.
At this point, I'd settle for a happy medium: Be able to move around house and garden, have visitors, converse, not feel like I'm dying, and be able to write.
#pwME
#mecfs
#severeME
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#ME
Suggesting severely ill bedbound people stay hopeful, positive, hang on etc. is unrealistic in a landscape of minimisation and biomedical research not happening fast enough. Saying so is empty platitude without advocacy and action.
Solid reasons pls.
#MyalgicE
#pwME
#pwLC
#ME
Aside from practical help, which isn't always possible, one of the best things you can do for a friend isolated because of
#ME
is simply to stay in touch. Just a quick 'hello' every now and then to help them feel wanted, and that they still belong.
#MEAwarenessWeek2022
#MEcfs
You can't 'help people back to work' if you've done nothing to treat or research the disease that's making them so ill they can't work. This logic seems to evade many politicians. Mental health care isn't the answer
#LabourConference2022
#chronicillness
#LongCovid
#MEcfs
#pwME
ME isn't 'tired'. It's a deficit of cellular energy. The process of making energy in the cells is not working properly. That's not the same as a healthy person feeling tired after activity.
'Everyone gets tired' was the first response I had from a friend after dx.
#pwME
My life hasn't been taken away by ME. It's been taken away by every single person complicit in defunding/ not funding research into the disease, and everyone culpable for spreading misinformation and stigma about it.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#MyalgicE
#pwME
#MEcfs
#SevereME
Severe
#ME
means having no imaginable future. It's about just trying to exist each day. I can't comprehend the future after almost 4 years of bedridden. How can I hope for anything when there are no treatments on the horizon? It's bleak
#MEAwarenessHour
#MEcfs
#pwME
#severeME
I wish I didn't have to spend any scraps of energy I (don't) have on following and trying to understand
#ME
research. It's too much, but I'm going to be 53 soon, I'm very severe, bedridden and hanging by a thread. I just want healthcare. It's 2022!
#MyalgicE
#MECFS
#ME
#pwME
@MetroUK_Life
If someone is doing their job, performing the duties they are paid to do and leaving work on time, that's not any kind of quitting. It's working. Saying otherwise likely perpetuates the problem.
Last time I...
Left the house: Sept 2020 (ambulance)
Sat in my garden: Sept 2018
Saw my family: Easter 2018
Had a shower: Feb 2018
Washed hair: Feb 2018
Paddled: Sept 2017
Read a book: 2018 (hard copy)
Socialised: Aug 2017
When will my Freedom Day be?
#MEAwarenessHour
#pwME
Blimey, this thread.
Claiming that you've never met anybody with the said illness so that means it can't be true, is quite a narrow worldview.
#pwME
#pwLC
#Fibromyalgia
@elle_carnitine
The whole idea of illness being a punishment is quite toxic - especially if the ill person isn't even centred as the person experiencing it! Obviously it does affect family but this is quite a stretch. This is her stuff.
In 2019 my dad died the day after
#MEAwarenessDay
and I couldn't go to his funeral. This year I've become my mum's carer-from-a-distance. No siblings and bedridden.
The people who delayed research have more to answer for than they'll ever know.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#pwME
Anyone who says patients are 'anti-recovery' is so far removed from our reality that they shouldn't be allowed anywhere near patients. To show such cruel disregard is anti-patient, self-serving and egregious.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#pwME
#LongCovid
#LightningProcess
I've been mostly bedridden for 4.5 yrs and completely bedridden for 3.5 yrs. For me that means I can't bear weight through my legs or get myself out of bed. I can sit up aided for v short periods of time but I can't get myself to upright.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#pwME
#MEcfs
Wholly damaging article by
@guardian
#PwME
don't have 'sensitivities' to our disease being treated as psychogenic, we know from scientific literature that it isn't. Report on biomedical research as you did two days ago. Stop enabling our abuse. People have died.
#MyE
Severe/ very severe ME is your life, hopes and dreams being over but still being alive enough to experience the ongoing loss. It's to watch from the sidelines not knowing whether you'll ever be part of the game again.
