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Paromita Bardoloi

2 months

The brilliant journalist @nilanjanab has come up with her new book on how Indian women navigate their lives. I was interviewed and a small part of the book has my story. This book is published by Penguin India . Now your girl is enshrined in a book.

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2 years

3 years back, I wanted to die. I literally prayed every night for my heartbeat to stop in the morning. I lost interest in everything. Today one of my clients said, "I thank your parents for giving birth to you. " I wept. Weather changes. Life does too.

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11 months

The girl is adopted from drought prone area, where both her parents died by suicide. She was rejected by many, until Sunny Leone and her husband adopted her. The boys are born through surrogacy Usama from Pak finds it funny that a small child abandoned by many found a loving home

Usama💀

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11 months

Tu smjha ?😎

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3 years

Read this. Again and again. And again.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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10 months

People don't recognize what a blessing it is to have a normal life. When you go to work, come back home, watch a movie, good health, ability to pay bills, sleep without heartaches. The day one thing goes missing, you will long back for the boring old days. Boring is a blessing.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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8 months

If all women were financially independent and had social acceptance. Most Indian women would have chosen to divorce. I repeat -MOST. Also your mother is with your father because she has nowhere to go.

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1 year

I laugh so much when parents of the groom say, "We need a girl who will keep the whole family together." Dude you want a girl in her 20s to heal and better the generational dysfunctions that run in your family. You need family therapy not a bride. Sit down.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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2 years

WTF did I just see. A man comes to this restaurant with a birthday cake. The girl hugs him. He opens the cake, she shouts at him. The name written on the cake is wrong. She repeatedly asked him, what's my name? He looked puzzled. She stormed out. He is now drinking a beer.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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5 months

Was thinking of #ShahRukhKhan today. With 30 years in the film industry, surely he must have got scripts where he could have made a woman lick his shoes. With his star power he could have done that and sold it. But he never did. That's where he wins. I will always be his girl.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 month

Miss Fatehi, your ability to dance and to dress the way you want, call it a career and make money itself is what Feminism gave you. Try a country where Feminism wasn't given to rise, where you would need a man's sign to have a bank account. We will talk. Sit down, Miss Fatehi.

लैला 🌙

@kuchbhiyaarr

1 month

women's arguments for being against feminism r so ironic. they r always like: I don't need feminism bcoz I can vote, I feel safe, I get equal pay. I feel like an equal member of society glad u r comfortable cuz the only reason u're in that position is, listen up, bcs of feminism.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

"Love marriages don't last" because of the intense socioeconomic pressures against these unions. "Arranged marriages work" because the family conspires to keep the couple together for broader social and financial purposes, no matter how unhappy they are. Faraz Talat

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Paromita Bardoloi

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5 months

Nanga ho na to Alpha man. Deepika Padukone bikini pehne to Sanskriti kharab.

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@VidyutJammwal

5 months

My retreat to the Himalayan ranges - “the abode of the divine” started 14 years ago. Before I realised, it became an integral part of my life to spend 7-10 days alone- every year.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

Hi, I am Simran from DDLJ. I was 21 when I married Raj- the Raj Malhotra. And I am sure, you are excited to know what happened once we both boarded the train. Who can forget me running to hold Raj’s hand in the moving train? I am 45 now. And my husband is 46.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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5 months

I have seen people on construction sites, in factories, on streets working so hard. So hard. The structural , class , caste, gender inequalities that pervade this country is benumbing. I love how rich people tell how poor people are lazy. There are two Indias.

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5 months

A rich person's understanding of poverty in India still baffles my mind

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Paromita Bardoloi

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7 months

Yes, Aditya. Women are dying to give up their Nobel prizes to be chosen by mediocre, insecure men like you. And who will tell you, that you are a gift to womankind and they will burn their Nobel prizes to be chosen by men like you. What is nobel, we will burn ourselves for you.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

Hi, I am Anjali. Anjali Sharma from KKHH. This is a brief summary of how my life turned out from the day I left Aman and married Rahul on my wedding day with Aman. 1)I was super excited the moment I married him. It was like I was going back to the time I was 20.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

8 months

No civilized society should allow this. This is not the daily grind one should take pride in. This is abuse. This needs to change. This country deserves better after 76 years of independence.

