Celebrating my first print piece for
@Essence
with a bottle of champagne.
I wrote this for every little Black girl who ever thought she wasn’t enough. Out on newsstands now. ❤️🥂
Kourtney K and Travis Barker are newlyweds who live in two separate houses a block away from each other. They’re clearly in love, but they’ll mess around and be married forever off the strength of that alone.
Your self-care has to become like a part-time job. You can no longer be willy-nilly. Take supplements, move your body, manage your mental health, minimize alcohol, advocate for yourself, eat healthily, and get second opinions early + often. Lastly, do not let ppl stress you out!
I need the 30+ girlies to start telling us late 20’s girlies wtf is up the closer we get to 30. I went to the doctor in a panic thinking I was at death’s door and she told me I was just getting older. Ma’am what?! 😭
Did Issa really move in silence or are we not used to people (really women) not hinging their entire existence and career on their life partners in a hyper-digital world where everyone feels entitled to know everyone’s everything?
Dear Black women everywhere: Let all this sh*t burn to the ground. We did not create these horrible systems crumbling before our eyes, therefore it is not our job to save anything or anyone anymore. Save yourself. Make maintaining your peace your main priority.
Between Jidenna and Jeezy, I see the new hustle is rebranding ourselves as a "healed man" after decades of being a menace bc we've been in therapy for a spell and know a few psychological terms to lord over other men + potentially seduce new women.
To which I say, do better.
I saw a sista on LinkedIn say she's throwing a job reveal party similar to a gender reveal party for her new employer after surviving this job market following a layoff. I love this idea so much. More of the girlies throwing parties for all types of life events just because.
@HausOfVirgo
@DoreenCaven
I LOVE kids, but I was never a woman who NEEDED to have kids. And if I did, it would have to be the w/ absolute right man + I am happily childfree. It is serious biz and I don't play about my womb space lbs.
The
#whotfdidimarry
series reinforces many things, but mainly:
1. The Black Church is not good for Black women.
2. Long-form content isn't going anywhere. It just needs to be interesting.
3. TikTok is giving TV a run for its money.
4. Pls don't take air signs seriously.😂
There is so much to unpack about Black women, romantic partnership, and socio-economic standing. And I really don’t think we are ready to have a convo about it.
All around me, Black women are slowly waking up to their true power and walking boldly into their life's calling after being buried for so long. They are ready and risking it all, and I personally cannot wait to see what world we'll create. What a glorious time to be alive.
Millennial women are literally undoing centuries of poor/monolithic programming, false illusions, wack media messages, generational/relationship trauma, and oppression all while getting money and maintaining homes. We’re exhausted.
I am so inspired by Law's creative journey. He walked away from an industry that mistreated him, which in turn created more demand and respect for his talent that now allows him agency over the projects he picks. I stan.
Let me write this once because I forgot a number of ppl don’t like to think and just want to argue: I STAN how Issa navigates her personal life and platform. The tweet was more of an observation on societal expectations + social media that I think are weird AF.
I no longer have a fear of being seen trying. I had to stop waiting for perfection to pop out. I think it's important for people to see the creative process for what it is: messy, fluid, and rewarding.
Whenever I feel myself getting anxious about a new opportunity, I affirm myself by saying, “I can walk away from this at any moment, at anytime the minute this no longer works for me. I have autonomy.”
Connects me back to my body instantly.
I can't find the tweet but I want us to have more conversations giving savings tips to opt out of the workforce for a few months at a time to rest/travel/do nothing just because; I would love to tap in. I want this for every Black woman at least once in her life. We deserve it.
Part of
#MeganTheeStallion
’s legacy will be the light she’s put on mental health & the invisible emotional weight + lack of protection so many Black women have quietly battled.
May we continue healing & flourishing in the face of everyone who tried to destroy us—and failed.
@lmTheReasonWhy
I would’ve let him call it his house all day while he still paid all them bills & I quietly stacked my emergency fund. Literally would’ve paid him dust and went out shopping while he cooled off lol. That’s the wisdom I carry now. That ego can be a MF, especially when you younger.
@ItsBreDanielle
I thought it was just me. 10 apps a day on top of adulting feels excessive. More than 3K apps a year to get one job??? Yeah, something is definitely broken.
FELT. You just reach a limit. You get tired of being devalued. We all have the same story in different industries. There have been times when I *really* needed my money but had to let opportunities go to take a stand, for myself and for those coming after me. Enough is enough.
Oh she’s NOT PLAYING. And she hasn’t been for years.
But to hear that she almost walked away from The Color Purple(!!!!!!!)😭
They better stop playing with Taraji and Black women period.
🎥:
@sagaftraFOUND
moderated by
@angelique814
Your anger is a powerful, necessary part of who you are and your healing. It holds people accountable. It calls out injustice. It creates radical change. Don’t let anyone rob you of experiencing it fully, especially you.
#Journorequest
: Looking for Black women to interview who are open to sharing the challenges/experience of making friends and maintaining friendships as adults as life changes for a story I am working on for ESSENCE. DM me if you are interested in sharing your story. Thank you!
As a millennial, I am starting to look at myself more as an archivist of sorts. We are the last generation to experience particular cultural moments while also having a bridge to the past. I feel there are so many things for us to preserve or else they will be lost.
Quarantine made me realize how poorly I was taking care of myself on the daily. Whatever I was doing as professional before from the commuting, lack of adequate sleep, food choices, was simply not sustainable.
Everything happening in the world should be enraging you right now, yet you still deserve moments of joy, curiosity, and peace. You deserve to feel the full spectrum of your humanity. We all do.
@cassandrapintro
Throwing Charlotte’s insecurities about her marriage in her face just to run off with her ex-fiancé when Charlotte checked her about being inappropriate as a married woman.
@mxmsworld
Facts. We are transitioning to being the elders now. I don’t play about mines, actually. I want them to always have a safe space/avoid any pitfalls I made. It’s so necessary.
Tina used her spiritual practice to build her dream world following a traumatic childhood and marriage before it was cool. So much of what we talk about now she was living it then. A trailblazer on and off stage. My North Star in my own womanhood journey.
#simplythebest
Tina Turner, showing off her estate in southern France to Mike Wallace.
MIKE WALLACE: You feel like you deserve all this?
TINA TURNER: I deserve more.
#RIP