#MEAwarenessHour
#pwME
Exercise for all diseases evangelists are likely coming from a place of health privilege having never experienced intractable severe chronic pain. It is a holier-than-thou-everyone-else-is-lazy attitude with no knowledge of diseases for which exercise exacerbates
#chronicpain
4.5 yrs today since I became bedbound. Not doing well. Wondering how much longer I can do this. I told myself 5 yrs at about 3 mths in. I know things unlikely to return to 'before' times, but I'd like the physical suffering gone.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#pwME
#MEcfs
#severeME
If anyone responds to
#UrgentNormalSyndrome
with 'but people just want to get on with their lives'.
'People' include elderly, CEV, immunosuppressed, chronically ill, disabled folks who now can't get on with their lives because majority are pretending C is over.
#CovidIsNotOver
Holiday weekends can be difficult for people with chronic illness/ shielding. For me, the isolation that comes with being bedridden feels more acute when families gather and I sense people out and about doing nice things, parties etc
#pwME
#severeME
#mecfs
#ME
#NEISvoid
August 8: Severe ME Understanding and Remembrance Day. Chosen for Sofia Mirza d. 2005. Today is my 1,900th day bedbound needing personal care. I've shared photos for the last 3 years. No changes in political urgency to help us.
#SevereMEDay
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#pwME
My usual GP has been ace over the past couple of years. Just spoken to them and they said that the profession needs to hold its hands up and admit that it has been wrong for a long time about ME. Attitudes need to change fast.
#NICEguideline
#MedTwitter
#MedEd
#pwME
#MEcfs
1 I've decided not to collude with the preferred illusion that I'm not severely ill. If someone asks me how I am, I tell them the truth. If someone says they I hope I'm well, I say that, no, I'm not well. Each time I've done this, it brings no response
#pwME
#ME
#MEcfs
@hannahfearn
I think a lot of chronically ill and disabled people are struggling to want to vote Labour because of their disregard and erasure of us and recent benefit fraud propaganda. I feel politically disenfranchised now as a disabled person.
Pls can people stop with 'ME is a subset of long covid'. Sure, many will meet the criteria for ME as after any viral or infectious onset. Saying that a century-old disease *is a subset of a brand-new virus contributes to misunderstanding and erasure
#ME
#LCME
#PwME
#LongCovid
There's no such thing as a 'good day' when you have very severe ME, only degrees of bad days relative to one another. I'm bedridden all the time. I feel extremely ill all the time. Nothing good about that.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#pwME
#verysevereME
#mecfs
#ME
#DragonsDen
didn't take place in a vacuum. It took place after decades of willful neglect to fund research into the disease, leaving no treatments, desperate patients' suffering, and poor public perception. ME is exploitable because of its neglect, and that's what the BBC did.
When I had my latest relapse I was at one of the most positive and confident points of my life with everything to look forward to. My book had just been published. The positive thinking mantra simply does not correlate. I find it toxic.
#toxicpositivity
#MECFS
#MedTwitter
I wish I could go outside and feel the spring air on my skin. No idea if I'll ever be able to again because successive governments failed to fund research into my disease, choosing the cheaper option of psychologising it.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#MEcfs
#pwME
#grief
#severeME
The idea that
#pwme
are 'militant' is risible when some of us can't feed ourselves. Is any other patient group called this for asking for equality of healthcare and the human right not to be harmed by 'treatments'? It's intended to silence. Not happening.
#MEcfs
@Telegraph
#ME
Done some fairly adventurous things in my life - climbed massive trees, been behind the Iron Curtain, played music on live national radio, the big zip wire at the Eden Project! Strangely, I've never had a fear of everyday activities. Yet here I am bedridden 4 yrs.
#MEcfs
#pwME
We desperately need a protocol for hospital admissions/ 'hospital at home' for severe ME, and POTS. Too many people being mistreated/ disbelieved and conditions are not conducive to wellbeing. Hospitals should at least follow NICE guideline
#SaveCarlasLife
#ExposeMENow
This is my 6th NYE in bed. Nothing to plan or look forward to. Nothing of note from 2023 other than still being alive.
Not really looking forward to another year of existence like this. I just feel numb and sad about it.
#pwME
#severeME
#MyalgicEnceohalomyelitis
Complicit are the people laughing along, as were those who laughed along to the Gervais ME 'joke'. Not very original, and unnecessary ableism towards people losing their lives. A display of callous health privilege.