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@TansuYegen

8 months

Mumbai local train: 🚆🌇 Thriving chaos

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

5 months

A few young girls danced so well in a train compartment. Men are triggered. These girls aren't harassing, abusing or calling for any genocide. They just danced and were happy. Men get triggered and want to jail them. Why men....

Prakalp Bhardwaj

@PrakalpBhardwaj

6 months

Aur kitne achhe din chaiye Mitro? Ab to free me Mujra bhi dekhne mil rha train me🤡

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

2 years

Men who urinate in public, have the guts to tell women not to post their pictures on social media.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Thinking of the woman who had to marry the groom of her sister, as her sister lay in the cold storage dead I shudder to think of her trauma. Imagine the man, he married bcoz he came to marry, who cares about which girl My heart goes out to both girls. One dead. One married.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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2 years

Hard fact: So many women alive today were actually born in the anticipation of a male child. So many of our existence was rooted in disappointment. That's our first hurt. The first trauma. Our cumulative pain.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

A woman smokes quietly on a train without disturbing anyone. And this man can't control his outrage. He clicks a picture and puts it out on social media which is a criminal offence. Walk down the road, thousands of men do, but he is worried that a woman quietly did. #Loser

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Paromita Bardoloi

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6 months

Yesterday I was at Shillong Lit Fest. As it was ending music was playing in the background. This very young couple started to dance. They were so happy. These are what memories are made of. No one stared. No one said anything. Everyone minded their own business. A couple danced.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

Men are always kinder to women who they find attractive. They forgive them more and give them more chances in friendships. God forbids, they don't find you attractive, they act very differently.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

Ladies what attracts you to some one romantically? I will go first. Kindness. It makes me feel safe to be vulnerable and I find it super attractive for a romantic relationship.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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25 days

A very young girl tops her board. Ronak from the Internet advises her on grooming herself. How about Ronak grooms himself on keeping shut when someone is winning in life.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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10 months

Our post woman came today to deliver a parcel. She has been working for the last 17 years as a post woman in our town. Asked her, if she ever felt unsafe. She goes to remote houses. She said NO. Not once she was harassed or cat called. Give safe environments, women will thrive.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

There is this Aunty whose husband is a well known Casanova. The whole society knows about his numerous affairs. Aunty has only cried for the last 3 decades. Yesterday she was telling us how women break homes and are responsible for family trauma. She has two daughters.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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8 months

A man wears a decent shirt and pants with a bag- things he can afford. The dressing sense he learnt from seeing others around him This tweet reeks of class privilege. Now that we have designer's clothing we will make fun of an ordinary man on the street. Intellectual bankruptcy

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

Hats off to this guy and his story telling skills. #Legend

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

The reason people are so riled up against #KushaKapila 's divorce is not because they have some concern or empathy for the couple. Kusha had the agency and power to leave the marriage for whatever reasons. The anger is always against women's agency and power.-1

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Paromita Bardoloi

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11 months

Linkedin bros who hustle all week. Poop once a month because they don't want to waste time and keep that poop safe to create fuel later to cook. And don't even have time to have friends as they have 15 streams of income. It's high time we talk generational wealth and privileges.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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2 years

This is how OLD I am. Kids today do you know what these are? YouTube generation. What will you know? The agony and ecstacy of these brinks.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

It's 4 am. I and my friends are awake in different parts of the world, talking. One of our friends was supposed to get married this Sunday in Jaipur. We all booked our tickets. The groom broke off the marriage today. He eloped with his girlfriend. Her's was arranged.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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6 months

At my age my parents had their own house, 4 kids. 3 going to school. A car. They took care of grandparents. They had invites. Hosted dinners and lunches . Had full time jobs. Me: Watching Netflix. Thinking, what is for dinner. The degradation I brought to my blood line.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

If every generation of women spoke of every discomfort and trauma they felt, no man would have romanticized the life of their mothers and grandmothers. It is not the beauty of a woman that our lives are romanticized. It's the culture of silence. #Truth

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Paromita Bardoloi

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6 months

We don't talk about women's friendships enough. How a long conversation with our girls heals us, how hot meals in their kitchens have nurtured us and their homes have protected us. My safest haven has always been my girls. What women understand about women, no man can.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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2 years

13 years back. I was volunteering in a small school in Assam. I remember this girl in std 6th. Very intelligent. Her father died of alcoholism. There was immense domestic abuse. 13 years passed. Today she graduated as a doctor. I am in tears. I was her English teacher.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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8 months

A married woman can't have friends and her husband needs to control her. The couple married falling in love. They trust each other. But how would you know what trust and love is. Shaadi caste main karni hai, phir wife ko control bhi karna hai. And no dude, DP won't marry you.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

Shahrukh in KKHH was a man child. Unkind. He laughs at Kajol when she dresses up. Goes after the prettier one. Falls in love again when Kajol is prettier. Salman was kind, matured and gentle. Shahrukh not only shows up at the wedding but confesses his love then. How selfish.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

Who can give such statements that women are lazy, if not a privileged upper caste woman. Look at women in this country. The amount of unpaid labor women do almost feels criminal. She needs to read the Govt data on what women go through in this country. Sit down, Miss Kulkarni.

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1 year

I don't know who she is but hats off to her courage to speak the unspoken unpalatable truth! 👏 #Equality

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

5 months

Brother, the girl apologized because she was scared of being abused, beaten or worse. I know because we live in constant fear of how a man's anger can just end our lives or change it forever. You proved what we all girls know and say amongst ourselves. You men are the worst.

Dev Anand Simha

@Narsimha_dev

5 months

Made a girl apologise for ranting something similar about muh Indian men in real life. Never allow these feminists to get away with saying such venomous things in real life. I don’t know what kind of men are those who condone these irritating feminists cribbing and hating on men

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Paromita Bardoloi

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11 months

This has been my observation. The most bitter men are the ones. They were raised with the toxic Raja Beta syndrome. They are mostly told by the women folk at home that they are precious and there are other women outside home who will try to seduce and pounce on them -1

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

The girl is adopted from Latur. And someone said that parents are still alive. I am sorry if that is the case. I read it otherwise in some blog the day she was adopted. But still does not take away anything from what Leone is as a mother to her.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

1)Got engaged to a wonderful guy. 2) Got a make over. Went to a Summer camp. 3)Found my college friend's daughter there.He too joined in. 4) Ended up marrying him on my wedding day. 5) The daughter left for London to study, now. Stuck with the man child. 6) Regret everything

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@evolutionofjay

1 year

Lockdown started 3 years ago today. What are 3 things that have happened to you since then?

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Hi Akash, 19 is a great age to teach about choice and consent. The actor here is an adult and consented to this image. She has a right to her body and the way it is photographed. Please tell him that she has a choice to show her cleavage and he can just move in with his life

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

2 months

If women wrote about the generational traumas they carry because of men, it would be a saga that would rip apart the sky. And men are just upset because young girls danced on the streets. Just one dance and men are upset about women empowerment.

Joker of India

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2 months

The effects of women empowerment. No idea,what these women get by dancing on the road & by spreading vulgarity. Why are Feminists silent on these women? Spreading such vulgarity unknowingly leads to crimes. These women don't care about their own modesty & dignity VC @prof_desi

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6 months

A lot of women in our society marry due to societal pressure and conditioning. A lot of men marry because " Ghar ka itna kaam kaum karega, Mummy is getting old."

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

5 months

People ask your FULL NAME so that they know your caste and judge you accordingly. As someone once said, Puchte Mera naam ho. Jaanna Mera jaat chahte ho.