Apologise
#TheNewsQuiz
@TheNewsQuiz
“Let’s be honest, it’s never very hard to guess who’s going to get [Long Covid] is it? Know what I mean?” Comedian Simon Evans on BBC
@TheNewsQuiz
2nd week in a row that The News Quiz has mocked people with
#LongCovid
.
News Quiz should be mocking bigotry, not inciting it.
What is it with chronic illness vs people ill for short periods and the care and concern the latter receive from others? It's disproportionate to suffering. People stop engaging with the former and the latter are treated with great care? Make it make sense
#pwME
#chronicillness
There might not be official treatments for ME yet, but we deserve compassion, respect and mitigation of insufferable symptoms and comorbidities. Hospitals and local health trusts need to listen to doctors with experience. Do No Harm shouldn't mean leaving people to die
#pwME
Born on 30 April. I lived until I was 48 when my health gradually declined to bedridden semilife. That was 5yr ago. Last time I was able to do anything for my birthday was 2016 -Avebury (pic). I'd like a birthday TREATment for
#ME
#ResearchMEcfs
#pwME
#MEcfs
#severeME
#TreatME
On
#InternationalWomenDay
4 women are stuck in
@NHSuk
hospitals with very severe ME, not being treated adequately with their lives put at risk through there being no NHS protocol for severe ME.
It's 2024. We deserve better.
Please sign these petitions:
This article by
@MrTopple
gets to the crux of it all. Media should now be focusing on why we're in this situation in the first place, lived experiences, government and medical neglect, and why no NHS treatment pathways for us.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
I became in 93/ 94 after glandular fever. When I still wasn't better two years later my GP told me I was just unlucky. And that was that. Place the onus of the problem on the patient and leave them to it. It was ever thus.
30 years later and still no help.
#pwME
12 year old PWME, protesting in 1994. She would be 42 now. And still we have no treatments, no diagnostics, clinical care is abysmal, and patients struggle to get social and disability support. From the Summer 1994
#CFIDSChronicle
.
#MECFS
#LongCOVID
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It takes a special kind of dogmatic cruelty to keep insisting that ME and LC are 'all in the mind' while attempting to silence the community by calling MH stigma. It's wholly damaging to obfuscate biomedical science.
#myalgicencephalomyelitis
#MEcfs
#pwME
#LongCovid
#TreatME
The point is that there is NO safe or effective treatment for
#MECFS
yet because biomedical research has been woefully underfunded. That doesn't mean we should stick to treatments that we know harm people!! There is no logic to pausing for this reason
#NICEguidelines
#ME
Anyone house- or bed-bound could never have taken part in the PACE Trial. So there's no evidence whatsoever that it's efficacious for us. I wonder why severe patients were excluded - because they knew it couldn't work and maybe potential harm?
#severeME
#PACEtrial
#pwME
#MEcfs
Everyone used to do something before
#ME
or
#LongCovid
wrecked lives. But you'd think it was mainly a shocking shame for those who did sport/ fitness things. It is, but other losses are also a shocking shame and equally valid.
#pwME
#MEcfs
For 15+ years before I was diagnosed with POTS, I couldn't tolerate caffeine or alcohol. If I'd been out, I thought the reason I couldn't sleep and had fast HR was from sensory overload or over excitement! It would take until 3 or 4 a.m. to get to sleep.
#Vasodilators
#POTS
📢
#DontletMEdie
protest: There's no cure for
#mecfs
but we deserve med professionals to at least be educated in our disease, take advice with good grace from experts who know better, and do their utmost to save our lives when very severe/ hospitalised unable to eat.
@DHSCgovuk
I watched the moon landing and have lived through amazing scientific and tech changes. But in all that time we've failed to solve post-infectious chronic illness. That's because this world is disdainful towards those who stay ill. We are inconvenient
#meawarenesshour
#MEcfs
As a writer with v severe ME, I can't do deadlines. Otherwise I'd pitch to the G again. Therein lies problem with overall representation in the media of this disease. It's skewed unless folks write about others. Who gets to tell their story?
#MEcfs
#ME
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
Situations like Millies and Carla's make me terrified of the thought of being admitted to hospital. Until things change, I avoid going. Already I don't have equal access to NHS healthcare by being bedridden.