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5 months

what opinion about INDIA will have you like this?

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5 months

Money makes love, relationships so much easier. When you can take that trip, buy that gift for your loved ones. Life eases out. Only with love and without money, friction will arise, needs will be unmet, fractures will show. And love might disappear.

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@misstherapist_

5 months

An opinion on Money that will put you like this.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Dear Ladies, If you want to normalize one or two things in the society. What would it be? I will go first. To stay single and child free by choice. Now you go.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

Shame on you @BloomsburyIndia . The author herself refused to attend her book release because of the presence of Suhel Seth a #MeToo accused whom 6 women accused of grave sexual misconduct, including author Ira Trivedi. And here he is talking in a manel. #Shame

Bloomsbury India

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11 months

Glimpses from the launch of #TheBloomsburyHandbookOfIndianCuisine where @sourishb1963 was in conversation with @Suhelseth at @tajpalacedelhi . Thread👇

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Paromita Bardoloi

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2 years

Unpopular opinion: So many of our parents did not need each other. They needed help, therapy, trauma resolution. They did not need to birth children. They needed support and rest. Most of us are here not because of choice. We are here because of societal pressure.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

Two people kissed. I will complain. Raise a mayhem. Want them to be jailed. A woman getting murdered. How is that my business. A kiss enrages us. Not a murder. Talks a lot about us.

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Scenes at #DelhiMetro #yellowline adjacent to T2C14 towards HUDA City center @OfficialDMRC @DCP_DelhiMetro @DelhiPolice @ArvindKejriwal

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

The greatest Ponzi scheme in our society is. If your marriage is falling apart and it sucks, give birth to a baby. So many children are born as a scheme to save their parents. And in turn ends up being traumatized themselves. No one deserves to grow up in unhappy homes.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Men who call women gold diggers don't even have gold at the first place, apart from the ones their mothers brought in dowry. So much fear that their are women waiting to trap them. Sir, first convince a woman to marry you without arranged marriage then we will talk. Sit down, now

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

6 months

Ma'am, your right to give birth to a child without a father, raise her, to earn for yourself. Your daughter's right to divorce. You stand on the groundwork of thousands of feminists over centuries. Wanting or not wanting a man is a choice professed by feminism. Sit down, please.

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Another women beating feminism 😭🤣

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7 months

How every touch is sexualized in this country. Talks a lot about suppressed sexuality. Depraved.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Dear Women, If all men disappeared for 48 hours, what would you do? I will go first. I will take a walk on the street at night without worrying about being harassed or raped. I love night walks.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Gentle reminder: #UrfiJaved is not raising your kids. You are If you think that her dress will corrupt your child and they will become perverts and abusers. NO. It's on you You failed in teaching your kids consent Women's bodies don't call for abuse Men's actions do Period

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

2 months

Parth can't digest or understand the fact that people date, they have break ups. Find others. Get married. Even stay friends with their exes who can come to your pre wedding and dance But Parth is never dated by anyone so he goes on writing about others. Don't be Parth in life .

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This charming guy is Rohan Malhotra, who was Radhika Merchant's ex; they were dating back then in 2013. He also performed at their pre-wedding program with his group of friends. The moral of the story is to keep chasing money, or someone rich will take away the love of your life.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

@JohnRayhan The kid looks nourished, goes to a good school, vacations and has a safe home. But no one would have batted an eye if she was languishing at some orphanage. Now she will have a good life. That hurts these losers.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

12) My advice: If you loved someone at 20, you might not love them at 31. People change, priorities change. Never marry anyone just meeting them after a decade in just 3 meetings. Know them more. Ask them what they feel about things that matter to you. See if they are kind,

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

2 years

Home for a few months. A writer lives here.

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@Paromitabardolo

11 days

I am at Hyderabad. At one of my Naani's home. She doesn't know to say "I love you." She says after every five minutes, "Bhook lag rahi hai kya, kuch aur bana doo" As I age, I make sure I meet the old ones. I know that it won't be long when no one will constantly ask, Aur kha lo.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

We have guests today. Their son is a wedding photographer. He has a shoot in our town. They live an hour and half away from us. They have come with their son. They don't leave him alone. Though he has come with a team. They believe he will be spoilt if left alone. He is 32.

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@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Now she is applying for jobs. And asked me to forward her CV, which I finally did because she is without any resources. Still, I am so angry.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

graceful when they fight with you. I still love Rahul or may be the boy he was, when I too was 20. And that's my life now at 40. I shall update as I keep aging. See you later, Rahul wants to play basket ball, we invited a few young people to play with him. I pay them to lose

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

10 months

He is 30. His fiance is 18. And he says only fertility and youth of a woman matters. Her degree and job is garbage. He hates women over 20. Tell me, you are depraved. You treat women as objects without telling me. Women your degrees and jobs will save you from men like these

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@nazmaaman There's no such thing as pervert. It is subjective to man's socio-economic status. A rich man's approach is welcomes, a non rich man's approach is deemed creep perv etc. And I am not pervert, I am 30, committed, and I hate girls above 20yr.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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11 months

Woman uses a hair dryer on metro. Woman asked for a seat in the local train. Woman dressed oddly. Woman held hands with a man. Woman did that. Keep hating. Keep trolling. The only woman loved and respected is the invisible woman. The display of misogyny has just become stark.

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Girl Spotted Using Hair Straightener Inside Delhi Metro, Internet Furious

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1 year

I hope Miss Kulkarni is having a good sleep after putting more that 80 percent of the women in this country on a witch hunt, because their labor is not paid. Somewhere a man in some corner of India is telling a girl how lazy she is as she is not paying for the fridge. Well done.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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6 months

I want to be reborn as an extremely beautiful woman. Also loaded with generational wealth. Then open a YouTube channel and give gyaan on how looks and money don't matter. Only your heart, hardwork does. Matlab tum log hardwork karna. Main privilege pe nachungi. Good morning.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

I was 8, told my parents, I wanted to be a writer. They introduced me to some of the world's best literature . I even have a Masters degree in lit. As I show my viral tweets. The disappointment that runs in my mom's face. After all the efforts , I ended up writing about DDLJ.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

If you are a woman and you want male appreciation. Say something deeply misogynist. Say how women misuse law. Get opportunities easy and how they oppress men You will have more love from men as well as some women That's how Patriarchy is. It cuts across religion,caste and class.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Last take on #UrfiJaved . To the women who are hating on her. May you heal from patriarchal wounds, that taught you that our bodies distract and turns men astray. May you heal of traumas you suffered from other women. And may you unlearn that another womsn uses 1/

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

2 months

Unpopular opinion: Not everyone has the capacity to be a parent. The vastness of emotions and patience it requires is unparalleled. It's okay not to choose to have children. It's okay not to choose to be a parent. It's a role that is not for everyone.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

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Gentle reminder:If you are 30 plus or more woman.And unmarried. A lot of people will be angry at you. Your existence will provoke anger and advice. Like you need to be done away with. But hang in there. Your existence itself is revolution. Provoking wrath is good.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

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Suffering is so glorified in our society. Like if you suffer, you are morally on the higher ground. It is because no one wants to deal with the fault lines that causes so much suffering. Suffering is not a virtue. It is a syndrome that something needs to be fixed in the system.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

5 months

And Indian men are outraged because #DeepikaPadukone wore a Bikini in a sea beach. I rest my case here. #Fighter

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Tell me one more time how a woman killing herself over her husband's death is true love. Tell me one more time. Tell me again. Speak again. I will tag the police for glorifying suicide. It's a criminal offense. Come here. And read the news below.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

5 months

Marriage by definition is a social contract. People are lying when they say it is magical and all that. It's two people staying together negotiating everyday life. Let's not romanticise it to a point where people go blind before stepping into it. Also it's not for everyone.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