#SaveCarlasLife
#ExposeMENow
#pwME
#ProtestNICE4ME
#GETharms
@NICEComms
Publish the guideline without further delay
Rescind 2007 guideline immediately to prevent further harms from graded exercise therapy (GET)
Not bow to pressures from the royal colleges to keep treatments that have harmed and disabled
#pwME
The media think they're providing balance by rolling out so-called ME experts, who happen to be psychiatrists and whom nobody has heard of, but this is spreading harmful misinformation. Would they use climate change deniers as experts?
#MECFS
#stoptheharm
#pwME
#journalism
@MEAssociation
@itvnews
But brain fog is not caused by not using the brain, it's caused by the pathophysiology of the disease.
I can't believe £335,000 is being spent on this 'research'. That so much money was spent on this makes me lose hope. What a waste.
We need ME-trained palliative care. We need care funded by NHS CHC. At the moment we just have to get through the worst times with no medical help to alleviate the suffering. It's a cruel neglect. Is it any wonder that people take this route?
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
Hopefully one day people with severe
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
won't have to choose death to end their suffering because there will be effective treatments and knowledgeable clinicians to look after them, just as there are for other diseases.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#MECFS
Being bedridden, disabled & chronically ill, social media is the only way I can feel community and connection to the world outside my room. A medical paper posted here possibly saved my life last year! Staying. (Will explain later.)
#DisabilityTwitter
#pwME
#NEISvoid
#MEcfs
#ME
Trying to keep myself alive with this disease is too precarious. I want someone else to take charge and tell me what to take and if I'm doing anything wrong. How am I supposed to know? Still not back to pre autumn baseline (v severe then)
#mecfs
#pwME
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
At 48, my career was at a turning point and my 50s were meant to be spent pursuing this and exploring new opportunities. Then health deteriorated and
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
Life can be axed by
#severeME
at any age. Older, the less likely help in our lifetimes
#pwME
#MEcfs
"There is a psychological intervention that could improve the lives of people with ME/CFS: an apology and recognition of the harms they have suffered."
Thanks
@GeorgeMonbiot
for indictment of psychosocial approach to ME today.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
I might not always say something new or groundbreakingly useful about ME here. However, I only have two people I speak to in-person, and I'm unable to speak much at all. Posting is just communication, which I have very little of, and it's good for my well-being (mostly).
#pwME
This is horrendous. How can they not learn from mistakes that have ended up in people dying? They are completely ignoring the NICE guideline. The fact is there are no protocols in place for people with very severe ME and hospital admission. We need this.
#MedTwitter
#pwME
If I die, nobody will be able to say that I hid the fact that I had ME. I don't care whether it ruins an image of productivity or not. Some of us have nothing left to lose and staying quiet about it helps no one
#pwME
#MEAwarenessWeek
I don't think I've ever felt erasure as much as I do right now - the pandemic had a lot to do with that, amongst all the other BS of being chronically ill and living in one room year after year, and having illness that has been neglected
#DisabilityTwitter
#chronicillness
#pwME
When the NICE guideline is published, I hope doctors/GPs will realise that exercise has been bad advice and making
#MEcfs
patients worse. I worry that they will be on the defensive. I hope they will act with grace and respect
#medtwitter
#meded
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#pwme
Two people have messaged to say that BBC morning live TV programme will be discussing why people with ME have been ignored for so long. Does anyone know who the doctor on the programme is? Let's watch and tweet
#pwME
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#MECFS
#ME
#bbcmorninglive
Husband is now having to help with messaging and social media so I might not be here much. Struggling to use phone unless I'm lying down flat on my side and even then I probably shouldn't be trying. Stressful Christmas has impacted ongoing PEM.
I'm really lucky to have a view from my room here, but as time goes on I'm finding it harder and harder to live in bed. Feeling especially hemmed in for some reason at the moment. Haven't seen family for years, and there's too much loss.
#pwME
#myalgicEnceohalomyelituis
Recently got a Garmin watch, and discovered that when lying on my left side I'm never in 'rest', including when asleep. And 'body battery' only charged 5%. The change from orange to blue is when I woke up and was turned onto my left side.
Leftside sleeping it is, then.
#pwME
Don't know whether I should be using the last scraps of energy I have, in what are likely the last years of my life, to fight tooth and nail for my life.
This is the dystopian mobius strip that people with very/ severe
#ME
find themselves in.
#severeME
#MEcfs
#MedTwitter