5 months

@Velvetyvirgo But those were villain characters that died at the end. They weren't glorified.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

I am so glad I married this man.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

7 months

When @iamsrk says, " I am a good man to love, " we all agree. This video will make you smile.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

To most woman who are here,one of the most tragic moments of our lives will be: when one woman said, "Women are lazy, they just want husbands and boyfriends to sponsor a good life for them." And then said Taliyaaan. And an auditorium full of men clapped and cheered.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

The night that is. It's raining outside. And its pin drop silent. And I get to study over night. I love studying. A lot. And these are nights I want to keep having. Assam. My room. June. 2023.

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Paromita Bardoloi

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1 year

2) But I was 31. I had lived almost a decade without him. And I married him without dating. I met him at the Summer Camp for 3 days. And then at my wedding. Rahul was my unresolved trauma, and I jumped into the wedding, the moment I had a chance.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

I honestly don't know what to say or do. No one does. Our friend is devastated.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

10 months

One of the greatest blessings in life is wanting to return back home after the day is over. A home where no one is angry at you. A home where you don't have to manage moods and resolve issues. Wanting to return home is a blessing not everyone has.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

5 months

Listen to me. When a mala wearing guy speaks like this. There are two things he wants. 1) He is broke. He needs someone to fend for him for some time. 2) He wants sex. Here Babil is getting his image right. Give him some time. This is not real.

𝒜𝒶𝑔 𝑀𝑒𝒾𝓃 𝒢𝒽𝑒𝑒 𝒟𝒶𝓁𝓃𝒶

@fiercy_jhalli

5 months

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

6) I love my inlaw’s place more-may be. When I joined a job at the Mayor’s office, it was okay to have my colleagues come over for a dinner, males included. I felt trusted. I felt free. I fell in love with my husband more. Love is always a verb. It’s action.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

3) On our wedding night, Rahul asked me to play football with him. He had created the entire basketball court which was the replica of what we had in college. That was the first red flag. This man was stuck at 20. After that dance in the rain at the camp, I was horny for him.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Living off women's unpaid labor and dowry for generations, men have to audacity to call women gold diggers. #Audacity

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

2 years

Hard truth: If there is one thing every woman must have. It's her OWN MONEY. Money will do for you what your khandaan, husband, lovers, children, sanskaar can't do. Or won't. Economic freedom is the greatest of all freedoms. It will give you food and roof over your head.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

Am I the only one who finds this Samdhan thing so creepy from HAHK.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

1) Once married, Raj and I flew back to London after a week in India. Bauji and Mom were there at our wedding. I had so many emotions running within me. Before I could process everything I was on the flight to London.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

A woman's agency to leave anything that is not working for her riles up the rules of patriarchy. A marriage is supposed to be a holy cow. And when you can leave it and have the agency to move on, it hurts centuries old conditioning. That's why everyone is making Kusha a villain2

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

2 months

Indian Incels are putting out pictures of Radhika Merchant 's ex and her holiday pics just to project how she had a secret life and how she must have projected a lie to marry Anant Ambani. Incels are such jokers. Rich people always move in same circles since childhood. 1/

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

or Grand Dad as her feet would hurt from playing 9) Bauji loved us, I know. But I felt we being women were his stark responsibilities. Here I felt loved. Sometimes love needed to be spoken. Love is always so gentle. Each time I see my daughters with their father, I realize it.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

1 year

17) 1) I have to go to office now. Raj is still sleeping. You know what, when I see him smiling over something mundane I still become 21 and fall in love with him. His one smile and kiss can still make me want to elope with him, though in reality I am married to him.

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Paromita Bardoloi

@Paromitabardolo

11 months

And women who are writing against her. Stop being such pick mes. God forbids the day things don't work for you, you too will be gaining from the rights the constitution has given to you. Your civil rights were fought for. That day you will remember it . Mark my words. End.

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